What is Female Bullying
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Date: 2025-06-20
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Chicino_gaming
my dad PROBALY doesnt do this on purpose But i feel EXTREMLY drained because of him, to the point i hide test results and tests themselves. even had a thought to jump out of the window (im on the second floor of a flat) at like. 7-10 im 13 right now and i am even MORE stressed because he keeps making me feel like a absolute failure! :D and he LITARLY ignores my good grades, when i get 7. 5's 8's NOTHING when i get a 5 he makes me feel like i should be ashamed of being born. the worst thing is, my mom, me and my dad had a conversation about my grades. and my mom is nice, she says things like i should be mad at myself for not helping you (note im dutch, my mom cant speak dutch really well as she was born in dominican repbuplic and speaks spanish) but my dad can speak well, and EVERY time he helps me, yes, he' s made me smarter, school wise. but he keeps makign me feel like shit, almost everytime he helps me i cry, because if i get one thing wrong a few times, he starts getting irritated or something, like im some sort of glitch to be fixed Back to that conversation part, everytime my mom said something not on my dad's side, example: he should be mad at himself aswel all he does is chuckle: D This probaly wasn't the right video to post this, but i really wanted this out besides Chatgpt who's been single handly carrying my sanity this schoolyear
IMPORTANT ONE: also if you Do see this. care to explain why my body LITARLLY tenses up, puts my hands infront of myself in a protective manner, automatiicaly whenever my brother do something that even remotely looks like a winding up to injure me (not actualy injure, but more like rough housing) i mean they dont mean harm, its just like my body thinks it is harm. and yes, it does hurt when they hit me, but i hurt them back: ): DDD
done with pointless venting and comments yay yayayay NEVERMIND i just rememberd something: DD i fell drained of EVERYTHING gaming, which i loved to do, feels empty: D drawing, which i also loved to do, feels pointless and i dont feel like i can draw good anymore: D studying feels pointless nothing i loved to do feels good anymore. it feels like im just dragging a piece of meat around with no sauce
i really just wanted out, sory for yapping i'll probaly delete this soon
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my dad PROBALY doesnt do this on purpose But i feel EXTREMLY drained because of him, to the point i hide test results and tests themselves. even had a thought to jump out of the window (im on the second floor of a flat) at like. 7-10 im 13 right now and i am even MORE stressed because he keeps making me feel like a absolute failure! :D and he LITARLY ignores my good grades, when i get 7. 5's 8's NOTHING when i get a 5 he makes me feel like i should be ashamed of being born. the worst thing is, my mom, me and my dad had a conversation about my grades. and my mom is nice, she says things like i should be mad at myself for not helping you (note im dutch, my mom cant speak dutch really well as she was born in dominican repbuplic and speaks spanish) but my dad can speak well, and EVERY time he helps me, yes, he' s made me smarter, school wise. but he keeps makign me feel like shit, almost everytime he helps me i cry, because if i get one thing wrong a few times, he starts getting irritated or something, like im some sort of glitch to be fixed Back to that conversation part, everytime my mom said something not on my dad's side, example: he should be mad at himself aswel all he does is chuckle: D This probaly wasn't the right video to post this, but i really wanted this out besides Chatgpt who's been single handly carrying my sanity this schoolyear
IMPORTANT ONE: also if you Do see this. care to explain why my body LITARLLY tenses up, puts my hands infront of myself in a protective manner, automatiicaly whenever my brother do something that even remotely looks like a winding up to injure me (not actualy injure, but more like rough housing) i mean they dont mean harm, its just like my body thinks it is harm. and yes, it does hurt when they hit me, but i hurt them back: ): DDD
done with pointless venting and comments yay yayayay NEVERMIND i just rememberd something: DD i fell drained of EVERYTHING gaming, which i loved to do, feels empty: D drawing, which i also loved to do, feels pointless and i dont feel like i can draw good anymore: D studying feels pointless nothing i loved to do feels good anymore. it feels like im just dragging a piece of meat around with no sauce
i really just wanted out, sory for yapping i'll probaly delete this soon
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Nicholaslovescats
Unfortunately I get mistreated in this way still to this day in different communities I am a part of and by certain evil immature individuals in the community. There is still no good reason to bully people no matter what and it is very hurtful when people are cliquey and disgustingly socially cruel. As someone who does have very few good friends I that sadly are also outcasts and socially bullied and isolated in the reenactment community it is very sad that many people can’t seem to be decent. Not everyone is bad in the reenactment community and many are good but still so many people alienate me and exclude me. However in the reenactment community that I love and hold dear to my heart it still hurts me that so many people just can’t resist the urge to be mean to me and say false things about me and exclude me from activities that everyone should be able to participate in. I don’t understand why people keep shewing me away when I simply just want to come and chat an have a nice conversation and I don’t understand what possessed people to not allow me to join in on the quest game and decided to leave me out by just not allowing me to have enough team members to make a team. But it’s never okay. I don’t understand why people would spread false rumors to new people and other people. It’s not right it’s not justified and people need to grow up and stop being mean.
