8 Ways to Leave Your Past Behind
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Date: 2023-08-20
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black
it was just a traumatic experience. i was obsessed with this girl and she didnt love me back so i really wanted to hurt myself. i was really mentally ill one night i couldnt take her ignoring me and i found out other people knew i was obsessed with her, i was so ashamed and embarrassed so i went to the top of a parking garage and almost jumped off. my friend called the police and i was taken against my own will to the mental hospital. i cried the whole way in the ambulance and didnt stop crying for the whole night. i felt like all hope was lost. i had already been hospitalized 2 months before because of the same thing and i wasnt sure how i was going to afford it. My mom called me and i explained everything to her, she never knew what was hurting me so bad and it was a weight off my shoulders. when i got out i went to therapy and spent time with friends and that really helped me out. eventually i got over the girl who i was obsessed with, i still see her from time to time, but i have a hard time forgiving the others that betrayed me that night. looking back its painful to remember because i was in so much pain it was unbearable. im just so grateful to God to be alive and well today. its still just really hard to let go of the past
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it was just a traumatic experience. i was obsessed with this girl and she didnt love me back so i really wanted to hurt myself. i was really mentally ill one night i couldnt take her ignoring me and i found out other people knew i was obsessed with her, i was so ashamed and embarrassed so i went to the top of a parking garage and almost jumped off. my friend called the police and i was taken against my own will to the mental hospital. i cried the whole way in the ambulance and didnt stop crying for the whole night. i felt like all hope was lost. i had already been hospitalized 2 months before because of the same thing and i wasnt sure how i was going to afford it. My mom called me and i explained everything to her, she never knew what was hurting me so bad and it was a weight off my shoulders. when i got out i went to therapy and spent time with friends and that really helped me out. eventually i got over the girl who i was obsessed with, i still see her from time to time, but i have a hard time forgiving the others that betrayed me that night. looking back its painful to remember because i was in so much pain it was unbearable. im just so grateful to God to be alive and well today. its still just really hard to let go of the past
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Nyx
I used my bad memories and trauma to motivate myself to achieve my goals. However, I became a perfectionist and attention seeker. I became to thirst of affection and love which I even create an idealistic relationship because I don't want to experience again from what happened to me when I was young. But, those creation leads to suffocating others and pressures and also to myself. I ended up hurting others which I never realized because Im more focus to the things that I want. Now, Im trying to be more kind to myself then next to others. Its really really hard to accept the things such as my flaws. Also Im trying my best to choose the right circle of people that will make me realize that I am a human being. Hope one day I could be better. :)
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I used my bad memories and trauma to motivate myself to achieve my goals. However, I became a perfectionist and attention seeker. I became to thirst of affection and love which I even create an idealistic relationship because I don't want to experience again from what happened to me when I was young. But, those creation leads to suffocating others and pressures and also to myself. I ended up hurting others which I never realized because Im more focus to the things that I want. Now, Im trying to be more kind to myself then next to others. Its really really hard to accept the things such as my flaws. Also Im trying my best to choose the right circle of people that will make me realize that I am a human being. Hope one day I could be better. :)
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Kamlesh
Can you make a video on how to get rid of regrets only?
It will be important for me and I think a lot of other people.
I failed in an exam.
People may say I can try again and I have a lot left in life but I can not. The exam only allows one attempt.
These exams are common and there is nothing wrong in that cause they do their job best but can have an emotional impact on students.
Along with that me myself, have never experienced it but the regret video can also show how to leave behind the time you did something bad in your relationship romantic or platonic.
Will mean a lot to me.
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Can you make a video on how to get rid of regrets only?
It will be important for me and I think a lot of other people.
I failed in an exam.
People may say I can try again and I have a lot left in life but I can not. The exam only allows one attempt.
These exams are common and there is nothing wrong in that cause they do their job best but can have an emotional impact on students.
Along with that me myself, have never experienced it but the regret video can also show how to leave behind the time you did something bad in your relationship romantic or platonic.
Will mean a lot to me.
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FBI
If you bottle up your emotions, they don't go anywhere, they're just waiting for you to feel them. Sometimes you bottle up so many emotions that they leak out and that's what causes you to feel so bad. Allow yourself to feel all of your emotions because when you've felt them, you've felt them. Then they're gone.
Think of your negative emotions as a wound, if you slap a plaster on a gashing wound you're only stopping the blood from leaking, you're not healing the wound. In fact, if you persist the wound may even get infected.
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If you bottle up your emotions, they don't go anywhere, they're just waiting for you to feel them. Sometimes you bottle up so many emotions that they leak out and that's what causes you to feel so bad. Allow yourself to feel all of your emotions because when you've felt them, you've felt them. Then they're gone.
