7 Relationship Behaviors You Should Never Tolerate
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Date: 2023-08-20
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KASTLES
I was in a relationship where things started taking a bad turn when I chose to move to go to school. I would have stayed local, but to be honest, I hated the city I was living in and a solid chunk of my daily life as a result, and the schooling I wanted was not available locally. I was vocal when we met about planning to move to another city and made it repeatedly known while they pursued me that I had no intention to stay, and even said no several times when asked out because I didn't want to become attached to someone who would try to discourage me from pursuing my goals and getting out of somewhere I was very clearly not happy. I admit that the constant pursuit eventually weakened my defenses and we eventually started dating- which was my mistake. I did not exert my boundaries as concretely as I should have and I ended up falling hard for him. Very early on- within the first week, he started with the love bombing and within the first month was making offhand comments about if we ever got married. There were red flags and it did scare me and I just tried my best to slow things down and give them time to actually develop. He constantly made comments about the city I wanted to move to that were disrespectful, discouraging and negative, and I realized early that he had no intention to come with me when I decided I needed to follow my plans through. I accepted that and tried to enjoy fully our relationship for what it was as long as I was in it. When the opportunity to leave finally came, I did ask him if he wanted to come with me. He very plainly said no, as I expected. But once I decided that I needed to, for myself, to put myself first for once in my life, things unraveled quickly. He became blaming and cruel and constantly argumentative and suddenly I was the bad guy in every conversation. He even tried to convince me that I could be satisfied in my life never achieving my goals as long as I had him. We broke up, and I moved. 6 months later, he begged for me back and swore to move to be with me, claiming that he made a huge mistake and he was not happy anymore trying to live his life without me in it. I waited for him for another year. He visited, he spent holidays, we exchanged gifts and went on dates and talked every single day. Until I found out he was cheating on me with a roommate he took in that he didn't see fit to even tell me about. He lied and said it was a one time mistake, but I discovered that it was consistent and he was essentially living a second life there with a whole ass other woman and her kids (I was his roommate when he began to pursue me- which is, I discovered, something he has done many times in the past. He had lied to, gaslit, and generally constantly mentally abused me the entire time. He accused me of cheating with my own roommate, who I'm not in any way attracted to and has his own girlfriend, and ending a secret pregnancy with his baby, even though I can't have children. He got mad if I spent time with friends of my own even in his absence and made it out like if I had friends I would never have time for him. And at the end of it all, he made it out like I was the problem, it was my fault, and that my feelings about it all made me a drama queen and a psycho, and that DESPITE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR APARTMENTS TOGETHER, WE WEREN'T EVEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO BE CHEATING. He tried to convince me to stay friends, but I recognized even then that he is surrounded by his exes because he needs narcissistic supply. Now, this roommate he was cheating with is dressing like me, getting piercings I have and desperately trying to become me to catch his notice. I'm disgusted with myself for allowing the narcissistic abuse to even take place. Thank you for coming into my life to educate me about things that were happening to me real time and being able to finally identify it and get out.
