10 Signs Insecurities Are Ruining Your Life
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I feel insecure about my body. Even at home I cant show my family my body so I put a cloak over it. And today I just feel even more miserable. My cousins wedding is in two weeks and I tried on a dress. I had to show it to everyone and it was a little tight around the chest, the thing is, it wasnt my size, I was 1 size bigger, Also I was the centre of attention which makes me even more self conscious. They didnt mention it then but afterwards I was just greeting the new guests that came and my auntie called me and I came to her and she surprisingly had the courage to make fun of my body and how she thought I was skinny but Im not. My cousin said to leave her alone, because she knew By my face that I was hurt, and that the joke she made wasnt funny for me at all. Then I just walked away. After a few hours it was dinner and so I came to the kitchen. I saw my auntie there and her back was facing me so she doesnt know Im behind her. I wanted to avoid her so I decided to go to the kitchen later but before I could even go she looked at me and noticed I was there. The first thing she said to me was diet! Excersise! Your getting fat! And she goes on and on waffling about my body. Like I get it. My body isnt good, you dont have to remind me so many times and you dont need to shame me in front of my uncle, my dad, my mum and my grandma. I tried to laugh along and stuff but it just wouldnt work, I was that hurt. My uncle looked at me carefully and asked me if you are alright because you look sad and I just laughed and said yes, then my auntie carried on about how big my body is pointing out my thighs and my chest. I just wanted to get out of that room as soon as I could so I went out and went to my room. Later on my other grandma asked if Ive ate and I lied saying yes. I skipped dinner and from then on I skip my meals as much as I can.
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I feel insecure about my body. Even at home I cant show my family my body so I put a cloak over it. And today I just feel even more miserable. My cousins wedding is in two weeks and I tried on a dress. I had to show it to everyone and it was a little tight around the chest, the thing is, it wasnt my size, I was 1 size bigger, Also I was the centre of attention which makes me even more self conscious. They didnt mention it then but afterwards I was just greeting the new guests that came and my auntie called me and I came to her and she surprisingly had the courage to make fun of my body and how she thought I was skinny but Im not. My cousin said to leave her alone, because she knew By my face that I was hurt, and that the joke she made wasnt funny for me at all. Then I just walked away. After a few hours it was dinner and so I came to the kitchen. I saw my auntie there and her back was facing me so she doesnt know Im behind her. I wanted to avoid her so I decided to go to the kitchen later but before I could even go she looked at me and noticed I was there. The first thing she said to me was diet! Excersise! Your getting fat! And she goes on and on waffling about my body. Like I get it. My body isnt good, you dont have to remind me so many times and you dont need to shame me in front of my uncle, my dad, my mum and my grandma. I tried to laugh along and stuff but it just wouldnt work, I was that hurt. My uncle looked at me carefully and asked me if you are alright because you look sad and I just laughed and said yes, then my auntie carried on about how big my body is pointing out my thighs and my chest. I just wanted to get out of that room as soon as I could so I went out and went to my room. Later on my other grandma asked if Ive ate and I lied saying yes. I skipped dinner and from then on I skip my meals as much as I can.
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Sheep
My greatest insecurity is making a first impression and being socially inept to the point of barely being able to make a normal conversation. I have a deep, monotonous voice which makes me sound bored, emotionless and completely uninterested. That's a big moodkiller as far as I've seen. Conversations with me rarely go further than two sentences. When I enter a room with people having fun, I always have the feeling they are having less fun with me around.
Insecurities also lead to girl problems as it kinda shines through on my actions. I asked a girl first before I put my arm around her as if it's such a big deal. Most other guys my age just do that and it's never a problem. Most of the time I get the feeling that they secretly feel bad for me or something considering their tone of voice or how they refrain from making friendly jabs at me due to the fear of accidentally hurting my feelings.
All in all, I get the feeling that many people, except people who are the same as me, secretly think I'm pathetic.
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My greatest insecurity is making a first impression and being socially inept to the point of barely being able to make a normal conversation. I have a deep, monotonous voice which makes me sound bored, emotionless and completely uninterested. That's a big moodkiller as far as I've seen. Conversations with me rarely go further than two sentences. When I enter a room with people having fun, I always have the feeling they are having less fun with me around.