Think of your negative emotions as a wound, if you slap a plaster on a gashing wound you're only stopping the blood from leaking, you're not healing the wound. In fact, if you persist the wound may even get infected.
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Diamond
When I was 17 there was a guy I really liked who was also 17 and when things didnt work out I started harassing him and then he told me to leave him alone and that Im crazy and then he wrote about me online. I left him alone but it always has had an affect on me. Im still angry and extremely embarrassed about it because I cant believe I did something so crazy and feel embarrassed that he wrote about me. I have times where it makes me feel so angry I do something like drink or smoke. How do I forgive myself for it?
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When I was 17 there was a guy I really liked who was also 17 and when things didnt work out I started harassing him and then he told me to leave him alone and that Im crazy and then he wrote about me online. I left him alone but it always has had an affect on me. Im still angry and extremely embarrassed about it because I cant believe I did something so crazy and feel embarrassed that he wrote about me. I have times where it makes me feel so angry I do something like drink or smoke. How do I forgive myself for it?
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Zula
I'm the opposite, but it's also not good
I had a really great past, but things got so much worse in my life, and now, I find myself holding onto every little thing from that time period. I just want to keep every piece of it, and it's not good for me. I just keep hoarding stuff and I need to stop, but I just can't, it's too hard right now and I don't want to let go of these things.
What do I do? Is there a term for this kind of behavior?
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I'm the opposite, but it's also not good
I had a really great past, but things got so much worse in my life, and now, I find myself holding onto every little thing from that time period. I just want to keep every piece of it, and it's not good for me. I just keep hoarding stuff and I need to stop, but I just can't, it's too hard right now and I don't want to let go of these things.
What do I do? Is there a term for this kind of behavior?
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Dragon
If you read this, personally my biggest toxic trait and the thing that holds me back from elevating, I believe, is how I hold onto my past and it effects my thoughts and emotions. It only makes that if I clear my mind of the past I'll have more FREEDOM to focus on the now.
I hope this helps and I wish you the best my friends
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If you read this, personally my biggest toxic trait and the thing that holds me back from elevating, I believe, is how I hold onto my past and it effects my thoughts and emotions. It only makes that if I clear my mind of the past I'll have more FREEDOM to focus on the now.
I hope this helps and I wish you the best my friends
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Julie
Damn in high school someone tried to attack me because she complained that i ate eggs and says it smells like fart. Tried to attack me when I did my work, tried to attack me if I was sitting, standing and walking. Overall she just tried to verbally attack me even after she was reported to to the administration for misbehaving.
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Damn in high school someone tried to attack me because she complained that i ate eggs and says it smells like fart. Tried to attack me when I did my work, tried to attack me if I was sitting, standing and walking. Overall she just tried to verbally attack me even after she was reported to to the administration for misbehaving.
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Flame
Thanks for The Help because I Suffered from something I hate to watch happen again
I Just Thought I was Meaningless and I Only live to suffer, I Just don't want to lose another thing In Life I thought I was a Disgrace but I Just sometimes act like it Was Never real, I Guess I'll Just try to Meditate, Thanks By The way!
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Thanks for The Help because I Suffered from something I hate to watch happen again
I Just Thought I was Meaningless and I Only live to suffer, I Just don't want to lose another thing In Life I thought I was a Disgrace but I Just sometimes act like it Was Never real, I Guess I'll Just try to Meditate, Thanks By The way!
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PShmokE
I was horrible to my best friend when we first met, I was just so hurt and wrapped up in my own self I didnt really think.
He does so much for me still to this day and of course I show my appreciation now, but its hard to know I treated someone bad on the beginning when they are such a good friend to me.
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I was horrible to my best friend when we first met, I was just so hurt and wrapped up in my own self I didnt really think.
He does so much for me still to this day and of course I show my appreciation now, but its hard to know I treated someone bad on the beginning when they are such a good friend to me.
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Olivia
I 1000% agree with crying it out I tell people all the time cry till you cant no more! Sometimes the emotions of something hurts so bad that crying is the best medicine it will help your body to heal and when you cry you think about the emotions you have for the issue and it helps you over come it!
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I 1000% agree with crying it out I tell people all the time cry till you cant no more! Sometimes the emotions of something hurts so bad that crying is the best medicine it will help your body to heal and when you cry you think about the emotions you have for the issue and it helps you over come it!
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Masquerade
What makes me Breathtaking about the past is, the good memory. I feel like i dont want to forget about it, when did the same memories happen again, and i dont want to lose anybody from that past good memories. Like i can move on from the bad one but i cant from the good one. .. .
