7 Signs People Are Repulsed By Your Aura
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Date: 2024-03-26
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melaniescribbles
It's weird, but I have the opposite happening; I must have some kind of inviting aura about me, and I sometimes wish that it wasn't as strong. Like, I'm a reasonably tall autistic fat goth in glasses with a bad case of resting btch face, and I naturally have some elements in my body language that involve crossing my arms and such. You'd think that this all would keep people away like no tomorrow. But nope; if a tourist needs directions, guess who they speak to first. And as an artist; I somehow end up making longer-term friends the moment I pull out my sketchbook. Like, I have an anime-ish art style, so it's usually people that later turn out to be fellow weebs and geeks, so I'm honestly not complaining here; I have social anxiety as well, so I'd really struggle with approaching people first. No joke, I only draw in public if I actually want to make friends; the geeks often are polite, and ask if they can sit with me and watch me draw, so I often just let them stick around. So many non-geeky people just get extremely weird about me drawing in public if I do that all the time, though. Especially that weird creepy hovering over you while watching you draw over your shoulder without a single word uttered that people do freaks me out; that's just so creepy in my book, regardless of gender, and it just makes all of my 'stranger danger' senses go off. Like, it's some complete stranger every time, and they always get so close that I CAN LITERALLY FEEL THEIR BREATH ON ME.
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It's weird, but I have the opposite happening; I must have some kind of inviting aura about me, and I sometimes wish that it wasn't as strong. Like, I'm a reasonably tall autistic fat goth in glasses with a bad case of resting btch face, and I naturally have some elements in my body language that involve crossing my arms and such. You'd think that this all would keep people away like no tomorrow. But nope; if a tourist needs directions, guess who they speak to first. And as an artist; I somehow end up making longer-term friends the moment I pull out my sketchbook. Like, I have an anime-ish art style, so it's usually people that later turn out to be fellow weebs and geeks, so I'm honestly not complaining here; I have social anxiety as well, so I'd really struggle with approaching people first. No joke, I only draw in public if I actually want to make friends; the geeks often are polite, and ask if they can sit with me and watch me draw, so I often just let them stick around. So many non-geeky people just get extremely weird about me drawing in public if I do that all the time, though. Especially that weird creepy hovering over you while watching you draw over your shoulder without a single word uttered that people do freaks me out; that's just so creepy in my book, regardless of gender, and it just makes all of my 'stranger danger' senses go off. Like, it's some complete stranger every time, and they always get so close that I CAN LITERALLY FEEL THEIR BREATH ON ME.
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ryanricks318
Wots wits dat conditioning dat is repulsive to meh anything other than standard acceptable whom set standards o acceptable doth i truely have need o this group's acceptance kinda feels like I'm killing minezelf in such a process to become the idea o wot theys desires then accepting minezelf as genuinely as possible whom seys theys has alls the hottest ideas furs others to b ugh controlling loopy behavior patterns popular manipulation o mob mentality n being lumped in wits ugh gotta perform operations furs survival rate o survival results consequences punishment rounds o wot theys moods to deliver but I've no moods to appreciate dat passionate reaction i don't even understand the motivation o dat course o actions i jus don't behavior as dat but can goes through the motions so to prevent zelf from receiving damage n harm kinda jealous o how theys displays affection but if i behaves in equal manner theys example theys does dat double standard routines jus ain't receptive as theys wants others to b alls more then theys can possibly ootput ugh being so confused is also repulsive to them ugh idfk whrrrs wot we doing again ugh theys in some mood o idfk n mine communication skills issues is suckage but to give up fool's errand shall we bouts spimes gits a move on dat awful progression session n how does dat inkblot speaks to ya tells meh bouts impression remarkably ur permitted to show off critical thinking skills issues err n wot else plz n tysm laters nya sojourneys
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Wots wits dat conditioning dat is repulsive to meh anything other than standard acceptable whom set standards o acceptable doth i truely have need o this group's acceptance kinda feels like I'm killing minezelf in such a process to become the idea o wot theys desires then accepting minezelf as genuinely as possible whom seys theys has alls the hottest ideas furs others to b ugh controlling loopy behavior patterns popular manipulation o mob mentality n being lumped in wits ugh gotta perform operations furs survival rate o survival results consequences punishment rounds o wot theys moods to deliver but I've no moods to appreciate dat passionate reaction i don't even understand the motivation o dat course o actions i jus don't behavior as dat but can goes through the motions so to prevent zelf from receiving damage n harm kinda jealous o how theys displays affection but if i behaves in equal manner theys example theys does dat double standard routines jus ain't receptive as theys wants others to b alls more then theys can possibly ootput ugh being so confused is also repulsive to them ugh idfk whrrrs wot we doing again ugh theys in some mood o idfk n mine communication skills issues is suckage but to give up fool's errand shall we bouts spimes gits a move on dat awful progression session n how does dat inkblot speaks to ya tells meh bouts impression remarkably ur permitted to show off critical thinking skills issues err n wot else plz n tysm laters nya sojourneys