Insecurities also lead to girl problems as it kinda shines through on my actions. I asked a girl first before I put my arm around her as if it's such a big deal. Most other guys my age just do that and it's never a problem. Most of the time I get the feeling that they secretly feel bad for me or something considering their tone of voice or how they refrain from making friendly jabs at me due to the fear of accidentally hurting my feelings.
All in all, I get the feeling that many people, except people who are the same as me, secretly think I'm pathetic.
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Yusoii
Watching this making me realized how insecure I am but I already know Im super insecure. The thing is that, my insecure might ruin my relationship with my boyfriend. I talk with him about it and Im so glad I have such an understandable boyfriend. Let me tell you guys, if you ever feel insecure. Its best to talk with your love one to let them know you need some comfort, I swear. He knows Im insecure so this winter break, hes coming over and talk about it with me to make sure Im okay. Not everyone expect the outcome like mine but let your love ones know so that they can somehow help you overcome this insecureness, even I know myself kinda impossible to get rid of it but Im trying.
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Watching this making me realized how insecure I am but I already know Im super insecure. The thing is that, my insecure might ruin my relationship with my boyfriend. I talk with him about it and Im so glad I have such an understandable boyfriend. Let me tell you guys, if you ever feel insecure. Its best to talk with your love one to let them know you need some comfort, I swear. He knows Im insecure so this winter break, hes coming over and talk about it with me to make sure Im okay. Not everyone expect the outcome like mine but let your love ones know so that they can somehow help you overcome this insecureness, even I know myself kinda impossible to get rid of it but Im trying.
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Robo
I'm in an online relationship currently so I feel insecure about losing them
I feel insecure about my body image especially since I gained 10 kg in a year(My BMI is 27)
I feel insecure when I see my friends doing great things like making discord bots(they are just 16) and i haven't even tried
I feel insecure after my grades started falling due to a lack of concentration in class(I used to score good)
I feel insecure not knowing where I'll be in the future
I always tell these to my loved one and she consoles me (Sometimes I just ignore what she says)
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I'm in an online relationship currently so I feel insecure about losing them
I feel insecure about my body image especially since I gained 10 kg in a year(My BMI is 27)
I feel insecure when I see my friends doing great things like making discord bots(they are just 16) and i haven't even tried
I feel insecure after my grades started falling due to a lack of concentration in class(I used to score good)
I feel insecure not knowing where I'll be in the future
I always tell these to my loved one and she consoles me (Sometimes I just ignore what she says)
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Insecure
- My body weight
Really and truly I think my body weight is my biggest insecurity. I really want to become super fit and healthy. When I see other girls. I wish I could be like them. Those athletes, I want to be an athlete but I've failed so many times with food and diet it affects my life. It effects the way I deal with people. I achieve every other dream but that. I feel like I can overcome anything but that. I really wish I knew how to get over it and prioritize my health
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Insecure
- My body weight
Really and truly I think my body weight is my biggest insecurity. I really want to become super fit and healthy. When I see other girls. I wish I could be like them. Those athletes, I want to be an athlete but I've failed so many times with food and diet it affects my life. It effects the way I deal with people. I achieve every other dream but that. I feel like I can overcome anything but that. I really wish I knew how to get over it and prioritize my health
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Mangos
I have a lot of insecurities but my arms werent really one of them but blended in with them which is where my social anxiety kicks in it took me so long to show my arms in my clothes because I thought people would stare and judge me but I dont have a problem with my arms But I have so many insecurities about the rest of My body especially my voice! which is why I dont wear certain clothes. & Speak in front of large crowds F Social Anxiety & Insecurities It Suck Fr
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I have a lot of insecurities but my arms werent really one of them but blended in with them which is where my social anxiety kicks in it took me so long to show my arms in my clothes because I thought people would stare and judge me but I dont have a problem with my arms But I have so many insecurities about the rest of My body especially my voice! which is why I dont wear certain clothes. & Speak in front of large crowds F Social Anxiety & Insecurities It Suck Fr
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patzizan
Im insecure about almost everything. Im a good student, taking bachelor of law, be in a good debate team but im so insecure about my true nature.
Due to my insecurities, i pulled back from my peers, lose motivation, depressed and anxious. I realized that i became more insecure this recent years as i think about my insecurities evryday. I never felt perfect and enough.
Right now im slowly falling in every aspect. Im slowly crumbling please help.
