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Why Modern Dating Feels Impossible [Japanese Dubbed Available ]
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Date: 2024-09-14
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kayskreed
Social media, capitalism and the digital age has had a negative impact on modern dating. It's not only opened the door to scammers and cheaters like never before, but it's fundamentally skewed the balance between expectation and reality, as well as the valuation of people. It's easier to market people and relationships as products and services, or means to an end, rather than ends in and of themselves. The grass is always greener, or so people have been lied to and told and retold, and once again this is mainly a marketing scheme for big businesses to make greater profits. These sites are not designed to connect like minded people with shared values, or in some cases not to connect anyone at all, but rather to keep people hungry and searching for something that is unlikely to be found.
Old school methods, such as face to face meetings and hangouts have proven difficult also. The pace of life is accelerating, people feel like they have less time, and there's a lack of shared and free of cost public spaces for people to hangout and meet in the first place. Go out requires money, money most rather reserve for more pressing needs. Also, people have responsibilities which only increase post-college years, i. e. people to care for, and such it is nigh impossible to find time to just hang out as we once did in our teens and early twenties. Fundamentally, it's a societal problem and I don't see it getting any better. Some will choose to stay incompatible relationships or jump from person to person without commitment, while others will remain celibate and that will be it.
I think another understated problem is that we as modern people have forgotten one important truth: love is a skill, not something that simply falls into our laps. Love is a noun, but a verb also. And, sadly, it's a skill that is becoming more underutilized, both with reference to the Self and the Other. I see it as a wave of lost souls searching for Love, when they do not even know what it means to love. Like searching for water when you don't even know what water is, how it tastes, what it's meant to do. To rectify this, we have to remind ourselves what it means to love and to become loving persons and not selectively so. But perhaps that's a topic for another day.
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Social media, capitalism and the digital age has had a negative impact on modern dating. It's not only opened the door to scammers and cheaters like never before, but it's fundamentally skewed the balance between expectation and reality, as well as the valuation of people. It's easier to market people and relationships as products and services, or means to an end, rather than ends in and of themselves. The grass is always greener, or so people have been lied to and told and retold, and once again this is mainly a marketing scheme for big businesses to make greater profits. These sites are not designed to connect like minded people with shared values, or in some cases not to connect anyone at all, but rather to keep people hungry and searching for something that is unlikely to be found.
Old school methods, such as face to face meetings and hangouts have proven difficult also. The pace of life is accelerating, people feel like they have less time, and there's a lack of shared and free of cost public spaces for people to hangout and meet in the first place. Go out requires money, money most rather reserve for more pressing needs. Also, people have responsibilities which only increase post-college years, i. e. people to care for, and such it is nigh impossible to find time to just hang out as we once did in our teens and early twenties. Fundamentally, it's a societal problem and I don't see it getting any better. Some will choose to stay incompatible relationships or jump from person to person without commitment, while others will remain celibate and that will be it.
I think another understated problem is that we as modern people have forgotten one important truth: love is a skill, not something that simply falls into our laps. Love is a noun, but a verb also. And, sadly, it's a skill that is becoming more underutilized, both with reference to the Self and the Other. I see it as a wave of lost souls searching for Love, when they do not even know what it means to love. Like searching for water when you don't even know what water is, how it tastes, what it's meant to do. To rectify this, we have to remind ourselves what it means to love and to become loving persons and not selectively so. But perhaps that's a topic for another day.
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Veil_ofthevoid
In September of 2023, my sophomore year in college, I decided to try an experiment. I was and still am horribly lonely, so I told myself, I'm going to deliberately and consciously just try to talk to women, nothing big. So that's what I did. Around late September through Mid October there are several festivals and fairs, including the county fair, the largest by far. The experiment was to walk around, have fun, and simply try to strike up conversation with people to increase my confidence. 22 individual days I spent out and about, mingling. In that 22 days, I approached and tried speaking to 47 women exactly. All of them were the same age group as me, if not a little older. My approach was friendly, kind, not intrusive or invasive. I asked how well they were doing at the carnival game they were playing, or asked them if they knew the origin of the merchandise from video games or TV shows that were being sold there. 47 times, I approached women to simply try and talk to them. 47 times, I walked away insulted, belittled, or shamed. They scoffed, snickered, laughed or mockingly gagged at my mere existence. Additionally, I had - up until recently - 5 different dating apps downloaded since March of 2023, I never received a single like or match on any of them.