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psych2go
I feel that way all the time. I've tried every thing to change that but nothing worked. I had one neighbor who would wave to me or say HI to me but she moved away. I find making eye contact rather intimidating. Even when I approach with a smile and make eye contact they give me dirty looks. Some would say WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT WEIRDO or yell at me HAY, QUIT LOOKING AT ME CREEP! or worse yet a cop approaches me and asks what I'm doing here and I say that I'm just here to meet people and make new friends, what's wrong with that Then he would say I'VE GOT COMPLAINTS ABOUT YOU, YOUR MAKING A BUNCH OF PEOPLE NERVUS. I'm like HUH HOW AM I DOING THAT' He would say I'M NOT SURE, BUT YOU SEEM LIKE A NICE PERSON TO ME. I say THANKS, CAN I GO NOW He would say YES, YOU MAY GO NOW, JUST WHERE ARE YOU GOING I say HOME. He says 'THAT'S A GOOD IDEA, SEE YOU AROUND.
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I feel that way all the time. I've tried every thing to change that but nothing worked. I had one neighbor who would wave to me or say HI to me but she moved away. I find making eye contact rather intimidating. Even when I approach with a smile and make eye contact they give me dirty looks. Some would say WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT WEIRDO or yell at me HAY, QUIT LOOKING AT ME CREEP! or worse yet a cop approaches me and asks what I'm doing here and I say that I'm just here to meet people and make new friends, what's wrong with that Then he would say I'VE GOT COMPLAINTS ABOUT YOU, YOUR MAKING A BUNCH OF PEOPLE NERVUS. I'm like HUH HOW AM I DOING THAT' He would say I'M NOT SURE, BUT YOU SEEM LIKE A NICE PERSON TO ME. I say THANKS, CAN I GO NOW He would say YES, YOU MAY GO NOW, JUST WHERE ARE YOU GOING I say HOME. He says 'THAT'S A GOOD IDEA, SEE YOU AROUND.
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xxaintweapairxx
Remember, if any of this ever happens to you it's probably because you're an awesome person and people and just jealous of you. If people have a problem with you they shouldn't be cowards and confront you. The fact they don't do anything but low-key hate you, just highlights their cowardice in life and you don't need people like that around. You're aura is unique to you, There is no one like you in the world and you don't need to be liked by anyone so long as you have someone to love or someone who loves you more than the world can ever hate you. That's what matters in life.
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Remember, if any of this ever happens to you it's probably because you're an awesome person and people and just jealous of you. If people have a problem with you they shouldn't be cowards and confront you. The fact they don't do anything but low-key hate you, just highlights their cowardice in life and you don't need people like that around. You're aura is unique to you, There is no one like you in the world and you don't need to be liked by anyone so long as you have someone to love or someone who loves you more than the world can ever hate you. That's what matters in life.
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euklid2229
I'm an extrovert and I feel the urge to meet new people and I always find a way to get to common ground with someone, shared interests, similar mindsets etc. And yet, I keep getting rejected socially, and I'm always the one to reach out first, even when a person seems to like me more. People have said I am an intimidating person (not physically, and they're shy around me, but if I get to know them a bit better, they are closer to a more introverted and sheltered person than they'd ever get close with me. Whatever my stance and mood is, it always ends up like that.
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I'm an extrovert and I feel the urge to meet new people and I always find a way to get to common ground with someone, shared interests, similar mindsets etc. And yet, I keep getting rejected socially, and I'm always the one to reach out first, even when a person seems to like me more. People have said I am an intimidating person (not physically, and they're shy around me, but if I get to know them a bit better, they are closer to a more introverted and sheltered person than they'd ever get close with me. Whatever my stance and mood is, it always ends up like that.
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user-bz5yg8lq6u
Since May of 2023, people have been avoiding me and repulsed by my aura. And I do know why. SINCE MAY OF 2023! I have been chosen by specific people. I have to isolate myself because anyone who had came in contact with me had been harassed. So Stay far far far away from me. No, I am not imagining things. And it's not the people that harassed others and myself faults. I am trying to save them too. I don't want to make their job any harder so stay as far away from me as much as possible.
