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The Youtube Rewind Problem, Kevin Hart Double Standard Debate, & Twitch Streamer Arrested.

The Youtube Rewind Problem, Kevin Hart Double Standard Debate, & Twitch Streamer Arrested.

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The Youtube Rewind Problem, Kevin Hart Double Standard Debate, & Twitch Streamer Arrested. platonicsole08: after doing some more research on the alleged abuse story, i have come to the conclusion that the final incident was due to an escalation from both parties. While it is true that the man supposedly physically assaulted the woman, in this case i find it to be a natural response. Upon reviewing the full clip, there were many incidents that concerned me. There were multiple times where the man flinches as if something was thrown. Shortly after another incident provided an audible ting of a can hitting the floor, this combined with another flinch indicates that, yet again, an object was thrown. Moments later, the camera seems to shake, indicating that either his desk or equipment was struck by the woman. Once this occurred the man continues to tell the woman, as calmly as the situation limited, to leave me alone as well as stating i will be out soon. She continues to throw commands at him, causing him to retaliate. A sound resembling a slap can be heard, followed by an incessant wail coming from the woman. This is where i start to get skeptical about the alleged 'abuse. ' The woman starts to act like she is putting on a show, trying to make him look as bad as possible, all the while their children are in distress. A verbal engagement is had out until, once again, the man 'assaults' his wife. Prior to this altercation, the woman appears to be banging on his equipment, and appearing to strike or throw objects at the manThe violent engagement wasn't an act of wrath, but rather, a simple act of instinctual self defense. This is further supported by him talking calmly to his young daughter at the end of the engagement. This still does not excuse the alleged abuse portrayed in the clip, but it does make it understandable, to a point. While i do think that it was the mans job to deescalate the situation as best he could, the woman still shares some level of responsibility with the constant antagonizing. Let me finish this comment off by saying one thing. I do not condone the abuse of anyone regardless of gender, except in those circumstances where physical force is necessary to prevent harm to yourself. Any contrasting opinions will be appreciated.
Date: 2019-11-01