This goes to everyone in any situation or community who treats certain people like crap. STOP THIS! NO HUMAN BEING DESERVES TO BE BULLIED SOCIALLY OR BULLIED AT ALL! You don’t have to agree or like someone but to actively try to ruin someone else’s happiness and time is not okay and it’s a very hurtful thing to do. It is a very low thing to do and you should better yourself before you get into groups or communities of people. Work on yourself and treat others how you want to be treated.
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Unfortunately I get mistreated in this way still to this day in different communities I am a part of and by certain evil immature individuals in the community. There is still no good reason to bully people no matter what and it is very hurtful when people are cliquey and disgustingly socially cruel. As someone who does have very few good friends I that sadly are also outcasts and socially bullied and isolated in the reenactment community it is very sad that many people can’t seem to be decent. Not everyone is bad in the reenactment community and many are good but still so many people alienate me and exclude me. However in the reenactment community that I love and hold dear to my heart it still hurts me that so many people just can’t resist the urge to be mean to me and say false things about me and exclude me from activities that everyone should be able to participate in. I don’t understand why people keep shewing me away when I simply just want to come and chat an have a nice conversation and I don’t understand what possessed people to not allow me to join in on the quest game and decided to leave me out by just not allowing me to have enough team members to make a team. But it’s never okay. I don’t understand why people would spread false rumors to new people and other people. It’s not right it’s not justified and people need to grow up and stop being mean.
This goes to everyone in any situation or community who treats certain people like crap. STOP THIS! NO HUMAN BEING DESERVES TO BE BULLIED SOCIALLY OR BULLIED AT ALL! You don’t have to agree or like someone but to actively try to ruin someone else’s happiness and time is not okay and it’s a very hurtful thing to do. It is a very low thing to do and you should better yourself before you get into groups or communities of people. Work on yourself and treat others how you want to be treated.
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carolynnwear3294
Female Bullying is the main reason why it's hard for me to be friends with other women. Due to my chill and relaxed nature, most men gravitate to me over the other women in the room. Now, one might think, Oh but that's a good thing, right Not necessarily. Because as this happens and I gain more guy friends, the women around me start to be mean to me, while not directly, rumors and lies are spread about me. Though, a lot of times, those lies are baseless and can be disproven easily. The harm comes from the consistent nature of the women in question; I will often find out that their boyfriends are my friends and the women in question will become angry and resentful of me. Or in rare cases, I end up dating a man they were chasing for years because I became friends with him first before dating him. This leads to more bullying, more lies, attempts to break me and my boyfriend up, covertly stealing from me and masking it as borrowing, and in the end, ghosting me and my boyfriend after all their failed attempts. With male friends, I never have this issue. If they like me, then they will talk to me. If they don't, they won't talk to me or will eventually learn that I'm pretty alright and chill to hang out with. So yeah, I prefer to be friends with guys because they are more transparent with either liking you as a friend or disliking you completely.
