Challenges of Dating As An Introvert
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Date: 2024-03-28
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psych2go
To be honest, this is the 1st video of yours about introverts that I actually watched. As usual, I'm a schizophrenic. I find myself getting overwhelmed by meeting people and make too many insecurities around me but I sometimes ruin myself or don't do anything being alone. I was erotomaniac paranoid type when making obsessions with crushes who I've only communicated through my mind without any physical interaction. So, I think that's supposed to be my own world. I found a new society which isn't typically forcing themselves to isolate me. Although, they also question me about the same kinds of things mentioned in this video such as why do I refuse to eat together sharing the same package of lunch, why do I hesitate to stick together with others etc. even though there're no good answers for some of those even for me. Dating is something which makes me super paranoid but rather tired and currently I've lost the entire interest in it. Does it mean that I'm an introvert
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To be honest, this is the 1st video of yours about introverts that I actually watched. As usual, I'm a schizophrenic. I find myself getting overwhelmed by meeting people and make too many insecurities around me but I sometimes ruin myself or don't do anything being alone. I was erotomaniac paranoid type when making obsessions with crushes who I've only communicated through my mind without any physical interaction. So, I think that's supposed to be my own world. I found a new society which isn't typically forcing themselves to isolate me. Although, they also question me about the same kinds of things mentioned in this video such as why do I refuse to eat together sharing the same package of lunch, why do I hesitate to stick together with others etc. even though there're no good answers for some of those even for me. Dating is something which makes me super paranoid but rather tired and currently I've lost the entire interest in it. Does it mean that I'm an introvert
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RedFella0115
As someone who isn't necessarily the most outgoing or extroverted person, I really enjoyed this video. And even though I'm not currently dating anyone, I still could relate to many of the points made in this video. For example, I feel that I prefer having meaningful interactions with someone(with friendships, romantic relationships, etc, opposed to just small talk. Even when making new friends or meeting new people, I may need a little of bit time to warm up to them, prior to being comfortable when talking to them. Not to say that small talk is bad or anything but if I want to form a genuine, real connection with someone, I at least want to try to get to know them a little bit. However this in itself is not the easiest thing in the world for me. Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Keep up the great work Psych2go!
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As someone who isn't necessarily the most outgoing or extroverted person, I really enjoyed this video. And even though I'm not currently dating anyone, I still could relate to many of the points made in this video. For example, I feel that I prefer having meaningful interactions with someone(with friendships, romantic relationships, etc, opposed to just small talk. Even when making new friends or meeting new people, I may need a little of bit time to warm up to them, prior to being comfortable when talking to them. Not to say that small talk is bad or anything but if I want to form a genuine, real connection with someone, I at least want to try to get to know them a little bit. However this in itself is not the easiest thing in the world for me. Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Keep up the great work Psych2go!
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klasrem
This video honestly just helped solidify how I describe myself. An extrovert completely buried by an introvert. I always have this desire to talk to people, to want to do something with people, but everytime I try, I start to get stressed and need time to recharge. Sometimes, that recharge is days, weeks, or months long. I've also got this sort of party mode in my brain that whenever I'm at a place and having fun, all self control is gone and I do whatever comes to my mind. Then it's weird because there's people I talk to that I need a social battery for, but then others where I can be with forever.
I'm just all over the place
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This video honestly just helped solidify how I describe myself. An extrovert completely buried by an introvert. I always have this desire to talk to people, to want to do something with people, but everytime I try, I start to get stressed and need time to recharge. Sometimes, that recharge is days, weeks, or months long. I've also got this sort of party mode in my brain that whenever I'm at a place and having fun, all self control is gone and I do whatever comes to my mind. Then it's weird because there's people I talk to that I need a social battery for, but then others where I can be with forever.
I'm just all over the place
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d1l4te43
I just struggle to meet young new people my age who are also single because my introverted life doesn’t often put me next to others in similar situations. Most of my friends from high school have moved away, and unfortunately I’ve kind of just been left here to find new people in my life. I have great coworkers at my job who I get along with well, but at home and on my weekends, it gets a little lonely. I’m sure someday I’ll meet some awesome people and find an amazing romantic partner, I just have to be a little more patient.
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I just struggle to meet young new people my age who are also single because my introverted life doesn’t often put me next to others in similar situations. Most of my friends from high school have moved away, and unfortunately I’ve kind of just been left here to find new people in my life. I have great coworkers at my job who I get along with well, but at home and on my weekends, it gets a little lonely. I’m sure someday I’ll meet some awesome people and find an amazing romantic partner, I just have to be a little more patient.
