12 Signs They Don't Like You In That Way
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Kalidreamine
welp im sure glad my crush responds well to all my advances when i get close to him or touch him, he doesnt move away. he welcomes it, even if not with a smile lol. hes not the affectionate type. but i kinda get that myself.
when we are together, we are literally inseparable. like i have to kick him out or run away in order to end the hangout. and he doesnt seem to want to leave and he doesnt seem to get tired when hes with me. we hang out for hours at a time and lose track of the time. time just flies!
and when i leave, he always looks at me like he wants something. or wants to say something. or needs something but cant get it out of his mouth. im not sure if its just his normal goodbye face to everyone, but its this look of intense longing. maybe im reading too much into it.
ive stopped looking into his body language signs because i already did that on our first hangout and from my body language, he absolutely likes me. his pupils wide as HECK, even in varying light conditions, his feet and body face toward me, hes always looking at me even if im not talking to him, he makes a lot of eye contact, he keeps the conversations going, he asks me a lot of questions and for my opinions, we have a lot of playful banter with each other, he has open body language, and more. but i just cant tell for sure from his actual behavior and words, and the fact that i have to guess means he might not like me. im usually good with intuition. but the body language is insanely on-the-nose and ive never gotten such a mixed bag of signals. usually its all one or the other. and usually people who display extremely positive language towards me definitely like me.
so i stopped relying on that lmao. i just enjoy my time with him now and hopefully i have more fun moments with him where i can tease him. his friend and I have the same sense of humor and we like to tease him together. i am a year older than him so i hope i havent gotten sister-zoned lmao. it would be sad but not surprising. Whatever the case, we have very good chemistry to the point where Im afraid that I wont be able to find better chemistry with anyone else. I have never clicked with someone to this level. This is ridiculous. Because usually im awkward and its hard for me to talk continuously to people. I get tired. But with him, I cant get tired either. I just want to keep going.
AHHH
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welp im sure glad my crush responds well to all my advances when i get close to him or touch him, he doesnt move away. he welcomes it, even if not with a smile lol. hes not the affectionate type. but i kinda get that myself.
when we are together, we are literally inseparable. like i have to kick him out or run away in order to end the hangout. and he doesnt seem to want to leave and he doesnt seem to get tired when hes with me. we hang out for hours at a time and lose track of the time. time just flies!
and when i leave, he always looks at me like he wants something. or wants to say something. or needs something but cant get it out of his mouth. im not sure if its just his normal goodbye face to everyone, but its this look of intense longing. maybe im reading too much into it.
ive stopped looking into his body language signs because i already did that on our first hangout and from my body language, he absolutely likes me. his pupils wide as HECK, even in varying light conditions, his feet and body face toward me, hes always looking at me even if im not talking to him, he makes a lot of eye contact, he keeps the conversations going, he asks me a lot of questions and for my opinions, we have a lot of playful banter with each other, he has open body language, and more. but i just cant tell for sure from his actual behavior and words, and the fact that i have to guess means he might not like me. im usually good with intuition. but the body language is insanely on-the-nose and ive never gotten such a mixed bag of signals. usually its all one or the other. and usually people who display extremely positive language towards me definitely like me.
so i stopped relying on that lmao. i just enjoy my time with him now and hopefully i have more fun moments with him where i can tease him. his friend and I have the same sense of humor and we like to tease him together. i am a year older than him so i hope i havent gotten sister-zoned lmao. it would be sad but not surprising. Whatever the case, we have very good chemistry to the point where Im afraid that I wont be able to find better chemistry with anyone else. I have never clicked with someone to this level. This is ridiculous. Because usually im awkward and its hard for me to talk continuously to people. I get tired. But with him, I cant get tired either. I just want to keep going.