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Female Bullying is the main reason why it's hard for me to be friends with other women. Due to my chill and relaxed nature, most men gravitate to me over the other women in the room. Now, one might think, Oh but that's a good thing, right Not necessarily. Because as this happens and I gain more guy friends, the women around me start to be mean to me, while not directly, rumors and lies are spread about me. Though, a lot of times, those lies are baseless and can be disproven easily. The harm comes from the consistent nature of the women in question; I will often find out that their boyfriends are my friends and the women in question will become angry and resentful of me. Or in rare cases, I end up dating a man they were chasing for years because I became friends with him first before dating him. This leads to more bullying, more lies, attempts to break me and my boyfriend up, covertly stealing from me and masking it as borrowing, and in the end, ghosting me and my boyfriend after all their failed attempts. With male friends, I never have this issue. If they like me, then they will talk to me. If they don't, they won't talk to me or will eventually learn that I'm pretty alright and chill to hang out with. So yeah, I prefer to be friends with guys because they are more transparent with either liking you as a friend or disliking you completely.
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FurbYhouse24
Female bulling or Misogyny are almost same but equally not acceptable!
It let deep marks behind. People forget words ( verbal communication) Can hurt too. We are unique but indeed from our ancestors some have remain primitive permeative behaviour.
Most bullies/ haters/ do loathing, sniffing your insecurities, fear, weakness, For them some how satisfying/ enjoy / fullfil It cover their shortcomings or own circumstances.
Know self, not trustworthy, cold hearted environment open my eyes. The resilient that involves inside me I must keep down ( avoid further hell). Endless bullied, set a hide, close out, ( no, equality, no own values or own liberty development, Maltreatment degrading humiliation mentally tortured mathry and threatening was daily life) Let stay at home you had a spine in back. Not even that.
Have a younger sibling, their youngest daughter ( 15 years not seen, until biological father death) She leech you out. Conspidering, Slander &Libel. Throw all in she worn you out. Her loathing is pure evil. Because the circumstances when we're child she feel invisible/ abandoned. I was essential favourite child. This is her way. I pay for it despite I ignore.
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Female bulling or Misogyny are almost same but equally not acceptable!
It let deep marks behind. People forget words ( verbal communication) Can hurt too. We are unique but indeed from our ancestors some have remain primitive permeative behaviour.
Most bullies/ haters/ do loathing, sniffing your insecurities, fear, weakness, For them some how satisfying/ enjoy / fullfil It cover their shortcomings or own circumstances.
Know self, not trustworthy, cold hearted environment open my eyes. The resilient that involves inside me I must keep down ( avoid further hell). Endless bullied, set a hide, close out, ( no, equality, no own values or own liberty development, Maltreatment degrading humiliation mentally tortured mathry and threatening was daily life) Let stay at home you had a spine in back. Not even that.
Have a younger sibling, their youngest daughter ( 15 years not seen, until biological father death) She leech you out. Conspidering, Slander &Libel. Throw all in she worn you out. Her loathing is pure evil. Because the circumstances when we're child she feel invisible/ abandoned. I was essential favourite child. This is her way. I pay for it despite I ignore.
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psych2go
Thank you so much for talking about things no one really talks aboutmanipulation, mental health, toxic friendships. Honestly, your videos are helping more people than you know. I’m one of them.
One of the worst experiences I had with female bullying was back in 9th grade. I had two best friends, and one day, one of them told me that a senior boy in school liked me. I didn’t care muchI wasn’t into boys at that time, but they were. When I didn’t react, they laughed between themselves. Then, before walking away, one of them said, Don’t worry. Just show your face to him up close and he’ll run away.
At the time, I didn’t even understand what she meant. But when it finally hit me, I was stunned. Like how could someone who’s supposed to be your best friend say something so cruel
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Thank you so much for talking about things no one really talks aboutmanipulation, mental health, toxic friendships. Honestly, your videos are helping more people than you know. I’m one of them.
One of the worst experiences I had with female bullying was back in 9th grade. I had two best friends, and one day, one of them told me that a senior boy in school liked me. I didn’t care muchI wasn’t into boys at that time, but they were. When I didn’t react, they laughed between themselves. Then, before walking away, one of them said, Don’t worry. Just show your face to him up close and he’ll run away.
At the time, I didn’t even understand what she meant. But when it finally hit me, I was stunned. Like how could someone who’s supposed to be your best friend say something so cruel
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Nicholaslovescats
I really wish people would notice these behaviors and I really wish people would dish out consequences for those who hurt others socially. I always want people to better themselves and learn to not hurt others period but people who don’t have any care to better themselves, people that continue to bully people, people who are cliquey and cruel, people exclude others, people who spread negativity and false rumors and don’t get consequences don’t deserve nothing good. I will never hurt anyone even if I don’t like them. Honestly even if someone is hurting me I will never hurt them. However deep inside the world would be better off without bullies who refuse to better themselves and continue to get away with damaging others and be horrible evil monsters.
