10 Signs of Fake Nice People
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Im glad I searched up this, it helped me realize that my ex bf/ex bff was a fake nice person.
Well in dec in 2021 we first met he seemed pretty cool and nice, and I always told him that he wasnt like those other boys who dont care about girls and just use them. But then he ghosted me for 1/2 months, then he came back saying he was busy and I believed him back then, because he didnt show signs of be toxicity yet. We talked everyday and night even when was both at school we talked until oneday he said he had a crush and I said I had one on him 2 and then I think afew weeks to a month later he said he didnt wanna talk to me anymore and wanted to unfriend me on apps, and I was hurt.
Moving forward in Jan 2023 I forgot about him and moved on with my life and I met a better amazing person (best friend, then all the sudden he messages me randomly, and I was shocked but then I texted him and he seemed nice (ofc) so I forgot everything he has done to me,
1/2 weeks later he started dating me and everything was fine until in mid February he started acting weird and abit toxic but I ignored it.
Then he started ignoring me and everytime I invite him to play with me he didnt join but he was online, then my friend messaged him saying why are you ignoring name then he makes a lie about his grades being bad and etc, and I didnt believe him, because if I was him I wouldnt be playing videos games for hours while my grades are that bad. But I didnt say anything.
Then march 3rd 2023, he messages me saying my sister left the state so thats why I havent been talking to you, and anyways I want to break up with you and I still love you and ofc I was being nice a consoling because its in my nature to be nice to people.
But then a week later I message him and we talked for a little then he said everytime I type K it says my crush name (btw my name dosent start with a K) and I was like ooo ok but in my head I was pissed and abit upset. I knew he did that to make me upset but I wasnt upset for long.
Then I can say after that he was very toxic to me in games and etc, he didnt even ask whats wrong or nothing he kept hurting me more and more.
But then bro messaged me I guess a week ago saying lies lies lies lies Ill try to talk to you more: / and I was like ok at that point I forgot he existed so I didnt care, and ofc he didnt message expect he needed something.
Now this is more recent what he did, today (May 6th 2023) he messaged me again today, I was pretty happy today and I was laughing finally (Im more depressed than happy so this was a good day for me) and etc. something told me not to open that text message but I did because I thought he said hi but instead he sent a emoji. And I was saying whats wrong? And he said aint no way youre saying whats wrong and I said something else then he said did you forget? I said I guess so. Im confused then he said that comment you made and I said I remember.
I actually deleted tiktok for a month then I downloaded it back and I commented on his video with a because it was just some basic Fortnite emo edit, and I forgot I commented on that video because that was like a week ago. anyways he ruined my mood for the rest of the day and thats how I found this video.
The end.
Im glad I kinda experienced this and found this video, so I wont find people like my ex!
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Im glad I searched up this, it helped me realize that my ex bf/ex bff was a fake nice person.
Well in dec in 2021 we first met he seemed pretty cool and nice, and I always told him that he wasnt like those other boys who dont care about girls and just use them. But then he ghosted me for 1/2 months, then he came back saying he was busy and I believed him back then, because he didnt show signs of be toxicity yet. We talked everyday and night even when was both at school we talked until oneday he said he had a crush and I said I had one on him 2 and then I think afew weeks to a month later he said he didnt wanna talk to me anymore and wanted to unfriend me on apps, and I was hurt.
Moving forward in Jan 2023 I forgot about him and moved on with my life and I met a better amazing person (best friend, then all the sudden he messages me randomly, and I was shocked but then I texted him and he seemed nice (ofc) so I forgot everything he has done to me,
1/2 weeks later he started dating me and everything was fine until in mid February he started acting weird and abit toxic but I ignored it.
Then he started ignoring me and everytime I invite him to play with me he didnt join but he was online, then my friend messaged him saying why are you ignoring name then he makes a lie about his grades being bad and etc, and I didnt believe him, because if I was him I wouldnt be playing videos games for hours while my grades are that bad. But I didnt say anything.
Then march 3rd 2023, he messages me saying my sister left the state so thats why I havent been talking to you, and anyways I want to break up with you and I still love you and ofc I was being nice a consoling because its in my nature to be nice to people.
But then a week later I message him and we talked for a little then he said everytime I type K it says my crush name (btw my name dosent start with a K) and I was like ooo ok but in my head I was pissed and abit upset. I knew he did that to make me upset but I wasnt upset for long.
Then I can say after that he was very toxic to me in games and etc, he didnt even ask whats wrong or nothing he kept hurting me more and more.
But then bro messaged me I guess a week ago saying lies lies lies lies Ill try to talk to you more: / and I was like ok at that point I forgot he existed so I didnt care, and ofc he didnt message expect he needed something.