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Since May of 2023, people have been avoiding me and repulsed by my aura. And I do know why. SINCE MAY OF 2023! I have been chosen by specific people. I have to isolate myself because anyone who had came in contact with me had been harassed. So Stay far far far away from me. No, I am not imagining things. And it's not the people that harassed others and myself faults. I am trying to save them too. I don't want to make their job any harder so stay as far away from me as much as possible.
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RyanNerdyGamer
Moving from my hometown for over a decade and coming back here for an extended stay has made me realise it was never a case of people avoiding me until my adult dropped, cos people here _still_ actively avoid me even now.
This hasn’t happened in either of the other two places I’ve lived elsewhere in the country, where other people seem genuinely friendly (or indifferent at the very least, and that only makes me wanna close the door on this part of my life even more
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Moving from my hometown for over a decade and coming back here for an extended stay has made me realise it was never a case of people avoiding me until my adult dropped, cos people here _still_ actively avoid me even now.
This hasn’t happened in either of the other two places I’ve lived elsewhere in the country, where other people seem genuinely friendly (or indifferent at the very least, and that only makes me wanna close the door on this part of my life even more
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TheSaneHatter
Well, this is a uniquely insulting thing to learn about myself, especially if it's true, because there's absolutely nothing to be done about it. I have Asperger's Syndrome, which lies at the root of most of these problems, and if an entire world of neurotypical people is prepared to treat ANYONE this way on a daily basis, much less because of something as ephemeral as my aura or my vibe, then I have a lot less reason to want their friendship in the first place.
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Well, this is a uniquely insulting thing to learn about myself, especially if it's true, because there's absolutely nothing to be done about it. I have Asperger's Syndrome, which lies at the root of most of these problems, and if an entire world of neurotypical people is prepared to treat ANYONE this way on a daily basis, much less because of something as ephemeral as my aura or my vibe, then I have a lot less reason to want their friendship in the first place.
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psych2go
I’ve learned a hard lesson this year and it’s not going to sound pretty, but if you’re super depressed and you allow it to be visible, people develop a negative opinion of you very quickly. If you don’t want your character to be attacked for looking depressed, you have to learn how to trick people into thinking you’re happy or at least content. I hate this but I’d probably be at least 50% less depressed by now had I realized this sooner.
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I’ve learned a hard lesson this year and it’s not going to sound pretty, but if you’re super depressed and you allow it to be visible, people develop a negative opinion of you very quickly. If you don’t want your character to be attacked for looking depressed, you have to learn how to trick people into thinking you’re happy or at least content. I hate this but I’d probably be at least 50% less depressed by now had I realized this sooner.
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Jooney91
If you're an INTJ, none of this helps. Don't get me wrong - I'm not saying you shouldn't be generally polite when interacting with people. But don't beat yourself up just because people mostly find you unapproachable and arrogant before you even open your mouth. There are people like you who understand. And people who genuinely like you for who you are. Don't worry and don't try too hard.
fellow INTJ
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If you're an INTJ, none of this helps. Don't get me wrong - I'm not saying you shouldn't be generally polite when interacting with people. But don't beat yourself up just because people mostly find you unapproachable and arrogant before you even open your mouth. There are people like you who understand. And people who genuinely like you for who you are. Don't worry and don't try too hard.
fellow INTJ
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MissyQ12345
I always plan just to not talk very much. I am awkward, and i am not included in any family activities -- lunch, movies.
They only want me on holidays and act like it's so important for me to be there. But the other 360 days i don't exist.
Or if they want me to do something for them, then i'm at the top of the list -- wouldn't want to bother the people they really like. Truth.
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I always plan just to not talk very much. I am awkward, and i am not included in any family activities -- lunch, movies.
They only want me on holidays and act like it's so important for me to be there. But the other 360 days i don't exist.
Or if they want me to do something for them, then i'm at the top of the list -- wouldn't want to bother the people they really like. Truth.
