10 Signs a Relationship is Moving too Fast
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Date: 2023-08-20
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NabylTHETRUENabyl
moving fast isn't actually bad if you match together perfectly. You know that moment when you found your soulmate on the first date. Sometimes one side stops appreceating it and starts focusing on the negative stuff mainly because they had bad experiances in the past. Thats happening with me right now. We did fit perfectly and understood each other from the first date. It was magical. We also respected our disagreements and where honest to each other. Sadly after the 4th date she started to getting cold and now wants to take time to get to know me better. We don't have so much contact anymore and she seems busy. She needs long to accept a human into her life, she told me. I think she just had bad guys before and she was never in a real relationship. She is viewing things too negative instead of enjoying things together which makes me sad. She doesn't knwo that she destroys all her possible luck by herself. Really tough rn.
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moving fast isn't actually bad if you match together perfectly. You know that moment when you found your soulmate on the first date. Sometimes one side stops appreceating it and starts focusing on the negative stuff mainly because they had bad experiances in the past. Thats happening with me right now. We did fit perfectly and understood each other from the first date. It was magical. We also respected our disagreements and where honest to each other. Sadly after the 4th date she started to getting cold and now wants to take time to get to know me better. We don't have so much contact anymore and she seems busy. She needs long to accept a human into her life, she told me. I think she just had bad guys before and she was never in a real relationship. She is viewing things too negative instead of enjoying things together which makes me sad. She doesn't knwo that she destroys all her possible luck by herself. Really tough rn.
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glitzy
NGL, I've been in a relationship that went so fast than this. I met him online, actually we're just in the same City, and so he asked me for a date & we met. He kissed me in our first meet inside his car, but he asked me first and I agree. He wants to do something but I disagree and so he respected my decision and drop me to the place near our house. In our 3rd meet, I thought we're only going for a stroll, but he said we'll go to his house for a while coz it's just near by the place we went. And so we go to his house, and that was the time I lost my virginity, I'm 18 years old that time, and I'll never forget that. I still love him & sometimes I miss him so much that I cried unexpectedly. He's like already part of my body, and I hate that I can no longer be with him coz we already have to let go of each other.
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NGL, I've been in a relationship that went so fast than this. I met him online, actually we're just in the same City, and so he asked me for a date & we met. He kissed me in our first meet inside his car, but he asked me first and I agree. He wants to do something but I disagree and so he respected my decision and drop me to the place near our house. In our 3rd meet, I thought we're only going for a stroll, but he said we'll go to his house for a while coz it's just near by the place we went. And so we go to his house, and that was the time I lost my virginity, I'm 18 years old that time, and I'll never forget that. I still love him & sometimes I miss him so much that I cried unexpectedly. He's like already part of my body, and I hate that I can no longer be with him coz we already have to let go of each other.
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Alina
Biological grandparents on my mother's side, divorced. Father's side, met and six months later got married, marriage lasted 43 years and grandfather died, grandma never remarried. Adopted grandparents on my mother's side, met and five months later got married, married for 32 years and grandfather died, grandma never remarried and died when I was 12. Grandparents on my adopted father's side met and two months later got married. The marriage lasted for 57 years and grandfather died, grandma never remarried and died three years ago. My adopted mother and father, met and a year later got married, they have been married for 39 years now. Yes, it is possible to move quickly and have a lasting marriage if you are mature and serious enough. Humans are humans regardless of culture and age.
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Biological grandparents on my mother's side, divorced. Father's side, met and six months later got married, marriage lasted 43 years and grandfather died, grandma never remarried. Adopted grandparents on my mother's side, met and five months later got married, married for 32 years and grandfather died, grandma never remarried and died when I was 12. Grandparents on my adopted father's side met and two months later got married. The marriage lasted for 57 years and grandfather died, grandma never remarried and died three years ago. My adopted mother and father, met and a year later got married, they have been married for 39 years now. Yes, it is possible to move quickly and have a lasting marriage if you are mature and serious enough. Humans are humans regardless of culture and age.
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Joo
I was dating with this girl for 2 months, met her parents, i were in situations where i needed all the time to give her explanations why i dindint see her or you need to see me, she was fighting all the time with me not even knowing me for real and for reasons like, you need to care, like and apreciate me and i didint even had one good moment with her i could remenber. After all this thinking i said all those things that i was unhappy to her, in a romatinc way of course as youre a pain in the ass and she was just like this is what a relationship is. its normal and i was just like: do i enven like her?
Damn i just had to end this nosense i made, before things get more deep that is not.
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I was dating with this girl for 2 months, met her parents, i were in situations where i needed all the time to give her explanations why i dindint see her or you need to see me, she was fighting all the time with me not even knowing me for real and for reasons like, you need to care, like and apreciate me and i didint even had one good moment with her i could remenber. After all this thinking i said all those things that i was unhappy to her, in a romatinc way of course as youre a pain in the ass and she was just like this is what a relationship is. its normal and i was just like: do i enven like her?
