7 Bad Habits That Are Destroying Your Self-Esteem
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Date: 2023-08-20
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AFAMILIARFACE
i have relate to some but some i actually use the permanent words because of anger qnd i am angry about it sometimes i say sorry to my self cause why not i tend to compliment others while thinking that i am never going to be like them, i actually got to be perfect or better at my self that what had been my mother teaching me so even just a small incorrect i got to be anxious or angry about it but thanks to u i got to tell my sister and realize that many people experience it and its common to happen in life i actually got to bottling my emotions due to the fact that i think my emotions actually dont matter cause u think that my parents emotions are fat more superior than mine so i got to avoid it cuase i got to now my self when i saw ur content at the first time
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i have relate to some but some i actually use the permanent words because of anger qnd i am angry about it sometimes i say sorry to my self cause why not i tend to compliment others while thinking that i am never going to be like them, i actually got to be perfect or better at my self that what had been my mother teaching me so even just a small incorrect i got to be anxious or angry about it but thanks to u i got to tell my sister and realize that many people experience it and its common to happen in life i actually got to bottling my emotions due to the fact that i think my emotions actually dont matter cause u think that my parents emotions are fat more superior than mine so i got to avoid it cuase i got to now my self when i saw ur content at the first time
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Cracked
the giving genuine compliments thing is very true, i spent a lot of my childhood giving half compliments or not giving compliments at all because i felt that bringing someone else up was bringing myself down. She said that girls give compliments through gritted teeth, well, many guys dont give them at all. I feel like this stems from being immature and having a fragile ego. Something I try to do is to give genuine compliments with no ulterior motive and the sole purpose of being honest and making the other person feel good, this will not only improve your relationship with yourself but it will significantly improve your relationships with others ( and probably your attractiveness as well)
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the giving genuine compliments thing is very true, i spent a lot of my childhood giving half compliments or not giving compliments at all because i felt that bringing someone else up was bringing myself down. She said that girls give compliments through gritted teeth, well, many guys dont give them at all. I feel like this stems from being immature and having a fragile ego. Something I try to do is to give genuine compliments with no ulterior motive and the sole purpose of being honest and making the other person feel good, this will not only improve your relationship with yourself but it will significantly improve your relationships with others ( and probably your attractiveness as well)
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Olli
7 habits to grow out from your narcissistic traits is more fitting title.
To have self-esteem is to have responsibilities because then your opinions matter whether they are bad or good despite the results. Results of course means concluding things and you lose your responsibilities as there are no choices to make. Negative or positivtive results only affect your confidence but not your self-esteem, though confidence can evoke your self-esteem meaning that you are more likely to take responsibility of something.
Some people might relate to this video and think my comment as I am not narcissistic everyone is/was. it is something your grow out from for being a child.
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7 habits to grow out from your narcissistic traits is more fitting title.
To have self-esteem is to have responsibilities because then your opinions matter whether they are bad or good despite the results. Results of course means concluding things and you lose your responsibilities as there are no choices to make. Negative or positivtive results only affect your confidence but not your self-esteem, though confidence can evoke your self-esteem meaning that you are more likely to take responsibility of something.
Some people might relate to this video and think my comment as I am not narcissistic everyone is/was. it is something your grow out from for being a child.
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Charley
This is a bit of a slap in the face. yet I'm not surprised. yet I'm disappointed. I'm hardly sure what I've been feeling but it's definitely been feeling like a failure. Trying to follow a dream and getting no where because I don't believe in myself. it's been a terrible cycle. and I feel it always happens. I guess this is the problem right here. I'm too mean to me. I'm never empathetic to myself. I can't let myself rest or have a rough day without feeling guilty. yet I could sit and tell everyone how okay and normal it is for them. So why not me? Why is it so hard to be better to yourself.
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This is a bit of a slap in the face. yet I'm not surprised. yet I'm disappointed. I'm hardly sure what I've been feeling but it's definitely been feeling like a failure. Trying to follow a dream and getting no where because I don't believe in myself. it's been a terrible cycle. and I feel it always happens. I guess this is the problem right here. I'm too mean to me. I'm never empathetic to myself. I can't let myself rest or have a rough day without feeling guilty. yet I could sit and tell everyone how okay and normal it is for them. So why not me? Why is it so hard to be better to yourself.
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Miss
Ive been working on this with a therapist. My root of all this is all the abuse I went through since I was a child. It stunt my growth and put me in a state of self hatred. I was tired of feeling this way and Ive come a long way since.
Accept your emotions but also it is good to break down the reason and a way to counter it. It takes time to get this down, but you cant give up if it doesnt work the first few times. And a gratitude notebook is super helpful.