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I was in a relationship where things started taking a bad turn when I chose to move to go to school. I would have stayed local, but to be honest, I hated the city I was living in and a solid chunk of my daily life as a result, and the schooling I wanted was not available locally. I was vocal when we met about planning to move to another city and made it repeatedly known while they pursued me that I had no intention to stay, and even said no several times when asked out because I didn't want to become attached to someone who would try to discourage me from pursuing my goals and getting out of somewhere I was very clearly not happy. I admit that the constant pursuit eventually weakened my defenses and we eventually started dating- which was my mistake. I did not exert my boundaries as concretely as I should have and I ended up falling hard for him. Very early on- within the first week, he started with the love bombing and within the first month was making offhand comments about if we ever got married. There were red flags and it did scare me and I just tried my best to slow things down and give them time to actually develop. He constantly made comments about the city I wanted to move to that were disrespectful, discouraging and negative, and I realized early that he had no intention to come with me when I decided I needed to follow my plans through. I accepted that and tried to enjoy fully our relationship for what it was as long as I was in it. When the opportunity to leave finally came, I did ask him if he wanted to come with me. He very plainly said no, as I expected. But once I decided that I needed to, for myself, to put myself first for once in my life, things unraveled quickly. He became blaming and cruel and constantly argumentative and suddenly I was the bad guy in every conversation. He even tried to convince me that I could be satisfied in my life never achieving my goals as long as I had him. We broke up, and I moved. 6 months later, he begged for me back and swore to move to be with me, claiming that he made a huge mistake and he was not happy anymore trying to live his life without me in it. I waited for him for another year. He visited, he spent holidays, we exchanged gifts and went on dates and talked every single day. Until I found out he was cheating on me with a roommate he took in that he didn't see fit to even tell me about. He lied and said it was a one time mistake, but I discovered that it was consistent and he was essentially living a second life there with a whole ass other woman and her kids (I was his roommate when he began to pursue me- which is, I discovered, something he has done many times in the past. He had lied to, gaslit, and generally constantly mentally abused me the entire time. He accused me of cheating with my own roommate, who I'm not in any way attracted to and has his own girlfriend, and ending a secret pregnancy with his baby, even though I can't have children. He got mad if I spent time with friends of my own even in his absence and made it out like if I had friends I would never have time for him. And at the end of it all, he made it out like I was the problem, it was my fault, and that my feelings about it all made me a drama queen and a psycho, and that DESPITE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR APARTMENTS TOGETHER, WE WEREN'T EVEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO BE CHEATING. He tried to convince me to stay friends, but I recognized even then that he is surrounded by his exes because he needs narcissistic supply. Now, this roommate he was cheating with is dressing like me, getting piercings I have and desperately trying to become me to catch his notice. I'm disgusted with myself for allowing the narcissistic abuse to even take place. Thank you for coming into my life to educate me about things that were happening to me real time and being able to finally identify it and get out.
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nunnofyourbusiness
Here's to everyone who saw this video right now and is currently in a relationship like this:
You may struggle about ending things in a relationship. Sometimes you are sure that it is toxic and you want to end it, start your own life and be free, but sometimes you are scared of what would happen after it, scared of the unknown, of being lonely or you think you could change that person. You start telling yourself that everything is not that bad or that deep down you love that person. I have been there for about 2 years under extreme conditions in a 3 years relationship. Let me tell you what I learned because it may help you and prevent that you have to go through what I had to walk through.
Don't listen to that feeling that you might love this person. This is not love, it is just what you maybe think love is because you grew up with similar patterns or special lacks you had to grow up with, there are plenty of videos that teach you more about that false believe of love. You also can't change a person. Change has to be from the person itself, but it is not your job, nor can you even do anything. The only thing that happens is that you get worse and worse. The last thing is about being scared of leaving a life in which you suffer but at least are used to everything and there is nothing new and scary: do it. I struggled so long. In the end I finally did it. I have gone through everything. And it's worth it and it's not as bad as you think. The first weeks are hard, but if you pass those you will get your life back and you have freedom and the option to be lucky. If you stay in this relationship you will practically stop living because that is no life in which you canot decide how to live it. When you stay, it will be you own death. So you have nothing to lose. Try everything, get your energy together and get out there. Maybe look for help, but you have no idea what changes I have been through in just one year. What I reached in one year. And don't underestimate the late sequelae, those are tough but you can prepare yourself. I wish you all the best luck.
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Here's to everyone who saw this video right now and is currently in a relationship like this:
You may struggle about ending things in a relationship. Sometimes you are sure that it is toxic and you want to end it, start your own life and be free, but sometimes you are scared of what would happen after it, scared of the unknown, of being lonely or you think you could change that person. You start telling yourself that everything is not that bad or that deep down you love that person. I have been there for about 2 years under extreme conditions in a 3 years relationship. Let me tell you what I learned because it may help you and prevent that you have to go through what I had to walk through.
