I met my fianc- when i was 19 & he was 51 - love don-t judge
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Sabrina
Been there done that and I regret it with a fiery passion. I realized it was a father wound and family related issues. I don-t need a man looking like my father or uncle or grandfathers. I-m glad I-ve moved on and woke up. I didn-t get pregnant or married to any of those ugly older males who manipulated, abused, and treated me horribly. It was manipulation throughout the ordeal.
I started realizing how unattractive they were as well and I wanted to experience love/romance with a handsome healthy quality man who-s a millennial like me and we don-t want children plus have similarities/compatible MUST be there. I want a genuine love not a fake love with older men, I woke all the way up. Also we would have our own independence, boundaries and careers. No more older males for me because I am no longer attracted to them and found them to be immature mentally or just carrying baggage. It-s really ugly.
No healthy minded man is dating a young girl like this. Only men who cannot attract women his age or he-s must be strange or immature mentally. She-s ruining her life and youth on an old male.
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Been there done that and I regret it with a fiery passion. I realized it was a father wound and family related issues. I don-t need a man looking like my father or uncle or grandfathers. I-m glad I-ve moved on and woke up. I didn-t get pregnant or married to any of those ugly older males who manipulated, abused, and treated me horribly. It was manipulation throughout the ordeal.
I started realizing how unattractive they were as well and I wanted to experience love/romance with a handsome healthy quality man who-s a millennial like me and we don-t want children plus have similarities/compatible MUST be there. I want a genuine love not a fake love with older men, I woke all the way up. Also we would have our own independence, boundaries and careers. No more older males for me because I am no longer attracted to them and found them to be immature mentally or just carrying baggage. It-s really ugly.
No healthy minded man is dating a young girl like this. Only men who cannot attract women his age or he-s must be strange or immature mentally. She-s ruining her life and youth on an old male.
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Roy
It's funny how many mature women don't like it, I'm in just such a relationship but wasn't looking for it. I was tired of all the broken women who for whatever reason carry their baggage like a trophy by claiming to be broken and all that. Mine is a millennial who's not into the skinny jeans and man bun crowd, nor the bearded guys who don't know how to change a tire. Best of all, we are also getting married soon and don't really care what anybody thinks because we are happy and love each other.
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It's funny how many mature women don't like it, I'm in just such a relationship but wasn't looking for it. I was tired of all the broken women who for whatever reason carry their baggage like a trophy by claiming to be broken and all that. Mine is a millennial who's not into the skinny jeans and man bun crowd, nor the bearded guys who don't know how to change a tire. Best of all, we are also getting married soon and don't really care what anybody thinks because we are happy and love each other.
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CoCoCat
There is absolutely no chemistry here. This girl's deciding factors are: he is established- he has his own house, has money, a lot of experience, he will fully support her financially, emotionally, physically (until he's geriatric) and he will wrap around her finger and do whatever she asks him to. And when he dies, she will be fully sorted financially and living comfortably doing whatever she pleases until the end of her life.
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There is absolutely no chemistry here. This girl's deciding factors are: he is established- he has his own house, has money, a lot of experience, he will fully support her financially, emotionally, physically (until he's geriatric) and he will wrap around her finger and do whatever she asks him to. And when he dies, she will be fully sorted financially and living comfortably doing whatever she pleases until the end of her life.
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truly
I'm 26 and when I was younger I dated older men as well. I can honestly say I think I did because I was looking for something my father didn't give me weird but true. I also am very mature and guys my age were so immature and annoying only care about dumb things like social media and shoes but now I'm healed and I want someone a few yrs older like 5 or 6 no more age gap Thank you God for the healing and restoration to my mind
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I'm 26 and when I was younger I dated older men as well. I can honestly say I think I did because I was looking for something my father didn't give me weird but true. I also am very mature and guys my age were so immature and annoying only care about dumb things like social media and shoes but now I'm healed and I want someone a few yrs older like 5 or 6 no more age gap Thank you God for the healing and restoration to my mind
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Tommy
Why exactly are we not supposed to judge him? A 19 year old still has the brain of a child in many ways. The emotional regulation part of the brain, for instance, is not yet fully mature. That doesn't happen until around age 23. Guys should stop doing this. You're basically marrying a teenager, and we don't live in that world anymore. It is very easy for a full adult to manipulate someone who is this neurologically young.
