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We were monogamous - now we're looking for a third - love don't judge

We were monogamous - now we're looking for a third - love don't judge

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LEAVE your social norms at the door, says Jay and Heather, who had been in a monogamous relationship together for a decade until a few years ago when they decided to explore the world of polyamory and began meeting with other women. Now they no longer want to see other people on a casual basis and want to have an emotional connection with another permanent partner. They devised a unique method from there: in order to be considered as their third partner you have to send an application. The couple then created their own club called The Playhouse, a place where they say new applicants can leave social norms at the door and come in to explore. After being inundated with hundreds of applications in their first week they realised they are not alone in their lifestyle choice and are excited to finally search for their new partner. Heather, said: I feel like the three best things about a poly relationships is having open communication, being able to live the life that you want to live and making it how you want rather than how society says that you want and being able to connect with somebody that you are falling for as well as being connected with your partner. Jay added: I feel like the biggest misconception about our relationship is just because we choose to love and connect with other people together that we don't love and connect with each other which is more than untrue. It's laughable. The level of communication, the love, the level of trust and love that you have to have for this to be able to work is so much more than what we had when we were a monogamous couple. To
Date: 2023-09-12

Comments and reviews: 25


I enjoy seeing a couple who is strong enough in their relationship to open the door for other experiences. While their lifestyle isn't for everyone, I respect their ability to know what works for them and to take charge of their own situation by saying yeah this is what I'm into and going after it. openly, without cheating. I'm tired of everyone judging what literally does not affect them one iota. Live and let live! -
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I will always judge, because if we don't, the world will fall into complete mayhem, plus this is on the internet. I really don't care about these people who are so bored and need instant gratifications nvm how dumb, that they will invite a third party into their marriage. Once they do that I'll give them about 2 years before they divorce. At least they won't lack the money. And I still won't care.
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See, normally I-m all for stuff like this. Live your best life, do what makes you happy, but the idea that they made an application form to find people to sleep with is so obnoxious to me. Like really? Just use tinder or bumble like everyone else, what makes you think you-re so special that people should have to apply to sleep with you?
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Surprise suprise it start with him flirting with another woman. Why does these relationships always start when the man either cheats or is about to cheats? It never starts off with the man and the woman from the begining being poly. Just her agreeing to it so her cheating man won't leave her -.
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These go after the better looking people but he looks like his face got smashed with a pan and she is plastered with make-up. There pictures are edited like mad on social media too if you look at the video then the pics. Talking about catfish and they do it themselves smh
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Can we please get off the WMW unicorn hunting. A majority of the polyamorous community are underrepresented. Why not find people into kitchen table poly, or for gods sake some MWM couples. Maybe a few gender non-conforming pods.
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What a shame the world has gone mad it-s all about me and showing off you must be bored with each other to want to bring in another. Do what you want just don-t bring kids in the world there-s enough screwed up people.
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The love we have longed for all our lives isnt going to be delivered by a relationship the peace we have longed for isnt going to be delivered via a situation it has to be internlized so therefore to hell with women
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We are living in the last days, these things aren't right and it not cool. What happened to the good old days when you love your partner until death do us part. im still old school I rather stay single.
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Well that is the end of that marriage. They are just ego tripping by being this public. lust and publicity. Marriage is for love and commitment. What a pair of twits.
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why are ppl so pressed over this?
you saw the title, you didn't have to click on it if you don't want to know about polyamory.
let them live their life.

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So they-re bored, but comfortable so decided to sleep with another. People if it-s not working just break up. You-ll be happier free rather than -comfortable-.
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This was nothing more than free advertising for their site. The name is on his shirt the whole episode and was on the computer and TV. Come on!
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I-m watching too much of this. I am now very convinced I-ll never find anyone interested in monogamy. Am I right? Are we a dying breed?
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Truly needs to do an update on all these -relationships- that are open and see if their still together or if it is still working for them
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America is slowly destroys itself. Way too much freedom. Sad. I can totally understand why people from other countries laugh at us.
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men really gotta become more freaky and less insecure and with their woman jump into bed with a stud who can satisfy both of them
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i love to see how the world is composed of different types of people that want to explore life in ways that satisfy them!
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This is actually not polyamory it is polygamy and is more about physical attraction than love, as far as i am concerned.
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They are so good looking that I bet there really picky and not getting a 3rd because there standards are too high! -
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Why is it usually that there's a male ego where the third would usually (almost 99%) be a woman?
Why not a man?

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She needs to stop cutting up her face. She does anymore work on her face, it will move to uncanny valley territory.
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They sound like they-re trying to purchase a car with the way they describe their choosing process lolol
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Is this polyamory or are they just looking for unicorns? It seems like they just want threesomes regularly
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Heather is beautiful - -. Each to their own as long as no one gets hurts and every one is happy so be it
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