8 Ways to Improve Parent Child Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Phewboy
Dear psycho2goers community,
Please read this to the end.
I just want true friends & family who are not just willing to listen to what I have to say, but be apart of my struggles & success.
The problem is, most people just want something to take from you untill you have nothing. They don't want to be apart of the struggles, or keep your trust especially your deepest darkest secrets. Most parents who have kids, they just wanted kids bcuz they care too much of what other people think if they don't, or some of them just actually wanna let go of those lust without having thinking deeper future ahead for the child, or another one, they do actually wanna a child but have no idea to parent at all, or just follow how their parents parent them & bring that parenting style on their child. The biggest mistakes for dear future parents, even though I'm not one. Don't be so selfish of yourself. Once you have children, the next generation is born, & you must know how to guide them properly. Take parenting books, & also beware that you will make mistakes, cuz there's no such thing as perfect parents, cuz we're human, also there no such thing as perfect parenting books, cuz there could be wrong ones. The most important, realize you will make mistakes, & just remember not to repeat them over & over once you do them, by not letting your ego as parents in the way. My parents currently right now how they work, in the past I was emotionally abused, absent almost all them time by my parents, also same with school but also including physically abuse. Now, I'm an adult, they just realize their mistakes very little bit in their 50s, there are still other things that, I just wish I don't have to face it or exist in the first place. Now, I'm feeling so invisible in life. I just found out my true purpose & goals & dreams that I wanted to do, but sadly no one in my life understands it. I'm not smart academically, & most parents would be over praise with grades & overanxious or angry if their child gets a bad grade. My advice is, not everyone is study or academic smart. Some people are entrepreneurials or artistically or entertainers or sporty or athletic talented. Just bcuz they dumb at academics doesn't mean their dumb in life. Dear 99% parents, we're not your retirement plan, we're not your trophy or degrading embarrassment to you if we failed, we are born to find our own path in this world, & it is your job to guide & help us no matter what happens, not to demotivate us. Food, shelter, & water alone is not enough for a child. They need physical, emotional, unconditional love & understanding & trust so they can live a more much happier life. In my case, I only mostly get food, water, shelter & that's it. I wish I can meet true, motivating, passionate people one day, bcuz chasing your dreams all alone, with no real people in my life & the people around you that all you know is 99% fake, is only going want to be at your biggest success, not struggles, and It is the most difficult challenge in life.
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Dear psycho2goers community,
Please read this to the end.
I just want true friends & family who are not just willing to listen to what I have to say, but be apart of my struggles & success.
The problem is, most people just want something to take from you untill you have nothing. They don't want to be apart of the struggles, or keep your trust especially your deepest darkest secrets. Most parents who have kids, they just wanted kids bcuz they care too much of what other people think if they don't, or some of them just actually wanna let go of those lust without having thinking deeper future ahead for the child, or another one, they do actually wanna a child but have no idea to parent at all, or just follow how their parents parent them & bring that parenting style on their child. The biggest mistakes for dear future parents, even though I'm not one. Don't be so selfish of yourself. Once you have children, the next generation is born, & you must know how to guide them properly. Take parenting books, & also beware that you will make mistakes, cuz there's no such thing as perfect parents, cuz we're human, also there no such thing as perfect parenting books, cuz there could be wrong ones. The most important, realize you will make mistakes, & just remember not to repeat them over & over once you do them, by not letting your ego as parents in the way. My parents currently right now how they work, in the past I was emotionally abused, absent almost all them time by my parents, also same with school but also including physically abuse. Now, I'm an adult, they just realize their mistakes very little bit in their 50s, there are still other things that, I just wish I don't have to face it or exist in the first place. Now, I'm feeling so invisible in life. I just found out my true purpose & goals & dreams that I wanted to do, but sadly no one in my life understands it. I'm not smart academically, & most parents would be over praise with grades & overanxious or angry if their child gets a bad grade. My advice is, not everyone is study or academic smart. Some people are entrepreneurials or artistically or entertainers or sporty or athletic talented. Just bcuz they dumb at academics doesn't mean their dumb in life. Dear 99% parents, we're not your retirement plan, we're not your trophy or degrading embarrassment to you if we failed, we are born to find our own path in this world, & it is your job to guide & help us no matter what happens, not to demotivate us. Food, shelter, & water alone is not enough for a child. They need physical, emotional, unconditional love & understanding & trust so they can live a more much happier life. In my case, I only mostly get food, water, shelter & that's it. I wish I can meet true, motivating, passionate people one day, bcuz chasing your dreams all alone, with no real people in my life & the people around you that all you know is 99% fake, is only going want to be at your biggest success, not struggles, and It is the most difficult challenge in life.