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Why exactly are we not supposed to judge him? A 19 year old still has the brain of a child in many ways. The emotional regulation part of the brain, for instance, is not yet fully mature. That doesn't happen until around age 23. Guys should stop doing this. You're basically marrying a teenager, and we don't live in that world anymore. It is very easy for a full adult to manipulate someone who is this neurologically young.
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Carlo
You are a very strong woman, because I am sure that you have been attacked by friends and family for dating such an older man, the girls I date also receive criticism for dating me, and a few of my relationships have been destroyed by the criticism my girlfriend received, I am 56 Ave date women between 25 and 35 because I want to have children! I hope to meet a woman as strong as you one of these days!
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You are a very strong woman, because I am sure that you have been attacked by friends and family for dating such an older man, the girls I date also receive criticism for dating me, and a few of my relationships have been destroyed by the criticism my girlfriend received, I am 56 Ave date women between 25 and 35 because I want to have children! I hope to meet a woman as strong as you one of these days!
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Fernanda
I'm someone who's pro age gap relationships so I'm sure that my comment on this video is kind of biased but I'm going to say my opinion anyway. I think they make a good couple. They both seem to be on the same page and have the maturity to make their own choices. Honestly, I wish the best for them, especially with IVF cause I know it's a complicated process. Good luck guys: )
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I'm someone who's pro age gap relationships so I'm sure that my comment on this video is kind of biased but I'm going to say my opinion anyway. I think they make a good couple. They both seem to be on the same page and have the maturity to make their own choices. Honestly, I wish the best for them, especially with IVF cause I know it's a complicated process. Good luck guys: )
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Chad
Wait, okay, hold up. Am I the only one reading all of their cues and body language and the subtle looks and things they're doing? Like really come on. There is ALOT and I mean ALOOOOOOT more going on than what you can see at face value. Idk if it's me being pessimistic but come on really?
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Wait, okay, hold up. Am I the only one reading all of their cues and body language and the subtle looks and things they're doing? Like really come on. There is ALOT and I mean ALOOOOOOT more going on than what you can see at face value. Idk if it's me being pessimistic but come on really?
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blogs
Good for them, hope they have a fruitful relationship for many many years. I'm 35 married to a 19 year old with a daughter on the way (thank you God. People think it's wrong but our familys don't and that's all that matters. Both of us have never been in a previous relationship either.
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Good for them, hope they have a fruitful relationship for many many years. I'm 35 married to a 19 year old with a daughter on the way (thank you God. People think it's wrong but our familys don't and that's all that matters. Both of us have never been in a previous relationship either.
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todd
just saying she's not with an old broke dude. -your life spent creating stability is so attractive-. i bet if dude went broke, she bounce before you could take your socks off. didn't mention her dads age but i'd bet dudes older than her dad LOL.
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just saying she's not with an old broke dude. -your life spent creating stability is so attractive-. i bet if dude went broke, she bounce before you could take your socks off. didn't mention her dads age but i'd bet dudes older than her dad LOL.
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The
This is almost like Larry and Mindy story so they are really a cute couple so I wish you two the same but always remember that love doesn-t judge but a big age gap like this could be a heavy toll on once of you one day. so good luck
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This is almost like Larry and Mindy story so they are really a cute couple so I wish you two the same but always remember that love doesn-t judge but a big age gap like this could be a heavy toll on once of you one day. so good luck
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Shivangi
19? That's way too young. At 19, you haven't had the kind of adult experiences you need to make responsible, informed decisions. You're way too impressionable and way too easily impressed. I wouldn't date a 19-year-old at 25.
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19? That's way too young. At 19, you haven't had the kind of adult experiences you need to make responsible, informed decisions. You're way too impressionable and way too easily impressed. I wouldn't date a 19-year-old at 25.
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Tudor
Why is everyone hating on this happy couple? Age gap relationships are way more common than you think. Not every young woman has 'daddy issues' not every old guy wants a young woman to make them feel young again.
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Why is everyone hating on this happy couple? Age gap relationships are way more common than you think. Not every young woman has 'daddy issues' not every old guy wants a young woman to make them feel young again.
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Sheri
The only reason age should matter so much is if she's under age. With so much hate in the world these days we should be happy for two people falling in love. The seem happy and healthy, let's celebrate that---
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The only reason age should matter so much is if she's under age. With so much hate in the world these days we should be happy for two people falling in love. The seem happy and healthy, let's celebrate that---
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fractalife
Im -only- 37 male, even I see attractive girl below 25 ish, I dont see them as GF material, younger than my younger sister sibling just like sister to me I dont know, its my personal reference or margin.
