Why Are Some People Passive Aggressive?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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John
Is this passive-aggressive? Because I swear, I didn't mean it to be. To start off with a backstory, my boss was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift, because she didn't think I could manage alone. I'll admit, I am much better with a helping hand and guide, but come on, that's no excuse for being insensitive. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up a coffee service. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm yes, because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her, and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. I regretfully didn't stand up for myself because I was too intimidated.
The next day, I visited the workplace to get the thermos I had left there. I ran into my boss and the event organizer from the dining office. She said, Hi, John. Are you working today? I responded, Originally, but [boss] was very upset when I signed up for the coffee service. She said she didn't think I could manage it by myself. And then my boss gave me a look. She confronted me the next day at work for my comment. But I don't get it. What did I say wrong? _Technically, _ what I said is true. She did say what I claimed. The truth is the truth, so by that logic, she's got nothing to resent. If my brother told my neighbor, John was very mad when I lost his phone charger, I wouldn't be embarrassed or upset. That's true. I was very mad. So? Why would I resent his comment on that? Same thing with my boss about my comment on what she was mad about.
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Is this passive-aggressive? Because I swear, I didn't mean it to be. To start off with a backstory, my boss was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift, because she didn't think I could manage alone. I'll admit, I am much better with a helping hand and guide, but come on, that's no excuse for being insensitive. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up a coffee service. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm yes, because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her, and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. I regretfully didn't stand up for myself because I was too intimidated.
The next day, I visited the workplace to get the thermos I had left there. I ran into my boss and the event organizer from the dining office. She said, Hi, John. Are you working today? I responded, Originally, but [boss] was very upset when I signed up for the coffee service. She said she didn't think I could manage it by myself. And then my boss gave me a look. She confronted me the next day at work for my comment. But I don't get it. What did I say wrong? _Technically, _ what I said is true. She did say what I claimed. The truth is the truth, so by that logic, she's got nothing to resent. If my brother told my neighbor, John was very mad when I lost his phone charger, I wouldn't be embarrassed or upset. That's true. I was very mad. So? Why would I resent his comment on that? Same thing with my boss about my comment on what she was mad about.
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Daniel
I'd call myself moodswing aggressor.
Gotta be honest, I am often the class clown, since it satisfies me that others laugh due to something I did. However, I do have another face besides that make the class and most people around you happy. I can loose myself extemly quick, with a simple provocation being enough.
I never really hid my anger after my trauma, which was after my mother's divorce with my dad. She got a new guy in just a few months after the divorce, which she called the true man. That! #$% used to shout at me for the smallest things, and limited my literal time of playing with things such as LEGO. He wasn't even married with my mother yet, so he shouldn't even be able to do that, but I was still too young, so I didn't understand that. So I became afraid to show emotions. One day, I let all my emotions out at once after a breakdown, (I was around 9 at that time) and I told especially my mother the things that bothered me. She was so shocked, that she just straight away kicked him out.
It was then when I realized, that hiding emotions isn't good. However, I took hiding emotions like a absolute no-go, so I never hid anything. When anyone at school even tried to make fun of me, I started throwing punches and chairs at them without hesitation. My class teacher usually helped me to calm down before I did that. Now I'm in highschool, where it's even worse due to puberty. My friends are still confused about my behavior, because I can change from a happy face to a beast in seconds.
When it comes to insulting personal things about me or my family, I even start twitching before attacking even harder. Also, it does not matter if it's a boy or girl doin' it. Both genders get the same. I still act like this today. And I have no regrets of beating the asses of the ones who wanted to mess around with me.
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I'd call myself moodswing aggressor.
Gotta be honest, I am often the class clown, since it satisfies me that others laugh due to something I did. However, I do have another face besides that make the class and most people around you happy. I can loose myself extemly quick, with a simple provocation being enough.
I never really hid my anger after my trauma, which was after my mother's divorce with my dad. She got a new guy in just a few months after the divorce, which she called the true man. That! #$% used to shout at me for the smallest things, and limited my literal time of playing with things such as LEGO. He wasn't even married with my mother yet, so he shouldn't even be able to do that, but I was still too young, so I didn't understand that. So I became afraid to show emotions. One day, I let all my emotions out at once after a breakdown, (I was around 9 at that time) and I told especially my mother the things that bothered me. She was so shocked, that she just straight away kicked him out.