Now this is more recent what he did, today (May 6th 2023) he messaged me again today, I was pretty happy today and I was laughing finally (Im more depressed than happy so this was a good day for me) and etc. something told me not to open that text message but I did because I thought he said hi but instead he sent a emoji. And I was saying whats wrong? And he said aint no way youre saying whats wrong and I said something else then he said did you forget? I said I guess so. Im confused then he said that comment you made and I said I remember.
I actually deleted tiktok for a month then I downloaded it back and I commented on his video with a because it was just some basic Fortnite emo edit, and I forgot I commented on that video because that was like a week ago. anyways he ruined my mood for the rest of the day and thats how I found this video.
The end.
Im glad I kinda experienced this and found this video, so I wont find people like my ex!
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John
I hate fake kindness. I was once taken to my boss's office with her and a high-ranking chef, who didn't handle the situation so well. The chef told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much (casually, on arms and shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school. She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I guess I do occasionally say inappropriate stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally. I only meant to have fun. The chef didn't specify much on references. She likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits. And again, that I shouldn't touch anyone without consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep. I didn't mean to be so handsy or Dan-Schneider-like.
Now, I'm pretty sure everyone's gonna _assume_ this is a sign of John takes no responsibility, but nevertheless, I felt the chef was rude and disrespectful. She could've spoken to me more delicately, like a guy who never meant any harm, because I truly didn't. She could've made it a minute or two in the hall, not a formal office. And she was very disrespectful the next day: she asked me how I was. Like what? I'd pay money to know if she actually thought I could be doing well after what I went through the previous day. Was she patronizing me?
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I hate fake kindness. I was once taken to my boss's office with her and a high-ranking chef, who didn't handle the situation so well. The chef told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much (casually, on arms and shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school. She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I guess I do occasionally say inappropriate stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally. I only meant to have fun. The chef didn't specify much on references. She likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits. And again, that I shouldn't touch anyone without consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep. I didn't mean to be so handsy or Dan-Schneider-like.
Now, I'm pretty sure everyone's gonna _assume_ this is a sign of John takes no responsibility, but nevertheless, I felt the chef was rude and disrespectful. She could've spoken to me more delicately, like a guy who never meant any harm, because I truly didn't. She could've made it a minute or two in the hall, not a formal office. And she was very disrespectful the next day: she asked me how I was. Like what? I'd pay money to know if she actually thought I could be doing well after what I went through the previous day. Was she patronizing me?
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Blue
This makes me think a little bit that Im a fake nice person. Im kinda the weirdo of my class, and I was really smart. I didnt think people really thought much about me, but I was proved wrong when I was gone for one whole week. When I came back to school, someone grabbed my shoulders and said EVERYBODY HAD 0 IQ WITHOUT YOU, and people were saying ITS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT BLUE13! Even the TEACHER said it. And, sometimes, I listen to people, and I speak through some of it, to show them Im listening, but then I nearly fall asleep and realise Im still listening to someones story.
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This makes me think a little bit that Im a fake nice person. Im kinda the weirdo of my class, and I was really smart. I didnt think people really thought much about me, but I was proved wrong when I was gone for one whole week. When I came back to school, someone grabbed my shoulders and said EVERYBODY HAD 0 IQ WITHOUT YOU, and people were saying ITS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT BLUE13! Even the TEACHER said it. And, sometimes, I listen to people, and I speak through some of it, to show them Im listening, but then I nearly fall asleep and realise Im still listening to someones story.
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Theldelton
Bro, if you think about me, you'll notice something incredibly weird!
My behavior is not constant!
You might see that I'm good, sometimes bad, sometimes sad but actually happy, or looking happy but sad inside!
That's why people think that I'm weird, or dark!
But the good thing is that my studies gives me the power of controlling all of that and I call myself: The father of the Psychopath!
I'm not crazy, I'm just a regular man who can control psychopathism!
So yes, you cannot trust my behaviors!
Please do not trust people like me!
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Bro, if you think about me, you'll notice something incredibly weird!
My behavior is not constant!
You might see that I'm good, sometimes bad, sometimes sad but actually happy, or looking happy but sad inside!
That's why people think that I'm weird, or dark!
But the good thing is that my studies gives me the power of controlling all of that and I call myself: The father of the Psychopath!
I'm not crazy, I'm just a regular man who can control psychopathism!
So yes, you cannot trust my behaviors!
Please do not trust people like me!
