5 Red Flags In Sex To Be Aware Of (Nobody Talks About)
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Date: 2024-06-13
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jamistache4148
My ex of 3 years (who I lost my virginity to) had literally all of these red flags. No foreplay or aftercare even though I asked for some. Only wanted to satisfy his own needs and was super lazy. If I wasn't in the mood he would insist. If I told him I was uncomfortable he ignored me. If I asked him to change how or where he was touching he would tell me I was wrong and he knew better. He would touch or undress me at random times when I didn't want him to and tell me he was allowed to whenever he wanted because he was my bf. At one point told me people who are shy need to be pushed and when I said but no means no told me that I should be easier to get along with. Another time tried to force me to do stuff after I said no multiple times. Then afterwards said he was allowed because I was willing to do it in the past. I cried. He rolled over and went to sleep. Then later he tried to tell me it was all just a miscommunication and I was overreacting. LOL
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My ex of 3 years (who I lost my virginity to) had literally all of these red flags. No foreplay or aftercare even though I asked for some. Only wanted to satisfy his own needs and was super lazy. If I wasn't in the mood he would insist. If I told him I was uncomfortable he ignored me. If I asked him to change how or where he was touching he would tell me I was wrong and he knew better. He would touch or undress me at random times when I didn't want him to and tell me he was allowed to whenever he wanted because he was my bf. At one point told me people who are shy need to be pushed and when I said but no means no told me that I should be easier to get along with. Another time tried to force me to do stuff after I said no multiple times. Then afterwards said he was allowed because I was willing to do it in the past. I cried. He rolled over and went to sleep. Then later he tried to tell me it was all just a miscommunication and I was overreacting. LOL
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aleccooklin3898
In the middle of the deed with my ex they commented on how little i was able to take, i have been insecure about that since. I hope that others havent had the same experience as me but i know that the world isnt that nice. Please if your partner does anything over your boundries talk about it, and if they don't apologies or do but don't follow through with it, it's probably best to leave the relationship behind because it will only get worse. Stay safe everyone
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In the middle of the deed with my ex they commented on how little i was able to take, i have been insecure about that since. I hope that others havent had the same experience as me but i know that the world isnt that nice. Please if your partner does anything over your boundries talk about it, and if they don't apologies or do but don't follow through with it, it's probably best to leave the relationship behind because it will only get worse. Stay safe everyone
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Latika-rm2km
I was just four when a make believe play game led to. A bad memory due to which i don't really like to let anyone even touch my genital area. Yet i foster this idea in back of my head, quite fairytale like, one day i would have a soulmate with whom i would feel safe and comfortable enough so i shouldn't do it with strangers or those one night stand like things. Everyone has someone its true if u really wanna believe
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I was just four when a make believe play game led to. A bad memory due to which i don't really like to let anyone even touch my genital area. Yet i foster this idea in back of my head, quite fairytale like, one day i would have a soulmate with whom i would feel safe and comfortable enough so i shouldn't do it with strangers or those one night stand like things. Everyone has someone its true if u really wanna believe
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Lon_elly
I really need someone's opinion on this, okay
So a few days ago my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason at all, and before that he used to get jealous when i talked to one of my guy friends, he said that I'm not allowed to talk to guys, even tho he talks to multiple girls, drinks from their used cups and even sometimes put his hand on their shoulder, am i the asshole or was i just being manipulated
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I really need someone's opinion on this, okay
So a few days ago my boyfriend broke up with me for no reason at all, and before that he used to get jealous when i talked to one of my guy friends, he said that I'm not allowed to talk to guys, even tho he talks to multiple girls, drinks from their used cups and even sometimes put his hand on their shoulder, am i the asshole or was i just being manipulated
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apl-chan545
Damn, I kinda realized why foreplay with my ex was so painful now, he just wasn’t doing it right. I always thought it was my fault, but I guess he just didn’t know the proper spot and ended up causing me massive pain instead of pleasure. To be fair, I didn’t really know how to correct him either but damn. Ironic considering he had way more experience than I did though.
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Damn, I kinda realized why foreplay with my ex was so painful now, he just wasn’t doing it right. I always thought it was my fault, but I guess he just didn’t know the proper spot and ended up causing me massive pain instead of pleasure. To be fair, I didn’t really know how to correct him either but damn. Ironic considering he had way more experience than I did though.