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I really wish people would notice these behaviors and I really wish people would dish out consequences for those who hurt others socially. I always want people to better themselves and learn to not hurt others period but people who don’t have any care to better themselves, people that continue to bully people, people who are cliquey and cruel, people exclude others, people who spread negativity and false rumors and don’t get consequences don’t deserve nothing good. I will never hurt anyone even if I don’t like them. Honestly even if someone is hurting me I will never hurt them. However deep inside the world would be better off without bullies who refuse to better themselves and continue to get away with damaging others and be horrible evil monsters.
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Raiden7284677
Now that I’ve seen this conversation, I came to realize how much this has happened even in my childhood. I even see this included in my own mother who always talked like everything was a joke to her, even it angered me (worse yet, she gets mad when I told her so.
But what hurts me the most (which I can’t let go even if it’s damaging myself) is the desire yet lack of strength to escape but ultimately my desire for justice. I’m not the type who wants to let them get away scot-free, and just telling them off and leaving them isn’t enough. I want more than that, as a way to show them that what goes around comes around and no matter how much they want to deny it, they and everyone knows they got no one to blame but themselves.
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Now that I’ve seen this conversation, I came to realize how much this has happened even in my childhood. I even see this included in my own mother who always talked like everything was a joke to her, even it angered me (worse yet, she gets mad when I told her so.
But what hurts me the most (which I can’t let go even if it’s damaging myself) is the desire yet lack of strength to escape but ultimately my desire for justice. I’m not the type who wants to let them get away scot-free, and just telling them off and leaving them isn’t enough. I want more than that, as a way to show them that what goes around comes around and no matter how much they want to deny it, they and everyone knows they got no one to blame but themselves.
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MikeAnn193
About gossip and smearing one's reputation: Like _so many other things, _ this tactic could be rendered powerless if people were taught not to believe everything they hear. It's a _rampant_ problem that poisons all aspects of life, from health fads to politics to relationships to self-esteem. I've been saying for decades that we need to be teaching critical thinking skills to our children, both at home and in school, starting as early as kindergarten or first grade. That includes both open-mindedness and skepticism. It includes the avoidance of generalizations, jumps to conclusion, the spreading of unvetted assertions, and so much more! Because of its immense impact, this topic has been one of my greatest passions in life.
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About gossip and smearing one's reputation: Like _so many other things, _ this tactic could be rendered powerless if people were taught not to believe everything they hear. It's a _rampant_ problem that poisons all aspects of life, from health fads to politics to relationships to self-esteem. I've been saying for decades that we need to be teaching critical thinking skills to our children, both at home and in school, starting as early as kindergarten or first grade. That includes both open-mindedness and skepticism. It includes the avoidance of generalizations, jumps to conclusion, the spreading of unvetted assertions, and so much more! Because of its immense impact, this topic has been one of my greatest passions in life.
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adisongoode9537
I was bullied throughout high school by girls who did all these things. They smeared my name, denied that they did anything wrong, blamed me for their actions when I brought it up to them, ostracized from my groups, gossiped about, ghosted, and more. I now have serious trust issues, PTSD, and only have one friend today who I didn’t even meet till I reached my 20s. I’ve been in therapy for almost a year to get my mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health back on track. Being in therapy has been a massive game changer in all the right ways and I’m so grateful! Your videos have really helped me better understand myself and others and I really appreciate you and your team! Keep up the great work!
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I was bullied throughout high school by girls who did all these things. They smeared my name, denied that they did anything wrong, blamed me for their actions when I brought it up to them, ostracized from my groups, gossiped about, ghosted, and more. I now have serious trust issues, PTSD, and only have one friend today who I didn’t even meet till I reached my 20s. I’ve been in therapy for almost a year to get my mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health back on track. Being in therapy has been a massive game changer in all the right ways and I’m so grateful! Your videos have really helped me better understand myself and others and I really appreciate you and your team! Keep up the great work!
