12 Signs You're in a Healthy Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Zeynep
He expects updates from me about once in 1 or 1. 5 hours. If I forgot or can't he feels broke and it becomes and issue. He asks who I was with, and there arises an issue if there was too many boys. Even walkin/studyin with a friend which is a boy becomes a problem? I wanna hear his voice but he expect me to call him for 1 or 2 hours every single day? If I can't it also becomes a crisis. He assumes that I don't wanna know about him and I don't miss him. We can't show all the signs there. I really feel misunderstood and upset all the time. I also feel like I'm turning into a more isolated person. I start to spend more time on my phone and my laptop or by my self and less time outside.
My sleep cycle is bad. I feel like I can't give enough time to anything, either to myself either to my friends or the sports (I'm an amateur runner.
Also we have some issues about physical boundaries. Seems like we come to a point about it but I feel like I made more sacrifices to compromise. I feel grunge to him time to time. Sometimes late at night, sometimes no reason in the morning. I feel somethings are not going well. He says he loves me a lot. He never wanna hurt me. But I feel awful and sad every single freakin day. I don't feel like I'm purely loved. I can't find the strength to break this cycle and don't know how. I feel like a love him but I see that this relationship hurts me a lot. I don't know why but deep inside I wanna prove him my love and commitment to our relationship. I hope I can heal.
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He expects updates from me about once in 1 or 1. 5 hours. If I forgot or can't he feels broke and it becomes and issue. He asks who I was with, and there arises an issue if there was too many boys. Even walkin/studyin with a friend which is a boy becomes a problem? I wanna hear his voice but he expect me to call him for 1 or 2 hours every single day? If I can't it also becomes a crisis. He assumes that I don't wanna know about him and I don't miss him. We can't show all the signs there. I really feel misunderstood and upset all the time. I also feel like I'm turning into a more isolated person. I start to spend more time on my phone and my laptop or by my self and less time outside.
My sleep cycle is bad. I feel like I can't give enough time to anything, either to myself either to my friends or the sports (I'm an amateur runner.
Also we have some issues about physical boundaries. Seems like we come to a point about it but I feel like I made more sacrifices to compromise. I feel grunge to him time to time. Sometimes late at night, sometimes no reason in the morning. I feel somethings are not going well. He says he loves me a lot. He never wanna hurt me. But I feel awful and sad every single freakin day. I don't feel like I'm purely loved. I can't find the strength to break this cycle and don't know how. I feel like a love him but I see that this relationship hurts me a lot. I don't know why but deep inside I wanna prove him my love and commitment to our relationship. I hope I can heal.
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WhalestheFox
I was doing all these things in my previous relationship but he wasn't, turns out. It's hard coming out of a relationship thinking everything was fine but turns out your partner was keeping themselves from you while you were always open, communicative, and supportive. One thing was that he'd always say mean, off-handed things to me when he'd get angry or frustrated with me. It was super hurtful, and after we broke up he would continue being this way but more often than before.
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I was doing all these things in my previous relationship but he wasn't, turns out. It's hard coming out of a relationship thinking everything was fine but turns out your partner was keeping themselves from you while you were always open, communicative, and supportive. One thing was that he'd always say mean, off-handed things to me when he'd get angry or frustrated with me. It was super hurtful, and after we broke up he would continue being this way but more often than before.
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Moonlight
Yes me and my partner relate to all of these! He rarely opens up but I tried to make him comfortable and asked him about his first heartbreak. It soon turned out into a vulnerable conversation and its needed at some point of your relationship and after that I never brought up such things. We communicated about what hurt us back then and leave it at that. We're happy together
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Yes me and my partner relate to all of these! He rarely opens up but I tried to make him comfortable and asked him about his first heartbreak. It soon turned out into a vulnerable conversation and its needed at some point of your relationship and after that I never brought up such things. We communicated about what hurt us back then and leave it at that. We're happy together
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Sweta
1. Communication
2)Argue
3)Privacy
4)You dont hold grudges
5)You have realistic expectation
6)Commitment Communication Compromise
7)You take time for yourself
8)Separate lives, Interests, friends
9)Trust
10)You spend time together
11)You make decesions together
12)Affection, quality time, gift giving
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1. Communication
2)Argue
3)Privacy
4)You dont hold grudges
5)You have realistic expectation
6)Commitment Communication Compromise
7)You take time for yourself
8)Separate lives, Interests, friends
9)Trust
10)You spend time together
11)You make decesions together
12)Affection, quality time, gift giving
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Greg
Sadly some trust issues stem from being hurt in past relationships, so when people are finally in a healthy relationship it's kind of tough to get rid of those trust issues, and those trust issues affect the relationship. The only way to make sure these don't affect the relationship is to communicate and let the other person know.
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Sadly some trust issues stem from being hurt in past relationships, so when people are finally in a healthy relationship it's kind of tough to get rid of those trust issues, and those trust issues affect the relationship. The only way to make sure these don't affect the relationship is to communicate and let the other person know.
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Sebastian
Idk, I am unable to not get upset when my partner is out partying without me or even just out with friends. I understand this is very normal for us to have our own things to do but for some reason it just always makes me feel anxious. Do I have trust issues or separation anxiety or something of the kind?
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Idk, I am unable to not get upset when my partner is out partying without me or even just out with friends. I understand this is very normal for us to have our own things to do but for some reason it just always makes me feel anxious. Do I have trust issues or separation anxiety or something of the kind?