Today I am grateful for my therapist. I am also grateful to be able to talk to my mom yesterday about our emotions
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Ive been working on this with a therapist. My root of all this is all the abuse I went through since I was a child. It stunt my growth and put me in a state of self hatred. I was tired of feeling this way and Ive come a long way since.
Accept your emotions but also it is good to break down the reason and a way to counter it. It takes time to get this down, but you cant give up if it doesnt work the first few times. And a gratitude notebook is super helpful.
Today I am grateful for my therapist. I am also grateful to be able to talk to my mom yesterday about our emotions
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Moniqua
As a teen, I suffer from literally everything mentioned here. I come from a judgemental family, a family of perfectionists. I'm always compared to my late mom and older sister, or sometimes my younger sisters. I always criticise EVERY LITTLE FLAW of mine, trying to be perfect like my mom was before my dad killed her. (He's in jail now) I constantly get suicidal thoughts because I feel that I'm not supposed to be in this world, I constantly ask God why He put me here when I'm forever suffering.
Overall this vid is helpful, thank you
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As a teen, I suffer from literally everything mentioned here. I come from a judgemental family, a family of perfectionists. I'm always compared to my late mom and older sister, or sometimes my younger sisters. I always criticise EVERY LITTLE FLAW of mine, trying to be perfect like my mom was before my dad killed her. (He's in jail now) I constantly get suicidal thoughts because I feel that I'm not supposed to be in this world, I constantly ask God why He put me here when I'm forever suffering.
Overall this vid is helpful, thank you
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leon
It's a good thing that theres a decline for mental health and emotional well being circumstances and I think self love is a joke I think it's a joke for an action like why should I love myself if there's a bunch of like f prideful people going around thinking that they're so great and that they're so special because they love themselves that's f prideful and now I think it's a joke For an action
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It's a good thing that theres a decline for mental health and emotional well being circumstances and I think self love is a joke I think it's a joke for an action like why should I love myself if there's a bunch of like f prideful people going around thinking that they're so great and that they're so special because they love themselves that's f prideful and now I think it's a joke For an action
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Hymn
I had a ptsd attack at eotk the other day but wotk was good to me and I felt bad. littlerally. I didn't know how ptsd can physically affect you. everything was in a sore state and the little things I have about my body I have issues with. I actually got to speak to a therapist and they mentioned a lot about this. they told me talking to someone was a big step. I have a help number when I need it
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I had a ptsd attack at eotk the other day but wotk was good to me and I felt bad. littlerally. I didn't know how ptsd can physically affect you. everything was in a sore state and the little things I have about my body I have issues with. I actually got to speak to a therapist and they mentioned a lot about this. they told me talking to someone was a big step. I have a help number when I need it
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Maximilian
I use the treat yourself like you would treat a friend trick for overly negative self-criticism. I find it works better to use actual friends, rather than just the abstract concept of a friend, and choosing a friend who is the most similar to yourself for each particular circumstance improves the efficacy even more. Helps bridge the intellectual acceptance vs. emotional acceptance gap.
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I use the treat yourself like you would treat a friend trick for overly negative self-criticism. I find it works better to use actual friends, rather than just the abstract concept of a friend, and choosing a friend who is the most similar to yourself for each particular circumstance improves the efficacy even more. Helps bridge the intellectual acceptance vs. emotional acceptance gap.
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Savana
After watching this, it makes me want to get help with my self-esteem. I related to far too many points made in this video. I would tell my parents I want professional help with this, but I feel like they wouldnt get it, since I have trouble finding the words I want to say, or theyll just forget in a week; It wouldnt be anything new.
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After watching this, it makes me want to get help with my self-esteem. I related to far too many points made in this video. I would tell my parents I want professional help with this, but I feel like they wouldnt get it, since I have trouble finding the words I want to say, or theyll just forget in a week; It wouldnt be anything new.
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Aliveness
My friends and my boyfriend left me because of how problematic I am. Theyre were right, because I couldnt find out why my self esteem is bad. This helps me understand how I can cope with my emotions and create a healthier lifestyle and friendship, maybe a relationship (even tho how will I know my partners emotions are healthy.
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My friends and my boyfriend left me because of how problematic I am. Theyre were right, because I couldnt find out why my self esteem is bad. This helps me understand how I can cope with my emotions and create a healthier lifestyle and friendship, maybe a relationship (even tho how will I know my partners emotions are healthy.
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Cow
Yeah, I compare others who have cars to myself. Puny how they need to ride funny-looking cubes. I laugh whenever I see a car far away moving, the vans are the funniest ones.
Edit: who doesn't love bikes? I bike for kilometers instead of driving with cars because I have no car, driving is boring and PAIN IS FUN
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Yeah, I compare others who have cars to myself. Puny how they need to ride funny-looking cubes. I laugh whenever I see a car far away moving, the vans are the funniest ones.