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Meik
As someone who forced themselves to fake personalities due to people leaving me for who I actually was. Its hard to make new friends, mainly because when first meeting them I use my fake personality, and later in the friendship I cant get out of it in fear of people being upset that I have been faking everyone I seem to know. I have few casual friends yet no true friends that care for me so much because I dont open myself up anymore. How should I slowly show my actual personality to new people?
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As someone who forced themselves to fake personalities due to people leaving me for who I actually was. Its hard to make new friends, mainly because when first meeting them I use my fake personality, and later in the friendship I cant get out of it in fear of people being upset that I have been faking everyone I seem to know. I have few casual friends yet no true friends that care for me so much because I dont open myself up anymore. How should I slowly show my actual personality to new people?
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Sun
The second one is like me I have a friend basically a best friend and I can get well I can get very aggressive and get mad easily like a example someone is telling rude and not very true things about my friend I can get very very very aggressive and I will be mad I would get mad and if I get mad Ill intentionally yell at them and theres not very many things that can calm me down at least like 3 to 5 things like a very calming song and all that Im saying right now thats your reading is true
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The second one is like me I have a friend basically a best friend and I can get well I can get very aggressive and get mad easily like a example someone is telling rude and not very true things about my friend I can get very very very aggressive and I will be mad I would get mad and if I get mad Ill intentionally yell at them and theres not very many things that can calm me down at least like 3 to 5 things like a very calming song and all that Im saying right now thats your reading is true
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Whitney
Funny all the defending of ghosting. Which means its actually not so rare. If youre just checking in on a friend when you want something (go out, entertainment, help with something, to vent about something) then dont be surprised when your relationship fades. On the other hand, if youre the one doing the reaching out most of the time and they not to you- then youre most likely being played. Key is if the relationship is reciprocated.
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Funny all the defending of ghosting. Which means its actually not so rare. If youre just checking in on a friend when you want something (go out, entertainment, help with something, to vent about something) then dont be surprised when your relationship fades. On the other hand, if youre the one doing the reaching out most of the time and they not to you- then youre most likely being played. Key is if the relationship is reciprocated.
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justin
I feel like I'm genuinely a nice person to people who let me be nice to them. If i don't like someone I can not act like I do. I won't be mean but I won't act like we are cool neither.
What makes me question how nice I am is because when I'm pushed past my point I can get extremely violent but it takes a lot to push me there and only an enemy trying to hurt me or a loved one can get me to that point.
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I feel like I'm genuinely a nice person to people who let me be nice to them. If i don't like someone I can not act like I do. I won't be mean but I won't act like we are cool neither.
What makes me question how nice I am is because when I'm pushed past my point I can get extremely violent but it takes a lot to push me there and only an enemy trying to hurt me or a loved one can get me to that point.
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Itza
hi im the ghost friend tht disappears & reappears out of your life, I promise it wasn't a big act rather my insecurities & overanalyzing took over sending me into an isolating abyss creating a wall around my emotions & i truly aplologize for hurting you in the process tho i can't say the same for ppl who have ghosted.
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hi im the ghost friend tht disappears & reappears out of your life, I promise it wasn't a big act rather my insecurities & overanalyzing took over sending me into an isolating abyss creating a wall around my emotions & i truly aplologize for hurting you in the process tho i can't say the same for ppl who have ghosted.
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DragonKing5356
I once had this freind (he was a bad friend) that i never really called/texted because i was busy but he would always say But why! Even after i told him that Im busy, it was annoying. Im no longer freinds with him because he mistreated me so now i dont have to deal with him continuously asking But why!
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I once had this freind (he was a bad friend) that i never really called/texted because i was busy but he would always say But why! Even after i told him that Im busy, it was annoying. Im no longer freinds with him because he mistreated me so now i dont have to deal with him continuously asking But why!
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The
Good list but just be aware that a fake smile is common with smiling depression or Neurodivergent masking as well. I want to be friendly and accepted but sometimes I'm too sad or exhausted to smile genuinely at first and won't tell you because I don't want to be a burden or bring you down
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Good list but just be aware that a fake smile is common with smiling depression or Neurodivergent masking as well. I want to be friendly and accepted but sometimes I'm too sad or exhausted to smile genuinely at first and won't tell you because I don't want to be a burden or bring you down
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Jelly-ka
Hol' up. Gossiping (mostly about fictional characters tho-, I mean, I try my best to listen but I'm usually drifted off into my own mind, fake smiles (sometimes, I respect people with higher power, but also with lower power, I am the lower rank.
Oh, god, am I a fake nice person!
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Hol' up. Gossiping (mostly about fictional characters tho-, I mean, I try my best to listen but I'm usually drifted off into my own mind, fake smiles (sometimes, I respect people with higher power, but also with lower power, I am the lower rank.
