Don't Allow Your Life To Be Controlled By These 5 Things
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I moved into a new country and a lot of things changed. i always think that people dont like me and where I come from. I always think that I am not good enough or you made someone sad and that made me dont want to talk to my classmates or play with them because i am always scared that Im will upset a person and make their thoughts about me worse. When I got out with my family I will always make myself the most good and try to be very polite. But I also want to keep my family good too so I made them talk quiet and change how they talk. Some times I will suddenly remember one thing I done and be likewhy did you do that and you just made and other person sad. I tried really hard to fix them but I just give up a lot. I really miss my old country, my friends, no weird looks in public and everything in the past.
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I moved into a new country and a lot of things changed. i always think that people dont like me and where I come from. I always think that I am not good enough or you made someone sad and that made me dont want to talk to my classmates or play with them because i am always scared that Im will upset a person and make their thoughts about me worse. When I got out with my family I will always make myself the most good and try to be very polite. But I also want to keep my family good too so I made them talk quiet and change how they talk. Some times I will suddenly remember one thing I done and be likewhy did you do that and you just made and other person sad. I tried really hard to fix them but I just give up a lot. I really miss my old country, my friends, no weird looks in public and everything in the past.
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Liam
The Past is my biggest issue because no matter if the things me and others did in the past were Positive or Negative I never forget about anything I never give anything I and others do a pass because I don't think the things me and others did in the past can be ignored and so I've spent my entire life giving up on people that cause problems over and over again that went to far so the people I truly love have never caused me any shit or forced me to do this and that when I do or don't want to and let's be honest the people I love would've let me go on the School camps that I missed out on going to no matter if I just recently had a seizure or not and they would've allowed me to make my own decisions instead going YOU CAN'T DO THIS YOU CAN'T DO THAT.
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The Past is my biggest issue because no matter if the things me and others did in the past were Positive or Negative I never forget about anything I never give anything I and others do a pass because I don't think the things me and others did in the past can be ignored and so I've spent my entire life giving up on people that cause problems over and over again that went to far so the people I truly love have never caused me any shit or forced me to do this and that when I do or don't want to and let's be honest the people I love would've let me go on the School camps that I missed out on going to no matter if I just recently had a seizure or not and they would've allowed me to make my own decisions instead going YOU CAN'T DO THIS YOU CAN'T DO THAT.
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Jett
Men remember you have value, many women place your worth of what you can provide for her. Being happy and complete within ones self and capable of contentment all alone is an incredible superpower. I have gotten a taste I am never going back to to the drudgery of not being single! Many men can live and taking care of every responsibility including care for rasing children. Many women have have encountered they get upset when I put any kind of priority on my children I get accused of negligence of her and Her priorities but are you spending time with her children or even thier family if that ever becomes less she will come UNHINGED! Be you take care of yourself no one will ever do for you! It is not selfish if what is done is best for you!
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Men remember you have value, many women place your worth of what you can provide for her. Being happy and complete within ones self and capable of contentment all alone is an incredible superpower. I have gotten a taste I am never going back to to the drudgery of not being single! Many men can live and taking care of every responsibility including care for rasing children. Many women have have encountered they get upset when I put any kind of priority on my children I get accused of negligence of her and Her priorities but are you spending time with her children or even thier family if that ever becomes less she will come UNHINGED! Be you take care of yourself no one will ever do for you! It is not selfish if what is done is best for you!
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Jessica
The past is a difficult one for me-
When i was young i basically had to look after and raise my three siblings. We all ended up in Foster care and i was moved with my younger sister when i was 9 and she was 3. Im now 15 and my mental health has gone down hill. And my Foster parent expects me to move on just like that. She says stuff like ''you don't have to look after them anymore'' and things like ''you have your own life now''. But she doesn't realise my siblings are basically my life and world. They were a big part of my life and still are. And she expects me to forget about what i did for them and how difficult it was.
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The past is a difficult one for me-
When i was young i basically had to look after and raise my three siblings. We all ended up in Foster care and i was moved with my younger sister when i was 9 and she was 3. Im now 15 and my mental health has gone down hill. And my Foster parent expects me to move on just like that. She says stuff like ''you don't have to look after them anymore'' and things like ''you have your own life now''. But she doesn't realise my siblings are basically my life and world. They were a big part of my life and still are. And she expects me to forget about what i did for them and how difficult it was.