It was then when I realized, that hiding emotions isn't good. However, I took hiding emotions like a absolute no-go, so I never hid anything. When anyone at school even tried to make fun of me, I started throwing punches and chairs at them without hesitation. My class teacher usually helped me to calm down before I did that. Now I'm in highschool, where it's even worse due to puberty. My friends are still confused about my behavior, because I can change from a happy face to a beast in seconds.
When it comes to insulting personal things about me or my family, I even start twitching before attacking even harder. Also, it does not matter if it's a boy or girl doin' it. Both genders get the same. I still act like this today. And I have no regrets of beating the asses of the ones who wanted to mess around with me.
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Jaden
The thing that I don't understand, is why it's such a big deal and why people think it's so negative to be passive aggressive?
My friend has told me that I'm passive aggressive many times and I totally can see that, but I feel like it's a bit of a negative treat; a treat she may not like about me. Which is fine! But isn't being aggressive, or I suppose, assertive, worse! I'd rather not always confront people about my negative emotions and instead shell them in with sarcasm, back handed comments, or whatever else that forms passive aggressive behaviour.
I've only ever been called passive aggressive by a few people, no more than 5 I'd say. I've seen some examples of the behavioural online and I can definitely resonate with the feeling. I just don't enjoy being called that like there's something wrong with me! There isn't. Others have different ways of communicating. If I suddenly became more assertive, which I've tried to, people may view me as mean-spirited, rude, or lacking respect. If I become passive, I lose a part of me - as I'm rarely passive and I don't view passive behaviour as good behaviour, because that characteristic tends to avoid how they feel or show their feelings. Therefore, and I pose this question to anyone reading - what is sooooo bad about being passive aggressive?
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The thing that I don't understand, is why it's such a big deal and why people think it's so negative to be passive aggressive?
My friend has told me that I'm passive aggressive many times and I totally can see that, but I feel like it's a bit of a negative treat; a treat she may not like about me. Which is fine! But isn't being aggressive, or I suppose, assertive, worse! I'd rather not always confront people about my negative emotions and instead shell them in with sarcasm, back handed comments, or whatever else that forms passive aggressive behaviour.
I've only ever been called passive aggressive by a few people, no more than 5 I'd say. I've seen some examples of the behavioural online and I can definitely resonate with the feeling. I just don't enjoy being called that like there's something wrong with me! There isn't. Others have different ways of communicating. If I suddenly became more assertive, which I've tried to, people may view me as mean-spirited, rude, or lacking respect. If I become passive, I lose a part of me - as I'm rarely passive and I don't view passive behaviour as good behaviour, because that characteristic tends to avoid how they feel or show their feelings. Therefore, and I pose this question to anyone reading - what is sooooo bad about being passive aggressive?
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Hyunjinniezx
I have this History teacher that picks on me all the time even when I do nothing wrong and shes always saying Your so passive aggressive And theres that passive aggression again She only says it to me and me only and Last week all I did was not hear her say we were switching to pen and she said Switch you pen did you not hear me? And Im very very very very quiet in that class but I have an A/B grade and I just went to my backpack to grab a pen without saying anything and listening to her and she said There you go with the passive aggression and I got so pissed because one time I got called passive aggressive by her because I didnt hold down my paper while writing even though it wasnt moving and she told me to put my hand on it so it wouldnt move and I did and I still got called passive aggressive. After what she said about the pen thing she told me to come after class at break and gave me a lecture about how Im different and cant socialize like a normal human being and talked to me about how I cant Socialize with my peers and I say there in silence almost crying and I almost bursted out crying when she said I dont try and I never try and she started comparing me to my partner and after she just let me go and she ruined my day. Later that night I cried myself to sleep for an hour.