Don't listen to that feeling that you might love this person. This is not love, it is just what you maybe think love is because you grew up with similar patterns or special lacks you had to grow up with, there are plenty of videos that teach you more about that false believe of love. You also can't change a person. Change has to be from the person itself, but it is not your job, nor can you even do anything. The only thing that happens is that you get worse and worse. The last thing is about being scared of leaving a life in which you suffer but at least are used to everything and there is nothing new and scary: do it. I struggled so long. In the end I finally did it. I have gone through everything. And it's worth it and it's not as bad as you think. The first weeks are hard, but if you pass those you will get your life back and you have freedom and the option to be lucky. If you stay in this relationship you will practically stop living because that is no life in which you canot decide how to live it. When you stay, it will be you own death. So you have nothing to lose. Try everything, get your energy together and get out there. Maybe look for help, but you have no idea what changes I have been through in just one year. What I reached in one year. And don't underestimate the late sequelae, those are tough but you can prepare yourself. I wish you all the best luck.
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ProBloxyCola
What you said here is actually completely true, Ive been in a friendship that has lasted 2 years, and Ive recently pulled the plug. When I first met them in grade three, they were extremely kind and helpful, and they were also my first friend at a new school. When it reached Grade 4 and 5, thanks when my best friend started to become emotionally and physically abusive. But me, being an empath didnt want to lose my first and best friend. I can remember one time where they stepped past my boundaries, and started talking to their friends about my mums death, even though I didnt want them to. I walked away, to get a refresher but they kept following me, calling me a crybaby for being upset that my mum died. My school didnt care though, the vice principal just said She has autism, she cant help it which my friends and I found absolutely crazy because a disability shouldnt be used as an excuse for being toxic to someone. Its crazy that I only pulled the plug about a year ago, in grade 5, when we had a massive fight. It was a 5-1 fight, but in all honesty, she won. She ended up strangling me for a few seconds, because my friends had to pull her off of me. Only about a month ago, she asked me if we could be friends again, and I politely replied with no, as I do not want to go through that again. For worse, only my grade 5 teacher knows how abusive she has been to me, the other teachers dont give a scrap about what she did to me. For anyone who is dealing with a toxic relationship, try to cut it off as soon as possible. Thats what most people say, but its extremely hard, especially if youve been friends for years. Due to me not cutting it off earlier, my mental health fell down a bottomless pit, and kept falling, and no one understood how my friend was impacting me emotionally. Thankfully my mental health has been better than ever since I cut off the friendship, and I now have amazing friends that are still with me today. Stay safe, everyone!
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What you said here is actually completely true, Ive been in a friendship that has lasted 2 years, and Ive recently pulled the plug. When I first met them in grade three, they were extremely kind and helpful, and they were also my first friend at a new school. When it reached Grade 4 and 5, thanks when my best friend started to become emotionally and physically abusive. But me, being an empath didnt want to lose my first and best friend. I can remember one time where they stepped past my boundaries, and started talking to their friends about my mums death, even though I didnt want them to. I walked away, to get a refresher but they kept following me, calling me a crybaby for being upset that my mum died. My school didnt care though, the vice principal just said She has autism, she cant help it which my friends and I found absolutely crazy because a disability shouldnt be used as an excuse for being toxic to someone. Its crazy that I only pulled the plug about a year ago, in grade 5, when we had a massive fight. It was a 5-1 fight, but in all honesty, she won. She ended up strangling me for a few seconds, because my friends had to pull her off of me. Only about a month ago, she asked me if we could be friends again, and I politely replied with no, as I do not want to go through that again. For worse, only my grade 5 teacher knows how abusive she has been to me, the other teachers dont give a scrap about what she did to me. For anyone who is dealing with a toxic relationship, try to cut it off as soon as possible. Thats what most people say, but its extremely hard, especially if youve been friends for years. Due to me not cutting it off earlier, my mental health fell down a bottomless pit, and kept falling, and no one understood how my friend was impacting me emotionally. Thankfully my mental health has been better than ever since I cut off the friendship, and I now have amazing friends that are still with me today. Stay safe, everyone!
