8 Signs Someone Might Be a Player
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Date: 2023-08-20
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AK
I watched this video because I wanted to know if people saw me as a player. Even though I didnt feel like I was trying to be. Yes its true Deep down inside I dont wanna be a player. But like the feeling of being liked and accepted by girls. It became mentally draining trying to keep up with all of them, and making sure I dont lose their interest. So rather than focusing my love on just one. In the end I ended up with none. Im lost in life and dont really know what I am looking for in a woman. I guess I just dont wanna feel lonely. Not that I actually see my future with them. Or sometimes if multiple females see me attractive, I dont know who to choose. Cause they are all pretty, and dont want to miss my opportunity to date them and for them to find someone else, all because Im focus on just one. So there; I guess I gave a point of view of what happens in the mind of a player.
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I watched this video because I wanted to know if people saw me as a player. Even though I didnt feel like I was trying to be. Yes its true Deep down inside I dont wanna be a player. But like the feeling of being liked and accepted by girls. It became mentally draining trying to keep up with all of them, and making sure I dont lose their interest. So rather than focusing my love on just one. In the end I ended up with none. Im lost in life and dont really know what I am looking for in a woman. I guess I just dont wanna feel lonely. Not that I actually see my future with them. Or sometimes if multiple females see me attractive, I dont know who to choose. Cause they are all pretty, and dont want to miss my opportunity to date them and for them to find someone else, all because Im focus on just one. So there; I guess I gave a point of view of what happens in the mind of a player.
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Bannya
Not all players are so easy to spot. Some players are actually empathetic enough to pay attention to your non verbal behaviour and say or do things that are guaranteed to affect you specifically. And change their game accordingly as per the female they are dealing with.
I'll be lying if I said I have been in relationships, but most of the time I stay away from males and don't speak with them unless necessary. And I'm always on the lookout if a particular male appears flirty or appears too nice while speaking with me.
Despite all this, I had to encounter 2 players, who actually took the time to study my behaviour and then start speaking and making their move.
So ppl, please be careful
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Not all players are so easy to spot. Some players are actually empathetic enough to pay attention to your non verbal behaviour and say or do things that are guaranteed to affect you specifically. And change their game accordingly as per the female they are dealing with.
I'll be lying if I said I have been in relationships, but most of the time I stay away from males and don't speak with them unless necessary. And I'm always on the lookout if a particular male appears flirty or appears too nice while speaking with me.
Despite all this, I had to encounter 2 players, who actually took the time to study my behaviour and then start speaking and making their move.
So ppl, please be careful
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cheryl
I related to all of the above. The only thing that kept me going was that he was good at dangling the friendship carrot. He said he didn't want to be in a relationship but that we would always be best friends. When he finally moved away I never heard another word. So I believe he used the promise of being a true friend always no matter what as a carrot to keep me on track while he needed to use me. Thanks for your insightful videos it completely verified what went on in my life
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I related to all of the above. The only thing that kept me going was that he was good at dangling the friendship carrot. He said he didn't want to be in a relationship but that we would always be best friends. When he finally moved away I never heard another word. So I believe he used the promise of being a true friend always no matter what as a carrot to keep me on track while he needed to use me. Thanks for your insightful videos it completely verified what went on in my life
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Joanne
So I've been talkin to a guy for a few wks, had 2 dates, he flaked then 2wks later he txt apologising so we agreed to be pals.
He says he's been single for years but. Looking his actions and how he txts etc he's showing all the signs of a player! He says he's not up for casual but also not ready for a relationship He's bigged me up, like love bombed me. Before he flaked. Now he's flirting again. I guess he's lying and he really is a player!
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So I've been talkin to a guy for a few wks, had 2 dates, he flaked then 2wks later he txt apologising so we agreed to be pals.
He says he's been single for years but. Looking his actions and how he txts etc he's showing all the signs of a player! He says he's not up for casual but also not ready for a relationship He's bigged me up, like love bombed me. Before he flaked. Now he's flirting again. I guess he's lying and he really is a player!
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Quincy
Before: I don't know if im a player. I don't want to be.
After:
1. No
2. nope I dont complement many people (not in a mean way tho too shy)
3. NOPE!
4. well I do that but I don't like talking that much so that's why I do that
5. I'm addicted to my phone but I would never cheat.
6. what no!
7. Nope. I would love to get to know someone unless my anxiety is too high
8. Nope
9. of course not!
10. nope.
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Before: I don't know if im a player. I don't want to be.
After:
1. No
2. nope I dont complement many people (not in a mean way tho too shy)
3. NOPE!
4. well I do that but I don't like talking that much so that's why I do that
5. I'm addicted to my phone but I would never cheat.
6. what no!
7. Nope. I would love to get to know someone unless my anxiety is too high
8. Nope
9. of course not!
10. nope.
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No
But, always remember this if you encounter one of these people. Never to take revenge, that way, they win as well. You need to forgive and forget, in order to not let you absorb that negative attitude, and make it as your own, remember that when you didn't accept that negativity, it'll go back to them when you don't accept it, just like mirror reflects light!
Stay good!
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But, always remember this if you encounter one of these people. Never to take revenge, that way, they win as well. You need to forgive and forget, in order to not let you absorb that negative attitude, and make it as your own, remember that when you didn't accept that negativity, it'll go back to them when you don't accept it, just like mirror reflects light!
Stay good!
