5 Things to Avoid to Win Your Crush
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Anyways I'm pretty much over what happened but sometimes I feel confused as to to what even led to that in the first place and wether it was because of my terrible ability to read social cues (I'm neurodivergent) or if i said something wrong unintentionally
Date: 2024-02-04
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redheadbelle
first of all, i’m a fan of getting each other to know regularly & see what happens. taking it a bit slow is a good approach, but if the chemistry is there, it can unfold on their own pace.
secondly, i hate to string people along or gain validation of them, i don’t need this. when i like someone, i’m straightforward to it. i also wouldn’t say i wanna be friends to have them sticking around. negging (i haven’t heard the term before) i never a good idea, as no one wants to feel a bit bad about themselves. you can tease in a positive yet playful way that makes the other person feel good.
i love being in contact when i like someone, yet appreciate it if they don’t take it personally if i don’t respond always straight away, as i (&them) have also things to do and can’t be available all the time.
it’s good to tell your crush. don’t wait too long. you have nothing to lose
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first of all, i’m a fan of getting each other to know regularly & see what happens. taking it a bit slow is a good approach, but if the chemistry is there, it can unfold on their own pace.
secondly, i hate to string people along or gain validation of them, i don’t need this. when i like someone, i’m straightforward to it. i also wouldn’t say i wanna be friends to have them sticking around. negging (i haven’t heard the term before) i never a good idea, as no one wants to feel a bit bad about themselves. you can tease in a positive yet playful way that makes the other person feel good.
i love being in contact when i like someone, yet appreciate it if they don’t take it personally if i don’t respond always straight away, as i (&them) have also things to do and can’t be available all the time.
it’s good to tell your crush. don’t wait too long. you have nothing to lose
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akafloid9664
I am wondering if I should ask this girl out for valentines day. We've talked twice in person and texted a bit over smaller things like hobbies and current situations etc and I really like her and I at least know she does like me too to some extent as she was the one to text me first but I really only know her for a few weeks and I dont know if its too soon Then again I told myself that the next time I like a girl I won't wait for too long because in the past that backfired horribly. The upside to asking someone out for me early on is that I dont get too attached to the person so my fear of rejection doesnt set in. In her case even if she says no I can still be friends with her nontheless
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I am wondering if I should ask this girl out for valentines day. We've talked twice in person and texted a bit over smaller things like hobbies and current situations etc and I really like her and I at least know she does like me too to some extent as she was the one to text me first but I really only know her for a few weeks and I dont know if its too soon Then again I told myself that the next time I like a girl I won't wait for too long because in the past that backfired horribly. The upside to asking someone out for me early on is that I dont get too attached to the person so my fear of rejection doesnt set in. In her case even if she says no I can still be friends with her nontheless
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pauligrossinoz
I've been there too.
In the end what I got out of my first crush were many private tears, and the determination to improve as a person so that I could at least feel worthy of her.
By the time I sort-of felt a bit worthy, so many years had passed that I was just way too late and she had moved on.
But now I've been married to my sweetie for nearly 30 years, my first crush was a memory and a learning experience for the younger me.
That experience has given me empathy when I see the younger generations going through the same painful experience as me.
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I've been there too.
In the end what I got out of my first crush were many private tears, and the determination to improve as a person so that I could at least feel worthy of her.
By the time I sort-of felt a bit worthy, so many years had passed that I was just way too late and she had moved on.
But now I've been married to my sweetie for nearly 30 years, my first crush was a memory and a learning experience for the younger me.
That experience has given me empathy when I see the younger generations going through the same painful experience as me.
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allylambert8470
This reminds me of a time where an old coworker told me I should ask out this other person in the office because They’re single and cute, and so are you. Do it. Ask them. Even though I’m an introverted Squirtle and I didn’t wanna ask them I eventually gave in and did it anyway. They politely said no cuz they were in a relationship. But inside I was so mortified and embarrassed. I knew I should’ve trusted my own gut instincts and not let someone else make my decision for me. I still think about it and get mad sometimes.
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This reminds me of a time where an old coworker told me I should ask out this other person in the office because They’re single and cute, and so are you. Do it. Ask them. Even though I’m an introverted Squirtle and I didn’t wanna ask them I eventually gave in and did it anyway. They politely said no cuz they were in a relationship. But inside I was so mortified and embarrassed. I knew I should’ve trusted my own gut instincts and not let someone else make my decision for me. I still think about it and get mad sometimes.
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marena3511
I love your videos This is the FIRST time I noticed the cartoon pointing a finger at my while emphasizing the point being made. Your information is valid, however it is difficult for me to hear anything that is said to me with a finger pointing in my face. If someone physically spoke to me in the manner portrayed by the cartoon, I would feel compelled to shield myself and deflect the psychic stab of words thrust toward my auric body by the pointing finger accompanying them.
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I love your videos This is the FIRST time I noticed the cartoon pointing a finger at my while emphasizing the point being made. Your information is valid, however it is difficult for me to hear anything that is said to me with a finger pointing in my face. If someone physically spoke to me in the manner portrayed by the cartoon, I would feel compelled to shield myself and deflect the psychic stab of words thrust toward my auric body by the pointing finger accompanying them.
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flamegamer3424
Unfortunately, I have made the first mistake and the third one. I tend to be around with one of my crushes a lot, but later on, they saw me as awkward and didn’t acknowledge me. And even though I was trying to get to them more, I was unsure of myself. They only talk to me when they need something and keep it very short, instead of checking on me and having a good conversation. I’ll try to avoid making those mistakes and the others in the future.