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Im insecure about almost everything. Im a good student, taking bachelor of law, be in a good debate team but im so insecure about my true nature.
Due to my insecurities, i pulled back from my peers, lose motivation, depressed and anxious. I realized that i became more insecure this recent years as i think about my insecurities evryday. I never felt perfect and enough.
Right now im slowly falling in every aspect. Im slowly crumbling please help.
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Pedro
About 2 weeks ago I was having a conversation about how I simply cant stop being single with my big sister, and she told me about my aura of insecurity. Then I found this video and holy, so relatable.
I feel like It all started with a toxic violin teacher that I had. Coparing myself with otters, the competition, the you are still not good enough and all the prodigy childs stuff. Thus, the well known regection from my first crush broke me really hard.
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About 2 weeks ago I was having a conversation about how I simply cant stop being single with my big sister, and she told me about my aura of insecurity. Then I found this video and holy, so relatable.
I feel like It all started with a toxic violin teacher that I had. Coparing myself with otters, the competition, the you are still not good enough and all the prodigy childs stuff. Thus, the well known regection from my first crush broke me really hard.
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John
I have felt most insecure because a parent robbed me of support and attention from my other parent. I am an only child and I find it funny.
I am just a potential now, I want to explore gymnastics for the healthy amount of envy I have of people majestically moving their bodies both grounded and in the air. I am 21 and hopeful that life wouldn't give me too much debuffs lmao
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I have felt most insecure because a parent robbed me of support and attention from my other parent. I am an only child and I find it funny.
I am just a potential now, I want to explore gymnastics for the healthy amount of envy I have of people majestically moving their bodies both grounded and in the air. I am 21 and hopeful that life wouldn't give me too much debuffs lmao
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XFly170
Hey peoples! Dont feel bad about yourselves EVERYONES got insecurities. Everyonees been hurt by someone, everyones suffered trauma at one point or another. Dont let the fact that you can identify with some of these signs let you become even more insecure about yourself. No. Dont dwell on it. Accept it. Work on it. Improve it. AND BE HAPPY ABOUT YOURSELF! LIVE YOU LIFE!
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Hey peoples! Dont feel bad about yourselves EVERYONES got insecurities. Everyonees been hurt by someone, everyones suffered trauma at one point or another. Dont let the fact that you can identify with some of these signs let you become even more insecure about yourself. No. Dont dwell on it. Accept it. Work on it. Improve it. AND BE HAPPY ABOUT YOURSELF! LIVE YOU LIFE!
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Ochreache
this made me cry, to be honest these past years ive been self diagnosing myself. bipolar, depression, anxiety. so much more. but i knew it wasnt right and it is really not the illness i have. until lately i found myself being insecure on my boyfriend, i wasnt happy on his accomplisments nor my friends. i really hope i can be better for myself and others.
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this made me cry, to be honest these past years ive been self diagnosing myself. bipolar, depression, anxiety. so much more. but i knew it wasnt right and it is really not the illness i have. until lately i found myself being insecure on my boyfriend, i wasnt happy on his accomplisments nor my friends. i really hope i can be better for myself and others.
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David
Right now Im insecure about 8 and 9 because like I see everyone in my school in pictures together in a fun place and all my posts are in my bedroom
My insecurity is a mix of 8 and 9
Next year I start high school and while we are on summer break next year I hope to fight my insecurities and show a new image that Im happy with.
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Right now Im insecure about 8 and 9 because like I see everyone in my school in pictures together in a fun place and all my posts are in my bedroom
My insecurity is a mix of 8 and 9
Next year I start high school and while we are on summer break next year I hope to fight my insecurities and show a new image that Im happy with.
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Sam
So many of these are exactly what I've noticed in myself! I hate how competitive I am with people who have been nothing but sweet to me, and I'm constantly postponing the work required to achieve my dreams. I word vomit my plans and ideas to anyone who will listen, but I'm slow to achieve. How do I fix this insecurity in my self?
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So many of these are exactly what I've noticed in myself! I hate how competitive I am with people who have been nothing but sweet to me, and I'm constantly postponing the work required to achieve my dreams. I word vomit my plans and ideas to anyone who will listen, but I'm slow to achieve. How do I fix this insecurity in my self?
