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Date: 2023-08-20
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iCrYsTaL1
I'm glad I found this. I don't know where I could write my thoughts down and share them with other people so they know that they're not alone with certain stuff. I'm not lonely in my life, because I have a great family behind me, but I'm still sad sometimes. Most of the time, when I'm on my own, I think about things like getting a girlfriend and stuff like that. What makes me really sad is the fact that I'm either born in the wrong place or even in the wrong country. The standard here is so high that I feel like an outsider. It feels like that people always expect the absolute best from you and if you don't check every single box, you're out, not worth the try or even a conversation. This all made me realize that I'm scared from the future. I would say about myself that I'm a good looking person with a big heart and great humor. I'm the last person who would judge someone by looks or interests or anything else, but I feel like I'm the only one here who thinks like that. Sometimes I also feel like it's about my height. I'm 1, 63cm and not the tallest person, and if that's not enough, I often see people who don't even want to get to know people like me who are that short. Sometimes I also feel like that I'm way too friendly and that my personality is a reason why girls don't like me the way I want them to. We all know the good story about someone who cares for everyone, but never gets that kind of attention and love back, never. At this point I don't really know what to do. I tried my luck with several apps and other things, but I doesn't even get to a real conversation. It's either boring for the other person or I'm not worth it, because of my looks or my interests (gaming, playing piano) etc. I just want someone who is normal like really normal and chill. Someone who accepts that I like playing video games, someone who accepts that I'm not the tallest but loveliest person, someone who wants to hang out with me and watch animes, netflix and eat pizza or something like that. Someone who really cares about me on purpose. I don't even mind chatting or dating someone from far away, because if that means that I can be happy someday, I will do it. I would share my whole heart with that one person if she is the one and only, even though she is from the US or from another country. I had to suffer so many times like many other people and I really want that to stop. I simply need one warmhearted and great girl I can rely on and I'll be forever thankful, that's all I truly want.
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I'm glad I found this. I don't know where I could write my thoughts down and share them with other people so they know that they're not alone with certain stuff. I'm not lonely in my life, because I have a great family behind me, but I'm still sad sometimes. Most of the time, when I'm on my own, I think about things like getting a girlfriend and stuff like that. What makes me really sad is the fact that I'm either born in the wrong place or even in the wrong country. The standard here is so high that I feel like an outsider. It feels like that people always expect the absolute best from you and if you don't check every single box, you're out, not worth the try or even a conversation. This all made me realize that I'm scared from the future. I would say about myself that I'm a good looking person with a big heart and great humor. I'm the last person who would judge someone by looks or interests or anything else, but I feel like I'm the only one here who thinks like that. Sometimes I also feel like it's about my height. I'm 1, 63cm and not the tallest person, and if that's not enough, I often see people who don't even want to get to know people like me who are that short. Sometimes I also feel like that I'm way too friendly and that my personality is a reason why girls don't like me the way I want them to. We all know the good story about someone who cares for everyone, but never gets that kind of attention and love back, never. At this point I don't really know what to do. I tried my luck with several apps and other things, but I doesn't even get to a real conversation. It's either boring for the other person or I'm not worth it, because of my looks or my interests (gaming, playing piano) etc. I just want someone who is normal like really normal and chill. Someone who accepts that I like playing video games, someone who accepts that I'm not the tallest but loveliest person, someone who wants to hang out with me and watch animes, netflix and eat pizza or something like that. Someone who really cares about me on purpose. I don't even mind chatting or dating someone from far away, because if that means that I can be happy someday, I will do it. I would share my whole heart with that one person if she is the one and only, even though she is from the US or from another country. I had to suffer so many times like many other people and I really want that to stop. I simply need one warmhearted and great girl I can rely on and I'll be forever thankful, that's all I truly want.
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education
I have one problem that i don't know how to solve, And that is that i just don't have a personality anymore. Sometimes i may act happy but sometimes i look people in the eyes with thoose cold souless eyes. And people thinks i'm rude because i just act cold? I just but ''. '' after everything or ''-''. I feel like i lost myself. I don't want friends anymore because i'm too scared to have friends. And i'd rather just stay in my bed all day instead of going outside, I don't care about anything anymore. I just feel like- ''This is life, Life sucks and i can't do anything about it, Because i'm just a kid. '' And it's too hard to hide the fact, But i don't wanna show it either, Plus no one understands they just think i'm a dramaqueen and just wants more and more, Every time i try to talk about it, People just thinks i'm ''Rude'' and ''Ungrateful''. And the only reason i feel like i want to die is because i'm too tired to live, When i grow up i won't be happy, So what's the point of living this useless life? It has no meaning because no matter how hard i try to make happy memories, It just turns me into crying. I am grateful, But i don't know how to explain it. I don't get bullied or anything like that- Which makes me think i have ''No reason at all to feel sad''. And every time i get sad i just get mad at myself for being sad over nothing, Because i compare to the people who can't even survive the day, And that makes me Grateful. But i'm still sad and cold and don't speak if i only need to. I don't know how to find myself again-
I have no friends.