Now, a year later, I am still single and unbearably lonely. I have developed Nociplastic Pain Syndrome and Generalized Anxiety Disorder as a result of the events of the past, not making my situation any better. Now, I'm buried neck deep in my classes without hope of finding much time to do anything else other than study, sleep, and study after sleeping. I still want a romantic relationship, my desire of that has not waned, but it completely consumes my thinking. Every day between classes I walk around campus to see happy couples holding hands, or hugging each other before entering a classroom. At this point I'm not sure if I'm numb, or in so much physical and emotional pain that my perception of it is skewed. Regardless, all I want to to be wanted, yet the universe continues to show me how clearly undesirable I am. And I have no idea what to do about it.
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In September of 2023, my sophomore year in college, I decided to try an experiment. I was and still am horribly lonely, so I told myself, I'm going to deliberately and consciously just try to talk to women, nothing big. So that's what I did. Around late September through Mid October there are several festivals and fairs, including the county fair, the largest by far. The experiment was to walk around, have fun, and simply try to strike up conversation with people to increase my confidence. 22 individual days I spent out and about, mingling. In that 22 days, I approached and tried speaking to 47 women exactly. All of them were the same age group as me, if not a little older. My approach was friendly, kind, not intrusive or invasive. I asked how well they were doing at the carnival game they were playing, or asked them if they knew the origin of the merchandise from video games or TV shows that were being sold there. 47 times, I approached women to simply try and talk to them. 47 times, I walked away insulted, belittled, or shamed. They scoffed, snickered, laughed or mockingly gagged at my mere existence. Additionally, I had - up until recently - 5 different dating apps downloaded since March of 2023, I never received a single like or match on any of them.
Now, a year later, I am still single and unbearably lonely. I have developed Nociplastic Pain Syndrome and Generalized Anxiety Disorder as a result of the events of the past, not making my situation any better. Now, I'm buried neck deep in my classes without hope of finding much time to do anything else other than study, sleep, and study after sleeping. I still want a romantic relationship, my desire of that has not waned, but it completely consumes my thinking. Every day between classes I walk around campus to see happy couples holding hands, or hugging each other before entering a classroom. At this point I'm not sure if I'm numb, or in so much physical and emotional pain that my perception of it is skewed. Regardless, all I want to to be wanted, yet the universe continues to show me how clearly undesirable I am. And I have no idea what to do about it.
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irybunny
I'm having a hard time dating. Some people say that I'm picky, I call it having standards.
Anyway, my first and only relationship lasted more than a year but it was terrible that I had to end it despite not wanting to. My ex was a jerk, didn't really respect me, and always made me feel terrible about myself. I know that we have different social classes but I never did let that get between us. He didn't even go to school during valentines day because he said that he doesn't have classes that day. I even called him that we should meet somewhere after my classes but he still declined. Note, that was my first time having a boyfriend during valentines so I expected at least a date but I ended up eating out with my friends like always.
Then, I found out that he likes my friend and confessed to her. Even asked her out to eat at a fast food place w/c she declined and told me everything. Of course I was angry, if the one he likes is her then why did he courted and flirted with me Also, he rarely even treated me to street food which was dirt cheap because he had no money and I was always the one footing the bill but now he has money to treat her to fast food.
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Then pandemic happened after breaking up with him so I never got to see him again until graduation. I thought splitting up was the end of it but he contacted me 3 times after we broke up (not on a good note. One was a few months before the pandemic blew up, then during our graduation, and then recently, when my brother died. He even commented on my mother's post during the wake. Why didn't he unfriend my family and friends when I unfriended his I just really want to punch him. It feels like he's treating that we didn't split up because of him.