AHHH
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Kalidreamine
my crush and i have only been going to group events so far, and he doesnt really dress to impress, but those are the only two things that have been happening out of all of these. Group events I can understand. I dont know if I would want to be one-on-one with him at this point either. Its a bit much and I need to get more familiar with him first. I like him too much to not be nervous
I wouldnt say I dress to impress either lol. Then again we also dont go on dates or anything so it makes sense. He does seem very interested in me as a person and genuinely so, too. He is an honest person who makes it very clear when he doesnt like something and he likes to stay in his room most of the time to do solitary activities- so why would he keep hanging out with me if he didnt even like me at all? Or at least, he must like me substantially (platonically or romantically) because he loves his solo hobbies a lot. So to put those aside and be with me for hours is something crazy and it should mean that he values me a lot. And riding on the fact that hes honest, he told me at the end of the night that it was fun and he meant it. I was happy. Even though we both sacrificed our time lmao cuz it was a weeknight he sacrificed his sleep to hang out with me and he didnt even want to leave in the end, lol. I had to shoo him out because his friend was tired, and also I care for my crushs health.
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my crush and i have only been going to group events so far, and he doesnt really dress to impress, but those are the only two things that have been happening out of all of these. Group events I can understand. I dont know if I would want to be one-on-one with him at this point either. Its a bit much and I need to get more familiar with him first. I like him too much to not be nervous
I wouldnt say I dress to impress either lol. Then again we also dont go on dates or anything so it makes sense. He does seem very interested in me as a person and genuinely so, too. He is an honest person who makes it very clear when he doesnt like something and he likes to stay in his room most of the time to do solitary activities- so why would he keep hanging out with me if he didnt even like me at all? Or at least, he must like me substantially (platonically or romantically) because he loves his solo hobbies a lot. So to put those aside and be with me for hours is something crazy and it should mean that he values me a lot. And riding on the fact that hes honest, he told me at the end of the night that it was fun and he meant it. I was happy. Even though we both sacrificed our time lmao cuz it was a weeknight he sacrificed his sleep to hang out with me and he didnt even want to leave in the end, lol. I had to shoo him out because his friend was tired, and also I care for my crushs health.
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Disney_rocks
I confessed to my guy friend that is just a little to nice but ended sentences with homie and buddy. So I legit was just like hey. I really like you. He said he did not return my affections and thank you for my honesty. He even apologized for causing me pain and I was like dude, Im sad but not in pain. You are not obligated to return my feelings and he said if I was ok being friends then he was to and I was like yeah actually.
Our friendship started with him randomly sending me memes so I sent him one to feel out if he was really okay, when he sent one back I knew we had returned lol.
I went into work and saw him a couple days later and he was like How are you? And he looked so worried and I was just like OMG. I have found the perfect man but we are now besties again a whole whopping 3 days later and Im just over here like did we just create rejection goals?
he is literally the best.
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I confessed to my guy friend that is just a little to nice but ended sentences with homie and buddy. So I legit was just like hey. I really like you. He said he did not return my affections and thank you for my honesty. He even apologized for causing me pain and I was like dude, Im sad but not in pain. You are not obligated to return my feelings and he said if I was ok being friends then he was to and I was like yeah actually.
Our friendship started with him randomly sending me memes so I sent him one to feel out if he was really okay, when he sent one back I knew we had returned lol.
I went into work and saw him a couple days later and he was like How are you? And he looked so worried and I was just like OMG. I have found the perfect man but we are now besties again a whole whopping 3 days later and Im just over here like did we just create rejection goals?
he is literally the best.
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Mycroft
I can imagine you would introduce someone as your friend when you're in the veeeery early stages of dating. Like, you both know there is some mutual attraction going on, you've been hanging out together one-on-one a couple times and you really enjoy each others' company. You text each other good night and good morning every day, you talk on the phone for hours on end. Yet, you haven't been on an official date with them and haven't had the talk. In that case I believe they wouldn't introduce you to their other friends as the girl/guy I like and hope to get into a relationship with. However, if they only introduce you by name and don't say this is X, a friend of mine, you could assume they have mentioned you to their friends in one way or another.
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I can imagine you would introduce someone as your friend when you're in the veeeery early stages of dating. Like, you both know there is some mutual attraction going on, you've been hanging out together one-on-one a couple times and you really enjoy each others' company. You text each other good night and good morning every day, you talk on the phone for hours on end. Yet, you haven't been on an official date with them and haven't had the talk. In that case I believe they wouldn't introduce you to their other friends as the girl/guy I like and hope to get into a relationship with. However, if they only introduce you by name and don't say this is X, a friend of mine, you could assume they have mentioned you to their friends in one way or another.