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Candeekissez
You forgot to mention lying. I just caught my boyfriend with another woman tonight. It was my fault for showing up unannounced. I had asked him to let me know he got home okay after traveling in bad weather. When I didn't hear from him in over two hours and texting and calling him to no avail. I left him a text and voice mail that I was on my way to his house. (He's 76 yo and not in the best health) When I arrived, he was in the bathroom (probably texting me the lie that I later found on my phone saying that he was broke down in another town and for me not to show up. His other girlfriend answered the door and asked me who I was, when I told her I was his girlfriend, she said, I'm his girlfriend. A very interesting conversation took place between her and me; while he stood there like a deer caught in the headlights. He didn't want to talk to us while we were all there together, he wanted to separate us and then explain himself. Well, of course, he did, that way he could continue in his lies hoping he could con both of us! If you want to know his name and the town in which he lives, just ask.
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You forgot to mention lying. I just caught my boyfriend with another woman tonight. It was my fault for showing up unannounced. I had asked him to let me know he got home okay after traveling in bad weather. When I didn't hear from him in over two hours and texting and calling him to no avail. I left him a text and voice mail that I was on my way to his house. (He's 76 yo and not in the best health) When I arrived, he was in the bathroom (probably texting me the lie that I later found on my phone saying that he was broke down in another town and for me not to show up. His other girlfriend answered the door and asked me who I was, when I told her I was his girlfriend, she said, I'm his girlfriend. A very interesting conversation took place between her and me; while he stood there like a deer caught in the headlights. He didn't want to talk to us while we were all there together, he wanted to separate us and then explain himself. Well, of course, he did, that way he could continue in his lies hoping he could con both of us! If you want to know his name and the town in which he lives, just ask.
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Freeturtle132
Im not sure if my relationship is toxic or not. Ive been with the same man for 7 years. Hes never met my parents because they believe he ruined what was going to be my marriage; I couldnt see myself marrying the person I was with at the time so I left.
When neither of us know what to eat for dinner hell sit in silence for hours, then hell leave out of the blue. He doesnt like the music I listen to: I only play it when hes not here or Im alone in my car. He doesnt like me sharing experiences with my coworkers because its none of their business but I just need an outside verification or opinion. He got upset with me once because he didnt have any clean work clothes. I later told him thats not my responsibility and he seemed okay with that
He doesnt like it when I play video games on my switch because Im not paying attention to him. Ive tried to introduce him to things I like (anime, etc) but he makes no effort. He doesnt help around the house unless if I ask him to.
Can someone please give me insight?
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Im not sure if my relationship is toxic or not. Ive been with the same man for 7 years. Hes never met my parents because they believe he ruined what was going to be my marriage; I couldnt see myself marrying the person I was with at the time so I left.
When neither of us know what to eat for dinner hell sit in silence for hours, then hell leave out of the blue. He doesnt like the music I listen to: I only play it when hes not here or Im alone in my car. He doesnt like me sharing experiences with my coworkers because its none of their business but I just need an outside verification or opinion. He got upset with me once because he didnt have any clean work clothes. I later told him thats not my responsibility and he seemed okay with that
He doesnt like it when I play video games on my switch because Im not paying attention to him. Ive tried to introduce him to things I like (anime, etc) but he makes no effort. He doesnt help around the house unless if I ask him to.
Can someone please give me insight?
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Neha
As I was watching this video, I realized that my husband and my MIL did all the mentioned things in the video. Gaslighting, manipulation, taking control of every thing, restricting me to even call my parents, accusing me that I stole things, Verbally abuse my parents and belittle my family, always complaining, pressuring me to do things which I don't want to do and physically abusing me.
I tolerated all that for 1 year.
and now I am going through a divorce. But it really makes me sad and frustrates me that how he and his mom blamed everything on me. They put so many allegations on me like I used to beat him etc. I have never even slapped someone in my life.
All these things have made me so anxious. I know I am not wrong but this has effected me so much, I have lost confidence on myself and I am so afraid of them.