None of my family members understand me.
I have no one to talk to.
I want to end this life.
Please help.
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I have one problem that i don't know how to solve, And that is that i just don't have a personality anymore. Sometimes i may act happy but sometimes i look people in the eyes with thoose cold souless eyes. And people thinks i'm rude because i just act cold? I just but ''. '' after everything or ''-''. I feel like i lost myself. I don't want friends anymore because i'm too scared to have friends. And i'd rather just stay in my bed all day instead of going outside, I don't care about anything anymore. I just feel like- ''This is life, Life sucks and i can't do anything about it, Because i'm just a kid. '' And it's too hard to hide the fact, But i don't wanna show it either, Plus no one understands they just think i'm a dramaqueen and just wants more and more, Every time i try to talk about it, People just thinks i'm ''Rude'' and ''Ungrateful''. And the only reason i feel like i want to die is because i'm too tired to live, When i grow up i won't be happy, So what's the point of living this useless life? It has no meaning because no matter how hard i try to make happy memories, It just turns me into crying. I am grateful, But i don't know how to explain it. I don't get bullied or anything like that- Which makes me think i have ''No reason at all to feel sad''. And every time i get sad i just get mad at myself for being sad over nothing, Because i compare to the people who can't even survive the day, And that makes me Grateful. But i'm still sad and cold and don't speak if i only need to. I don't know how to find myself again-
I have no friends.
None of my family members understand me.
I have no one to talk to.
I want to end this life.
Please help.
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Q_P2
This really helps but Im still scared, I love my friends and I would do anything for them, but I dont think theyd do the same. Most of my friends have other friends and when they cant play/talk with me, then, idk I just feel broken and easily-replaced. Its easier making friends online for me because I know that we share the same interests but sometimes it feels like theyre just tired of me and dont really care about my feelings, I dont like opening up to anyone, I dont want to make it anyone elses problem or like you said, look at me differently. The only real friends I loved and I could count on were trans and my parents are homophobic, so I cant see/talk to them anymore. I really loved them and the last day i talked to them, one of them was happy so see me, we were talking about fanfics and opinions, at the end of the day, they said, yknow? Ive been thinking about reasons why I was to kll my friends, with you, I never wanted to, me, you, we justclick! And I never got to see them again.
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This really helps but Im still scared, I love my friends and I would do anything for them, but I dont think theyd do the same. Most of my friends have other friends and when they cant play/talk with me, then, idk I just feel broken and easily-replaced. Its easier making friends online for me because I know that we share the same interests but sometimes it feels like theyre just tired of me and dont really care about my feelings, I dont like opening up to anyone, I dont want to make it anyone elses problem or like you said, look at me differently. The only real friends I loved and I could count on were trans and my parents are homophobic, so I cant see/talk to them anymore. I really loved them and the last day i talked to them, one of them was happy so see me, we were talking about fanfics and opinions, at the end of the day, they said, yknow? Ive been thinking about reasons why I was to kll my friends, with you, I never wanted to, me, you, we justclick! And I never got to see them again.
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Hero
So I feel very alone. And I have 1 friend who I can open up to, talk about my interests, and who I can talk to at any time. My sister shuts me down when I talk to her about my feelings/intrests. I suspect that I might have depression and she even shuts me down saying that Im faking it/being emo (my friends do this to except that 1) also when I say that I think that Im a pretty good person she shuts me down. She destroys my self esteem saying that again Im not a good person and Im weird for being an extrovert and most says that I have trash music taste and Im really bad at dancing (Ive never taken any classes but they are worse than me) when my sisters friend bullies she does nothing saying that ItS jUsT a JoKe YoU aLwAyS tAkE tHiNgS sO sErIoUsLy she makes fun of me for putting on makeup when we go to like dinner (even tho thats usually what ppl do) I sometimes think that she is either jealous or has low self asteem. So yeah wanted to share that
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So I feel very alone. And I have 1 friend who I can open up to, talk about my interests, and who I can talk to at any time. My sister shuts me down when I talk to her about my feelings/intrests. I suspect that I might have depression and she even shuts me down saying that Im faking it/being emo (my friends do this to except that 1) also when I say that I think that Im a pretty good person she shuts me down. She destroys my self esteem saying that again Im not a good person and Im weird for being an extrovert and most says that I have trash music taste and Im really bad at dancing (Ive never taken any classes but they are worse than me) when my sisters friend bullies she does nothing saying that ItS jUsT a JoKe YoU aLwAyS tAkE tHiNgS sO sErIoUsLy she makes fun of me for putting on makeup when we go to like dinner (even tho thats usually what ppl do) I sometimes think that she is either jealous or has low self asteem. So yeah wanted to share that
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Mathias
I find it rather interesting how seek help from a licensed professional is always thrown around when they want the equivalent of a kidney for one session. I can't afford mental health. The system is rigged. People who are struggling clearly need mental help but they can't afford it because they're struggling. I've brought this up on the phone to many receptionists who work at these clinics and NONE of them gives a shit. People only care about money. Even people who work in the mental health field. The human race needs to go.