Damn i just had to end this nosense i made, before things get more deep that is not.
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Bavard100
Theres this guy who fell for me within the hour we chatted [rebound]. 1 week later he started to talk about marriage and children. Im like 8 years younger than him. His mum wanted him to get a wife. I told him were just friends he said oh but the attention your giving me. I kept seeing him as a friend. I gave it ago eventually. It felt wrong even being his friend. I wasnt being who I was. I just found it funny the whole character of him. unique guy. Weird how he thiught I was the one and kept calling me wife. Im like. yeah, no.
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Theres this guy who fell for me within the hour we chatted [rebound]. 1 week later he started to talk about marriage and children. Im like 8 years younger than him. His mum wanted him to get a wife. I told him were just friends he said oh but the attention your giving me. I kept seeing him as a friend. I gave it ago eventually. It felt wrong even being his friend. I wasnt being who I was. I just found it funny the whole character of him. unique guy. Weird how he thiught I was the one and kept calling me wife. Im like. yeah, no.
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Ben
Alright so Ive been talking to this girl for only a week and I really like her. Shes beautiful and weve gotten along well so far, but I dont want to move too quick because I want it to be a long term thing and not a heat of the moment thing. So I told her look, I really like you but I think we should take things slower, its not you at all i just dont want to rush into anything. I guess Ill just cut her off if things dont go well after this. Im just sick of the 2 week relationships.
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Alright so Ive been talking to this girl for only a week and I really like her. Shes beautiful and weve gotten along well so far, but I dont want to move too quick because I want it to be a long term thing and not a heat of the moment thing. So I told her look, I really like you but I think we should take things slower, its not you at all i just dont want to rush into anything. I guess Ill just cut her off if things dont go well after this. Im just sick of the 2 week relationships.
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Bae
My boyfriend practically worships me, follows me around like a puppy, and brings me flowers every time we see each other.
This might seem adorable to some people, but its kinda disturbing and even a little annoying to me.
Hes said he wants to be with me forever but as of this comment, weve only been dating for three months. Ive told him that I want to be with you forever is something you say after years, not months. Hes definitely moving wayyyy faster than me.
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My boyfriend practically worships me, follows me around like a puppy, and brings me flowers every time we see each other.
This might seem adorable to some people, but its kinda disturbing and even a little annoying to me.
Hes said he wants to be with me forever but as of this comment, weve only been dating for three months. Ive told him that I want to be with you forever is something you say after years, not months. Hes definitely moving wayyyy faster than me.
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Zztop
My bf and I have been dating for a few weeks and we said I love you my friend looked through my text with him (without my permission) saw that I had said I love you now she thinks I said it way too soon and now Im questioning everything trying to convince her that its my relationship and Im enjoying myself and I love him but she just thinks it was too fast
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My bf and I have been dating for a few weeks and we said I love you my friend looked through my text with him (without my permission) saw that I had said I love you now she thinks I said it way too soon and now Im questioning everything trying to convince her that its my relationship and Im enjoying myself and I love him but she just thinks it was too fast
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Helena's
Hmmm, I've had a messy break up and a few weeks after I met a guy. I knew I had to heal before making anything official, I even warned him I wasn't ready yet and that we might end up in a rebound relationship. He said it's ok but he's definetly interested in me, I don't want him to get hurt cuz I like him back, but I still think of my ex.
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Hmmm, I've had a messy break up and a few weeks after I met a guy. I knew I had to heal before making anything official, I even warned him I wasn't ready yet and that we might end up in a rebound relationship. He said it's ok but he's definetly interested in me, I don't want him to get hurt cuz I like him back, but I still think of my ex.
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Minnie
Had to break up with my bf because it was going too fast. We had been dating a few weeks and he made it FB official without talking to me about it first. Then he wanted me to meet his family and it was stressing me out. He was constantly getting on my nerves and I dont want kids but he does so I didnt see a point in staying together.
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Had to break up with my bf because it was going too fast. We had been dating a few weeks and he made it FB official without talking to me about it first. Then he wanted me to meet his family and it was stressing me out. He was constantly getting on my nerves and I dont want kids but he does so I didnt see a point in staying together.
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Jlicia
i dropped the L bomb on second date yesterday. im overthinking it too much but what do i do now? we're still invested eachother and it didnt impact anything but should i bring it up? ignore it and not say it again? i apologised after i realised that was too early for him but i really hate myself for it
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i dropped the L bomb on second date yesterday. im overthinking it too much but what do i do now? we're still invested eachother and it didnt impact anything but should i bring it up? ignore it and not say it again? i apologised after i realised that was too early for him but i really hate myself for it
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psych2go
Me and my best friend started dating a few months ago. We said I love you fairly quickly because we've been best friends long before that and both crushed on each other so hard the whole time we were best friends until a mutual friend noticed this and asked him to finally ask me out
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Me and my best friend started dating a few months ago. We said I love you fairly quickly because we've been best friends long before that and both crushed on each other so hard the whole time we were best friends until a mutual friend noticed this and asked him to finally ask me out
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Michelle
I said I love you to him just during the five days we were chatting. Im one lucky woman, he put on track by saying unoffendedly that the words ILY are precious words that can only utter if we mean them. I am blessed to have such man who never took advantage of my feelings.