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So now, I'm really more uptight and picky. I really do want to date but it's even more difficult with my past experience.
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I'm having a hard time dating. Some people say that I'm picky, I call it having standards.
Anyway, my first and only relationship lasted more than a year but it was terrible that I had to end it despite not wanting to. My ex was a jerk, didn't really respect me, and always made me feel terrible about myself. I know that we have different social classes but I never did let that get between us. He didn't even go to school during valentines day because he said that he doesn't have classes that day. I even called him that we should meet somewhere after my classes but he still declined. Note, that was my first time having a boyfriend during valentines so I expected at least a date but I ended up eating out with my friends like always.
Then, I found out that he likes my friend and confessed to her. Even asked her out to eat at a fast food place w/c she declined and told me everything. Of course I was angry, if the one he likes is her then why did he courted and flirted with me Also, he rarely even treated me to street food which was dirt cheap because he had no money and I was always the one footing the bill but now he has money to treat her to fast food.
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Then pandemic happened after breaking up with him so I never got to see him again until graduation. I thought splitting up was the end of it but he contacted me 3 times after we broke up (not on a good note. One was a few months before the pandemic blew up, then during our graduation, and then recently, when my brother died. He even commented on my mother's post during the wake. Why didn't he unfriend my family and friends when I unfriended his I just really want to punch him. It feels like he's treating that we didn't split up because of him.
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So now, I'm really more uptight and picky. I really do want to date but it's even more difficult with my past experience.
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meettheartist5506
Working on yourself and being happy with your life is the key to dating because not only it makes you at a place to receive love with full heart but also for other person who likes you in some way to give them your love as well with whole heart. When you’ve a discontentment, you are going to treat other person with a sense of insecurity and obligation, not love or compassion. Been in a perfect dating situation with someone I found to be almost perfect, but it ended pretty soon. Not that I’m blaming myself too much for it because we both are of different backgrounds so we have to end it since there’ll be lower chances of us ending up with each other, but I’m thinking about the ways I was treating her; it was more from a different mindset - I was being insecure and anxious to have her as my girlfriend so someone like her, who’s almost perfect and compatible with me, will end up being with me forever, making my chances of loving someone that perfect forever, without being so disturbed by the whole dating world and its dynamics. However, I’ve realised the truth now that I was focusing on finding someone else and their affection for me that I wasn’t paying enough attention to my life and my feelings. As it’s been said, people come in your life for a reason. Either they come as a lesson or blessing. Maybe she’s both for me. But for now, I’ll take the lesson with me and bury it deep within my heart and mind to be conscious of what I’m supposed to do in my life and grow as an individual to feel proud of myself and fully happy.
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Working on yourself and being happy with your life is the key to dating because not only it makes you at a place to receive love with full heart but also for other person who likes you in some way to give them your love as well with whole heart. When you’ve a discontentment, you are going to treat other person with a sense of insecurity and obligation, not love or compassion. Been in a perfect dating situation with someone I found to be almost perfect, but it ended pretty soon. Not that I’m blaming myself too much for it because we both are of different backgrounds so we have to end it since there’ll be lower chances of us ending up with each other, but I’m thinking about the ways I was treating her; it was more from a different mindset - I was being insecure and anxious to have her as my girlfriend so someone like her, who’s almost perfect and compatible with me, will end up being with me forever, making my chances of loving someone that perfect forever, without being so disturbed by the whole dating world and its dynamics. However, I’ve realised the truth now that I was focusing on finding someone else and their affection for me that I wasn’t paying enough attention to my life and my feelings. As it’s been said, people come in your life for a reason. Either they come as a lesson or blessing. Maybe she’s both for me. But for now, I’ll take the lesson with me and bury it deep within my heart and mind to be conscious of what I’m supposed to do in my life and grow as an individual to feel proud of myself and fully happy.