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As I was watching this video, I realized that my husband and my MIL did all the mentioned things in the video. Gaslighting, manipulation, taking control of every thing, restricting me to even call my parents, accusing me that I stole things, Verbally abuse my parents and belittle my family, always complaining, pressuring me to do things which I don't want to do and physically abusing me.
I tolerated all that for 1 year.
and now I am going through a divorce. But it really makes me sad and frustrates me that how he and his mom blamed everything on me. They put so many allegations on me like I used to beat him etc. I have never even slapped someone in my life.
All these things have made me so anxious. I know I am not wrong but this has effected me so much, I have lost confidence on myself and I am so afraid of them.
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Brandy
I'm working on getting out. He keeps wanting me to spend the night and I keep saying no, and putting my foot down. There's very messed up things in my past that he wasn't around for, and he always makes me feel two inches tall about it, even after putting years of hard work between me and my past. And then he'll go and treat me how someone in my past would have treated me, thinking that i liked being treated like that. I can't wait till I get somewhere permanent. He has my kitties because I can't have them where I'm at temporarily, and I want them back.
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I'm working on getting out. He keeps wanting me to spend the night and I keep saying no, and putting my foot down. There's very messed up things in my past that he wasn't around for, and he always makes me feel two inches tall about it, even after putting years of hard work between me and my past. And then he'll go and treat me how someone in my past would have treated me, thinking that i liked being treated like that. I can't wait till I get somewhere permanent. He has my kitties because I can't have them where I'm at temporarily, and I want them back.
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Chipmunk
It Happened to me I was in this kind of relationship for a decade and I didn't realised it I thought it was normal and by the time I realised it was too late, I was struggling to let them go and when I did after a lot of courage and thought I was traumatized and I still am, it effects my daily life and I don't want to make friends but I don't want to be lonely either. I face things like anxiety, social anxiety and insomnia becuz of it. I recommend ppl to leave this kind of relationship as soon as possible becuz it can be so unhealthy for u.
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It Happened to me I was in this kind of relationship for a decade and I didn't realised it I thought it was normal and by the time I realised it was too late, I was struggling to let them go and when I did after a lot of courage and thought I was traumatized and I still am, it effects my daily life and I don't want to make friends but I don't want to be lonely either. I face things like anxiety, social anxiety and insomnia becuz of it. I recommend ppl to leave this kind of relationship as soon as possible becuz it can be so unhealthy for u.
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Lachimolala
I m having one best friend at starting of our friendship she was good as months passed she started to control me. I have to be with her all the time and she only needs me only she needs money, and if she gets any new friends she totally forgot even I was alive or not and all the time if I talk to any of my friends she get jealous and because of her I m unable talk to my friends correctly, she be like why don't you dress like that dress like this. And private talk if I share to her she will spread it everyone. I am totally tired of her.
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I m having one best friend at starting of our friendship she was good as months passed she started to control me. I have to be with her all the time and she only needs me only she needs money, and if she gets any new friends she totally forgot even I was alive or not and all the time if I talk to any of my friends she get jealous and because of her I m unable talk to my friends correctly, she be like why don't you dress like that dress like this. And private talk if I share to her she will spread it everyone. I am totally tired of her.
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spook
I dont know what to do
Me and my gf are constantly arguing,
We rarely message unless I message first, and we go days without talking in a row. sometimes she wont reply to me for days but will be messaging and calling everyone else regularly and her excuses are that it just slipped her mind or she was only messaging her other friends because of a video game.
I dont know what to do about it, in our arguments I always tell her what upsets me etc but nothing changes. and we haven't seen eacother irl in almost two months.
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I dont know what to do
Me and my gf are constantly arguing,
We rarely message unless I message first, and we go days without talking in a row. sometimes she wont reply to me for days but will be messaging and calling everyone else regularly and her excuses are that it just slipped her mind or she was only messaging her other friends because of a video game.
I dont know what to do about it, in our arguments I always tell her what upsets me etc but nothing changes. and we haven't seen eacother irl in almost two months.