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SHIVANI
Never talked about this. But my father is in defense so his life was busy and when we were children i barely see him and when we see him at the night he usually was drunk and then he went on to sleep, and i understand he has his own work life and then i got used to him not being arounf aand now whenever i thunk of my future how im gonna give to my parents hes not in my imagination only my mother is there, and now his work is less hectic and I've spending much timw with hin than i use to in my childhood and now every single things about him irritate me and bother m. I would rather be alone. He is nice and never ever raise voice on me and hit me and my brother but now eveb when he ask a single question i get mad, i dont show him that im mad or irritated but i find it really hard to even smile. When he say something that Supposed to be funny. I dont want to hurt him and i try to be mindful and noy get irritated but sometimes it doesn't help. Can someone tell me whats wrong with me. Im 20 year old and indian
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Never talked about this. But my father is in defense so his life was busy and when we were children i barely see him and when we see him at the night he usually was drunk and then he went on to sleep, and i understand he has his own work life and then i got used to him not being arounf aand now whenever i thunk of my future how im gonna give to my parents hes not in my imagination only my mother is there, and now his work is less hectic and I've spending much timw with hin than i use to in my childhood and now every single things about him irritate me and bother m. I would rather be alone. He is nice and never ever raise voice on me and hit me and my brother but now eveb when he ask a single question i get mad, i dont show him that im mad or irritated but i find it really hard to even smile. When he say something that Supposed to be funny. I dont want to hurt him and i try to be mindful and noy get irritated but sometimes it doesn't help. Can someone tell me whats wrong with me. Im 20 year old and indian
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Kim
It's sad that I'm so bad with my parents, just because I can't think before I react. I really wanna be better but the worst part is that I agreed to act good because they willl buy me something. That makes me so sad that I'm more of a material person. But I'll try to be good with them even after they buy me that thing or even if they don't. I mean they love me sm and i also do but I can't show love even if i want to, for example if i wanna say i love you to my mom or hug her, something stops me. Or if she says ily i say it too but i start crying. Yes ik it sounds weird but i get emotional when they show me their love because i don't show it and they think i hate them sometimes, which is making me even sadder all tho I'm the wrong one.
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It's sad that I'm so bad with my parents, just because I can't think before I react. I really wanna be better but the worst part is that I agreed to act good because they willl buy me something. That makes me so sad that I'm more of a material person. But I'll try to be good with them even after they buy me that thing or even if they don't. I mean they love me sm and i also do but I can't show love even if i want to, for example if i wanna say i love you to my mom or hug her, something stops me. Or if she says ily i say it too but i start crying. Yes ik it sounds weird but i get emotional when they show me their love because i don't show it and they think i hate them sometimes, which is making me even sadder all tho I'm the wrong one.
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Hailey
Me and my dad have a great relationship. We get into fights sometimes but all families do that. Its me and my moms relationship that Im worried about. Im thirteen now and since Ive grown older, Ive started acting more like my dad. I get mad at my mom and so annoyed at her for doing the most littlest things. When she needs me most as a daughter to comfort her, I dont know what to do. We get into fights almost every day and she thinks I hate her now. Me and my dad dont include her much to activities because she never wants to do what we want to do and we never want to do what she wants to do. She told me that she feels worthless and I said Your not completely worthless. I feel like a horrible daughter and I dont know what to do.
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Me and my dad have a great relationship. We get into fights sometimes but all families do that. Its me and my moms relationship that Im worried about. Im thirteen now and since Ive grown older, Ive started acting more like my dad. I get mad at my mom and so annoyed at her for doing the most littlest things. When she needs me most as a daughter to comfort her, I dont know what to do. We get into fights almost every day and she thinks I hate her now. Me and my dad dont include her much to activities because she never wants to do what we want to do and we never want to do what she wants to do. She told me that she feels worthless and I said Your not completely worthless. I feel like a horrible daughter and I dont know what to do.