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matheusimon7316
It honestly just feels like it's the old nonsense people always to those that can't get dates.
It's not a lack of working on yourself or loving on yourself, specially if you are a man, it's mostly a lack of opportunity and guidance on what to do or what you are doing wrong.
Specially if you are not the type that does not get attention you know your chances are low so you gotta start everything and make twice as much effort for a maybe.
Then if you are not the type of dude that does not like party, bars or stuffs like that what else there is left
Library are just wishful thinking at this point, just like gym and grocery store people don't like being bothered at those places and even events I wouldn't say are good for meeting single people as mot go with their partners and dating apps specially for men hardly work and even if it does for most dudes it's just not worth it all the investment.
As for friends of friends never once I saw that work and even if you ask them to set you up with someone it's always I don't know anyone
Besides it's hard to have a good image of yourself when you keep failing at something while everyone else seems successful at, like getting dates and getting into relationship, at some point you start to question if the problem is you, as even terrible people get into relationship easily.
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It honestly just feels like it's the old nonsense people always to those that can't get dates.
It's not a lack of working on yourself or loving on yourself, specially if you are a man, it's mostly a lack of opportunity and guidance on what to do or what you are doing wrong.
Specially if you are not the type that does not get attention you know your chances are low so you gotta start everything and make twice as much effort for a maybe.
Then if you are not the type of dude that does not like party, bars or stuffs like that what else there is left
Library are just wishful thinking at this point, just like gym and grocery store people don't like being bothered at those places and even events I wouldn't say are good for meeting single people as mot go with their partners and dating apps specially for men hardly work and even if it does for most dudes it's just not worth it all the investment.
As for friends of friends never once I saw that work and even if you ask them to set you up with someone it's always I don't know anyone
Besides it's hard to have a good image of yourself when you keep failing at something while everyone else seems successful at, like getting dates and getting into relationship, at some point you start to question if the problem is you, as even terrible people get into relationship easily.
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Aquald
Idk, maybe there's something wrong with my mentality, but dating is hard and problematic for me.
(A little warning, the whole thing is just from my perspective and probably won't meet your view on dating)
I can't see dating without being independent (finishing education, having a job, having own house.
And if you date - you mostly can't enjoy your free time by doing own stuff, you need to give your partner a lot of attention, daily. Wake up - text, go somewhere - text, have own stuff to do - text, go to bed - text. Basically, for me it feels like a chore.
Another thing is that you need to find the significant other, when the perfect match is barely impossible, and a simple match might end in a short amount of time, so, it's pointless.
I may be aromantic, or I just might be tired from uni.
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Idk, maybe there's something wrong with my mentality, but dating is hard and problematic for me.
(A little warning, the whole thing is just from my perspective and probably won't meet your view on dating)
I can't see dating without being independent (finishing education, having a job, having own house.
And if you date - you mostly can't enjoy your free time by doing own stuff, you need to give your partner a lot of attention, daily. Wake up - text, go somewhere - text, have own stuff to do - text, go to bed - text. Basically, for me it feels like a chore.
Another thing is that you need to find the significant other, when the perfect match is barely impossible, and a simple match might end in a short amount of time, so, it's pointless.
I may be aromantic, or I just might be tired from uni.
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thebigjj4294
I tried believe me when i say that. At this point I'm even afraid to talk to women because they'll either reject me, walk away from me, or say i am harassing them. I'm not the most good looking but i know I'm a funny person and am a gentle loving soul. I went on many dates but never went beyond a first date. The moment i told them my job, teacher, they would simply say mhm before they left. I have no wife or kids, but i hope i have one day, and come to an empty home every day. It is why i like yo stay busy at work all the time because otherwise I'd probably end myself because of my unbearable loneliness. My self esteem is non existent that i don't ever think again about dating because i know it'll end up nowhere
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I tried believe me when i say that. At this point I'm even afraid to talk to women because they'll either reject me, walk away from me, or say i am harassing them. I'm not the most good looking but i know I'm a funny person and am a gentle loving soul. I went on many dates but never went beyond a first date. The moment i told them my job, teacher, they would simply say mhm before they left. I have no wife or kids, but i hope i have one day, and come to an empty home every day. It is why i like yo stay busy at work all the time because otherwise I'd probably end myself because of my unbearable loneliness. My self esteem is non existent that i don't ever think again about dating because i know it'll end up nowhere
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blurrcs15
I knew a girl who was very manipulative, and she constantly played mind games with me and played with my emotions. After she dated me for just 4 days she broke up with me, and it was revealed that she only got with me to make her ex jealous. I finally stood up for myself, told her how much she hurt me (mainly for myself) and broke all contact with her.
