8 Toxic Things Parents Say To their Children
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Eugenia
My dad always gets mad over most things. My whole life ive grown up with yelling in the house because my dad gets mad at my mom and they start to yell at each other. My dad used to compare me to my friend who was the opposite of me, she was sporty, smart, social while i was not so active, very shy and just close to myself in general. He always used to say look at her (my friend) she does sport she does this and that u should to that too, like i should be like her. I confronted him about it and ofc he said no I wasnt comparing you i was just telling you to do more stuff. Now im 18 and my dad always complains the way i dress, and its not that i show much skin or anything he just finds something to complain about the way i dress. He says like are you going like that, is that what ur gonna have on dress better while making a confused/disgusted face. I just ignore him but it really hurts every time he says that. And when my friend is over he always tell them that they look beautiful and once he said that to my friend in front me he said much more beautiful I literally wanted to scream. Once i tried to dress like my friend did and he just said why are you going like that, showing too much or something. Like it doesnt matter how i dress he still complains but honestly why would i listen to him? Like why would i dress up the way HE likes it? Im doing it my way.
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My dad always gets mad over most things. My whole life ive grown up with yelling in the house because my dad gets mad at my mom and they start to yell at each other. My dad used to compare me to my friend who was the opposite of me, she was sporty, smart, social while i was not so active, very shy and just close to myself in general. He always used to say look at her (my friend) she does sport she does this and that u should to that too, like i should be like her. I confronted him about it and ofc he said no I wasnt comparing you i was just telling you to do more stuff. Now im 18 and my dad always complains the way i dress, and its not that i show much skin or anything he just finds something to complain about the way i dress. He says like are you going like that, is that what ur gonna have on dress better while making a confused/disgusted face. I just ignore him but it really hurts every time he says that. And when my friend is over he always tell them that they look beautiful and once he said that to my friend in front me he said much more beautiful I literally wanted to scream. Once i tried to dress like my friend did and he just said why are you going like that, showing too much or something. Like it doesnt matter how i dress he still complains but honestly why would i listen to him? Like why would i dress up the way HE likes it? Im doing it my way.
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Nnivedya
Felt each one of these
Dear parents
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You should never hurt your children it will cause them to become extremely sad and slowly sadness turn into anger which you will never be able to control lam just 15 as each day passes the way my parents treating me is becoming worse
l am from kerala and in our place most of the time our parents are the one who decide our life no matter what you like or dislike even when it comes to dressing too you should dress as they want you to. They always try to keep my wishes aside
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Felt each one of these
Dear parents
S
You should never hurt your children it will cause them to become extremely sad and slowly sadness turn into anger which you will never be able to control lam just 15 as each day passes the way my parents treating me is becoming worse
l am from kerala and in our place most of the time our parents are the one who decide our life no matter what you like or dislike even when it comes to dressing too you should dress as they want you to. They always try to keep my wishes aside
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Ellie
W. WELL QUESS WHAT NO ONE LIKES ME U PROBLIY DONT EVEN LIKE ME IM UGLY AND FAT AND DUMB I CANT SLEEP EVERY NIGHT AND THAY DONT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT MY SISTER YELLS AT ME SWEARS AT ME AND DOESNT PLAY WITH ME ITS HARD TO BE ME U GUYS DONT UNDERSTAND MY PAIN AND MY FRIENDS PROBLIY DONT LIKE ME THAY IGNORE ME TRUST ME U DONT WANT TO BE ME AND I HAVE ANIMALS THAT DONT LESN TO ME MY CAT LEFT ME AND MY OTHER ONES THAY DIED OR RAN AWAY BE UASE OF ME pls if u dd read this pls send a comet and btw its all true
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W. WELL QUESS WHAT NO ONE LIKES ME U PROBLIY DONT EVEN LIKE ME IM UGLY AND FAT AND DUMB I CANT SLEEP EVERY NIGHT AND THAY DONT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT MY SISTER YELLS AT ME SWEARS AT ME AND DOESNT PLAY WITH ME ITS HARD TO BE ME U GUYS DONT UNDERSTAND MY PAIN AND MY FRIENDS PROBLIY DONT LIKE ME THAY IGNORE ME TRUST ME U DONT WANT TO BE ME AND I HAVE ANIMALS THAT DONT LESN TO ME MY CAT LEFT ME AND MY OTHER ONES THAY DIED OR RAN AWAY BE UASE OF ME pls if u dd read this pls send a comet and btw its all true
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Niente
I feel so blessed, apparently having a family that loves you isnt always a given.
