10 Signs You're Genuinely Kind Hearted
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Date: 2023-08-20
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REDsilk
I'm genuinely kind-hearted. but toxic people have used and abused me in my youth a lot due to my foolishness and lack of wisdom. now I'm still kind, but the difference is, if someone shows me they're toxic and will cause harm to others my kindness turns into something I don't like but have kinda accepted and lean into. I try to save others in the future, by teaching the person a lesson and making sure others stay clear of em in the future. I used to just, let things go, now I hold grudges and make people suffer.
Like, I had a manipulative narcissistic EX who cheated on me because I moved home to take care of my father who had a stroke. My father needed help recovering, I chose my father over her and abandoned her, at least that's how she saw it. anyway, so, she started dating ONE OF THE PEOPLE she cheated on me with, a month later, she cheated on that person. They didn't just break up silently like I did with her, they started causing drama and it spread to everyone in our community. I then waited, when they were going at it again, in front of everyone, I joined in and told our EX to sit down or shut up, brought up a few things - which were all true - to tarnish her rep and cause others to be like, hmm maybe this person isn't as good as they present themselves. I ended it by saying if she didn't sit down and shut up I'd start telling everyone who she really is, especially how she talks trash about everyone behind everyone's back. She immediately distanced herself from the situation and started doing damage control.
I was genuinely ready and prepared to escalate it much further, I was planning to go on a vendetta and make her life a living hell within the gray line of legality. but she did back down and nothing happened. This situation scared me, it showed me what I'm actually capable of and how far I'm actually willing to go. my kind-hearted nature is so strong that my love and desire to help and protect others pushes me to do hurtful things if I feel it's necessary. and I didn't like that, but I accepted it, especially after it yielded good results.
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I'm genuinely kind-hearted. but toxic people have used and abused me in my youth a lot due to my foolishness and lack of wisdom. now I'm still kind, but the difference is, if someone shows me they're toxic and will cause harm to others my kindness turns into something I don't like but have kinda accepted and lean into. I try to save others in the future, by teaching the person a lesson and making sure others stay clear of em in the future. I used to just, let things go, now I hold grudges and make people suffer.
Like, I had a manipulative narcissistic EX who cheated on me because I moved home to take care of my father who had a stroke. My father needed help recovering, I chose my father over her and abandoned her, at least that's how she saw it. anyway, so, she started dating ONE OF THE PEOPLE she cheated on me with, a month later, she cheated on that person. They didn't just break up silently like I did with her, they started causing drama and it spread to everyone in our community. I then waited, when they were going at it again, in front of everyone, I joined in and told our EX to sit down or shut up, brought up a few things - which were all true - to tarnish her rep and cause others to be like, hmm maybe this person isn't as good as they present themselves. I ended it by saying if she didn't sit down and shut up I'd start telling everyone who she really is, especially how she talks trash about everyone behind everyone's back. She immediately distanced herself from the situation and started doing damage control.
I was genuinely ready and prepared to escalate it much further, I was planning to go on a vendetta and make her life a living hell within the gray line of legality. but she did back down and nothing happened. This situation scared me, it showed me what I'm actually capable of and how far I'm actually willing to go. my kind-hearted nature is so strong that my love and desire to help and protect others pushes me to do hurtful things if I feel it's necessary. and I didn't like that, but I accepted it, especially after it yielded good results.
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Ankhara
I've always dome my best to be kind to people. I do tease people I know affectionately but I let them know if they don't like my jokes to let me know, because I always feel terrible if I hurt someone's feelings. I'm known as the girl who never stops smiling, I'm happy and want to spread happiness to others. I always try to listen to and understand people. I'm the kind of person who is playfully competitive but wants to make sure both of us are having fun, like when I play against someone at Mario Kart. I was always confused by people who were mean, I'd ask my parents why would anyone want to be mean, all it does is hurt others and make you feel bad, why would anyone want to feel bad? I just assumed that everyone felt bad about being mean, I was shocked and confused to find not everyone felt bad after being mean. The idea of harming others deliberately seems so alien to me, I always assume others are like me, which isn't always true. I do think though 99. 9% of people are wonderful and we live in a world full of hope a future of possibilities. I try to make friends with everyone, even if I don't always succeed.