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Greg
There is a woman I have worked with for 12 years. I have wanted her off and on between three bad relationships. I have tried again lately. I know she cares about me. Like I do her. First she acts like she wants me, so I let her know how much I love her and I give her all my attention. But then she all of a sudden ignores me. I know she does not truly love me and only just wants my attention, but not me personally. But when I give her too much attention she backs off. But when I ignore her she can't stand it and once again acts like she wants me again and then I fall for her again. How do I stop this cycle?
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There is a woman I have worked with for 12 years. I have wanted her off and on between three bad relationships. I have tried again lately. I know she cares about me. Like I do her. First she acts like she wants me, so I let her know how much I love her and I give her all my attention. But then she all of a sudden ignores me. I know she does not truly love me and only just wants my attention, but not me personally. But when I give her too much attention she backs off. But when I ignore her she can't stand it and once again acts like she wants me again and then I fall for her again. How do I stop this cycle?
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Destiny
There's this girl who shared with me her past crush story, shared with me her personal family problems, and share with me even more personal stuff. We've branched from friend to best friend at this moment.
Edit: She even hinted about marridge at one point, but i'm not sure if she was talking about me or not.
We've been chatting a lot, but recently due to exams we've been busy, and our chatting reduced quite a lot.
I plan to send her a letter + video proposal coming sem if we do meet up in college. Wish me luck.
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There's this girl who shared with me her past crush story, shared with me her personal family problems, and share with me even more personal stuff. We've branched from friend to best friend at this moment.
Edit: She even hinted about marridge at one point, but i'm not sure if she was talking about me or not.
We've been chatting a lot, but recently due to exams we've been busy, and our chatting reduced quite a lot.
I plan to send her a letter + video proposal coming sem if we do meet up in college. Wish me luck.
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sean
#12: I was rejected and when she asked to be friends I allowed it for maybe 1 week. I eventually said I couldn't be friends as it was hard on me. Everything was respectful. 2 weeks After this and in a depressed state I sent 2 short respectful messages just confirming no interest over the course of 1 month. Ghosted and blocked. I sent her a final respectful goodbye message and all of a sudden she texts back claiming harassment. three respectful texts in 2 months lmao
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#12: I was rejected and when she asked to be friends I allowed it for maybe 1 week. I eventually said I couldn't be friends as it was hard on me. Everything was respectful. 2 weeks After this and in a depressed state I sent 2 short respectful messages just confirming no interest over the course of 1 month. Ghosted and blocked. I sent her a final respectful goodbye message and all of a sudden she texts back claiming harassment. three respectful texts in 2 months lmao
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Horence
It also depends on context me and my partner treat each other like siblings, but when it was time to confess I told them: i kept saying that were like siblings, to come up with reasons not to go out with you!
Because we get along REALLY well, a lot of our friends thought we were legit going out.
And you know what? She was doing the exact same thing as me! WERE BOTH DUMB!
Yeah no, we cant hide behind the sibling category anymore.
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It also depends on context me and my partner treat each other like siblings, but when it was time to confess I told them: i kept saying that were like siblings, to come up with reasons not to go out with you!
Because we get along REALLY well, a lot of our friends thought we were legit going out.
And you know what? She was doing the exact same thing as me! WERE BOTH DUMB!
Yeah no, we cant hide behind the sibling category anymore.
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EJ
Thank you so much, she just need me when she wants to talk, I fall for her but she is full of secrets and I'm always the initiator and don't bring back anything from her, any good replies, I'll stop it now, I'm hurting so much, it's time to move on I think, its hard but I can
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Thank you so much, she just need me when she wants to talk, I fall for her but she is full of secrets and I'm always the initiator and don't bring back anything from her, any good replies, I'll stop it now, I'm hurting so much, it's time to move on I think, its hard but I can
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Alyelle
The only thing is the sibling comparison but my sibling is a boy and Im a girl and everyone tends to like him and find him more fun. :/ I just dont usually be myself and even if I wanted to my mind goes blank and I shy away.
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The only thing is the sibling comparison but my sibling is a boy and Im a girl and everyone tends to like him and find him more fun. :/ I just dont usually be myself and even if I wanted to my mind goes blank and I shy away.
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echo
Just because you call someone bro, or dude doesnt mean you dont like them or they dont like you. I call everyone those terms, regardless of gender or closeness. I call my family that, as my friends, as my lovers, as my crushs.