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just
Im always open to others people opinions no matter what: ) so i can learn about them and when im with that person i act like that so i can fit in or adapt to them for they to understand me when i talk, bc when i talk with my voice they dosen't understand
For example, the types of hahas. I live in Argentina, and i speak spanish (sorry for my bad english) so the hahas are actually jajas but some people laugh like this: JAJSJJSJAJSJSKJAJSJA
or just jsjk. so when im with someone who laugh like- jajsj, i laugh like that too, and the same for the JAJAJJAJAJKSJAJ person: )
Sounds really sad but i do it bc im happy with it-
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Im always open to others people opinions no matter what: ) so i can learn about them and when im with that person i act like that so i can fit in or adapt to them for they to understand me when i talk, bc when i talk with my voice they dosen't understand
For example, the types of hahas. I live in Argentina, and i speak spanish (sorry for my bad english) so the hahas are actually jajas but some people laugh like this: JAJSJJSJAJSJSKJAJSJA
or just jsjk. so when im with someone who laugh like- jajsj, i laugh like that too, and the same for the JAJAJJAJAJKSJAJ person: )
Sounds really sad but i do it bc im happy with it-
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Michelle
My Problem isnt that i care about other peoples opinions or need thier approval its that i care to much about his needs. And the part of the past im Stuck in is looking at the great times and thinking there will be more in the future. When this person i have known for like 35 Years has done me dirty always and he friggin Thrives on it! Im just trying to Concentrate on Bettering myself every day. And he's about to lose and lose big. Cause im really really starting not to Care Anymore!
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My Problem isnt that i care about other peoples opinions or need thier approval its that i care to much about his needs. And the part of the past im Stuck in is looking at the great times and thinking there will be more in the future. When this person i have known for like 35 Years has done me dirty always and he friggin Thrives on it! Im just trying to Concentrate on Bettering myself every day. And he's about to lose and lose big. Cause im really really starting not to Care Anymore!
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Athena
So, Hi? Can someone give an advice? I can't control my own thought this past few days, I kept on overthinking, even on small things I keep overthinking them, sometimes I end up crying coz I can't stop it. I tried to open up this problem of mine on my family, friends and even my boyfriend but still no one can understand me, they just keep on saying that I should stop overthinking because its useless and toxic. I tried my best though, but this week is kinda hellish for me.
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So, Hi? Can someone give an advice? I can't control my own thought this past few days, I kept on overthinking, even on small things I keep overthinking them, sometimes I end up crying coz I can't stop it. I tried to open up this problem of mine on my family, friends and even my boyfriend but still no one can understand me, they just keep on saying that I should stop overthinking because its useless and toxic. I tried my best though, but this week is kinda hellish for me.
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education
For the first one, remember to listen to those who cared about you because they can be an advice for you to become better than who you are now. I said this cause one of my friends didn't listen to me (we've been friends for 4 years) because she thinks I didn't let her be herself (I'm not the only one that she left, some of her older friends also left her. It's like she left when she became more famous. Shorter explanation, she became like Yandere Dev.
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For the first one, remember to listen to those who cared about you because they can be an advice for you to become better than who you are now. I said this cause one of my friends didn't listen to me (we've been friends for 4 years) because she thinks I didn't let her be herself (I'm not the only one that she left, some of her older friends also left her. It's like she left when she became more famous. Shorter explanation, she became like Yandere Dev.
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Tingles&Rosebud!
I want to move to Los Angeles. I've lived in a small town in Iowa my entire life and dreamed of California for almost as long. but because I fell in love I got a mortgage on a house and decided to settle instead of going after tht dream. now I'm stuck and depressed and hoping tht somewhere I can find a video to help me feel more at peace and not so depressed and mad at myself. it feels like theres nothing I can do.
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I want to move to Los Angeles. I've lived in a small town in Iowa my entire life and dreamed of California for almost as long. but because I fell in love I got a mortgage on a house and decided to settle instead of going after tht dream. now I'm stuck and depressed and hoping tht somewhere I can find a video to help me feel more at peace and not so depressed and mad at myself. it feels like theres nothing I can do.
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Asa
There times where i don't really know what im doing in my life, it's like I don't wanna be ruled by anyone but also i wanna live to the expectations of others. i dont have any thing or point in life, and i make it only by doing what people wants or make me just so that i can say i accomplish something. I dont wanna be ruled by everybody else but who am i? I dont even know.
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There times where i don't really know what im doing in my life, it's like I don't wanna be ruled by anyone but also i wanna live to the expectations of others. i dont have any thing or point in life, and i make it only by doing what people wants or make me just so that i can say i accomplish something. I dont wanna be ruled by everybody else but who am i? I dont even know.
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Aaliyah
Number 2 hit hard. I wanted to move to NC and my family not only threatened me (saying as a black woman anything can happen to me, but they just kept guilt tripping me. I started guilting myself because I was so attached to my friends or partners who aren't even in my life anymore. I regret it so much. Hopefully I can move somewhere I want to eventually.
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Number 2 hit hard. I wanted to move to NC and my family not only threatened me (saying as a black woman anything can happen to me, but they just kept guilt tripping me. I started guilting myself because I was so attached to my friends or partners who aren't even in my life anymore. I regret it so much. Hopefully I can move somewhere I want to eventually.