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psych2go
These are meaningful signs, but personally I'd like to say that sometimes, some mean people will just avoid you or talk bad about you, nitpick something which is not in your control because they have nothing better to do. I used to think i was the problem, but then other people reacted good to my jokes and demeanor, so i realize now that it was those individual's problem, not mine
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These are meaningful signs, but personally I'd like to say that sometimes, some mean people will just avoid you or talk bad about you, nitpick something which is not in your control because they have nothing better to do. I used to think i was the problem, but then other people reacted good to my jokes and demeanor, so i realize now that it was those individual's problem, not mine
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maxwalsh9950
Number 1 (0: 55) Avoiding eye contact
Number 2 (1: 55) Uncomfortable body language
Number 3 (2: 34) Limited social invitations
Number 4 (3: 05) Quick Exits/Excuses
Number 5 (3: 37) Feeling drained around others
Number 6 (4: 11) Receiving negative feedback
Number 7 (4: 46) Lack of meaningful connections
Have a great day everyone: )
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Number 1 (0: 55) Avoiding eye contact
Number 2 (1: 55) Uncomfortable body language
Number 3 (2: 34) Limited social invitations
Number 4 (3: 05) Quick Exits/Excuses
Number 5 (3: 37) Feeling drained around others
Number 6 (4: 11) Receiving negative feedback
Number 7 (4: 46) Lack of meaningful connections
Have a great day everyone: )
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KashouWannabe
So basically, a lot of it is just unfair stigma, manufactured either when you are having a bad day, or maybe they're the one on a bad day.
It isn't your problem, it's theirs, yet you suffer.
I know what this is like; this is no exaggeration to say people will simply see my first name and automatically put me in a hated position.
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So basically, a lot of it is just unfair stigma, manufactured either when you are having a bad day, or maybe they're the one on a bad day.
It isn't your problem, it's theirs, yet you suffer.
I know what this is like; this is no exaggeration to say people will simply see my first name and automatically put me in a hated position.
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Belianaria8213
I was told I had autism by my elementary school, and now I am in high school, I am bad at keeping friendships and also just award in general. I am also diagnosed with epilepsy and I also taking medication (the liquid kind. I wasn’t socialing openly as a kid, according to my parents. Psycho2go videos made me feel worst about myself.
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I was told I had autism by my elementary school, and now I am in high school, I am bad at keeping friendships and also just award in general. I am also diagnosed with epilepsy and I also taking medication (the liquid kind. I wasn’t socialing openly as a kid, according to my parents. Psycho2go videos made me feel worst about myself.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Avoiding eye contact 0: 54
2. Uncomfortable body language 1: 52
3. Limited social invitations 2: 33
4. Quick exits or excuses 3: 04
5. Feeling draining around others 3: 36
6. Receiving negative feedback 4: 10
7. Lack of meaningful connections 4: 45
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Avoiding eye contact 0: 54
2. Uncomfortable body language 1: 52
3. Limited social invitations 2: 33
4. Quick exits or excuses 3: 04
5. Feeling draining around others 3: 36
6. Receiving negative feedback 4: 10
7. Lack of meaningful connections 4: 45
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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MegaManNeo
Hmm. I actually think for myself people are comfortable around me for the most part.
Learning to keep eye contact was difficult to me but I actually like it.
However, I have only one real friend or at least I want to believe in that person to be that special.
It's very insightful and interesting video nonetheless.
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Hmm. I actually think for myself people are comfortable around me for the most part.
Learning to keep eye contact was difficult to me but I actually like it.
However, I have only one real friend or at least I want to believe in that person to be that special.
It's very insightful and interesting video nonetheless.
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Kasa022
I had a colleague who must have one poor aura because everybody responded like that to her. She was making people so unconfortable all the time. People were polite but didn't want to spend time with her. She was also not a very intelligent person so talking to her was really a challenge. I hope things changed a bit for her since
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I had a colleague who must have one poor aura because everybody responded like that to her. She was making people so unconfortable all the time. People were polite but didn't want to spend time with her. She was also not a very intelligent person so talking to her was really a challenge. I hope things changed a bit for her since
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user-bz5yg8lq6u
I am so so so sorry. May you all be freed. I will do my best to keep a distance from everybody even my family. I will do what I can to protect them from a distance. I love you to the moon and back many times over. My sweet ex-husband, I forgive you. I forgave you long time ago. Take care. I wish you peace and success.
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I am so so so sorry. May you all be freed. I will do my best to keep a distance from everybody even my family. I will do what I can to protect them from a distance. I love you to the moon and back many times over. My sweet ex-husband, I forgive you. I forgave you long time ago. Take care. I wish you peace and success.
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RyanFrost-cc8nm
I don’t like anyone anyways so we’re good. It really falls down to whether you like what they like, have the same values and morals, hobbies, and similar levels of attractiveness. If you have something someone wants then of course they’ll be your friend.
Save your time and energy, and love yourself.
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I don’t like anyone anyways so we’re good. It really falls down to whether you like what they like, have the same values and morals, hobbies, and similar levels of attractiveness. If you have something someone wants then of course they’ll be your friend.
Save your time and energy, and love yourself.
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