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Valerie
its honestly really hard for me to have a small conversation with them, and i thought this was just a normal thing for everyone. i try to have a convo in the car or in the sala (living room) while shes relaxing and she just tells me to shut up or leave her alone. and then complains when i dont even talk to her. what do u expect
she just told me she doesnt feel anything when i try to give her affection cs i normally do it cs i want something from her idk where she even got that idea from, i come to her when i need help or food, like a child should. i dont go to her when i want money or to take advantage wtv she basically just told me she doesnt love me it doesnt matter anyways y do i even try
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its honestly really hard for me to have a small conversation with them, and i thought this was just a normal thing for everyone. i try to have a convo in the car or in the sala (living room) while shes relaxing and she just tells me to shut up or leave her alone. and then complains when i dont even talk to her. what do u expect
she just told me she doesnt feel anything when i try to give her affection cs i normally do it cs i want something from her idk where she even got that idea from, i come to her when i need help or food, like a child should. i dont go to her when i want money or to take advantage wtv she basically just told me she doesnt love me it doesnt matter anyways y do i even try
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adrift
Need videos on parenting
I wanna make it better for my brother than it was or is for myself
I don't want him to feel used or tortured or guilty because my mother is always playing the victim
Or because she believes she's always the victim
Because she just stops talking for days once you do something wrong and wouldn't talk again unless you INSANELY apologize, Crying to the point of getting phycally sick
Or because growing up i always felt she wants something from me
Either it is good grades or any other skill or some kind of support that's impossible to give. She only wants to recieve and not to give
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Need videos on parenting
I wanna make it better for my brother than it was or is for myself
I don't want him to feel used or tortured or guilty because my mother is always playing the victim
Or because she believes she's always the victim
Because she just stops talking for days once you do something wrong and wouldn't talk again unless you INSANELY apologize, Crying to the point of getting phycally sick
Or because growing up i always felt she wants something from me
Either it is good grades or any other skill or some kind of support that's impossible to give. She only wants to recieve and not to give
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education
it's actually me who is the problem here my dad loves me more than anything but I don't why I just always end up giving him a straight short reply which sounds rude. forget hugging I am not like a bubbly person at all who'll go and talk for hours or just smile unnecessarily. I KNOW it hurts him it's clear in his face sometimes but still I don't know how to change myself and become more open. It's ego for whatever but I just can't go talk to him or hug him like that suddenly idkkkkkkkkkk what to do I was searching for manifest good family relationship but this also came.
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it's actually me who is the problem here my dad loves me more than anything but I don't why I just always end up giving him a straight short reply which sounds rude. forget hugging I am not like a bubbly person at all who'll go and talk for hours or just smile unnecessarily. I KNOW it hurts him it's clear in his face sometimes but still I don't know how to change myself and become more open. It's ego for whatever but I just can't go talk to him or hug him like that suddenly idkkkkkkkkkk what to do I was searching for manifest good family relationship but this also came.
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Naveen
I don't cry anymore. I m dead inside. Honestly my parents could never connect with me. Or its that we never never made an effort to. I can't share my feelings. I can't be my true self. I just like being alone but they can't even respect that. They taunt me for staying alone. My mother tells me I m not confident, it's so funny, because she is the one who made me so insecure. She has told me I m ugly so many times and doesn't even realise how it's tearing me apart. And talking about my father well, he doesn't have time from praising and favouring my brother.
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I don't cry anymore. I m dead inside. Honestly my parents could never connect with me. Or its that we never never made an effort to. I can't share my feelings. I can't be my true self. I just like being alone but they can't even respect that. They taunt me for staying alone. My mother tells me I m not confident, it's so funny, because she is the one who made me so insecure. She has told me I m ugly so many times and doesn't even realise how it's tearing me apart. And talking about my father well, he doesn't have time from praising and favouring my brother.