It breaks my heart reading all these comments and I cant understand what these poor children did to deserve so much hate and disrespect
Children are not punching bags you can use to make your miserable existence feel less dreadful.
I seriously hope all of you who have been injured can recover and get a second chance to live a happy and joyful life, surrounded by people who love you for what you are.
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I feel so blessed, apparently having a family that loves you isnt always a given.
It breaks my heart reading all these comments and I cant understand what these poor children did to deserve so much hate and disrespect
Children are not punching bags you can use to make your miserable existence feel less dreadful.
I seriously hope all of you who have been injured can recover and get a second chance to live a happy and joyful life, surrounded by people who love you for what you are.
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Albright
My dad calls me names that nearly made me kill him n later he arrested me for getting too close to my step uncle who consoled me n then he was arrested for child assault only for him to come out again cos of some connection he has n now it even worse staying with him he keeps reminding of how much I owe him worse idk where my mom is n now I cant leave home cos dad sponsor my education I just have to bear till I graduate
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My dad calls me names that nearly made me kill him n later he arrested me for getting too close to my step uncle who consoled me n then he was arrested for child assault only for him to come out again cos of some connection he has n now it even worse staying with him he keeps reminding of how much I owe him worse idk where my mom is n now I cant leave home cos dad sponsor my education I just have to bear till I graduate
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LPS
My sister (who has two kids, one boy & one girl) the boy had stopped walking and started crying, my sister then said, bye and started to walk off. She didnt leave him, but I stayed near him so he didnt feel as if he was getting abandoned. Also hes around 2 or 3, so thats even worse. I have lost a lot of trust in my sister for doing that. Idc who you are, but if you do that to a kid there is something wrong with you.
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My sister (who has two kids, one boy & one girl) the boy had stopped walking and started crying, my sister then said, bye and started to walk off. She didnt leave him, but I stayed near him so he didnt feel as if he was getting abandoned. Also hes around 2 or 3, so thats even worse. I have lost a lot of trust in my sister for doing that. Idc who you are, but if you do that to a kid there is something wrong with you.
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Ruben
im a 14 years old boy who had a appearance that nothing resembled to my parents my parents even says that im not their son because i got fair skin instead of brown or darker skin and they even compare my hair to my sibling who have curly hair but but i doesnt have those. like i dont know is it because im different like they treat me im not a child like i hope i never born in this world because i am deffirent
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im a 14 years old boy who had a appearance that nothing resembled to my parents my parents even says that im not their son because i got fair skin instead of brown or darker skin and they even compare my hair to my sibling who have curly hair but but i doesnt have those. like i dont know is it because im different like they treat me im not a child like i hope i never born in this world because i am deffirent
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james
I M 36 and a physically challenged. I remember the tears and lonliness i had during my childhood. My parents never loved me. But i got good friends and now in a good position after marriage, my wife supports me a lot. God gave me a beautiful daughter, and i promised myself once my daughter born i will show my parents how to raise a kid. I feel gifted Whenever my kid says paapa i love you.
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I M 36 and a physically challenged. I remember the tears and lonliness i had during my childhood. My parents never loved me. But i got good friends and now in a good position after marriage, my wife supports me a lot. God gave me a beautiful daughter, and i promised myself once my daughter born i will show my parents how to raise a kid. I feel gifted Whenever my kid says paapa i love you.
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BrainyBunny
Another good example of harful thing that some parents do is making passive aggressive statements and being emotionally unavailable. This was and still is part of my life from my mom and to thisday i struggle with self-esteem and feel like i am not important or good enough. Its really messed up how some parents can be this harmful and destructive to their children.
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Another good example of harful thing that some parents do is making passive aggressive statements and being emotionally unavailable. This was and still is part of my life from my mom and to thisday i struggle with self-esteem and feel like i am not important or good enough. Its really messed up how some parents can be this harmful and destructive to their children.
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Jack
and to top that I shoved all the pain I experienced for over half my life currently down and hid in the shadows from other people, I now am scared of what people are going to think of me because of my severe mental issues and I dont trust people much, Im always scared to say no and stick up for myelf
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and to top that I shoved all the pain I experienced for over half my life currently down and hid in the shadows from other people, I now am scared of what people are going to think of me because of my severe mental issues and I dont trust people much, Im always scared to say no and stick up for myelf
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peyton
I'm always called twig. My mom told my sister that she hopes she dies, that she deserved it. My mom called us useless, and sometimes she said we were worthless. Oh yeah. I've been made empty promises many times. I'll get you this and that if you do this. I did what she wanted and she never does
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I'm always called twig. My mom told my sister that she hopes she dies, that she deserved it. My mom called us useless, and sometimes she said we were worthless. Oh yeah. I've been made empty promises many times. I'll get you this and that if you do this. I did what she wanted and she never does
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Mafufu
knowing that my mom said all of these to me and i thought it was normal just makes me incapable of trusting her ever again. and then she goes on to guilt trip me and often asks me why i never tell her anything.
this is why.