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I have this History teacher that picks on me all the time even when I do nothing wrong and shes always saying Your so passive aggressive And theres that passive aggression again She only says it to me and me only and Last week all I did was not hear her say we were switching to pen and she said Switch you pen did you not hear me? And Im very very very very quiet in that class but I have an A/B grade and I just went to my backpack to grab a pen without saying anything and listening to her and she said There you go with the passive aggression and I got so pissed because one time I got called passive aggressive by her because I didnt hold down my paper while writing even though it wasnt moving and she told me to put my hand on it so it wouldnt move and I did and I still got called passive aggressive. After what she said about the pen thing she told me to come after class at break and gave me a lecture about how Im different and cant socialize like a normal human being and talked to me about how I cant Socialize with my peers and I say there in silence almost crying and I almost bursted out crying when she said I dont try and I never try and she started comparing me to my partner and after she just let me go and she ruined my day. Later that night I cried myself to sleep for an hour.
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Zack
It is your responsibility as an adult to grow and strengthen yourself and to understand yourself more. It's your responsibility to develop courage and learn how to stand against people that are using you to boost their own power. This is the adult world we live in and no, it is not fair. But nobody can help you but yourself. It is a difficult and often painful process (growth) but this is your only life and should be your top priority, because the older you get without figuring these things out, the worse it can get. I spend a lot of my life being a naive people pleaser. It led me to deep depression and social anxiety, self hatred, and resentment. Absolute hell. Now I am very keen at reading people, I know how to navigate social situations and deal with manipulative/passive aggressive people to the point where they go from trying to tear me down to respecting me. It takes time but you can move forward a little bit every day. It's really important to give up any bad habits and addictions you have because they rob you of your focus and make it difficult to move forward.
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It is your responsibility as an adult to grow and strengthen yourself and to understand yourself more. It's your responsibility to develop courage and learn how to stand against people that are using you to boost their own power. This is the adult world we live in and no, it is not fair. But nobody can help you but yourself. It is a difficult and often painful process (growth) but this is your only life and should be your top priority, because the older you get without figuring these things out, the worse it can get. I spend a lot of my life being a naive people pleaser. It led me to deep depression and social anxiety, self hatred, and resentment. Absolute hell. Now I am very keen at reading people, I know how to navigate social situations and deal with manipulative/passive aggressive people to the point where they go from trying to tear me down to respecting me. It takes time but you can move forward a little bit every day. It's really important to give up any bad habits and addictions you have because they rob you of your focus and make it difficult to move forward.
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education
its depressing cause i already i cannot trust people cuz unfortunately my friends were like this. when someone is passive aggressive towards me i can feel it im not dumb but the only thing idk is why are they so god damn passive aggressive. i aint a mind reader. there could be alot of conflict resolved if we just had been honest our feelings. i cannot stand people who are sneaky and dishonest. my whole life ive been surrounded by people like this. giving me side eyes, vague comments and specially putting me on the spot out of nowhere. it fked me psychologically growing up and thanks to people like this i am now paranoid of everyone so thank you ig you mfs got what you wanted. misery loves company
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its depressing cause i already i cannot trust people cuz unfortunately my friends were like this. when someone is passive aggressive towards me i can feel it im not dumb but the only thing idk is why are they so god damn passive aggressive. i aint a mind reader. there could be alot of conflict resolved if we just had been honest our feelings. i cannot stand people who are sneaky and dishonest. my whole life ive been surrounded by people like this. giving me side eyes, vague comments and specially putting me on the spot out of nowhere. it fked me psychologically growing up and thanks to people like this i am now paranoid of everyone so thank you ig you mfs got what you wanted. misery loves company
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education
A friend's mom taught her passive-aggression is safer cause her father would demand or order the mom to do something. If she said no or I don't have time, he'd rage - throw plates, slam doors even punched a hole in the wall. So she always said ok whatever you want honey and then would forget to do it, clothes accidentally got burned when ironing, a red sock accidentally got in the white laundry cause he had a fit about wanting his white tshirts and socks whiter. He wore pink instead of less white for weeks and she smirked about it. Complained dinner wasn't on the table when he came home and not only did she accidentally burn it but set the curtains on fire too. It was revenge on her part.