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Caity
me and my mum argue, not alot but whenever we argue its like a game of tennis. neither of our points gets through to the other person. we think similarly (shes more of a emotional thinker tho) and always want to be right (both logical people. actually had an argument recently (thats why im here haha) basically i was trying to understand something by talking to my dad and my mum wanted to join into the conversation (which i know wouldnt help as everytime, we argue. sometimes idk if im in the wrong, or if she is.
EDIT: im 19 btw.
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me and my mum argue, not alot but whenever we argue its like a game of tennis. neither of our points gets through to the other person. we think similarly (shes more of a emotional thinker tho) and always want to be right (both logical people. actually had an argument recently (thats why im here haha) basically i was trying to understand something by talking to my dad and my mum wanted to join into the conversation (which i know wouldnt help as everytime, we argue. sometimes idk if im in the wrong, or if she is.
EDIT: im 19 btw.
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education
My mom refuses to treat me like and adult or even an equal. Dont get me wrong she provides so much for me and I believe she truly loves me and wants what's best for me but she doesnt want to give me privacy or let me have my own life. Shes threatened to kick me out before when I try to talk to her about it. Its really all or nothing with her she either babies me by providing everything i need but not giving me freedom or she gives me freedom by kicking me out and not supporting me at all.
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My mom refuses to treat me like and adult or even an equal. Dont get me wrong she provides so much for me and I believe she truly loves me and wants what's best for me but she doesnt want to give me privacy or let me have my own life. Shes threatened to kick me out before when I try to talk to her about it. Its really all or nothing with her she either babies me by providing everything i need but not giving me freedom or she gives me freedom by kicking me out and not supporting me at all.
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MrBxcon
Hardest part is having a sibling. my cousins and my older brother got high grades and i got average. and now theyre treating me like im invisible. and when i try to pursue my dreams my mother always discourages me. having a nice healthy family is like finding another earth in another universe. i just wish to feel appreciated when i got 4 mistakes on my math exam my dad was mad at me and told me to get better grades.
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Hardest part is having a sibling. my cousins and my older brother got high grades and i got average. and now theyre treating me like im invisible. and when i try to pursue my dreams my mother always discourages me. having a nice healthy family is like finding another earth in another universe. i just wish to feel appreciated when i got 4 mistakes on my math exam my dad was mad at me and told me to get better grades.
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Code
How I wish my parent watch this. Its getting toxic every time I attempt to make a decision for myself, by the way I am 26yrs. old and they still get mad whenever I want this to do or want to plan this for myself. They even think that I don't consider them any more why? After explaining all my sides my point and my wants for me for my future, they are questioning me and must follow what they want for me.
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How I wish my parent watch this. Its getting toxic every time I attempt to make a decision for myself, by the way I am 26yrs. old and they still get mad whenever I want this to do or want to plan this for myself. They even think that I don't consider them any more why? After explaining all my sides my point and my wants for me for my future, they are questioning me and must follow what they want for me.
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Vegas
The saddest thing is that I know it's my fault my parents are both loving but i can't i just can't have a conversation with them what should I tell them, what should I say and i have an addiction to phones and i lash out at whoever prevents it from doing it i can't help it. I am just hoping that one day it will get better and i can actually talk to them.
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The saddest thing is that I know it's my fault my parents are both loving but i can't i just can't have a conversation with them what should I tell them, what should I say and i have an addiction to phones and i lash out at whoever prevents it from doing it i can't help it. I am just hoping that one day it will get better and i can actually talk to them.
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Rohit
1) Hug
2) Off Technology At The Time Of Interaction
3) Connect Before Large Decision Making
4) Spend Quality Time With Them
5) Encourage Emotions Instead Of Shutting Them Out
6) Listen To Understand, Not With The Intent To React
7) Respect Boundaries
ADD YOUR OWN POINTS IN REPLIES.
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1) Hug
2) Off Technology At The Time Of Interaction
3) Connect Before Large Decision Making
4) Spend Quality Time With Them
5) Encourage Emotions Instead Of Shutting Them Out
6) Listen To Understand, Not With The Intent To React
7) Respect Boundaries
ADD YOUR OWN POINTS IN REPLIES.