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pocket
I think the second reason should've been more descriptive, because someone might have their partner try to change them for the better. For instance, if they spend hours at home doing nothing, sitting on discord playing games, try to bring them to the gym and get them to incorporate the gym into their life. Who knows? Maybe you can be their own personal trainer, lover, and outlet all in one package. But in the end, no means no, and its always best to have good overall intuition.
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I think the second reason should've been more descriptive, because someone might have their partner try to change them for the better. For instance, if they spend hours at home doing nothing, sitting on discord playing games, try to bring them to the gym and get them to incorporate the gym into their life. Who knows? Maybe you can be their own personal trainer, lover, and outlet all in one package. But in the end, no means no, and its always best to have good overall intuition.
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claire
My friend of 9 years has recently started doing these things this year. It had been totally fine until school started again. I've known that they are doing half of these things on the list, but I barely have any friends, so I've just been trying to hang on and hope it gets better. It's been a little better, and I hope it stays that way. I'm trying to hang on until the end of the school year so next year I can get a fresh start if it's still a toxic relationship by then.
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My friend of 9 years has recently started doing these things this year. It had been totally fine until school started again. I've known that they are doing half of these things on the list, but I barely have any friends, so I've just been trying to hang on and hope it gets better. It's been a little better, and I hope it stays that way. I'm trying to hang on until the end of the school year so next year I can get a fresh start if it's still a toxic relationship by then.
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KosterMoltas
This video really helped me with depression, I used to have a bunch of friends that always criticise me and say that everything they do will always be better than me no matter what. Every night I would go to bed crying wondering what I had done wrong and what I could do better. When I asked them what I could do better they would only tell me that it's bad and never give a reason. I am no longer friends with them.
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This video really helped me with depression, I used to have a bunch of friends that always criticise me and say that everything they do will always be better than me no matter what. Every night I would go to bed crying wondering what I had done wrong and what I could do better. When I asked them what I could do better they would only tell me that it's bad and never give a reason. I am no longer friends with them.
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V30
I think I'm in a manipulative relationship at this point.
My friend keeps on controlling me or keeps telling me what I can't or can do
for example:
'u can't watch him play friday night funkin'
like O>O
am i ur puppet or smth?
Then she keeps doing a lot of pranks that acatully make me uncomfortable-
and some of em gets me to the point where i end up crying: (
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I think I'm in a manipulative relationship at this point.
My friend keeps on controlling me or keeps telling me what I can't or can do
for example:
'u can't watch him play friday night funkin'
like O>O
am i ur puppet or smth?
Then she keeps doing a lot of pranks that acatully make me uncomfortable-
and some of em gets me to the point where i end up crying: (
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chevy
i actually suffer from almost all of this and I just wanna let go yet i find myself coming back again and again even tho I know how bad it is
He said that if we broke up he'll commit suicide that is one thing that scares me that is why I kept on tolerating his behaivors now I am in a desperate need of help cause I wanna get out of this situation.
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i actually suffer from almost all of this and I just wanna let go yet i find myself coming back again and again even tho I know how bad it is
He said that if we broke up he'll commit suicide that is one thing that scares me that is why I kept on tolerating his behaivors now I am in a desperate need of help cause I wanna get out of this situation.
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education
only one of these I've experienced is the crossing boundaries one, but I explained to them a couple times that I was uncomfortable with what they were doing. The first one or two times they acted sad and said they'd stop and they were sorry and then kept doing it, but eventually they stopped doing the things that make me uncomfortable.
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only one of these I've experienced is the crossing boundaries one, but I explained to them a couple times that I was uncomfortable with what they were doing. The first one or two times they acted sad and said they'd stop and they were sorry and then kept doing it, but eventually they stopped doing the things that make me uncomfortable.
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Lonely
Recently I stopped being friends with someone because I felt it was VERY toxic. They had done all of these, I didnt realize how toxic it was. Others said they didnt like her and didnt trust her, but I was just happy to finally have a friend. Im glad Im not friends with her anymore because now Im happy and Im not struggling like I was.