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I said I love you to him just during the five days we were chatting. Im one lucky woman, he put on track by saying unoffendedly that the words ILY are precious words that can only utter if we mean them. I am blessed to have such man who never took advantage of my feelings.
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Ivy
I have been with my old best friend for a few days now and I feel like Im hes going to fast and I am really uncomfortable and anxious in the relationship and want to break things off but all of my friends think that I really like him but I dont know what to do. any ideas?
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I have been with my old best friend for a few days now and I feel like Im hes going to fast and I am really uncomfortable and anxious in the relationship and want to break things off but all of my friends think that I really like him but I dont know what to do. any ideas?
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SuperAdam
The only problem here Ive ran into is that she said I love you twice already. Once when she told me she liked me back and another on some random occasion. And she confessed to me about two months ago. But other than that there hasnt been any problems.
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The only problem here Ive ran into is that she said I love you twice already. Once when she told me she liked me back and another on some random occasion. And she confessed to me about two months ago. But other than that there hasnt been any problems.
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Aditi
Even I made a mistake of moving my relation too fast thought i wanted a private relation. never got the chance to explain what I wanted in my own relation. but whatever happened for good and now I can focus on myself again. :)
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Even I made a mistake of moving my relation too fast thought i wanted a private relation. never got the chance to explain what I wanted in my own relation. but whatever happened for good and now I can focus on myself again. :)
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portia
So my boyfriend and I started dating four days ago and hes already processing his love when weve barely met in person. What do I do? I feel like I cant dump him because were in the same classes and it would be embarrassing.
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So my boyfriend and I started dating four days ago and hes already processing his love when weve barely met in person. What do I do? I feel like I cant dump him because were in the same classes and it would be embarrassing.
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Chrysi
Who else hates this? Like you wanna take things slow but the other person pushes everything to go so fast. And the new other person does the same and the other other person. Like why everyone tries to do everything so fast
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Who else hates this? Like you wanna take things slow but the other person pushes everything to go so fast. And the new other person does the same and the other other person. Like why everyone tries to do everything so fast
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fahima
9 and 10 were the most obvious signs. I was so blind to see them sooner. Now I cant stop crying and thinking about all the plans/dreams we had together. Only been a few days since the break up, hoping hed still change.
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9 and 10 were the most obvious signs. I was so blind to see them sooner. Now I cant stop crying and thinking about all the plans/dreams we had together. Only been a few days since the break up, hoping hed still change.
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Alex
Told my partner I love you after 2 weeks of hanging out. He didnt return the gesture. Also he recently shows me a video with his ex, saying how hot it is if I do that to him, so yeah I dont think well ended up together.
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Told my partner I love you after 2 weeks of hanging out. He didnt return the gesture. Also he recently shows me a video with his ex, saying how hot it is if I do that to him, so yeah I dont think well ended up together.
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Andy
relationship still growing we live far apart
far distance it's OK it's sad I really miss my bf I think about him all day and night I can't eat I can't sleep having stress
I'm homesick everytime
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relationship still growing we live far apart
far distance it's OK it's sad I really miss my bf I think about him all day and night I can't eat I can't sleep having stress
I'm homesick everytime
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L4D2
The relationship isn't moving fast unless. you and your girlfriend owns a supercharged engine sports car with over 800 horse power and speeding across the highway like a badass
Now that's fast!
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The relationship isn't moving fast unless. you and your girlfriend owns a supercharged engine sports car with over 800 horse power and speeding across the highway like a badass
Now that's fast!
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Jack
To hell with this, Love is too confusing, I honestly believe that I would be better off just shoving all my emotions into a closet then locking the door. Whats the worst that could happen?
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To hell with this, Love is too confusing, I honestly believe that I would be better off just shoving all my emotions into a closet then locking the door. Whats the worst that could happen?
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Mahsa
I feel like i dont know how a relationship works because when im in love with someone i want to move in together make a future telling about them to others but when its soo soon?
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I feel like i dont know how a relationship works because when im in love with someone i want to move in together make a future telling about them to others but when its soo soon?
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Steve
I told a girl I really liked I loved her way too soon. I quickly told her that it was a mistake and to please ignore it. she couldn't let it go and ended things soon after.
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I told a girl I really liked I loved her way too soon. I quickly told her that it was a mistake and to please ignore it. she couldn't let it go and ended things soon after.
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