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Im -only- 37 male, even I see attractive girl below 25 ish, I dont see them as GF material, younger than my younger sister sibling just like sister to me I dont know, its my personal reference or margin.
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Malka
Sometimes, these older men appeal because their experienced, protective. Later, he'll be controlling & worried she'll meet a younger man. That was my experience with my x husband. Proceed with caution.
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Sometimes, these older men appeal because their experienced, protective. Later, he'll be controlling & worried she'll meet a younger man. That was my experience with my x husband. Proceed with caution.
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Rebecca
The human brain keeps developing until at least 25. She's still a kid and there is no way this relationship has an equitable power dynamic. It would be one thing if she were 30 but 19! Please.
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The human brain keeps developing until at least 25. She's still a kid and there is no way this relationship has an equitable power dynamic. It would be one thing if she were 30 but 19! Please.
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Edca
My boyfriend is 45 and I'm 37, lately he complains that I'm too old for him. He wants a 25 year old girlfriend, and I told him that actually he looks older than my 49 old brother. What a life
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My boyfriend is 45 and I'm 37, lately he complains that I'm too old for him. He wants a 25 year old girlfriend, and I told him that actually he looks older than my 49 old brother. What a life
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TheVoicesOfDavis
Age is just a number. As long as everything is legal they're happy I don't see why anyones relationship is your buisness. They seem happy so good luck to them in the future.
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Age is just a number. As long as everything is legal they're happy I don't see why anyones relationship is your buisness. They seem happy so good luck to them in the future.
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william
My wife is 27 years my junior and 1 year younger than my youngest child. I was 59 and she was 32. Married 10 years and together 11 tears. and still very much in love.
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My wife is 27 years my junior and 1 year younger than my youngest child. I was 59 and she was 32. Married 10 years and together 11 tears. and still very much in love.
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Black
4: 49 How does he know if she is -completely fertile-? How many children did she have when this video was produced? Her age does not prove how fertile she is.
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4: 49 How does he know if she is -completely fertile-? How many children did she have when this video was produced? Her age does not prove how fertile she is.
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Ronnie
That awkward moment where the world tells you that you were groomed by a 50 year old man. His minimum age restriction was younger than his kid! --------
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That awkward moment where the world tells you that you were groomed by a 50 year old man. His minimum age restriction was younger than his kid! --------
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Stratocaster
I'm going on 54 and I thought dating a 35-year-old was too young for me.
I'm just single these days.
Whatever works for others I guess lol
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I'm going on 54 and I thought dating a 35-year-old was too young for me.
I'm just single these days.
Whatever works for others I guess lol
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Marisol
When she said - you are a year older than my dad-. I was like. ---- oh man you are really old for this girl, her dad is younger than you, come on!
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When she said - you are a year older than my dad-. I was like. ---- oh man you are really old for this girl, her dad is younger than you, come on!
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Erin
-She is completely fertile. - -- also I messed around with a dude who was like 40 something and I was around 19 and yes, it was completely unnatural
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-She is completely fertile. - -- also I messed around with a dude who was like 40 something and I was around 19 and yes, it was completely unnatural
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Lolli
Tbh I understand being attracted to an older man- but being 51 being attracted to a 19 year old- nah not buying its genuine. But I could be wrong.
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Tbh I understand being attracted to an older man- but being 51 being attracted to a 19 year old- nah not buying its genuine. But I could be wrong.
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Comment section reeks of jealousy and insecurity. Men want to be that guy and women want to be that girl. Please get over yourselves already --
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Comment section reeks of jealousy and insecurity. Men want to be that guy and women want to be that girl. Please get over yourselves already --
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noneya123
I couldn't take advantage of a child like that. Because I know he/she isn't fully developed mentally. Especially at 19.
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I couldn't take advantage of a child like that. Because I know he/she isn't fully developed mentally. Especially at 19.
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balgus82
Honestly if a 19 year old pretty girl messaged me first on a dating app I would immediately assume it was a scammer. lol
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Honestly if a 19 year old pretty girl messaged me first on a dating app I would immediately assume it was a scammer. lol
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Jared
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i dread being met by someone older than me, especially when i'm happily single as i never thought i would ever be
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i dread being met by someone older than me, especially when i'm happily single as i never thought i would ever be
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