However, I am not a person who would give up easily. I know countless people online constantly complaining saying that dating is not worth it, and I know that there are some toxic people like the girl I knew. But I know there are genuinely good people out there who I will connect with, and I know eventually I will find a truly special girl.
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I knew a girl who was very manipulative, and she constantly played mind games with me and played with my emotions. After she dated me for just 4 days she broke up with me, and it was revealed that she only got with me to make her ex jealous. I finally stood up for myself, told her how much she hurt me (mainly for myself) and broke all contact with her.
However, I am not a person who would give up easily. I know countless people online constantly complaining saying that dating is not worth it, and I know that there are some toxic people like the girl I knew. But I know there are genuinely good people out there who I will connect with, and I know eventually I will find a truly special girl.
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42hamneggs
This is decades old news but I had trouble engaging romantically with women when young. They didn't want to know me romantically, but they all had a friend they thought I would be perfect for. I was great to balance numbers at a dinner party or a social extra. After years of this I gave up and started ignoring women. Suddenly I was flooded with offers and attention. Go figure. But by then I'd adapted. After a few relationships I realized I wasn't lonely, wasn't interested in being caged and used, and was happy alone doing my own thing. Advice. Don't waste your life on the relationship that may or may not come. Build your platonic friendships with people who will be with you for life.
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This is decades old news but I had trouble engaging romantically with women when young. They didn't want to know me romantically, but they all had a friend they thought I would be perfect for. I was great to balance numbers at a dinner party or a social extra. After years of this I gave up and started ignoring women. Suddenly I was flooded with offers and attention. Go figure. But by then I'd adapted. After a few relationships I realized I wasn't lonely, wasn't interested in being caged and used, and was happy alone doing my own thing. Advice. Don't waste your life on the relationship that may or may not come. Build your platonic friendships with people who will be with you for life.
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jimhanty8149
Take up a musical instrument get a small group and play some small gigsyou will have all the women you can handle hangin aroundthat’s what they do when your in a band or a race car driver, or athlete or anything requiring effort
don’t be too nice, stay aloof make em come to you have some mystery in your life story. never chase anyonebe seen around with several different girls never just one, have nice stuff. be busy with life. work out look good
AND FOR GOD SAKES DONT BE A MOMMAS BOYS ACT LIKE A REAL MAN.
If ya wernt raised with a father, go read up on what a father does. what he teaches his sonand learn stuff you can’t learn without having a father.
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Take up a musical instrument get a small group and play some small gigsyou will have all the women you can handle hangin aroundthat’s what they do when your in a band or a race car driver, or athlete or anything requiring effort
don’t be too nice, stay aloof make em come to you have some mystery in your life story. never chase anyonebe seen around with several different girls never just one, have nice stuff. be busy with life. work out look good
AND FOR GOD SAKES DONT BE A MOMMAS BOYS ACT LIKE A REAL MAN.
If ya wernt raised with a father, go read up on what a father does. what he teaches his sonand learn stuff you can’t learn without having a father.
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shamankid91692
For me it's trust. I have a really hard time trusting people in general and online dating I'm expecting some kind of scam. Offline I'm not outgoing in any sense of the word. The most outgoing I have ever been is going to a few local comic cons and town festivals. I know why that is and I know there's no way of undoing it. I have been told by a lot of different people I give off and intimidating/ strange feeling or I give off a creepy/ no presence feels. I get that and I understand why that is. It's basically a defence mechanism that is basically on all the time. When ya factor all of that it makes it harder to find friends and even harder to be attractive.