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A friend's mom taught her passive-aggression is safer cause her father would demand or order the mom to do something. If she said no or I don't have time, he'd rage - throw plates, slam doors even punched a hole in the wall. So she always said ok whatever you want honey and then would forget to do it, clothes accidentally got burned when ironing, a red sock accidentally got in the white laundry cause he had a fit about wanting his white tshirts and socks whiter. He wore pink instead of less white for weeks and she smirked about it. Complained dinner wasn't on the table when he came home and not only did she accidentally burn it but set the curtains on fire too. It was revenge on her part.
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Nick
I struggle with passive aggressive behavior unfortunately. My parents frequently screamed at each other, and my yelled at and hit both me and my sister. At one point he even slapped me on the face for talking back to him. They were both products of toxic upbringings themselves. Unfortunately, I tend to attach myself to people who belittle and berate me because Ive come to believe that this is normal behavior, and I struggle to confront people in person. My last friendship I ended over text and blocked her number before she had the chance to reply. Im been to therapy, am on medication, and am trying unlearn my toxic behaviors, but its slow progress, and I need help.
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I struggle with passive aggressive behavior unfortunately. My parents frequently screamed at each other, and my yelled at and hit both me and my sister. At one point he even slapped me on the face for talking back to him. They were both products of toxic upbringings themselves. Unfortunately, I tend to attach myself to people who belittle and berate me because Ive come to believe that this is normal behavior, and I struggle to confront people in person. My last friendship I ended over text and blocked her number before she had the chance to reply. Im been to therapy, am on medication, and am trying unlearn my toxic behaviors, but its slow progress, and I need help.
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Barnabs
Im quite the opposite, i never hesitate to confront anyone if I feel ive been disrespected or feel injustice, i even interfere when a complete stranger to me is being treated poorly. I dont hesitate to confront even my boss or costumers, needless to say it is in proper way.
I also like to punch or kick objects if im stressed to discharge the emotion and it annoys me when people point out that im agressive and it bothers them. So what? Thats how i deal with stress, in 5 minutes ill calm down. Other than that im a cool and friendly person, i treat every single soul with respect as long as they do the same.
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Im quite the opposite, i never hesitate to confront anyone if I feel ive been disrespected or feel injustice, i even interfere when a complete stranger to me is being treated poorly. I dont hesitate to confront even my boss or costumers, needless to say it is in proper way.
I also like to punch or kick objects if im stressed to discharge the emotion and it annoys me when people point out that im agressive and it bothers them. So what? Thats how i deal with stress, in 5 minutes ill calm down. Other than that im a cool and friendly person, i treat every single soul with respect as long as they do the same.
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Angeline
I think passive-aggressive behaviors can arise in situations where the person who is upset does not feel they are in a safe place to talk about it. Those in a relationship with someone who doesn't exactly promote free speech may turn to other avenues of release. Deleting people from social media accounts, not doing a chore that benefits the offender, keeping conversation short and pointed are all behaviors that are technically passive-aggressive yet seem the only way to function for someone who must keep their feelings to themselves and build up walls between them and the offender.
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I think passive-aggressive behaviors can arise in situations where the person who is upset does not feel they are in a safe place to talk about it. Those in a relationship with someone who doesn't exactly promote free speech may turn to other avenues of release. Deleting people from social media accounts, not doing a chore that benefits the offender, keeping conversation short and pointed are all behaviors that are technically passive-aggressive yet seem the only way to function for someone who must keep their feelings to themselves and build up walls between them and the offender.
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Will
Despite the negative connotations, this behavior can be an effective defense against those that enjoy sabotaging other's achievements. True, like any weapon, it has destructive capabilities, yet protective qualities if one can remove, or contain the revenge emotion. Confrontation directly can impose many untended consequences, with detrimental collateral elements that will not be received well regardless of open discussion, or attempting cordial expression. I found PA behavior by others most extreme while serving in the military.
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Despite the negative connotations, this behavior can be an effective defense against those that enjoy sabotaging other's achievements. True, like any weapon, it has destructive capabilities, yet protective qualities if one can remove, or contain the revenge emotion. Confrontation directly can impose many untended consequences, with detrimental collateral elements that will not be received well regardless of open discussion, or attempting cordial expression. I found PA behavior by others most extreme while serving in the military.