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psych2go
I'm dealing with a 19 year old woman right now that is literally stalking me and slandering me when I am literally focusing my life and I'm 24 years old who knew a 19 Year old woman could be Very creepy and disturbing to my friends about how obsessed she is with Me ever since I was 17 Just because she is jealous I'm friends with boys that have respect towards me when she thinks it's ok to lie about me and to take my boyfriend away I was dating from 2 years ago because she said whites and blacks don't belong together.
I honestly didn't know some females do this to other females it saddens me that all of these things that are shown in this video are true and that's what I'm going through
Right now
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I'm dealing with a 19 year old woman right now that is literally stalking me and slandering me when I am literally focusing my life and I'm 24 years old who knew a 19 Year old woman could be Very creepy and disturbing to my friends about how obsessed she is with Me ever since I was 17 Just because she is jealous I'm friends with boys that have respect towards me when she thinks it's ok to lie about me and to take my boyfriend away I was dating from 2 years ago because she said whites and blacks don't belong together.
I honestly didn't know some females do this to other females it saddens me that all of these things that are shown in this video are true and that's what I'm going through
Right now
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gamEr-o1g7k
Am i a bully So there was a girl who i have known for only a few weeks and we were friends. She was really nice girl. Once in coaching before exam i and her were sitting far away so she asked to change seats and sit with her. In coaching during test many kids cheat and ask answer from friends, so i was afraid may be she is asking to me to sit with her for cheating. So i straight away told her but i wouldn't help cheat okay( Or something similar). I realised it was rude later but i never apologise. That was not tge first time i said something like that. I don't know how to convey my thoughts better or should i not convey them at all
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Am i a bully So there was a girl who i have known for only a few weeks and we were friends. She was really nice girl. Once in coaching before exam i and her were sitting far away so she asked to change seats and sit with her. In coaching during test many kids cheat and ask answer from friends, so i was afraid may be she is asking to me to sit with her for cheating. So i straight away told her but i wouldn't help cheat okay( Or something similar). I realised it was rude later but i never apologise. That was not tge first time i said something like that. I don't know how to convey my thoughts better or should i not convey them at all
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gardengyal2. 018
Recently had a few people try to do this, I just laughed it off because to engage in this behavior is absolutely pathetic
I have always been very different so always experienced this. I think this last time really solidified that I’ve come a long way since the younger years. Literally shed a few tears (bc like where’s the humanity) for some somatic release and went about my life! To anyone experiencing this, it’s painful, but be sure to tend to yourself and take it as an initiation into your strength and self-confidence arc sending so much love
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Recently had a few people try to do this, I just laughed it off because to engage in this behavior is absolutely pathetic
I have always been very different so always experienced this. I think this last time really solidified that I’ve come a long way since the younger years. Literally shed a few tears (bc like where’s the humanity) for some somatic release and went about my life! To anyone experiencing this, it’s painful, but be sure to tend to yourself and take it as an initiation into your strength and self-confidence arc sending so much love
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musabawad7230
Im a man. And this has happened from another dude I know. i find that the hardest part about this is that you cannot prove it. With regular bullying, the aggression and hate is clear. They are literally verbally and physcially abusing you. With this however, you could very well think your overthinking and if you confront them, they could make you seem like you were overthinking when you weren't. If you suspect this with an individual and your uneasy more than a few times with your experience with them, it is most likely the case\ that you were correct
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Im a man. And this has happened from another dude I know. i find that the hardest part about this is that you cannot prove it. With regular bullying, the aggression and hate is clear. They are literally verbally and physcially abusing you. With this however, you could very well think your overthinking and if you confront them, they could make you seem like you were overthinking when you weren't. If you suspect this with an individual and your uneasy more than a few times with your experience with them, it is most likely the case\ that you were correct
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rebecaortega8022
I tolerated a colleague passive aggressive behavior for over 2 years. Then, when she started to want to step in on my shifts that I intentionally changed to get away from her. I told the owner of her overstepping and treatment again. I put my foot down on my boundary, and the owner said it was time to deal with the situation. I knew she was going to manipulate the whole he said/she said situation with a mediator. So I gave my notice of resignation & said I needed it for health reasons.