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A. T
I hold grudges
Sometimes i cant do communication openly
From last few weeks i have started telling my friends about our relationship problems
Sometimes i set unrealistic goals for him
And sometimes i regreat for the commitments which i made to him some promises also
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I hold grudges
Sometimes i cant do communication openly
From last few weeks i have started telling my friends about our relationship problems
Sometimes i set unrealistic goals for him
And sometimes i regreat for the commitments which i made to him some promises also
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Shota
I wish my ex didnt have trust issues and always probe my phone and make every hangout with friends or family about her or having to be apart of everything besides that she was the best thing to come into my life but with those things I had to let her go.
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I wish my ex didnt have trust issues and always probe my phone and make every hangout with friends or family about her or having to be apart of everything besides that she was the best thing to come into my life but with those things I had to let her go.
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Lawliet
my partner and I have all of these, but I still have the thoughts and feelings: it wil never work out, and I have the feeling I need to get out (he knows all of that because we communicate. I have no idea what the source is, any ideas?
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my partner and I have all of these, but I still have the thoughts and feelings: it wil never work out, and I have the feeling I need to get out (he knows all of that because we communicate. I have no idea what the source is, any ideas?
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Андрей
i clicked on a video just for fun, but i am so happy now realising that me and my girlfriend are healthy relathionship keepers) We got 12 out of 12, she is sleeping now, but i will tell her that we are doing this just fine: )
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i clicked on a video just for fun, but i am so happy now realising that me and my girlfriend are healthy relathionship keepers) We got 12 out of 12, she is sleeping now, but i will tell her that we are doing this just fine: )
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Катлин
We are in long distance relationship with my partner and sometimes it's hard about my trust but I am trying and I have to be sure that he is loyal because this killing but we love so much and I don't want an end.
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We are in long distance relationship with my partner and sometimes it's hard about my trust but I am trying and I have to be sure that he is loyal because this killing but we love so much and I don't want an end.
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Zeie
So me and my boyfriend checks out each sign and it's so good to be in love. We're in long distance relationship for past 2 and half years. Each time someone will reply to this comment, I'll be here to give update on us
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So me and my boyfriend checks out each sign and it's so good to be in love. We're in long distance relationship for past 2 and half years. Each time someone will reply to this comment, I'll be here to give update on us
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Tiwari
Worst thing is if I started trusting someone blindly. Then it could lead to heartattack. when i see her. in their real face. As almost I being cheated always
As a kind hearted person will always get cheated
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Worst thing is if I started trusting someone blindly. Then it could lead to heartattack. when i see her. in their real face. As almost I being cheated always
As a kind hearted person will always get cheated
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EmperorEd
The arguments I have with my girlfriend are the dumbest thing I have ever experienced lol it's usually not very serious and more playful and just one of us being stubby. -. makes sense
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The arguments I have with my girlfriend are the dumbest thing I have ever experienced lol it's usually not very serious and more playful and just one of us being stubby. -. makes sense
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Sofia
All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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Sofia
All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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KennLei
i dont even have a gf, i just wanna watch the vids for future purposes, maybe i can use them when i do get one
anyways im gonna let u guys know if i did got one
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i dont even have a gf, i just wanna watch the vids for future purposes, maybe i can use them when i do get one
anyways im gonna let u guys know if i did got one
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robiyn
Actually, we are all of the characteristics above. Also, we never fight against each other. Its us VS the problem, and our health always comes first. So proud xx
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Actually, we are all of the characteristics above. Also, we never fight against each other. Its us VS the problem, and our health always comes first. So proud xx
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Povilas
I'm so happy to find myself in a healthy relationship and seeing most of these signs really make me feel secure in this crazy world. Also top comment is REAL G
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I'm so happy to find myself in a healthy relationship and seeing most of these signs really make me feel secure in this crazy world. Also top comment is REAL G
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Sappy
May I ask if it's normal that my girlfriend still have feelings with her ex boyfriend who died for 5 years ig, and she said she's visiting him everyday.
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May I ask if it's normal that my girlfriend still have feelings with her ex boyfriend who died for 5 years ig, and she said she's visiting him everyday.
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Yvy
We are in long relationship with my boyfriend but our relationship is healthy tbh. He has a high patience and I understand him too. We have open minded.
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We are in long relationship with my boyfriend but our relationship is healthy tbh. He has a high patience and I understand him too. We have open minded.
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Jaylen
we have all these signs but now feels like shes getting bored with me (semi long distance, only able to see eachother 1-2x a month)
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we have all these signs but now feels like shes getting bored with me (semi long distance, only able to see eachother 1-2x a month)
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RandomEnigma
Lol, 4 I can do with no problem. I have tried to hold a grudge before but I'd literally forget about it within in an hour.
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Lol, 4 I can do with no problem. I have tried to hold a grudge before but I'd literally forget about it within in an hour.
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Mr
We've got em all, but to me above all, I love the last one. Without my lovely lady I wouldn't be half the man I am. Love you babe
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We've got em all, but to me above all, I love the last one. Without my lovely lady I wouldn't be half the man I am. Love you babe
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shine
You perfectly summed up what I thought gives in to a healthy relationship. I say this can go for any kind of relationship too
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You perfectly summed up what I thought gives in to a healthy relationship. I say this can go for any kind of relationship too
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