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I've always dome my best to be kind to people. I do tease people I know affectionately but I let them know if they don't like my jokes to let me know, because I always feel terrible if I hurt someone's feelings. I'm known as the girl who never stops smiling, I'm happy and want to spread happiness to others. I always try to listen to and understand people. I'm the kind of person who is playfully competitive but wants to make sure both of us are having fun, like when I play against someone at Mario Kart. I was always confused by people who were mean, I'd ask my parents why would anyone want to be mean, all it does is hurt others and make you feel bad, why would anyone want to feel bad? I just assumed that everyone felt bad about being mean, I was shocked and confused to find not everyone felt bad after being mean. The idea of harming others deliberately seems so alien to me, I always assume others are like me, which isn't always true. I do think though 99. 9% of people are wonderful and we live in a world full of hope a future of possibilities. I try to make friends with everyone, even if I don't always succeed.
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Wendi
I SO DESPERATELY NEEDED THIS! Not letting people walk all over me and valuing myself are tough ones. Living with a toxic person often makes me flip sides from time to time. So just the fact that I can go from one to the other shows that my true nature can come through when it's allowed and available. Although I may take sides when it comes to genuinely bad people, I still hope that one day, even if some kind of an afterlife that they would heal and find genuine love and happiness instead of a life of extreme punishment, or one of constant denial or incapacity to see the bad ways they harm others and themselves. If no afterlife, at least perpetual rest is better than them living to hurt others and to continue down a path of destruction and harm to themselves.
Though, I think I may be a people pleaser and a genuinely kind person! Quite a freaky combination!
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I SO DESPERATELY NEEDED THIS! Not letting people walk all over me and valuing myself are tough ones. Living with a toxic person often makes me flip sides from time to time. So just the fact that I can go from one to the other shows that my true nature can come through when it's allowed and available. Although I may take sides when it comes to genuinely bad people, I still hope that one day, even if some kind of an afterlife that they would heal and find genuine love and happiness instead of a life of extreme punishment, or one of constant denial or incapacity to see the bad ways they harm others and themselves. If no afterlife, at least perpetual rest is better than them living to hurt others and to continue down a path of destruction and harm to themselves.
Though, I think I may be a people pleaser and a genuinely kind person! Quite a freaky combination!
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Danielsonic
I see this video with some cry.
I am a kind-haerted, but.
I am not the kind of type that dont take positions: I think that to not take positions is sign of no personality, so I learned to take EVERYTIME a position to show that I am no more the weak person that I was many years ago; but I take positions to help both sides to find a confrontation (without violence, obviously. I think that is egoism to not take positions, alas.
And then, I say that a think of the life is shit when I talk with people, but this doesn't mean that I am a bad person because I am truthfully: to lie to appear good at any cost. no, this means that we are not a good people but someone that not always could be worth of faith
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I see this video with some cry.
I am a kind-haerted, but.
I am not the kind of type that dont take positions: I think that to not take positions is sign of no personality, so I learned to take EVERYTIME a position to show that I am no more the weak person that I was many years ago; but I take positions to help both sides to find a confrontation (without violence, obviously. I think that is egoism to not take positions, alas.
And then, I say that a think of the life is shit when I talk with people, but this doesn't mean that I am a bad person because I am truthfully: to lie to appear good at any cost. no, this means that we are not a good people but someone that not always could be worth of faith
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Iron
im a nice person but i do feel soft lazi but i perfer usually like having people that can spend a whole hour of talking for emotional support in many ways think of a person lying on my lap not for being gae in all. but i wonder whi do males and some females love sleeping into one anothers lap does it help them speak about their problems in life. so i just wonder more and more i do like comforting others just for them to tell me about their problems. i feel more on a soft person like i do not like warism do not like racism and a bunch of others but i like talking to someone so i can hear a 1 hour long stori of them and their life and so i can support them.
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im a nice person but i do feel soft lazi but i perfer usually like having people that can spend a whole hour of talking for emotional support in many ways think of a person lying on my lap not for being gae in all. but i wonder whi do males and some females love sleeping into one anothers lap does it help them speak about their problems in life. so i just wonder more and more i do like comforting others just for them to tell me about their problems. i feel more on a soft person like i do not like warism do not like racism and a bunch of others but i like talking to someone so i can hear a 1 hour long stori of them and their life and so i can support them.
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Sarah
I had watched a video once, and learnt an important lesson that all of you should be aware of, that kindness and niceness are different things.
You might be always nice to other people, but sometimes while doing that you are not nice to yourself. Being kind would mean you don't hurt anyone including yourself, and confront people if you feel they are hurting you in some way. So, be kind people, not nice!
Btw I'm myself not the best advice-giver as I've not had much experience, but at least knowing this is better than knowing nothing!
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I had watched a video once, and learnt an important lesson that all of you should be aware of, that kindness and niceness are different things.
You might be always nice to other people, but sometimes while doing that you are not nice to yourself. Being kind would mean you don't hurt anyone including yourself, and confront people if you feel they are hurting you in some way. So, be kind people, not nice!