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babyburch33
As an introvert, this video is accurate and very helpful for others that are venturing into the dating world.
I honestly wish that my peers who are also extroverts can understand and take the time to learn about these topics. I find dating to be a challenge and they always force me to join them in social outings. I always deny the requests because I feel extremely anxious and drained but with the help of some really good, close friends that understands my introversion, the moments are always unforgettable and relaxing.
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As an introvert, this video is accurate and very helpful for others that are venturing into the dating world.
I honestly wish that my peers who are also extroverts can understand and take the time to learn about these topics. I find dating to be a challenge and they always force me to join them in social outings. I always deny the requests because I feel extremely anxious and drained but with the help of some really good, close friends that understands my introversion, the moments are always unforgettable and relaxing.
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MegaManNeo
What you said in this video suits me 100% at all times.
Social anxieties, bullying although childhood and my teenage years as well as a terrible first relationship with someone who just used me for her own interests, multiply the difficulties with dating or even just to get in contact and adapt to new people like 1000 times.
Feel pretty much like a failure just by thinking about it but maybe I am also just meant to exist in social context.
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What you said in this video suits me 100% at all times.
Social anxieties, bullying although childhood and my teenage years as well as a terrible first relationship with someone who just used me for her own interests, multiply the difficulties with dating or even just to get in contact and adapt to new people like 1000 times.
Feel pretty much like a failure just by thinking about it but maybe I am also just meant to exist in social context.
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JL15545
As an introvert, I always found it challenging to go out and meet new people and find a date, but having an extroverted friend was something I’ve always appreciated because a lot of them motivated me to go out more and when we’re out, they’re like a personal social navigator, helping to break the ice and making things less awkward when meeting new people. They’re also great at helping you find a date as they can act as your wingman/wingwoman.
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As an introvert, I always found it challenging to go out and meet new people and find a date, but having an extroverted friend was something I’ve always appreciated because a lot of them motivated me to go out more and when we’re out, they’re like a personal social navigator, helping to break the ice and making things less awkward when meeting new people. They’re also great at helping you find a date as they can act as your wingman/wingwoman.
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psych2go
This girl avoided me like 4 times when I walked past her as if I was being creepy, but this what confuses me. I went to a different area and like 5 mins later that same girl decides to stand right next to me, she was standing there doing nothing at all, but when I left the area she looked back at me. What does this body langue mean And she had gave choosing signals previously like staring and getting close to me etc
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This girl avoided me like 4 times when I walked past her as if I was being creepy, but this what confuses me. I went to a different area and like 5 mins later that same girl decides to stand right next to me, she was standing there doing nothing at all, but when I left the area she looked back at me. What does this body langue mean And she had gave choosing signals previously like staring and getting close to me etc
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TheGhostGirl.
Hi it is not about this film but I need someone to answer this question, really.
Is is a thing, to search through all your memories and things you did when you feel like you have a toxic or controlling friend
To find out if you're just imagining all of it and making it bigger than it actually is
I've been feeling this way for quite some time and have no idea what to do about it.
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Hi it is not about this film but I need someone to answer this question, really.
Is is a thing, to search through all your memories and things you did when you feel like you have a toxic or controlling friend
To find out if you're just imagining all of it and making it bigger than it actually is
I've been feeling this way for quite some time and have no idea what to do about it.
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andreimircea2254
For me, the biggest challenge is to meet new people, I actually prefer IRL one on one meetings, but I want the person I am seeing to be at the very least not put off by me because I don’t want to be someone’s discomfort. That and mainly the sheer cost of energy required to meet new people with no guarantee in sight is making the process so difficult and extra tiresome for me.
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For me, the biggest challenge is to meet new people, I actually prefer IRL one on one meetings, but I want the person I am seeing to be at the very least not put off by me because I don’t want to be someone’s discomfort. That and mainly the sheer cost of energy required to meet new people with no guarantee in sight is making the process so difficult and extra tiresome for me.