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knowing that my mom said all of these to me and i thought it was normal just makes me incapable of trusting her ever again. and then she goes on to guilt trip me and often asks me why i never tell her anything.
this is why.
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OM
i sing and play other people always say that im too good and many other compliments even im good in studies too but my mom never ever praised me she just always keep saying you are useless why you were born nothing more to say
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i sing and play other people always say that im too good and many other compliments even im good in studies too but my mom never ever praised me she just always keep saying you are useless why you were born nothing more to say
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Sultan
My mother does all of those 8 things when I want to do something I sometimes remember the words my mother would say to me. For example: you are dumb, you will never achieve anything in life, you are not like your sister.
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My mother does all of those 8 things when I want to do something I sometimes remember the words my mother would say to me. For example: you are dumb, you will never achieve anything in life, you are not like your sister.
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ASAD
damn I think I already had felt that way when I was teenager I dont blame anyone and I will not let those things effect me: )
world is big and there are too much happiness I think kids should learn how to find them
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damn I think I already had felt that way when I was teenager I dont blame anyone and I will not let those things effect me: )
world is big and there are too much happiness I think kids should learn how to find them
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education
Most of these things in the video my stepdad does or says, I hate the fact that my brother and my sister an my mom have to go through this. Im suffering from depression and mental illness, etc.
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Most of these things in the video my stepdad does or says, I hate the fact that my brother and my sister an my mom have to go through this. Im suffering from depression and mental illness, etc.
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Meagan
5: 00 this is actually not true since although words cant harm you words can sometimes lead to depression depression can lead to sickness and sickness can lead to death so this isnt actually true
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5: 00 this is actually not true since although words cant harm you words can sometimes lead to depression depression can lead to sickness and sickness can lead to death so this isnt actually true
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Vishnu
as a teenager I've gone through all these things.
they don't think that our child should be happy! my mom told me that it would be nice if you were never born.
hurts pretty much.
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as a teenager I've gone through all these things.
they don't think that our child should be happy! my mom told me that it would be nice if you were never born.
hurts pretty much.
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Jack
i have also been eaten up and bullied for 7 years, best friend had to move away cuz his dad committed suicide, and my mum breaks promises, I have severe anxiety issues and severe adhd
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i have also been eaten up and bullied for 7 years, best friend had to move away cuz his dad committed suicide, and my mum breaks promises, I have severe anxiety issues and severe adhd
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Bill
My parents have been doing a lot of these things to me ever since I got into middle school, its been like that for 4 years now, and I'm in 9th grade and they're still don't it.
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My parents have been doing a lot of these things to me ever since I got into middle school, its been like that for 4 years now, and I'm in 9th grade and they're still don't it.
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Ryxiae
My mum called me an attention seeker because I did an attempt at school but I was just trying to make her feel less guilty if the police came- I might run away
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My mum called me an attention seeker because I did an attempt at school but I was just trying to make her feel less guilty if the police came- I might run away
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nonexistent
I think I am being compared as the bad one because everything my sister does bad, they instantly project the blame on to me because I'm the older child
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I think I am being compared as the bad one because everything my sister does bad, they instantly project the blame on to me because I'm the older child
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Lia
My mom said she's gonna give her kids a life her mom never gave her. Well she lied. If I ever have kids I'll actually give them a better one then I ever did
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My mom said she's gonna give her kids a life her mom never gave her. Well she lied. If I ever have kids I'll actually give them a better one then I ever did
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education
there was this guy, his aunt promised him 200$ if he trimmed her hedges, but, after doing so, she didn't give him the money, and he burnt it down.
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there was this guy, his aunt promised him 200$ if he trimmed her hedges, but, after doing so, she didn't give him the money, and he burnt it down.
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Krystal
I wish all the people around me could disappear or i should go invisible
So that i can observe the world as i want without any interaction
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I wish all the people around me could disappear or i should go invisible
So that i can observe the world as i want without any interaction
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