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For me it's trust. I have a really hard time trusting people in general and online dating I'm expecting some kind of scam. Offline I'm not outgoing in any sense of the word. The most outgoing I have ever been is going to a few local comic cons and town festivals. I know why that is and I know there's no way of undoing it. I have been told by a lot of different people I give off and intimidating/ strange feeling or I give off a creepy/ no presence feels. I get that and I understand why that is. It's basically a defence mechanism that is basically on all the time. When ya factor all of that it makes it harder to find friends and even harder to be attractive.
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brightthings6
A teacher is teaching a class and she sees that Johnny isn't paying attention, so she asks him, If there are three ducks sitting on a fence, and you shoot one, how many are left Johnny says, None. The teacher asks, Why Johnny says, Because the shot scared them all off. The teacher says, No, two, but I like how you're thinking. Johnny asks the teacher, If you see three women walking out of an ice cream parlor, one is licking her ice cream, one is sucking her ice cream, and one is biting her ice cream, which one is married The teacher says, The one sucking her ice cream. Johnny says, No, the one with the wedding ring, but I like how you're thinking!
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A teacher is teaching a class and she sees that Johnny isn't paying attention, so she asks him, If there are three ducks sitting on a fence, and you shoot one, how many are left Johnny says, None. The teacher asks, Why Johnny says, Because the shot scared them all off. The teacher says, No, two, but I like how you're thinking. Johnny asks the teacher, If you see three women walking out of an ice cream parlor, one is licking her ice cream, one is sucking her ice cream, and one is biting her ice cream, which one is married The teacher says, The one sucking her ice cream. Johnny says, No, the one with the wedding ring, but I like how you're thinking!
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mutantpoptart8060
This video goes on the assumption that all that is out there (for both make and female) is a yes or no situation.
Most times you have to read into a relationship before it potentially starts because there are a lot of people out there who just aren't worth dating. While at a young age, giving relationships a try in the hope that said potential partner isn't a gold digger or emotionally abusive (most of what I've found recently, once you hit middle age you don't have the time to waste on feeling people out like that.
I'm fine with a no but the fear of some of the yeses is what has pulled me down.
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This video goes on the assumption that all that is out there (for both make and female) is a yes or no situation.
Most times you have to read into a relationship before it potentially starts because there are a lot of people out there who just aren't worth dating. While at a young age, giving relationships a try in the hope that said potential partner isn't a gold digger or emotionally abusive (most of what I've found recently, once you hit middle age you don't have the time to waste on feeling people out like that.
I'm fine with a no but the fear of some of the yeses is what has pulled me down.
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Mexicanpepper
The reason modern dating is impossible is because at least in the first world countries women or feeling more entitled to things for less. They want the rich guy that takes them on expensive dates and bows down to there every desire. While not all women are like this, all rich guys ever want to do is simp. And hypergamy is real in women, they always have the option to leave for someone who is perceived in a higher status. My advice dating in today's world, is to ignore women. Focus on growing your mind body and spirit. That will naturally lead to you bank account, self esteem and knowledge to grow.
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The reason modern dating is impossible is because at least in the first world countries women or feeling more entitled to things for less. They want the rich guy that takes them on expensive dates and bows down to there every desire. While not all women are like this, all rich guys ever want to do is simp. And hypergamy is real in women, they always have the option to leave for someone who is perceived in a higher status. My advice dating in today's world, is to ignore women. Focus on growing your mind body and spirit. That will naturally lead to you bank account, self esteem and knowledge to grow.
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RoyLyons
I'll give you this - you are addressing the core problem very well. My lack of dating is completely based on my lack of self esteem. All the reasons that i make otherwise are generally excuses to make myself feel better about not making a change. The idea of not being in a relationship doesn't bother me like it used to - could be because I'm older and have lived life as a married man with kids before. In the end, i understand that being in a relationship won't bring me happiness, my happiness has to come from within myself.