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rayy
Whenever I try to bring up my insecurities in front of my friends, they always start talking about themselves and tell me that im perfect and i don't need to be over dramatic. Honestly it really hurts, i'm always there for them when they feel insecure or sad. I really hope somebody listens to me
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Whenever I try to bring up my insecurities in front of my friends, they always start talking about themselves and tell me that im perfect and i don't need to be over dramatic. Honestly it really hurts, i'm always there for them when they feel insecure or sad. I really hope somebody listens to me
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NotAMobilePlayer
Im insecure about my body weight body height im already in the 10th grade this year and i expected to be more taller than i was before and everyday when i look at myself in the mirror i feel like i want to hide myself from the world because im not how the people want me to look like
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Im insecure about my body weight body height im already in the 10th grade this year and i expected to be more taller than i was before and everyday when i look at myself in the mirror i feel like i want to hide myself from the world because im not how the people want me to look like
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education
I'm insecure about my skill and intelligence. I feel like I can't do anything good enough, because I feel like I lack something. But I want to change that and be a better person, I'm afraid of losing my people because I'm insecure but it got be better!
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I'm insecure about my skill and intelligence. I feel like I can't do anything good enough, because I feel like I lack something. But I want to change that and be a better person, I'm afraid of losing my people because I'm insecure but it got be better!
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Exosphere
Man I insecure but I am improving. I am not too kind to anyone and stopped pleasing others and starting. Thinking of only( lol I got several critiquing after I decided to be myself)
. I am competitive but not envious anymore iam working out daily.
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Man I insecure but I am improving. I am not too kind to anyone and stopped pleasing others and starting. Thinking of only( lol I got several critiquing after I decided to be myself)
. I am competitive but not envious anymore iam working out daily.
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Jesus
What to say to her in text when she says she is ugly?
I always used to say she isn't and tells her she is pretty but it never worked n it always upsets her more
I will listen and understand her but what m I gonna respond in text next?
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What to say to her in text when she says she is ugly?
I always used to say she isn't and tells her she is pretty but it never worked n it always upsets her more
I will listen and understand her but what m I gonna respond in text next?
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LoKaioh123
I'm insecure about not being enough. I'm 26 years old and feel like a total failure. All my friends have finished their education and bought their first apartments, while I keep stumbling about, not knowing what do do with my life.
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I'm insecure about not being enough. I'm 26 years old and feel like a total failure. All my friends have finished their education and bought their first apartments, while I keep stumbling about, not knowing what do do with my life.
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suzie
I'm so insecure about my face
I always wear a mask to hide my face
I suffocate under the mask but can't help because I can't get over my insecurity
Sometimes I just don't feel like living anymore
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I'm so insecure about my face
I always wear a mask to hide my face
I suffocate under the mask but can't help because I can't get over my insecurity
Sometimes I just don't feel like living anymore
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Drina
I had some of those insecurities, including the need to please others. They took advantage of my niceness. I began to build resentment which lasted from my childhood to the first half of my young adulthood.
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I had some of those insecurities, including the need to please others. They took advantage of my niceness. I began to build resentment which lasted from my childhood to the first half of my young adulthood.
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dori
I always try my best to be contented because someone said happiness isn't anywhere but here, but whenever i stay up late and alone, i can't help but overthink and be insecure.
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I always try my best to be contented because someone said happiness isn't anywhere but here, but whenever i stay up late and alone, i can't help but overthink and be insecure.
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sebastian
The feelings of not being good enough, people pleasing and perfectionism are my biggest ones yet. Meditation, Journaling and self reflection has allowed me to see this.
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The feelings of not being good enough, people pleasing and perfectionism are my biggest ones yet. Meditation, Journaling and self reflection has allowed me to see this.
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Marz
These are all my insecurities, but 7 and 9 are what I think/do most. And my body too I've been insecure about that, and I got over it a little but I'm still insecure abt it.
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These are all my insecurities, but 7 and 9 are what I think/do most. And my body too I've been insecure about that, and I got over it a little but I'm still insecure abt it.
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Eduard
My insecurities:
-my pimples
-me being fat
-me being tall
- jealous of my cousins
- not smart enough
- my voice
-me being broke
- me being lazy
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My insecurities:
-my pimples
-me being fat
-me being tall
- jealous of my cousins
- not smart enough
- my voice
-me being broke
- me being lazy
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