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line
I truly detest passive aggressive people. Passive aggressive people are not interested in finding solutions to their problems. I also realise that they don't appreciate me being honest about my feelings, cuz to them, the right thing to do is to bottle it so that you won't be a burden to everyone around you. Yesterday, I just called everyone out for not being communicative of their expectations and being petty. Everyone has a problem with everyone else, but no one is interested in solving it.
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I truly detest passive aggressive people. Passive aggressive people are not interested in finding solutions to their problems. I also realise that they don't appreciate me being honest about my feelings, cuz to them, the right thing to do is to bottle it so that you won't be a burden to everyone around you. Yesterday, I just called everyone out for not being communicative of their expectations and being petty. Everyone has a problem with everyone else, but no one is interested in solving it.
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Prolific
My passive aggressive came from people being angry all the time, but in that moment I found that I cant change people, I have to see them for who they are and what they show me. The level of disrespect was so extreme and put way too much pressure on me but without a doubt god got me. Im happier now knowing that niceness is a weakness and kindness is a gift and I wont change to fit in. Moral of the story is Ive learnt to handle people and situations how they present themselves to me.
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My passive aggressive came from people being angry all the time, but in that moment I found that I cant change people, I have to see them for who they are and what they show me. The level of disrespect was so extreme and put way too much pressure on me but without a doubt god got me. Im happier now knowing that niceness is a weakness and kindness is a gift and I wont change to fit in. Moral of the story is Ive learnt to handle people and situations how they present themselves to me.
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education
Wow, this is exactly what happened at my former job. I have several health conditions simmilar to ADHD, anxiety disorder, and depression. People thought I was intentionally being passive aggressive which lead to workplace bullying. (Not everyone though, some people who I was able to connect with were nice)
I know I'm being hypothetical but sometimes I wish we could communicate telephatically so there would be no misunderstandings in the first place. Thank you for this video.
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Wow, this is exactly what happened at my former job. I have several health conditions simmilar to ADHD, anxiety disorder, and depression. People thought I was intentionally being passive aggressive which lead to workplace bullying. (Not everyone though, some people who I was able to connect with were nice)
I know I'm being hypothetical but sometimes I wish we could communicate telephatically so there would be no misunderstandings in the first place. Thank you for this video.
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education
It was really good and interesting, after my mother died yeas ago i become super aggressive unfortunately and i could be nice but if something get out control i stated hurt my self( phisycal ) and Hurting other with words ( sometime even without knowing it ) when I'm angry i do something i enjoy like reading books or watching something and i really try to be nicer but every day its getting hard and harder to be not angry
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It was really good and interesting, after my mother died yeas ago i become super aggressive unfortunately and i could be nice but if something get out control i stated hurt my self( phisycal ) and Hurting other with words ( sometime even without knowing it ) when I'm angry i do something i enjoy like reading books or watching something and i really try to be nicer but every day its getting hard and harder to be not angry
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Carmella
I work with a woman who constantly had those passive aggressive comments towards me: I was older than her i was 55 she was 47 she used to make comments about age. old people. old old old. However she copied me in many ways. how I dressed. how I do my hair. etc etc. Soon everybody in the office came out with the same comments. I ended up living after almost 2 years. There were days that i wanted to cry in that office.
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I work with a woman who constantly had those passive aggressive comments towards me: I was older than her i was 55 she was 47 she used to make comments about age. old people. old old old. However she copied me in many ways. how I dressed. how I do my hair. etc etc. Soon everybody in the office came out with the same comments. I ended up living after almost 2 years. There were days that i wanted to cry in that office.
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Lina
Someone called me passive aggressive today, and after looking into it, I think I am. I realized that I acted like this my whole life. Im surprised that no one has pointed it out earlier. I dont know how to get rid of this habit because I dont want people to think Im mad at them, but I do want them to know that they were in the wrong and should feel bad. I just dont know how to stand up for myself and express my emotions.
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Someone called me passive aggressive today, and after looking into it, I think I am. I realized that I acted like this my whole life. Im surprised that no one has pointed it out earlier. I dont know how to get rid of this habit because I dont want people to think Im mad at them, but I do want them to know that they were in the wrong and should feel bad. I just dont know how to stand up for myself and express my emotions.