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What makes me Breathtaking about the past is, the good memory. I feel like i dont want to forget about it, when did the same memories happen again, and i dont want to lose anybody from that past good memories. Like i can move on from the bad one but i cant from the good one. .. .
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Arty
Ive spent a long time tryibg to peice together everything that happened i lost alot of my memories and it took a while to understand what happened and when i was the one hurting others and when others were hruting me i did that on my own and now i just want to move on
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Ive spent a long time tryibg to peice together everything that happened i lost alot of my memories and it took a while to understand what happened and when i was the one hurting others and when others were hruting me i did that on my own and now i just want to move on
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Michele
I needed to detach emotionally by accepting that they didn't care about me as much as I cared about them, and give up false hopes of restoration or them changing. I'd remind myself of who we both are now and that this is a new chapter of my life without bullies.
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I needed to detach emotionally by accepting that they didn't care about me as much as I cared about them, and give up false hopes of restoration or them changing. I'd remind myself of who we both are now and that this is a new chapter of my life without bullies.
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No
Mistakes will remain as it is when you didn't learn from the context of what had happened.
You will only learn from mistakes by allowing them to come in, but not to hang up with it. These are the words by a friend last night.
Thank you for this Ma'am!
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Mistakes will remain as it is when you didn't learn from the context of what had happened.
You will only learn from mistakes by allowing them to come in, but not to hang up with it. These are the words by a friend last night.
Thank you for this Ma'am!
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KSSTEA
I've let my past go when I saw that the person changed for bad, I hadn't seem them for over a year but had planned giving them a gift for xmas, I took the painting i had made and destroyed it to let go of what i thought and continue on with life
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I've let my past go when I saw that the person changed for bad, I hadn't seem them for over a year but had planned giving them a gift for xmas, I took the painting i had made and destroyed it to let go of what i thought and continue on with life
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Notorious
I gave up years ago! Never want to work hard for something, always want it the easy way everybody pasted me, my lil bro n all my family have and had way more then me, all it lead me with emotions! Ima lost cause people fake love me
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I gave up years ago! Never want to work hard for something, always want it the easy way everybody pasted me, my lil bro n all my family have and had way more then me, all it lead me with emotions! Ima lost cause people fake love me
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Eunjoshi
my reason of wanting to let go of the past is because Ive hurt someone in fact everyone, some of them already forgave me but I still couldnt forgive myself. I still daydream of what I couldve done or how I shouldve acted.
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my reason of wanting to let go of the past is because Ive hurt someone in fact everyone, some of them already forgave me but I still couldnt forgive myself. I still daydream of what I couldve done or how I shouldve acted.
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Dear
I'm getting bullied in school for my acting and for everything, that's why they let me think that I'm a mistake and everything I do is wrong and will never learn the right things, that's why I don't know how to move on
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I'm getting bullied in school for my acting and for everything, that's why they let me think that I'm a mistake and everything I do is wrong and will never learn the right things, that's why I don't know how to move on
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nam
Idk if these will work for every past memory or anything its really hard forgetting the embarrassing moment when my teacher accused me for cheating in front of the whole class who still thinks I did when I didnt.
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Idk if these will work for every past memory or anything its really hard forgetting the embarrassing moment when my teacher accused me for cheating in front of the whole class who still thinks I did when I didnt.
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Thomas
What if the things ive done and thought about and am worried about doing are too much to forget or stop? Ive been trying for years but i cant stop it and im scared im something i dont want to be
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What if the things ive done and thought about and am worried about doing are too much to forget or stop? Ive been trying for years but i cant stop it and im scared im something i dont want to be
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what?
Some one i didn't know said something to me that really really hurt me and i still think about the thing that he said about me after 4 months and I just can't get over it i don't know why
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Some one i didn't know said something to me that really really hurt me and i still think about the thing that he said about me after 4 months and I just can't get over it i don't know why
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Itsurfavlulu
I said some really dirty jokes and tbh I was younger and immature what Im worried about is people finding out. People would think different of me and it just makes me sad and mad.
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I said some really dirty jokes and tbh I was younger and immature what Im worried about is people finding out. People would think different of me and it just makes me sad and mad.
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MOLEYPLAYZ
The memorie is litrilly like i was sneaking phone and the person i am scared of the most Caught ME bro my brain was loading that moment i almost cried
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The memorie is litrilly like i was sneaking phone and the person i am scared of the most Caught ME bro my brain was loading that moment i almost cried
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ccy
Bad memories and bad words were shared and I'm still going through it very hard, I really appreciate this video because it make me feel like I'm not alone.
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Bad memories and bad words were shared and I'm still going through it very hard, I really appreciate this video because it make me feel like I'm not alone.
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