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I tolerated a colleague passive aggressive behavior for over 2 years. Then, when she started to want to step in on my shifts that I intentionally changed to get away from her. I told the owner of her overstepping and treatment again. I put my foot down on my boundary, and the owner said it was time to deal with the situation. I knew she was going to manipulate the whole he said/she said situation with a mediator. So I gave my notice of resignation & said I needed it for health reasons.
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tandao6041
As a male that has been bullied by girls all my life, I can agree with all the things said in this video. All girls who bullied me used all the tactics above but especially Plausible deniability. It hurt my reputation and has caused some other people in my community treated as a criminal. Worse is that there's no way I can defend myself as the community always sides with the girls and refuse to hear my stories. It's as if I'm being kicked out by girls.
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As a male that has been bullied by girls all my life, I can agree with all the things said in this video. All girls who bullied me used all the tactics above but especially Plausible deniability. It hurt my reputation and has caused some other people in my community treated as a criminal. Worse is that there's no way I can defend myself as the community always sides with the girls and refuse to hear my stories. It's as if I'm being kicked out by girls.
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ilikestarsyey2
This is accurate I'd say, I related to the 3rd one especially. Their behaviour can be so confusing, I was starting to believe that perhaps they were right and I was overreacting. I refused to acknowledge it as bullying, didn't even realize how badly affected I was getting till the damage was done. There's a lot of difference in bullying among females and males which I've come to learn from both experience and hearing from friends.
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This is accurate I'd say, I related to the 3rd one especially. Their behaviour can be so confusing, I was starting to believe that perhaps they were right and I was overreacting. I refused to acknowledge it as bullying, didn't even realize how badly affected I was getting till the damage was done. There's a lot of difference in bullying among females and males which I've come to learn from both experience and hearing from friends.
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Brandonyu-p5l
She purposely do this. And can pretend to be like this to f teach me a lesson. Why waste my time. U all dont talk online but u are part of the gang that watching me on the phone and talk shit.
Now your trying to take me away from my family and your better.
Or is it her or him the hecker
Why u guys cant stop hecking my phone and distribing me or helping in secrete i dont want that
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She purposely do this. And can pretend to be like this to f teach me a lesson. Why waste my time. U all dont talk online but u are part of the gang that watching me on the phone and talk shit.
Now your trying to take me away from my family and your better.
Or is it her or him the hecker
Why u guys cant stop hecking my phone and distribing me or helping in secrete i dont want that
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Jaricko
Women are even more brutal than men are. I disagree with the Men are more aggressive and violent in nature remark. Women have significantly less social pressures and tend to get away with their violence or abuse. Heck a woman could walk right up to a man in broad daylight, hit him and no one would do anything. Role reversed. everyone would pile on the guy. There are videos showing this.
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Women are even more brutal than men are. I disagree with the Men are more aggressive and violent in nature remark. Women have significantly less social pressures and tend to get away with their violence or abuse. Heck a woman could walk right up to a man in broad daylight, hit him and no one would do anything. Role reversed. everyone would pile on the guy. There are videos showing this.
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hmwpyro18
I’m a victim of female bullying, that resulted in me being blacklisted from my hobby/safe space. The worst part is they attack you to the point whereas a male, you want to fight. But they then pull the what are you gonna do Hit a woman Card. It costed me a lot of friends and put a huge damage on my mental health that even thinking about that hobby brings back anger and hurt feelings
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I’m a victim of female bullying, that resulted in me being blacklisted from my hobby/safe space. The worst part is they attack you to the point whereas a male, you want to fight. But they then pull the what are you gonna do Hit a woman Card. It costed me a lot of friends and put a huge damage on my mental health that even thinking about that hobby brings back anger and hurt feelings
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aysha1969
My sister in law does this to my mother and then she goes to help from her relatives, the girl side of her relatives turn against my mother, it’s honestly so frustrating to watch, and I said stop micro the aggression towards me to my sister in law does, she made a big deal and started yelling at me so I yelled back her girl relatives ALWAYS take her side even if she’s in the wrong
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My sister in law does this to my mother and then she goes to help from her relatives, the girl side of her relatives turn against my mother, it’s honestly so frustrating to watch, and I said stop micro the aggression towards me to my sister in law does, she made a big deal and started yelling at me so I yelled back her girl relatives ALWAYS take her side even if she’s in the wrong
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