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I'll give you this - you are addressing the core problem very well. My lack of dating is completely based on my lack of self esteem. All the reasons that i make otherwise are generally excuses to make myself feel better about not making a change. The idea of not being in a relationship doesn't bother me like it used to - could be because I'm older and have lived life as a married man with kids before. In the end, i understand that being in a relationship won't bring me happiness, my happiness has to come from within myself.
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alexx4450
The shittiest thing is I learned when girls are attracted to me, as soon as I get to know them better. It just shows. Now the problem is that all the girls that I knew that liked me were major red flags, and that made me not consider them at all. On the other hand girls that I like don't like me. It's fairly simple to tell actually. 7 years single and counting, there is nothing for me to do, I can just meet other people, meet and meet until I find something both sided, though that happened only 1 in my lifetime.
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The shittiest thing is I learned when girls are attracted to me, as soon as I get to know them better. It just shows. Now the problem is that all the girls that I knew that liked me were major red flags, and that made me not consider them at all. On the other hand girls that I like don't like me. It's fairly simple to tell actually. 7 years single and counting, there is nothing for me to do, I can just meet other people, meet and meet until I find something both sided, though that happened only 1 in my lifetime.
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troximetal
Funny how these videos tend to generalize and use as example men as the ones who are unsuccessful in dating, when women struggle a lot too. Those people who say women have it easy really mean conventionally attractive, above average looking women cuz as an Uggo i can confidently say no men is interested in dating me, and i don't even have huge standards in terms of looks or wealth. I work to pay my bills and treat myself and they still be complaining about how all of us are gold digging h0es
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Funny how these videos tend to generalize and use as example men as the ones who are unsuccessful in dating, when women struggle a lot too. Those people who say women have it easy really mean conventionally attractive, above average looking women cuz as an Uggo i can confidently say no men is interested in dating me, and i don't even have huge standards in terms of looks or wealth. I work to pay my bills and treat myself and they still be complaining about how all of us are gold digging h0es
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Mister_Mojo
This is the video I’ve been looking for that can really address some of the issues that I have. It’s fair assessment but a new concern has cropped up, what if after all this time someone finally shows interest but no matter how much I want it I fear I’m going to lose myself and my career that has given me everything. I’m not where I want to be in my career and adding a person to my life that deserves consideration and care would make me give up on it.
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This is the video I’ve been looking for that can really address some of the issues that I have. It’s fair assessment but a new concern has cropped up, what if after all this time someone finally shows interest but no matter how much I want it I fear I’m going to lose myself and my career that has given me everything. I’m not where I want to be in my career and adding a person to my life that deserves consideration and care would make me give up on it.
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JamesNGames
Dating in today's world feels impossible because it's no longer about finding real connection; it's a performance. Everyone is so tangled in self-serving games, superficiality, and distractions that honesty and vulnerability are almost alien concepts. It's like trying to build something meaningful in a space where loyalty is fleeting, and the truth is always in question.
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Dating in today's world feels impossible because it's no longer about finding real connection; it's a performance. Everyone is so tangled in self-serving games, superficiality, and distractions that honesty and vulnerability are almost alien concepts. It's like trying to build something meaningful in a space where loyalty is fleeting, and the truth is always in question.
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YellowFellow86
This video does nothing to address the reality of dating apps by their own numbers.
On top of that people are increasingly thought of as commodities and disposable.
It also doesn't address the fact that fidelity is increasingly thought of as an obsolete principle.
Yes impove yourself but savoring solitude sometimes will not destroy you either.
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This video does nothing to address the reality of dating apps by their own numbers.
On top of that people are increasingly thought of as commodities and disposable.
It also doesn't address the fact that fidelity is increasingly thought of as an obsolete principle.
Yes impove yourself but savoring solitude sometimes will not destroy you either.
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