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kellyhuston8305
I am considered a senior by a silly number, but I had no idea that being touched by your partner when you are asleep is considered rape. It was a difficult thing for me to realize what has been happening for several years. Anyone else had this problem If so, how did you address it
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I am considered a senior by a silly number, but I had no idea that being touched by your partner when you are asleep is considered rape. It was a difficult thing for me to realize what has been happening for several years. Anyone else had this problem If so, how did you address it
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joanasolera8809
An important thing to add here is that if it's your first partner, they may ask you to do things you end up normalizing or understanding that 'this is how it goes' and it's not always the case. Especially with guys that have had hookups and consume much porn
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An important thing to add here is that if it's your first partner, they may ask you to do things you end up normalizing or understanding that 'this is how it goes' and it's not always the case. Especially with guys that have had hookups and consume much porn
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SusanSnapDragon
I’ve definitely had a lot of trouble with both foreplay being rushed and aftercare not happening or my partner looking at his phone and not focusing on me during said aftercare, which makes things really difficult and unsatisfying.
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I’ve definitely had a lot of trouble with both foreplay being rushed and aftercare not happening or my partner looking at his phone and not focusing on me during said aftercare, which makes things really difficult and unsatisfying.
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klappstuhl4370
First time, my inner ADHD voice wouldn't shut up. I was unable to focus on the moment that was happening, my mind was racing! Foreplay would've helped a lot, my one-and-only Tinder date just wanted to get straight into it.
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First time, my inner ADHD voice wouldn't shut up. I was unable to focus on the moment that was happening, my mind was racing! Foreplay would've helped a lot, my one-and-only Tinder date just wanted to get straight into it.
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Malacite
Also no kink shaming. No really, if you're put off or hesitant with regards to something your partner is into/needs, be honest and respectful about it and don't just flame them for being a gross or a degenerate etc.
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Also no kink shaming. No really, if you're put off or hesitant with regards to something your partner is into/needs, be honest and respectful about it and don't just flame them for being a gross or a degenerate etc.
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sarahhernandez421
Very informative! Great video! I hope the team makes more videos like this because it can be difficult for young adults to understand the concept around pleasure and feeling comfortable with one’s body: )
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Very informative! Great video! I hope the team makes more videos like this because it can be difficult for young adults to understand the concept around pleasure and feeling comfortable with one’s body: )
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yesterdayseyes
Individuals with female genitalia you mean women, and only women. What a strange way to say women.
You're in the cult, aren't you While you talk about red flags. What a joke. You are a red flag.
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Individuals with female genitalia you mean women, and only women. What a strange way to say women.
You're in the cult, aren't you While you talk about red flags. What a joke. You are a red flag.
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theshamanite
There's other issues that can come up without aftercare depending on what that person experienced too. There's a lot of wacky things that come up bc of trauma, especially around aspects of that act
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There's other issues that can come up without aftercare depending on what that person experienced too. There's a lot of wacky things that come up bc of trauma, especially around aspects of that act
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twistedfellow7041
Although I have only had experience through text, I have run into a lot of partners that don't do much in return. I enjoy causing pleasure, but it is disheartening to not receive in return. .;
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Although I have only had experience through text, I have run into a lot of partners that don't do much in return. I enjoy causing pleasure, but it is disheartening to not receive in return. .;
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epwolf4937
So am I bad at aftercare because I end up passing out while cuddling my partner. Because he never said it was an issue but I’m always looking for ways to improve myself in the relationship.
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So am I bad at aftercare because I end up passing out while cuddling my partner. Because he never said it was an issue but I’m always looking for ways to improve myself in the relationship.
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gutters00
while i was with my ex girlfriend, she used to leave immediately when we are done, i thought like that's a good thing bc she told me it won't leave things awkward, what a lie ig the more yk
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while i was with my ex girlfriend, she used to leave immediately when we are done, i thought like that's a good thing bc she told me it won't leave things awkward, what a lie ig the more yk
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bluecrayola1081
I’d rather be single than deal with any of this again, I’m absolved to see my ex got under the category of all of this. it messed me up but I’m healing
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I’d rather be single than deal with any of this again, I’m absolved to see my ex got under the category of all of this. it messed me up but I’m healing
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tompegorinno5141
After care had never been more important. In my experience, after bondage sessions, after care is usually the phase i look forward ever so dearly.
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After care had never been more important. In my experience, after bondage sessions, after care is usually the phase i look forward ever so dearly.
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Klausinator451
I had a lady bite my tongue off once. I thought it was a red flag buuuut, She immediately said sorry and gave it back, so im not sure what to think.
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I had a lady bite my tongue off once. I thought it was a red flag buuuut, She immediately said sorry and gave it back, so im not sure what to think.
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horchatadiver
Oh thank you for this video cause I be fing hella ho3z. And sometimes I be funkin on a bih and think in my head like wait was that a red flag
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Oh thank you for this video cause I be fing hella ho3z. And sometimes I be funkin on a bih and think in my head like wait was that a red flag
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