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psych2go
As a teenage introvert and autistic I spend most of my time interacting with the people I already know or close to
I hated changing schools as it took me a while to finally get settled and actually make friends I actually connect with
As for dating well have not even tried yet as the thought of having to meet nor have a conversation with the girl I like but don't know is terrifying
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As a teenage introvert and autistic I spend most of my time interacting with the people I already know or close to
I hated changing schools as it took me a while to finally get settled and actually make friends I actually connect with
As for dating well have not even tried yet as the thought of having to meet nor have a conversation with the girl I like but don't know is terrifying
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Meeting new people 1: 04
2. Social settings 1: 35
3. Needing to recharge 2: 07
4. It's not pressure to be outgoing 2: 38
5. Are you so quiet all the time or told that they're boring to date 3: 07
6. Dealing with rejection 3: 50
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Meeting new people 1: 04
2. Social settings 1: 35
3. Needing to recharge 2: 07
4. It's not pressure to be outgoing 2: 38
5. Are you so quiet all the time or told that they're boring to date 3: 07
6. Dealing with rejection 3: 50
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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joonasautio4890
As an introvert i can agree to everything they said. I had a crush on this one girl for 2 years before telling her about it becouse I was scared about rejection. Now we have been dating for 2 months and it has been the best time of my life, so thank you psych2Go for giving me the courage to tell her.
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As an introvert i can agree to everything they said. I had a crush on this one girl for 2 years before telling her about it becouse I was scared about rejection. Now we have been dating for 2 months and it has been the best time of my life, so thank you psych2Go for giving me the courage to tell her.
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Nikojira
This video came at the right time lol.
As an introverted, it's pretty difficult for me to really meet new people and making connections, and dating is not and exception in this. I'd just force myself to be more outgoing and coming out of my comfort-zone, maybe I just need some extroverted friends
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This video came at the right time lol.
As an introverted, it's pretty difficult for me to really meet new people and making connections, and dating is not and exception in this. I'd just force myself to be more outgoing and coming out of my comfort-zone, maybe I just need some extroverted friends
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Psych2go
We faced some challenges with this animation and didn't want to waste this project. Here's a special sneak peek behind the scene of this project. Question:
Do you frequently let the video play in the background while multitasking, or do you watch it without doing anything else
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We faced some challenges with this animation and didn't want to waste this project. Here's a special sneak peek behind the scene of this project. Question:
Do you frequently let the video play in the background while multitasking, or do you watch it without doing anything else
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Psych2go
We faced some challenges with this animation and didn't want to waste this project. Here's a special sneak peek behind the scene of this project. Question:
Do you frequently let the video play in the background while multitasking, or do you watch it without doing anything else
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We faced some challenges with this animation and didn't want to waste this project. Here's a special sneak peek behind the scene of this project. Question:
Do you frequently let the video play in the background while multitasking, or do you watch it without doing anything else
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psych2go
I struggle with rejection, as an introvert, cause the rejection lead to complete ignoring. It happened around my birthday too, so not the greatest time. Its been difficult getting over it, cause i always blame it on myself. And i hate the feeling of being in that, but here i am
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I struggle with rejection, as an introvert, cause the rejection lead to complete ignoring. It happened around my birthday too, so not the greatest time. Its been difficult getting over it, cause i always blame it on myself. And i hate the feeling of being in that, but here i am
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gil. 3522
me trying to confess my feeling to an extrovert as an introvert
me: Okay today's the day!
I see them with their friends
my friends: Come on! Tell him!
me: Nvm I'll do it some other time
it's been a week since that and I still wanna tell him: (
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me trying to confess my feeling to an extrovert as an introvert
me: Okay today's the day!
I see them with their friends
my friends: Come on! Tell him!
me: Nvm I'll do it some other time
it's been a week since that and I still wanna tell him: (
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sandiletwala3001
As an introvert, I find hard to do things socially and I also find it hard to ask for help when I need it cuz I grew up being a DIY and dating has never occurred in my mind cuz I don't see the point of involving someone in your life romantically
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As an introvert, I find hard to do things socially and I also find it hard to ask for help when I need it cuz I grew up being a DIY and dating has never occurred in my mind cuz I don't see the point of involving someone in your life romantically
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alexm-e4910
I’ve got the double whammy of introversion and a low level neurodivergence that makes me in capable of knowing when flirting is happening.
Blend that with 0 self esteem and self confidence, and you’ve got one very lonely guy
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I’ve got the double whammy of introversion and a low level neurodivergence that makes me in capable of knowing when flirting is happening.
Blend that with 0 self esteem and self confidence, and you’ve got one very lonely guy
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