Oh, god, am I a fake nice person!
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Stephy
My ex was always fake nice. He couldnt be trusted because he was always masking or just too polite. He actually suppressed a lot and was never very straightforward with me. He would do and say things he knew I would like but it was never real. Dont be fake. It means you are a liar!
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My ex was always fake nice. He couldnt be trusted because he was always masking or just too polite. He actually suppressed a lot and was never very straightforward with me. He would do and say things he knew I would like but it was never real. Dont be fake. It means you are a liar!
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AKATheSKay
sometimes friends crave attention, doesn't matter what the attention is.
Ghosting is sometimes feeling you have nothing worthwhile to say and/or wanting to recharge ALONE.
An alien concept to extroverts I know, but it would be since they like to take energy from others
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sometimes friends crave attention, doesn't matter what the attention is.
Ghosting is sometimes feeling you have nothing worthwhile to say and/or wanting to recharge ALONE.
An alien concept to extroverts I know, but it would be since they like to take energy from others
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GreenP3bblGTAG
welp the end saying that fake nice peoople are rare, i think i found their hideout. at my middle school. though there are still some genuinely nice people there! (THANK GOD IM GOING TO HIGHSCHOOL NEXT YEAR [there are multiple highschools so most will be separated])
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welp the end saying that fake nice peoople are rare, i think i found their hideout. at my middle school. though there are still some genuinely nice people there! (THANK GOD IM GOING TO HIGHSCHOOL NEXT YEAR [there are multiple highschools so most will be separated])
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Xilir
Im a fake happy person. The signs are quite the same but still different. Like fake smile. I just wana be hugged and talk to people but i feel like such a burdon and the few times i try to come our with my sadnes they just ignore me. Make me feel like a burdon.
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Im a fake happy person. The signs are quite the same but still different. Like fake smile. I just wana be hugged and talk to people but i feel like such a burdon and the few times i try to come our with my sadnes they just ignore me. Make me feel like a burdon.
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Raina
I had a fake nice person as a friend but when she thought I was hurting her popularity she cut me of and treats me badly and everyone likes her and thinks she is fun, but people only think that because she is controlling them without them knowing.
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I had a fake nice person as a friend but when she thought I was hurting her popularity she cut me of and treats me badly and everyone likes her and thinks she is fun, but people only think that because she is controlling them without them knowing.
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Vay
I have different personalities for different people or have to for one person like my little sister Ill be really hateful but not like hurt her from what I say then be really playful but still have that other personality
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I have different personalities for different people or have to for one person like my little sister Ill be really hateful but not like hurt her from what I say then be really playful but still have that other personality
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REX
In other words, I hope to be the best person I can be, and I actively work On this every day. I cant sit and worry about if other people are really nice or not. I just want to be the best person I can be.
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In other words, I hope to be the best person I can be, and I actively work On this every day. I cant sit and worry about if other people are really nice or not. I just want to be the best person I can be.
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Mini_Moon
There is a popular girl in my school who is fake nice bc most of the people in our year know me she got close to me and the told people about my personal life and thats how she got popular
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There is a popular girl in my school who is fake nice bc most of the people in our year know me she got close to me and the told people about my personal life and thats how she got popular
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LucasB
i have a question.
i think im a pretty nice person, but only for people that i like, or when one of my friends doesn't treat me well i dont treat them nicely
am i a fake nice person?
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i have a question.
i think im a pretty nice person, but only for people that i like, or when one of my friends doesn't treat me well i dont treat them nicely
am i a fake nice person?
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winros
That's the biggest red flag. when someone is gossiping and putting someone down or they start to criticize someone That's, my cue to get up and walk away from the conversation!
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That's the biggest red flag. when someone is gossiping and putting someone down or they start to criticize someone That's, my cue to get up and walk away from the conversation!
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TheMoxin
Absolutely cannot stand it when someone is fake nice. It literally makes me angry almost instantly and I lose allll respect for you. Dont do it. People can tell. Always.
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Absolutely cannot stand it when someone is fake nice. It literally makes me angry almost instantly and I lose allll respect for you. Dont do it. People can tell. Always.
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Abbenxena
fake nice people really aren't rare at all, they are everywhere. I don't like leaving my home because if I do I am guaranteed to encounter at least 1.
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fake nice people really aren't rare at all, they are everywhere. I don't like leaving my home because if I do I am guaranteed to encounter at least 1.
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Knight
my friend is so 2 faced, he is so nice to me in private but when im with the other group, he shuts down all of my sentences and treats me like an insult
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my friend is so 2 faced, he is so nice to me in private but when im with the other group, he shuts down all of my sentences and treats me like an insult
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