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Just because you call someone bro, or dude doesnt mean you dont like them or they dont like you. I call everyone those terms, regardless of gender or closeness. I call my family that, as my friends, as my lovers, as my crushs.
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Tea
Great perspective. I don't agree with the dress to impress things too much unless I'm going for an interview for a job. I love wearing sweats and sneakers. It's my comfort wear. Exactly if I'm not going anywhere fancy.
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Great perspective. I don't agree with the dress to impress things too much unless I'm going for an interview for a job. I love wearing sweats and sneakers. It's my comfort wear. Exactly if I'm not going anywhere fancy.
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Nadia
I know this video was so long ago but can anyone help me this guy I have a crush on told me I remind him of his step sister and when I asked him how come he said he wasnt sure. Was that him friend zoning me?
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I know this video was so long ago but can anyone help me this guy I have a crush on told me I remind him of his step sister and when I asked him how come he said he wasnt sure. Was that him friend zoning me?
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Mollie. x
I liked this person and I was SURE they liked me because there was so many signs but I asked them and they said they like me as a friend and has a girlfriend but people are saying that he doesn't so idk
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I liked this person and I was SURE they liked me because there was so many signs but I asked them and they said they like me as a friend and has a girlfriend but people are saying that he doesn't so idk
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Heather
How about this? Mind your own business and stay out of my phone. My phone is for my private and personal use. Stop sending things to my inbox. I stopped liking you because I have to like myself first.
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How about this? Mind your own business and stay out of my phone. My phone is for my private and personal use. Stop sending things to my inbox. I stopped liking you because I have to like myself first.
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AG203
I told my crush I like here is she kept asking are you joking are you being serious, (not in a bad way) and then kind of pushed it to get back to what we were working on. How dose she feel about me?
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I told my crush I like here is she kept asking are you joking are you being serious, (not in a bad way) and then kind of pushed it to get back to what we were working on. How dose she feel about me?
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Mondo
My crush said she wore one of her best outfits when we hung out one time. I wore some of my best outfits too, and even tried flirting in that moment. I hope to see this become something more
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My crush said she wore one of her best outfits when we hung out one time. I wore some of my best outfits too, and even tried flirting in that moment. I hope to see this become something more
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No
Me watching this when my crush is a friend that already said no, knows I like her and keep asking me to see her whenever she has free time at work. We work at the same place.
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Me watching this when my crush is a friend that already said no, knows I like her and keep asking me to see her whenever she has free time at work. We work at the same place.
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Nathan
tbh I have had most of these signs from my crush, but like I would be totally ok if they were trying to set me up with someone, cuz then thats a good friend: )
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tbh I have had most of these signs from my crush, but like I would be totally ok if they were trying to set me up with someone, cuz then thats a good friend: )
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Kalidreamine
oh my gosh woops. i keep comparing my crush to my sibling but only because they share a lot of good qualities. i still really like him for who he is. OOPS
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oh my gosh woops. i keep comparing my crush to my sibling but only because they share a lot of good qualities. i still really like him for who he is. OOPS
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Totoro
There's this guy that I may or may not like? I thought I liked him romantically but then I sometimes don't act like one. So I guess I only like him as a friend
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There's this guy that I may or may not like? I thought I liked him romantically but then I sometimes don't act like one. So I guess I only like him as a friend
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education
I am not in any relationship with anyone anymore, moreover, I am happy because of it, furthermore I know it. woo woo yeah yeah
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I am not in any relationship with anyone anymore, moreover, I am happy because of it, furthermore I know it. woo woo yeah yeah
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Sir
3: 06
Oh, so that is why my strategy to ask her for advice and then using that knowledge to try to date her hasn't worked.
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3: 06
Oh, so that is why my strategy to ask her for advice and then using that knowledge to try to date her hasn't worked.
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Ventserk
What if they look at you from across the room and slightly smile in a reassuring way? She doesn't do that to anyone else.
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What if they look at you from across the room and slightly smile in a reassuring way? She doesn't do that to anyone else.
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rico
All of that signs are opposite to the person that I've been for a year and I just realized that he loves me when he's gone
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All of that signs are opposite to the person that I've been for a year and I just realized that he loves me when he's gone
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