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Shavonne
Im dealing with mental illness and its so difficult to talk about things without feeling ashamed, hurt, confused, and its causing so much stress. I cant function like I used too. I get really depressed in the summer and its hard explaining a lot of things on top of family, friend, work etc
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Im dealing with mental illness and its so difficult to talk about things without feeling ashamed, hurt, confused, and its causing so much stress. I cant function like I used too. I get really depressed in the summer and its hard explaining a lot of things on top of family, friend, work etc
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MissS.
any tips on how can i get along with my dad who is far at work ever since i was a kid and now he decide to stay at home because we discover he have an illness, how can i be close to him if i always feel awkward and dont know what to do or say please hope u notice.
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any tips on how can i get along with my dad who is far at work ever since i was a kid and now he decide to stay at home because we discover he have an illness, how can i be close to him if i always feel awkward and dont know what to do or say please hope u notice.
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Rioji
i understand how hard it is for a parent but sometimes they dont know that we are struggling with every thing my mom just always shout at me without knowing i am already bullied then one time i opened up they just shouted at me and called me dramatic
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i understand how hard it is for a parent but sometimes they dont know that we are struggling with every thing my mom just always shout at me without knowing i am already bullied then one time i opened up they just shouted at me and called me dramatic
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mugato
Im quite very sad because i rarely talk to my parrents because they all busy everyday, and when my parrents have free time i just dont know what to talk and we just sitting at the table and staring our own phone and maybe its affect my social life
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Im quite very sad because i rarely talk to my parrents because they all busy everyday, and when my parrents have free time i just dont know what to talk and we just sitting at the table and staring our own phone and maybe its affect my social life
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Ash
I wouldn't consider my childhood to be bad but it was mediocre at best. I never got any of the things mentioned, I wasn't abused but I never got any encouragement and affection. Till now I struggle with communicating my emotions and how I feel.
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I wouldn't consider my childhood to be bad but it was mediocre at best. I never got any of the things mentioned, I wasn't abused but I never got any encouragement and affection. Till now I struggle with communicating my emotions and how I feel.
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Gohan
5: 36 -
Thats not normal!
Why don't you try?
-My dad.
I was crying while watching this, because of that how bad my and my dads relationship is. Its been 5 months since I have seen him.
Thank you for tips.
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5: 36 -
Thats not normal!
Why don't you try?
-My dad.
I was crying while watching this, because of that how bad my and my dads relationship is. Its been 5 months since I have seen him.
Thank you for tips.
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starry
Its kinda sad to me that i searched up How to get closer to your mom Me and my mom never got along, we argue so much and i just wish i could stop arguing with her and just be close to her like other daughters and mothers
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Its kinda sad to me that i searched up How to get closer to your mom Me and my mom never got along, we argue so much and i just wish i could stop arguing with her and just be close to her like other daughters and mothers
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Sonicomicfan13
My mom and I are having problems at home and it is complicated. I am mostly in the wrong but sometimes she doesn't know how to react. My head hurts and sometimes I wish she wasn't there. What should I do?
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My mom and I are having problems at home and it is complicated. I am mostly in the wrong but sometimes she doesn't know how to react. My head hurts and sometimes I wish she wasn't there. What should I do?
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ravae
I want to treat my younger sister like I wanted to be treated when I was younger. Being the eldest is a lot of pressure; I've seen and learned enough. I don't want my sister to experience what I felt.
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I want to treat my younger sister like I wanted to be treated when I was younger. Being the eldest is a lot of pressure; I've seen and learned enough. I don't want my sister to experience what I felt.
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gurjot
Actually this video is not meant for me, I didn't remember last time when we hugged, I am 17, when ever I try to talk with my father, it becomes a big argument, hope our relationship will be better
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Actually this video is not meant for me, I didn't remember last time when we hugged, I am 17, when ever I try to talk with my father, it becomes a big argument, hope our relationship will be better
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taylor
but my mom says she doenst care about how i feel, doesn't like being hugged and ect
im really trying to make our relationship better but its hard when she doenst care about this whole stuff: (
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but my mom says she doenst care about how i feel, doesn't like being hugged and ect
im really trying to make our relationship better but its hard when she doenst care about this whole stuff: (
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