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Carlos
I must not fear. Fear is the mind killer, the little death that brings total annihilation. I must face my fear. I will allow it to pass over me and through me. When the fear is gone, there will be nothing and only I will remain. I must not fear.
excerpt from the bene gesserit manual of training
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I must not fear. Fear is the mind killer, the little death that brings total annihilation. I must face my fear. I will allow it to pass over me and through me. When the fear is gone, there will be nothing and only I will remain. I must not fear.
excerpt from the bene gesserit manual of training
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SaurianStudios1207
This has been helpful for me, as I'm currently battling a porn addiction that's been going for over a yr. At the same time, I've always feared that letting everyone know about this issue will ruin everything, my reputation, self image, privileges and the respect people have for me.
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This has been helpful for me, as I'm currently battling a porn addiction that's been going for over a yr. At the same time, I've always feared that letting everyone know about this issue will ruin everything, my reputation, self image, privileges and the respect people have for me.
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Summer
Yes I was bullied most of my life as a kid and adult, and yet I wake up every day hating myself because I feel worthless. I am lost everyday and constantly blaming myself for being pathetic. I don't know how I'm going to get out of this feeling, but I am tired of being burnt out.
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Yes I was bullied most of my life as a kid and adult, and yet I wake up every day hating myself because I feel worthless. I am lost everyday and constantly blaming myself for being pathetic. I don't know how I'm going to get out of this feeling, but I am tired of being burnt out.
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Thunder
For the first one, Ive decided to adopt Lokis motto: I do what i want within reason and nothing illegal of course. Honestly, your life can be really changed when you have no one to help you when you need it most and have dealt with stuff on your own for years
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For the first one, Ive decided to adopt Lokis motto: I do what i want within reason and nothing illegal of course. Honestly, your life can be really changed when you have no one to help you when you need it most and have dealt with stuff on your own for years
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DOODADOF
nothing about believing changes anything. don't believe me? pick up a birds feather and believe it will make you fly and then jump off a sky scrapper. between you and the ever approaching you will learn. believing is for children and dummies.
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nothing about believing changes anything. don't believe me? pick up a birds feather and believe it will make you fly and then jump off a sky scrapper. between you and the ever approaching you will learn. believing is for children and dummies.
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killercore007
I was doomed the day I was born, my parents would rather damage control than help me, I cant speak out as theyd throw me out with nothing and Ill be dead within the week
Just waiting for someone to finish me off
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I was doomed the day I was born, my parents would rather damage control than help me, I cant speak out as theyd throw me out with nothing and Ill be dead within the week
Just waiting for someone to finish me off
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Nevan
My past has scared me for life in regards to rejection. I have been rejected one to many times by women my age and I've convinced myself that I need to stay single indefinitely to keep myself from getting hurt.
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My past has scared me for life in regards to rejection. I have been rejected one to many times by women my age and I've convinced myself that I need to stay single indefinitely to keep myself from getting hurt.
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Space
my problem with my past is that I'm too attached to it wanting to relive my favorite memories day to day. it's hard to let go when you're scared of the future and the present kinda sucks
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my problem with my past is that I'm too attached to it wanting to relive my favorite memories day to day. it's hard to let go when you're scared of the future and the present kinda sucks
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Child
Ive tried rationalizing my way out of 1, but it never works. I tell myself you dont know these people, it doesnt matter and sometimes most people wont notice or care but it never works.
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Ive tried rationalizing my way out of 1, but it never works. I tell myself you dont know these people, it doesnt matter and sometimes most people wont notice or care but it never works.
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Kat
disclaimer 0: 28
others opinions 0: 30
your relationships 1: 11
your past 1: 53
negative emotions 2: 33
limiting beliefs 3: 13
Feel free to reach out to me!
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disclaimer 0: 28
others opinions 0: 30
your relationships 1: 11
your past 1: 53
negative emotions 2: 33
limiting beliefs 3: 13
Feel free to reach out to me!
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Jack
I'm currently struggling with this question: if I can anchieve anything I want and I believe it so strongly, how come I haven't won the heart of the person who I love?
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I'm currently struggling with this question: if I can anchieve anything I want and I believe it so strongly, how come I haven't won the heart of the person who I love?
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Zenix
Welp. That's enough for the night I guess. As I'm starting to feel uncomfortable after third vid.
Too much stuff reminds me of things I'm trying to ignore: -/
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Welp. That's enough for the night I guess. As I'm starting to feel uncomfortable after third vid.
Too much stuff reminds me of things I'm trying to ignore: -/
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Jacen
The first problem you mentioned is something that I believe is kind of permanent, so permanent infact that my body does most of everything on its own. .. .
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The first problem you mentioned is something that I believe is kind of permanent, so permanent infact that my body does most of everything on its own. .. .
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Alienpig
I care so much about others opinions that I get anxiety and feel ashamed everytime I try to be myself. Im hoping to change that soon!
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I care so much about others opinions that I get anxiety and feel ashamed everytime I try to be myself. Im hoping to change that soon!
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