Edit: who doesn't love bikes? I bike for kilometers instead of driving with cars because I have no car, driving is boring and PAIN IS FUN
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Levi
Thx this thought me some great things. Ive been struggling a lot with self confindence for a while now and I realized that when I didnt like something I did in the past something I should not do I would pretend like it never happened (sry if that didnt make much sense lol) thx youre so helpful (:
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Thx this thought me some great things. Ive been struggling a lot with self confindence for a while now and I realized that when I didnt like something I did in the past something I should not do I would pretend like it never happened (sry if that didnt make much sense lol) thx youre so helpful (:
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el
Its like your videos are made for me, you always know when Im feeling these types of feelings and sensed that Im feeling down. Thank you for always being here to comfort and give me reassurance and in the same time educating me and teaching how to self love. Thank you so much
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Its like your videos are made for me, you always know when Im feeling these types of feelings and sensed that Im feeling down. Thank you for always being here to comfort and give me reassurance and in the same time educating me and teaching how to self love. Thank you so much
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FELIPE
Number one is so accurate, I tend to think it will bring me a step ahead, like I will be more self-aware in order to avoid akwardness or disappointment, but the truth is, nobody can read other peoples minds and by trying to play psychic, you end up trusting nobody
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Number one is so accurate, I tend to think it will bring me a step ahead, like I will be more self-aware in order to avoid akwardness or disappointment, but the truth is, nobody can read other peoples minds and by trying to play psychic, you end up trusting nobody
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Tessa
After being diagnose I learned a lot about mental health my number one lesson is dont expect to be cured in a day bad habits take years to solidify so dont beat yourself up if you dont improve in a day, a week, or even a year Healing TAKES TIME so give yourself time
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After being diagnose I learned a lot about mental health my number one lesson is dont expect to be cured in a day bad habits take years to solidify so dont beat yourself up if you dont improve in a day, a week, or even a year Healing TAKES TIME so give yourself time
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Gionder
I do most of these to myself on a daily basis. Started doing therapy October last year and still haven't gotten over most of those bad habits. But feasible progress is being made, thankfully. I'm grateful for your videos, keep this great effort up!
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I do most of these to myself on a daily basis. Started doing therapy October last year and still haven't gotten over most of those bad habits. But feasible progress is being made, thankfully. I'm grateful for your videos, keep this great effort up!
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Sooner
(my opinions)
1) john doe over there, who cares what he thinks. F. him.
2) i need to do this, i want to do this.
3) we must have cheat days. we can let it go one day. that won't hurt it.
4) _______ (i fill in that blank area)
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(my opinions)
1) john doe over there, who cares what he thinks. F. him.
2) i need to do this, i want to do this.
3) we must have cheat days. we can let it go one day. that won't hurt it.
4) _______ (i fill in that blank area)
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Arslan
Im 28 years started working at whole foods making 15. 50 per hour as a part timer. I feeling like how in the hell am i not in a good paying job and if i don't get something soon than there is zero chance of someone like me to be happy
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Im 28 years started working at whole foods making 15. 50 per hour as a part timer. I feeling like how in the hell am i not in a good paying job and if i don't get something soon than there is zero chance of someone like me to be happy
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Artistic
There has been a big decline in mental health. I can't tell you how many people I've known has lost others through suicide or has attempted suicide. These videos are so informational. I wish those people would've seen these videos.
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There has been a big decline in mental health. I can't tell you how many people I've known has lost others through suicide or has attempted suicide. These videos are so informational. I wish those people would've seen these videos.
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Sama
I feel like the fact that I turn 20 next year is messing with my self-esteem, as it's pretty much the age you stop being seen as a teen and start being seen as an adult.
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I feel like the fact that I turn 20 next year is messing with my self-esteem, as it's pretty much the age you stop being seen as a teen and start being seen as an adult.
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Christopher
Everyone has emotional baggage.
Some people carry a tote bag, while others carry a weekender.
I pack a couple of steamer trunks, and ship the rest!
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Everyone has emotional baggage.
Some people carry a tote bag, while others carry a weekender.
I pack a couple of steamer trunks, and ship the rest!
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AzyLee
I didn't really know how much I needed to fix myself without watching you. I realised I had a lot of problems while watching your videos.
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I didn't really know how much I needed to fix myself without watching you. I realised I had a lot of problems while watching your videos.
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The
I found myself during summer, staying up extremely late and sleeping for shorter periods of time. And starving myself and never knew why
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I found myself during summer, staying up extremely late and sleeping for shorter periods of time. And starving myself and never knew why
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Rains.
Sometimes I'm not really opened about myself, but sometimes I feel afraid that the people I'm close to are gonna forget about me.
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Sometimes I'm not really opened about myself, but sometimes I feel afraid that the people I'm close to are gonna forget about me.
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