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Recently I stopped being friends with someone because I felt it was VERY toxic. They had done all of these, I didnt realize how toxic it was. Others said they didnt like her and didnt trust her, but I was just happy to finally have a friend. Im glad Im not friends with her anymore because now Im happy and Im not struggling like I was.
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Brook
Most of my friends never respect physical boundaries I recently got a concussion and when I told them they wont stop hitting my head I have told them to stop one time I threw up when they hit my head and they started to shame me I dont want to leave them but Im starting to think I have to for my well being (sorry that Im late)
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Most of my friends never respect physical boundaries I recently got a concussion and when I told them they wont stop hitting my head I have told them to stop one time I threw up when they hit my head and they started to shame me I dont want to leave them but Im starting to think I have to for my well being (sorry that Im late)
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Elliot
i recently got ditched by one of my best friends who i was friends with since the start of highschool and its only now that ive been reevaluating my relationships and realising how toxic and how often they did these things it by watching your videos! i just wanna thank you psych2go for spreading info on these topics: )
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i recently got ditched by one of my best friends who i was friends with since the start of highschool and its only now that ive been reevaluating my relationships and realising how toxic and how often they did these things it by watching your videos! i just wanna thank you psych2go for spreading info on these topics: )
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Seicheez
but probably the most important thing to realize is that if they mean you harm or not
my friends have been the worse friends ive had but i mean it in a funny way not honestly, but sarcastically.
but if i were to put it honestly, they arent the brightest friends, but they are the realest friends
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but probably the most important thing to realize is that if they mean you harm or not
my friends have been the worse friends ive had but i mean it in a funny way not honestly, but sarcastically.
but if i were to put it honestly, they arent the brightest friends, but they are the realest friends
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SkillDancer
I am currently in a relationship but my girlfriend stopped giving me any attention and is too lazy to communicate. I am trying to help her with problems she says she does have but she does not care at all in addition I feel like the relationship is down on dead bottom of her priority list.
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I am currently in a relationship but my girlfriend stopped giving me any attention and is too lazy to communicate. I am trying to help her with problems she says she does have but she does not care at all in addition I feel like the relationship is down on dead bottom of her priority list.
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Colin
My mom recently assaulted my dad and attempted to run him over, now when Im forced to get on legal calls with her, she claims she never did that and that lies are getting around. I saw her do all of this. I know shes narcissistic but I just wish I could tell her without her exploding
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My mom recently assaulted my dad and attempted to run him over, now when Im forced to get on legal calls with her, she claims she never did that and that lies are getting around. I saw her do all of this. I know shes narcissistic but I just wish I could tell her without her exploding
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alt3000
for number two, what if what they're doing is genuinely detrimental to the relationship? like, not just personal preference kind of detrimental but objectively destructive behaviour. thats what i never understood when people say dont try to change people
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for number two, what if what they're doing is genuinely detrimental to the relationship? like, not just personal preference kind of detrimental but objectively destructive behaviour. thats what i never understood when people say dont try to change people
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Violet
0: 31 - Physical, verbal or emotional abuse
0: 54 - They want to change you
1: 26 - Overly critical
1: 57 - Crossing boundaries
2: 24 - Gaslighting
2: 43 - Lack of communication
3: 15 - Manipulation and control
-Ha
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0: 31 - Physical, verbal or emotional abuse
0: 54 - They want to change you
1: 26 - Overly critical
1: 57 - Crossing boundaries
2: 24 - Gaslighting
2: 43 - Lack of communication
3: 15 - Manipulation and control
-Ha
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Mel
My boyfriend is controlling and he OCCASIONALLY gaslights me, but it's his first relationship and I know he doesn't mean to be toxic at all. But idk. I love him but he's recently tried to control who I hang out with.
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My boyfriend is controlling and he OCCASIONALLY gaslights me, but it's his first relationship and I know he doesn't mean to be toxic at all. But idk. I love him but he's recently tried to control who I hang out with.
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