Btw I'm myself not the best advice-giver as I've not had much experience, but at least knowing this is better than knowing nothing!
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chromaticdragon
1. you value life more than material things check
2. you don't pick sides check
3. you are kind to everyone check
4. you go the extra mile check
5. you always want to understand others check
6. you don't pass judgement check
7. you treat others with respect check
8. you value yourself check. well, half check. Y'alls videos are helping me find value in what I have to give. :)
9. you compliment others when deserved check
10. you are trustworthy check
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1. you value life more than material things check
2. you don't pick sides check
3. you are kind to everyone check
4. you go the extra mile check
5. you always want to understand others check
6. you don't pass judgement check
7. you treat others with respect check
8. you value yourself check. well, half check. Y'alls videos are helping me find value in what I have to give. :)
9. you compliment others when deserved check
10. you are trustworthy check
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ROTBTFD
Im so nice to people they use me for my advantage all the time and gossip behind me but I dont really care until now Im going to explode I cried more often and get sad about how Im always there for people and they wont care when I need help. Im not good at speaking so Im quite blunt and the way I speak make people think I wish the worst happens to them and Im a rude person. My family thinks Im totally fine and now I gotta get teachers to help me.
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Im so nice to people they use me for my advantage all the time and gossip behind me but I dont really care until now Im going to explode I cried more often and get sad about how Im always there for people and they wont care when I need help. Im not good at speaking so Im quite blunt and the way I speak make people think I wish the worst happens to them and Im a rude person. My family thinks Im totally fine and now I gotta get teachers to help me.
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Riya
You're so creative! This art style can make someone's day and your soft voice is so powerful that it can motivate anyone to be kind!
Loved the video so much! And yes by these signs I know someone genuinely kind around me, She is my friend who is a topper in class but never rude or Shaggy and because of her support I was able to score well in my weakest subject i. e. Mathematics and helps me to distress too
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You're so creative! This art style can make someone's day and your soft voice is so powerful that it can motivate anyone to be kind!
Loved the video so much! And yes by these signs I know someone genuinely kind around me, She is my friend who is a topper in class but never rude or Shaggy and because of her support I was able to score well in my weakest subject i. e. Mathematics and helps me to distress too
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ghosting
i think i fit with all of these except number 1, im more materialistic because i feel like i have to be, material things are my source of happiness. its one of the sources of happiness for me because i dont have friends to make me happy so i fill the void of not having good social skills to be happy with materialistic things to cope with the absence of other things that could make me happy that i dont have
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i think i fit with all of these except number 1, im more materialistic because i feel like i have to be, material things are my source of happiness. its one of the sources of happiness for me because i dont have friends to make me happy so i fill the void of not having good social skills to be happy with materialistic things to cope with the absence of other things that could make me happy that i dont have
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jewel
i had this friend in middle school(only her nobody else talked to me)l who was like a really toxic person, i loved her with my heart, did every thing she said but i was getting use by her for her own benefit i was kind to every one but nobody was kind to me i was getting manipulated by her and it was pretty late when i realised that. so make sure to know who you are being kind to very well
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i had this friend in middle school(only her nobody else talked to me)l who was like a really toxic person, i loved her with my heart, did every thing she said but i was getting use by her for her own benefit i was kind to every one but nobody was kind to me i was getting manipulated by her and it was pretty late when i realised that. so make sure to know who you are being kind to very well
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Anonymous
I dont know about 3 and to a lesser extent 6 (because in practice I do judge a bit) but all in all Id say Im fundamentally good-hearted. But if you take too much advantage of it Im going to stop being nice with you after a while and I do think people in general could do with not actually turning the other cheek to people who dont necessarily deserve their kindness.
Nice video.
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I dont know about 3 and to a lesser extent 6 (because in practice I do judge a bit) but all in all Id say Im fundamentally good-hearted. But if you take too much advantage of it Im going to stop being nice with you after a while and I do think people in general could do with not actually turning the other cheek to people who dont necessarily deserve their kindness.
Nice video.
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Lira
i know someone who is REALLY, REALLY, REALLY kind hearted. the most kind-hearted person i know aside from my parents, she is so kind but she is always being taken advantage of and she doesn't notice. her best friend is somewhat, toxic. I wanna help her but whenever i try to reach out to her, the toxic people in my life try to put a wall between us
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i know someone who is REALLY, REALLY, REALLY kind hearted. the most kind-hearted person i know aside from my parents, she is so kind but she is always being taken advantage of and she doesn't notice. her best friend is somewhat, toxic. I wanna help her but whenever i try to reach out to her, the toxic people in my life try to put a wall between us
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michael
I think I am sometimes kind and sometimes not. I PARTIALLY relate to most signs. Basically, I try to be kind to people who respect and accept me. I can also be really mean to people who are mean to me. My goal is to be kind to those who reciprocate, which I think is normal for most people.