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I find it rather interesting how seek help from a licensed professional is always thrown around when they want the equivalent of a kidney for one session. I can't afford mental health. The system is rigged. People who are struggling clearly need mental help but they can't afford it because they're struggling. I've brought this up on the phone to many receptionists who work at these clinics and NONE of them gives a shit. People only care about money. Even people who work in the mental health field. The human race needs to go.
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Zasz799
Living in a city I crave for alone time. The time goes on, somebody have to undestand their own real needs. But being phisically alone doesn't mean you have nobody. It needs a pair of comrades to keep you up, even when you'd see them once on a month. And a family, if you have. Sooooo. even when you are a harsh man who generally make mistakes with people in an urban enviorenment, you have sometimes achoice for a buffer valve, something can put yourself out of troubles.
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Living in a city I crave for alone time. The time goes on, somebody have to undestand their own real needs. But being phisically alone doesn't mean you have nobody. It needs a pair of comrades to keep you up, even when you'd see them once on a month. And a family, if you have. Sooooo. even when you are a harsh man who generally make mistakes with people in an urban enviorenment, you have sometimes achoice for a buffer valve, something can put yourself out of troubles.
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JimmySlaxath
There once a wise wolf that taugh me that.
loneliness is disease that could lead to death.
And then a thoughtful owl told me, betrayal is a key ingredient of isolation, as isolation is a key ingredient to loneliness, but then isolation have byproduct of misery and agony in which the ingredients to pain that could lead to a miserable death.
And because of that I wonder.
How am I still alive?
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There once a wise wolf that taugh me that.
loneliness is disease that could lead to death.
And then a thoughtful owl told me, betrayal is a key ingredient of isolation, as isolation is a key ingredient to loneliness, but then isolation have byproduct of misery and agony in which the ingredients to pain that could lead to a miserable death.
And because of that I wonder.
How am I still alive?
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Othersteeve
I dont think I have a single friend. Just some acquaintances. Im ok in a group setting but when it comes down to a one on one, I feel uncomfortable. I think Im a boring dude, and that peeps dont want to talk to me and feel that I am forcing them to talk to me if I choose to have a conversation with them. I get a similar feeling from my family. They dont inquire about what I do and stuff.
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I dont think I have a single friend. Just some acquaintances. Im ok in a group setting but when it comes down to a one on one, I feel uncomfortable. I think Im a boring dude, and that peeps dont want to talk to me and feel that I am forcing them to talk to me if I choose to have a conversation with them. I get a similar feeling from my family. They dont inquire about what I do and stuff.
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RedPanda560
Watching this makes me realize that I don't really have anybody that I truly connect with, I've moved schools and what not nearly every year of my life, so finding a social stability has proven really difficult overall, and I kinda get caught up in it a lot. I have online friends, but not really any one person that I feel like I could truly sit down and bond over something
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Watching this makes me realize that I don't really have anybody that I truly connect with, I've moved schools and what not nearly every year of my life, so finding a social stability has proven really difficult overall, and I kinda get caught up in it a lot. I have online friends, but not really any one person that I feel like I could truly sit down and bond over something
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tzxxyxx77
Sometimes its just really depressing when your friends are leading a way better life than you and abandon you out of the blue. My friends never liked me when I'd be myself. They'd just exclude me out of their group and make rude comments about my personality. I wish I knew more people like me. I wish I'd stop feeling this solitude within me.
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Sometimes its just really depressing when your friends are leading a way better life than you and abandon you out of the blue. My friends never liked me when I'd be myself. They'd just exclude me out of their group and make rude comments about my personality. I wish I knew more people like me. I wish I'd stop feeling this solitude within me.
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Polo
I don't know. I have friends, I have family, but something still makes me feel lonely. Just recently we had a couple friends over, but I was withdrawn. I felt so lonely that I preferred it to the company, oddly enough. I have theories as to why, but nothing solid. Thanks for the video
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I don't know. I have friends, I have family, but something still makes me feel lonely. Just recently we had a couple friends over, but I was withdrawn. I felt so lonely that I preferred it to the company, oddly enough. I have theories as to why, but nothing solid. Thanks for the video
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Anime
I don't have any friends and I am in my 40's. I feel alone all the time. I do have my husband and my 3 daughters but it would be nice to have at least 1 person/friend outside of my family to share things with and have that support. Yes, I am late watching this on July 6th 10: 05p. m.