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Unfortunately, I have made the first mistake and the third one. I tend to be around with one of my crushes a lot, but later on, they saw me as awkward and didn’t acknowledge me. And even though I was trying to get to them more, I was unsure of myself. They only talk to me when they need something and keep it very short, instead of checking on me and having a good conversation. I’ll try to avoid making those mistakes and the others in the future.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Trying to win your crush 0: 14
2. Putting them on a pedestal 1: 37
3. Revealing your feelings too fast 2: 19
4. Sending them multiple text messages 2: 47
5. The infamous negging 3: 01
6. Not honouring your self-worth 4: 00
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Trying to win your crush 0: 14
2. Putting them on a pedestal 1: 37
3. Revealing your feelings too fast 2: 19
4. Sending them multiple text messages 2: 47
5. The infamous negging 3: 01
6. Not honouring your self-worth 4: 00
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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katunu6030
Dude I struggle with sending mutiple messages to just my friends. Like I’ll text a friend to ask to play a game and then proceed to send 3-4 more in the next 30 minutes till they tell me why they can’t. It’s a pretty bad habit but my friends don’t seem to mind it sooo it can be put on hold.
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Dude I struggle with sending mutiple messages to just my friends. Like I’ll text a friend to ask to play a game and then proceed to send 3-4 more in the next 30 minutes till they tell me why they can’t. It’s a pretty bad habit but my friends don’t seem to mind it sooo it can be put on hold.
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Xiorx71
1. Trying to win your crush 0: 15
2. Doing what they expect 1: 09
3. Putting them on a pedestal 1: 40
4. Revealing your feelings too fast 2: 20
5. Sending them multiple text messages 2: 48
6. Negging 3: 02
7. Not Honoring your self-worth 4: 01
(there's more than 5 btw lol)
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1. Trying to win your crush 0: 15
2. Doing what they expect 1: 09
3. Putting them on a pedestal 1: 40
4. Revealing your feelings too fast 2: 20
5. Sending them multiple text messages 2: 48
6. Negging 3: 02
7. Not Honoring your self-worth 4: 01
(there's more than 5 btw lol)
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sandshew4158
The texting one depends on the person. Try matching each others texting pattern. My crush and I are super busy so it can be 12hrs between texts. But we send about 6 multi sentence texts in the span of 20min when we are avaliable just continuing the conversation
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The texting one depends on the person. Try matching each others texting pattern. My crush and I are super busy so it can be 12hrs between texts. But we send about 6 multi sentence texts in the span of 20min when we are avaliable just continuing the conversation
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dhendroid2373
I had a huge crush on this girl back in college but I thought she's way too hot for me so I stopped trying and became just friends. And all of a sudden she said I'm her crush and I'm like is this a prank Lol. We ended up dating for a while
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I had a huge crush on this girl back in college but I thought she's way too hot for me so I stopped trying and became just friends. And all of a sudden she said I'm her crush and I'm like is this a prank Lol. We ended up dating for a while
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BillDozer
Putting them on a pedestal and not having self-love are mistakes I've made in the past that caused me to fail. It took some time for me to recover my emotions, but I eventually got there, and now I know not to make the same mistakes again.
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Putting them on a pedestal and not having self-love are mistakes I've made in the past that caused me to fail. It took some time for me to recover my emotions, but I eventually got there, and now I know not to make the same mistakes again.
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erdemdaldal4202
1. Trying to win your crush
2. Doing what they expect
3. Putting them on a pedestal
4. Revealing your feelings too fast
5. Sending them multiple text messages
6. The infamous NEGGING
7. Not honoring your self-worth
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1. Trying to win your crush
2. Doing what they expect
3. Putting them on a pedestal
4. Revealing your feelings too fast
5. Sending them multiple text messages
6. The infamous NEGGING
7. Not honoring your self-worth
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Ellie_Potatoez
You’re so right! I’ve had someone that asked me out but ngl I felt unsure about it and rejected him. He kept nagging me, giving me compliments, saying cringey pick up lines, etc! I became more distant w him cause of that
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You’re so right! I’ve had someone that asked me out but ngl I felt unsure about it and rejected him. He kept nagging me, giving me compliments, saying cringey pick up lines, etc! I became more distant w him cause of that
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N0obusMaximus
You can try without being a try hard. Most girls will not initiate even if they're crazy about you. If you don't at least try, a girl could conclude that you're not worth her time if you're not brave enough to ask her out.
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You can try without being a try hard. Most girls will not initiate even if they're crazy about you. If you don't at least try, a girl could conclude that you're not worth her time if you're not brave enough to ask her out.
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sandshew4158
I've known my crush for almost 5 months now and just had the guts to ask him out. He replied yeah sure I'd like that. I've never been on a date before (I'm 18) so i really am learning as i go
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I've known my crush for almost 5 months now and just had the guts to ask him out. He replied yeah sure I'd like that. I've never been on a date before (I'm 18) so i really am learning as i go
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disasterxdeath
My Crush has trust issues but trust me fully because I was honest from the beginning and respected his boundaries and been there for him when he was going through a mental breakdown.
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My Crush has trust issues but trust me fully because I was honest from the beginning and respected his boundaries and been there for him when he was going through a mental breakdown.
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psych2go
just arrived here! i’m wishing you everyone a good day, i’m so proud of you for being here, you are a strong person! keep going, keep blooming like, a flower! c:
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just arrived here! i’m wishing you everyone a good day, i’m so proud of you for being here, you are a strong person! keep going, keep blooming like, a flower! c:
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damnablethief
Idk im sick of getting treated like a creep just for being nice to people. Honestly, if I didnt look the way I do it wouldn't matter.
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Idk im sick of getting treated like a creep just for being nice to people. Honestly, if I didnt look the way I do it wouldn't matter.
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