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Alright, so he seems like a terrible father in the first place. And neither parent is adressing their kid or taking the child into consideration. She is pregnant, and clearly instigating a fight WHILE their child is there and she is carrying (I assume) a second one. He repeatedly tells her to leave him alone and that he will be out in ten minutes. I'm just going to assume that he probably doesn't spend a great deal of time with his family, and that's why she's distressed by him being on the PC. But that doesn't justify her throwing several objects at him (the cartboard was the only thing we saw, but if you watch the entire video unedited you can hear several other objects) and then proceeds to try and forcefully turn off his pc or slap/push his hardware. I am by no means taking this guys side. But they both seem like really terrible and immature parents. I am not convinced by her screaming though, I must admit. Especially considering she immediately retaliates afterwards by either throwing more shit or trying to turn off his PC again. She is equally as terrible a mother as he is a father. Neither of them sheltered their kid from this. Him hitting her is absolutely terrible. But her repeatedly returning to escalate the situation while pregnant and with the child in the room is equally as terrible, from a parental standpoint. She could have left after he had said it the 10th time, but decides to try to get his attention by throwing more crap. And no, her being pregnant is not an excuse for her erratic behavior people. You might become more emotional and hormonal while pregnant, but you don't lose your sanity. And just once more for those of you out there who thinks I'm okay with him slapping her; Absolutely not. Had it been me, I'd have told her to leave and not start this with the kid around. And then if she repeatedly kept at it, I would have calmly turned off the pc, taken my kid and went home to my moms or something and filed for a divorce.
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Alright. A lot of people here don't know the backstory, I would say about 24k do know so i will give the information needed in this. The guys mom was single and he ended up living with his grandparents. Grace has mental health problems and can change moods quickly (as seen in the clip. They meet up and have children. Here is where it gets dark. The wife, Grace, has been abusing him for 5 long years. Before the incident shown in the video she was currently abusing him for the past couple of days. Then he shattered, he ended up laying hands on her and lost his job and was locked up. Side notes: you can hear him being calm in the beginning and becoming slowly more and more pissedoff. He wasn't planning on hurting her at all. Grace says she is pregnant and she is being bashed later, but the pregnancy thing is a total lie. So here is my opinion on the matter which you don't have to agree with. Both are not in the right but in the wrong. I don't agree with the guy having to lose his job but it can be seen why. Why do I say he shouldn't have lost it? Hes been abused for 5 years and ended up losing it all after one incident. One. But he shouldn't have laid hands on her none the less. As for Grace, I think she should have been apprehended as well, because 5 years she's been doing that and he endured it. And as to some questions that may might be asked. Why did he stay with her for so long if it was a toxic and abusive relationship? With having his children he didn't want them to live a life with narents snlit anart much as the life hewith parents split apart, much as the life he lived as a kid. If there is anything I have forgotten please tell me. But like I said you don't have to agree with me on the situation, so speak your mind. (I only copy pasted)
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This is a reminder of things i went through with my ex. Nobody heard it when he shoved me. Nobody ever saw the bruises. And not wanting to admit what i was going through, i believed his family and friends that it wasnt that bad. Its sad when you feel so neglected by your loved one constantly putting games over you. It changes everything about the relationship. For those that dont believe in walking away from the relationship, they desperately want to spend time with their spouse and work through issues, they don't believe that spending days away from their spouse is conductive to working through the problems. It becomes a cycle where one person is increasingly desperate for normalcy, and their desperation has made them blind to the fact that the relationship will never be ok, you will never be their first priority, the shoving and bruises will get worse. And in the end of your desperation, you will be at your wits end and they will paint you as the person in the wrong for not leaving.
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What annoyed me the most was that Phil conveniently left out the fact that she was hitting him and throwing multiple items at him. He said Stop it over 30 times, yet she insisted on antagonising him. Phil also conveniently left out that his daughter, (before he ended the stream, said Daddy in a way where she wanted to comfort him or want reassurance about what just happened, and he responded calmly I'll be right there. It pains me to see how many people will defend someone who was the aggressor without doing more research, and just believe something they immediately hear. Phil, all I can say to you is how disappointed I am at how you quite clearly don't put enough research in your videos, or at least this video. I do want to see other peoples opinions if you have any. But before you comment, could you please watch a full version of this video. Also I would rather keep this comment section as calm as possible, even if you disagree with me. Thankyou: )
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I would never condone hitting a woman, and neither of them should have hit each other or thrown things at each other. However, for this video Im surprised Phil didnt do a role reversal as he usually does in any scenario or story. Imagine if the roles were reversed. We have a female streamer and a husband who asks her to get off of her game. She says Ill be out soon. He then proceeds to start throwing things at her. Do the same for the rest of the scenario. Would we be as outraged? At what point after she says Ill be out soon and he responds with throwing something at her would be begin to be outraged. Would we blame her if she decided to slap him after he threw something at her? I dont know. In either scenario, we should never be surprised by the way someone reacts to something we say or do to them in this sort of situation. Although I dont agree with their actions, you can never foresee how someone will react.
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On the Kevin Hart thing, I absolutely think he does not deserve to be a host. I'm always surprised that people bristle at being asked to apologize for things they once said. It's on the public record, you know we know you said it, and unless we have confirmation that you've changed your mind and grown past those hateful ideals how are we to assume that's not what's still in your heart? I remember those years, I remember how people used to talk, and I remember some hateful and idiotic things that I used to say. I carry the appropriate amount of shame over those comments and I'm fortunate they're not on social media and that the people who heard them have probably forgotten. If that weren't the case, I would absolutely take every possible opportunity to apologize, to learn, and to grow.
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We've reached a point in internet culture where ideas encroach on real life, specifically the need to put the word clinical in front of the word triggered because it has so completely become desensitized and overused, even abused by people falsely claiming to be triggered. Guys, triggers, real triggers, are to be taken seriously and it's so troubling that mental illness is overlooked or ridiculed. No one even mentions the inclusion of representation of discussion about mental illness in the rewind, it gets blended in with all the pandering and detachment but I do agree that this platform has in some ways helped, although it has mostlt hindered. I personally dislike h3h3 for his overuse of the triggered meme, way to devalue the experiences of fake people at the expense of real sufferers.
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I'd never advocate for Mr Hart to lose any engagements, think that he didn't do himself many favours by emphasizing that the reason he wouldn't tell the same jokes is because the times are more sensitive but that he presumably has grown and evolved at least somewhat, and tend just not to patronize people who drop F-slurs without giving any passes to supposed allies (one could make a good case that people who treat their friends that way are worse, but we'd have to have a conversation covering a fair amount of ground on influencing other people's orientation (I was forced into conversion therapy, and have heard nothing to indicate that he would find it unthinkable to do the same to his son) before I'd invite him to a dinner party.
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There is absolutely a way that YouTube could do a rewind and not get in trouble for it, they could give different content creators, that they support and are deemed ad-friendly, control over YouTube rewind. YouTube itself shouldnt be involved in the rewind, it should be content that they out source to their top creators to direct and create. Imagine if YouTube approached someone like Corridor Digital and said hey, wed love for you to write and direct this years YouTube rewind. It would remove the responsibility from YouTube for any controversial things that are added because it wasnt YouTubes video it was the content creators. Plus it would probably help to create better videos
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