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I don't have any friends and I am in my 40's. I feel alone all the time. I do have my husband and my 3 daughters but it would be nice to have at least 1 person/friend outside of my family to share things with and have that support. Yes, I am late watching this on July 6th 10: 05p. m.
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Joda
Yes & I relate to a few of these mentioned this video. Also, I try to deal with the problem similarly to how you have explained. Lastly, after watching I think I have an idea or two try out & thanks bcuz ur videos are a great help to me & others.
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Yes & I relate to a few of these mentioned this video. Also, I try to deal with the problem similarly to how you have explained. Lastly, after watching I think I have an idea or two try out & thanks bcuz ur videos are a great help to me & others.
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kalia
Thanks to this video i realized that im not feeling alone yet im just burn out since alot of things to do and its a mess in my head. and feeling overwhelmed about study and stuff. i cant cry cause its just empty and heavy feeling in my chest.
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Thanks to this video i realized that im not feeling alone yet im just burn out since alot of things to do and its a mess in my head. and feeling overwhelmed about study and stuff. i cant cry cause its just empty and heavy feeling in my chest.
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Valer14
It's interesting to look not only the video but the comments saying that they all needed this video, and needed today. Just like the rest of the comments including me. Thats another thing that make me feel that i'm not soo alone. c:
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It's interesting to look not only the video but the comments saying that they all needed this video, and needed today. Just like the rest of the comments including me. Thats another thing that make me feel that i'm not soo alone. c:
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GamerXXX
Why am i alone? I just want friends, Girlfriend. ITS THAT HARD? IS THAT IMPOSSIBLE? I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY! Is that Hard to be happy? :(Do I want so much? You cannot imagine the pain from that to be alone and single!
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Why am i alone? I just want friends, Girlfriend. ITS THAT HARD? IS THAT IMPOSSIBLE? I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY! Is that Hard to be happy? :(Do I want so much? You cannot imagine the pain from that to be alone and single!
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Kekoapono
I would feel truly alone if it werent for my family. Im terrified of how alone Ill feel after theyre gone. I truly believe most people in my life only interact with me in order for me to do something for them.
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I would feel truly alone if it werent for my family. Im terrified of how alone Ill feel after theyre gone. I truly believe most people in my life only interact with me in order for me to do something for them.
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Someone
The thing is i used headphones at school all the time and when people tried to talk to me i didn't understand what they said, so they stopped talking to me, and i wondered why people never talked to me back then
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The thing is i used headphones at school all the time and when people tried to talk to me i didn't understand what they said, so they stopped talking to me, and i wondered why people never talked to me back then
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Dapper
These are good concepts, its helping me fully realize that I'm not alone. I'm not selfish for feeling alone and not thinking entirely about my close friends while feeling that way, and remember you arent either!
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These are good concepts, its helping me fully realize that I'm not alone. I'm not selfish for feeling alone and not thinking entirely about my close friends while feeling that way, and remember you arent either!
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Shiny_boi
What's the best option if you have non of these, feel lonely, feel depressed, don't have access to therapists and councilors, can't drive (cause not at age) and your family don't get well with you?
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What's the best option if you have non of these, feel lonely, feel depressed, don't have access to therapists and councilors, can't drive (cause not at age) and your family don't get well with you?
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Patrycja
I do not fit in any category besides the last 6, cause I am always chosing people thoroughly. Even if I talk nobody listens and understands. I hate to talk about myself.
So there is no help?
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I do not fit in any category besides the last 6, cause I am always chosing people thoroughly. Even if I talk nobody listens and understands. I hate to talk about myself.
So there is no help?
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Random
Was alone my whole life, but never felt lonely. I learned social skills to some degree, but how to want to use them? Even though i feel fine, every sign tells that my life is extremely fked up.
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Was alone my whole life, but never felt lonely. I learned social skills to some degree, but how to want to use them? Even though i feel fine, every sign tells that my life is extremely fked up.
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education
One friend in a lifetime is much, two are many, three are hardly possible. Friendship needs a certain parallelism of life, a community of thought, a rivalry of aim. -Henry Adams
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One friend in a lifetime is much, two are many, three are hardly possible. Friendship needs a certain parallelism of life, a community of thought, a rivalry of aim. -Henry Adams
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Katie
I'm not an emotional person, but I litteraly cried when watching this because I could only relate to one or two things on this list. I just really need some friends in my life
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I'm not an emotional person, but I litteraly cried when watching this because I could only relate to one or two things on this list. I just really need some friends in my life
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Magdalena
Thank you, it gave me a different perspective for my life, that I'm not that alone as I thought. Keep on making such cool videos! I'm sure they are helping a lot of people
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Thank you, it gave me a different perspective for my life, that I'm not that alone as I thought. Keep on making such cool videos! I'm sure they are helping a lot of people
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