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Chasey
This is why I have learned to avoid such encounters from boys. I have experienced this quite often and sometimes not in a good way. It stopped when I would defend myself and give signs that I did not want to date or kick their butt if they tried to take it too far. Throughout the school years, boys became skeptical of me which was my plan to achieve
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This is why I have learned to avoid such encounters from boys. I have experienced this quite often and sometimes not in a good way. It stopped when I would defend myself and give signs that I did not want to date or kick their butt if they tried to take it too far. Throughout the school years, boys became skeptical of me which was my plan to achieve
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Lavender
I fell for a player cus he was so handsome. If I had known he was a player in the first place. then ofc I wouldnt have. He was just so over confident, it just wasnt right then I knew what he really was. That was a red flag. I just wish he wasnt a player than he would be perfect for me!
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I fell for a player cus he was so handsome. If I had known he was a player in the first place. then ofc I wouldnt have. He was just so over confident, it just wasnt right then I knew what he really was. That was a red flag. I just wish he wasnt a player than he would be perfect for me!
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Magdalena
I am with such person since very long n each type he takes on such steps n put my daughters lives at risk, I need each time to expose him, because when snakes, cobra n python he brings I need help more assistance in all sides, where with only my life I can handle him too easily.
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I am with such person since very long n each type he takes on such steps n put my daughters lives at risk, I need each time to expose him, because when snakes, cobra n python he brings I need help more assistance in all sides, where with only my life I can handle him too easily.
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Gaming
Why am i a player
I mean I don't want to be like this but i can't explain it i think i am scared to with that one person i am really sad right now cause that person saud that I can't be with one person. I am playing with everyone's feelings
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Why am i a player
I mean I don't want to be like this but i can't explain it i think i am scared to with that one person i am really sad right now cause that person saud that I can't be with one person. I am playing with everyone's feelings
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KAYO!
Too late
The person I liked liked me back. I really did like them though then a month later it was on to the next girl. the popular one everyone loved her: / Im still a little hurt about this.
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Too late
The person I liked liked me back. I really did like them though then a month later it was on to the next girl. the popular one everyone loved her: / Im still a little hurt about this.
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Teora
Help I've been played before and it hurts so bad the fact that they use me and after getting back with someone they just left you like it was nothing and didn't bother to even contact you. Lmao
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Help I've been played before and it hurts so bad the fact that they use me and after getting back with someone they just left you like it was nothing and didn't bother to even contact you. Lmao
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Lisa
I met a player for 5month, he seems to get back to his ex, but tell me dont overthinking and he still loves me but not ready relationship yet. Ay. how can a person act soo selfish.
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I met a player for 5month, he seems to get back to his ex, but tell me dont overthinking and he still loves me but not ready relationship yet. Ay. how can a person act soo selfish.
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Lithsie
They never do serious relationships, say love is shit, imagining things, no boundaries, multiple girls on line, obsessed only with their looks, I don't think they are good tbh!
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They never do serious relationships, say love is shit, imagining things, no boundaries, multiple girls on line, obsessed only with their looks, I don't think they are good tbh!
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JuaronTheMan
I like how in the video they keep saying they but in reality they talking about men. Like women aint players too. Women been playing the game since the beginning of time
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I like how in the video they keep saying they but in reality they talking about men. Like women aint players too. Women been playing the game since the beginning of time
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Sharky
I like a player and he knows it. Im trying to not like him but I dont know how to. Hes awesome but totally leading me on, he does it to every girl. Any tips?
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I like a player and he knows it. Im trying to not like him but I dont know how to. Hes awesome but totally leading me on, he does it to every girl. Any tips?
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Glitzs
Yes I had 2 dates with a guy who was exactly like this. I blocked him for my own sanity. massive player massive ego, Im not sticking around for that!
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Yes I had 2 dates with a guy who was exactly like this. I blocked him for my own sanity. massive player massive ego, Im not sticking around for that!
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Nicole
They are too quiet about everything, they accuse you of the things they are doing, they tell a story about their day and leave certain details out.
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They are too quiet about everything, they accuse you of the things they are doing, they tell a story about their day and leave certain details out.
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IVAN
I think I'm a player but I didn't chose to be one I just like to be single and I'm a very pretty boy so woman approach me all the time.
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I think I'm a player but I didn't chose to be one I just like to be single and I'm a very pretty boy so woman approach me all the time.
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Klaire
Could a player also be someone who jumps from one girl to the next, and you see them doing the same things they use to do with you?
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Could a player also be someone who jumps from one girl to the next, and you see them doing the same things they use to do with you?
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Whatever
Well my ex was a player he told me that he still liked me but was in a relationship right after 2 days of saying that. whoops.
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Well my ex was a player he told me that he still liked me but was in a relationship right after 2 days of saying that. whoops.
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Nus
Who wants a boyfriend I just want a best friend doesn't matter it is a boy or girl
I don't have a best friend to go crazy with
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Who wants a boyfriend I just want a best friend doesn't matter it is a boy or girl
I don't have a best friend to go crazy with
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blossomkitty
I wish I had this a few years ago when I didn't know anything about that. Learned a very harsh lesson about men
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I wish I had this a few years ago when I didn't know anything about that. Learned a very harsh lesson about men
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Manas
Why is that you guys have always portrayed a man to be a player. Disappointing as it might convey bad opinion on men
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Why is that you guys have always portrayed a man to be a player. Disappointing as it might convey bad opinion on men
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Patrick
In the song: DREAMS by Stevie Nicks (Fleetwood Mac) there's the line: Players only LOVE you when they're playing.
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In the song: DREAMS by Stevie Nicks (Fleetwood Mac) there's the line: Players only LOVE you when they're playing.
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