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Jack_of_trade8
Our older sister used to punish us very cruelly whenever we express our feelings like anger, rebellious act etc.
Which result in bottling up of the emotions and from the past few months in my self improvement journey i have found out date I'm really passive aggressive, and after finding out that i was right I'll try to eliminate this behavior.
Thank you psychtogo
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Our older sister used to punish us very cruelly whenever we express our feelings like anger, rebellious act etc.
Which result in bottling up of the emotions and from the past few months in my self improvement journey i have found out date I'm really passive aggressive, and after finding out that i was right I'll try to eliminate this behavior.
Thank you psychtogo
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Rocky
Passive aggressive is used so much now because people are now being restraint from saying what they want because the society has put so many restrictions on what you should say what you shouldn't even against some wrong behavior so people become passive aggressive because they don't want to be ridiculed or termed as some ist phobe or insecure and fragile
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Passive aggressive is used so much now because people are now being restraint from saying what they want because the society has put so many restrictions on what you should say what you shouldn't even against some wrong behavior so people become passive aggressive because they don't want to be ridiculed or termed as some ist phobe or insecure and fragile
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GraffitiTurtle
I was recently told that I was passive aggressive and got really defensive because I didnt believe it, but after looking into it later I basically had an oh shit moment because it describes so much of my behaviors that I never noticed before Im lowkey annoyed that I wasnt called out on this sooner but ig thats the affect it has huh
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I was recently told that I was passive aggressive and got really defensive because I didnt believe it, but after looking into it later I basically had an oh shit moment because it describes so much of my behaviors that I never noticed before Im lowkey annoyed that I wasnt called out on this sooner but ig thats the affect it has huh
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jad
I think also the corporate world, inter-dependency between so many individuals, these allow us all to become a bit PA. A person ends up having so many fronts to keep up with and cannot afford sabotaging precious connections by direct aggressiveness. But anger is here and finds its way out in many ways including PA.
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I think also the corporate world, inter-dependency between so many individuals, these allow us all to become a bit PA. A person ends up having so many fronts to keep up with and cannot afford sabotaging precious connections by direct aggressiveness. But anger is here and finds its way out in many ways including PA.
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Sneha
Whenever I get angry, my family always gets angry upon me for being short tempered and if I continue to argue they unite and low down me and at last they say ' you wasted our time and that you are responsible for making our mood bad
I mean even their behaviour is aggressive than why do they blame me
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Whenever I get angry, my family always gets angry upon me for being short tempered and if I continue to argue they unite and low down me and at last they say ' you wasted our time and that you are responsible for making our mood bad
I mean even their behaviour is aggressive than why do they blame me
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Trevor
Lions dont lose sleep over the opinions of sheep, all the sheep talk about how they want to kill the lion, they will torment him through the cage but once the cage is open they soon shut up! Moral of the story is why waste your time worrying about someone that is so insignificant and insecure
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Lions dont lose sleep over the opinions of sheep, all the sheep talk about how they want to kill the lion, they will torment him through the cage but once the cage is open they soon shut up! Moral of the story is why waste your time worrying about someone that is so insignificant and insecure
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Luis
My manager said lm passive aggressive because some customers at bar was watching me bartend l was busy making there drinks he said they staring at you l said l can careless if they stare at me blue in da face l poured more tequila on both Margaritas its was for ones that was staring at me lol
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My manager said lm passive aggressive because some customers at bar was watching me bartend l was busy making there drinks he said they staring at you l said l can careless if they stare at me blue in da face l poured more tequila on both Margaritas its was for ones that was staring at me lol
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Michael
Not wanting to be as angry as the jerk having a shot at you isn't necessarily passive aggressive maybe it's just not wanting to be like that person or around that vitriol, walking is often the best option. The word passive aggressive can be an ambiguous word as well as a weaponised word.
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Not wanting to be as angry as the jerk having a shot at you isn't necessarily passive aggressive maybe it's just not wanting to be like that person or around that vitriol, walking is often the best option. The word passive aggressive can be an ambiguous word as well as a weaponised word.
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