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I think I am sometimes kind and sometimes not. I PARTIALLY relate to most signs. Basically, I try to be kind to people who respect and accept me. I can also be really mean to people who are mean to me. My goal is to be kind to those who reciprocate, which I think is normal for most people.
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LxRaider
I am a teenager, and its really hard to be around other teenagers because no matter how hard I try, it is difficult to find goodness in the majority of them, but I have found some in the past year, and actively look for more people who I could be friends with that are also kindhearted.
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I am a teenager, and its really hard to be around other teenagers because no matter how hard I try, it is difficult to find goodness in the majority of them, but I have found some in the past year, and actively look for more people who I could be friends with that are also kindhearted.
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damson
i thought i was people pleasing and being controlling for such a long time cus of what other people told me about me now i realized i just have a kind heart. almost turned into the person i never intended to be just cus i thought i wasn't being healthy towards myself yet i was
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i thought i was people pleasing and being controlling for such a long time cus of what other people told me about me now i realized i just have a kind heart. almost turned into the person i never intended to be just cus i thought i wasn't being healthy towards myself yet i was
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AK47_51
Honestly I cant say it Im all these all the time without being biased but all Im gonna say is That all these things are things Ive always thought people should try and strive to do and act. I have the same expectations for myself but I know not everyone is perfect.
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Honestly I cant say it Im all these all the time without being biased but all Im gonna say is That all these things are things Ive always thought people should try and strive to do and act. I have the same expectations for myself but I know not everyone is perfect.
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Akeisha
I am genuienly am intruiged when you start putting jean and lisa from genshin in your vids I don't mean I am not interested in your vids! I was just admiring on how you put genshin characters in your vids, I am so sorry if I hurt your feelings in anyway
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I am genuienly am intruiged when you start putting jean and lisa from genshin in your vids I don't mean I am not interested in your vids! I was just admiring on how you put genshin characters in your vids, I am so sorry if I hurt your feelings in anyway
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Rafeef
Believe it or not I used to be this exact person and got treated so badly by everyone even my family! Yes it's not fair but it happens all the time around the world. Don't chaaaaange because of shitty people, change your environment
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Believe it or not I used to be this exact person and got treated so badly by everyone even my family! Yes it's not fair but it happens all the time around the world. Don't chaaaaange because of shitty people, change your environment
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Gene
Thank You all at Psych2Go. I have been told that I can be too good for my own good. I find that my life has afforded me more, at time's, more naivety than what might be described. A platform for a basis of kindness is always helpful.
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Thank You all at Psych2Go. I have been told that I can be too good for my own good. I find that my life has afforded me more, at time's, more naivety than what might be described. A platform for a basis of kindness is always helpful.
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ThatBookReader
I hate when my old friend would get into a big drama fight with their other friends and enemies, I would sit next to the side and just watched, annoyed.
Idk if Im nice, I try to be though.
Have a good day yall
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I hate when my old friend would get into a big drama fight with their other friends and enemies, I would sit next to the side and just watched, annoyed.
Idk if Im nice, I try to be though.
Have a good day yall
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Captain
Yes, I am kind (I mean all characteristics matched with me. I love and respect kind people. they are real treasure of this world I believe. and I think kindness is just not a great virtue, kindness is the greatest virtue
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Yes, I am kind (I mean all characteristics matched with me. I love and respect kind people. they are real treasure of this world I believe. and I think kindness is just not a great virtue, kindness is the greatest virtue
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Suirioujin
The only compliment I can agree when people compliment me: I'm kind, but I don't go at the point of helping others, I ALWAYS mess things up
All the other compliments are lies
ah. The value myself point.
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The only compliment I can agree when people compliment me: I'm kind, but I don't go at the point of helping others, I ALWAYS mess things up
All the other compliments are lies
ah. The value myself point.
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Shrmqed
Every time my parents Tate me shopping at the mall, I always just stop and look at the jewellery, and that is enough to make me happy because if I ask for something like that i feel like Im asking for too much
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Every time my parents Tate me shopping at the mall, I always just stop and look at the jewellery, and that is enough to make me happy because if I ask for something like that i feel like Im asking for too much
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Livilouwho
If you continue to love people whove hurt you that doesnt make you weak, in fact it means you love so strongly that no matter how much youve been hurt you keep loving them anyways -unknown
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If you continue to love people whove hurt you that doesnt make you weak, in fact it means you love so strongly that no matter how much youve been hurt you keep loving them anyways -unknown
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