6 Habits that Can Make People Dislike You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Blossom_playz14
I am the quite kid, the left out one, the puzzle piece who can't find its place, have no friends but they don't want a person like me cause I'm don't talk but it's just me being scared cause I'm at people and I'm scared cause I have social anxiety but I get along awsome with teachers and they always will smile and look at me or talk with me cause I can atleast talk to them and I'm just quite. And my math teacher once I promise on purpose asked me to give the answer of a the homework and I did and he said atleast I talked cause I never talk in his class cause I'm the quite kid everyone knows and somehow people know me but I don't know them and a classmate asked for my diary which had the calendar in and earlier I wrote something inside on that date but I don't have anything to hide so I don't mind tho it's personal I know they just wanted the book to look what I wrote and nit to see the date I know that perfectly clear and later someone asked what I do after school and I said activity's but I didn't say what spesificly but I wrote in my about the dress I need to make for a young designers thing for us just as an activity so they asked me do I like making dresses and stuff but how did he know I never told anyone and it was only in my diary so I know he heard it from the classmate who asked to check the date for a up coming test something so I know he read it but I mind but it's personal kinda. But people just asked me alot of stuff of me from old classmates and they know alot of me but It's painful cause I am just a talk and most the time it's not good only pointing out I'm the quite who's has no friends and I'm just sad I can't understand what they say but they don't know that: (
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I am the quite kid, the left out one, the puzzle piece who can't find its place, have no friends but they don't want a person like me cause I'm don't talk but it's just me being scared cause I'm at people and I'm scared cause I have social anxiety but I get along awsome with teachers and they always will smile and look at me or talk with me cause I can atleast talk to them and I'm just quite. And my math teacher once I promise on purpose asked me to give the answer of a the homework and I did and he said atleast I talked cause I never talk in his class cause I'm the quite kid everyone knows and somehow people know me but I don't know them and a classmate asked for my diary which had the calendar in and earlier I wrote something inside on that date but I don't have anything to hide so I don't mind tho it's personal I know they just wanted the book to look what I wrote and nit to see the date I know that perfectly clear and later someone asked what I do after school and I said activity's but I didn't say what spesificly but I wrote in my about the dress I need to make for a young designers thing for us just as an activity so they asked me do I like making dresses and stuff but how did he know I never told anyone and it was only in my diary so I know he heard it from the classmate who asked to check the date for a up coming test something so I know he read it but I mind but it's personal kinda. But people just asked me alot of stuff of me from old classmates and they know alot of me but It's painful cause I am just a talk and most the time it's not good only pointing out I'm the quite who's has no friends and I'm just sad I can't understand what they say but they don't know that: (
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Picometre
Some thoughts on the first one -
the person thinking they make me look bad tends to lack confidence or feeling like they aren't as useful or helpful. They could rectify by offering to help or working on themselves to understand just because someone's doing something you're not, doesn't make you less of a person. It's not the altruistic persons fault, why should they change themselves if they're being themself?
The altruistic person can also do too much ofc, and valuing yourself by level of altruism, possibly to your detriment, is dangerous and should be worked on.
Society is becoming more and more about lying and putting on a persona, and SM is perpetuating that. Being real and altruistic I feel is very important for people not to feel so lonely. Saying one shouldn't be so altruistic I think is detrimental on society.
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Some thoughts on the first one -
the person thinking they make me look bad tends to lack confidence or feeling like they aren't as useful or helpful. They could rectify by offering to help or working on themselves to understand just because someone's doing something you're not, doesn't make you less of a person. It's not the altruistic persons fault, why should they change themselves if they're being themself?
The altruistic person can also do too much ofc, and valuing yourself by level of altruism, possibly to your detriment, is dangerous and should be worked on.
Society is becoming more and more about lying and putting on a persona, and SM is perpetuating that. Being real and altruistic I feel is very important for people not to feel so lonely. Saying one shouldn't be so altruistic I think is detrimental on society.
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Pendra37
When I'm on a date, I'm nice on purpose. If there is chemistry, good, all the more reason to be kind! If there is no chemistry, I act even nicer. It costs me nothing but it provides some contrast versus the her suiter. After that, on sleepless nights, the woman can ponder, how the heck I ended up with this douche? There was that nice and generous other guy but I chose poorly.
Serves her right.
So yeah, there are ulterior motives behind my kindness in some cases.
Also my kindness is not a given, but it is on loan. I give first but if the other person fails to pay back in kind within some time, me being nice will cease quickly. If you can't give, you do not deserve to get.
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When I'm on a date, I'm nice on purpose. If there is chemistry, good, all the more reason to be kind! If there is no chemistry, I act even nicer. It costs me nothing but it provides some contrast versus the her suiter. After that, on sleepless nights, the woman can ponder, how the heck I ended up with this douche? There was that nice and generous other guy but I chose poorly.
Serves her right.
So yeah, there are ulterior motives behind my kindness in some cases.
Also my kindness is not a given, but it is on loan. I give first but if the other person fails to pay back in kind within some time, me being nice will cease quickly. If you can't give, you do not deserve to get.
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Zerterk
I have very little friends at school and I dont understand why. When I try to talk to one of my few friends and initiate a conversation they are usually curt with me or straight up ignore me. Because of this I just stopped talking to people and started being more quiet because when I spoke I felt either shut down or ignored. Now because of me acting quiet people started to say nobody likes me. In which I dont understand why they dont like me. Nobody took the time to even talk to me or get to know me and instead ignore me. Now today Im stuck and confused, I want to get to know people but nobody wants to get to know me. I just dont understand it. Am I the only one with this problem?
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I have very little friends at school and I dont understand why. When I try to talk to one of my few friends and initiate a conversation they are usually curt with me or straight up ignore me. Because of this I just stopped talking to people and started being more quiet because when I spoke I felt either shut down or ignored. Now because of me acting quiet people started to say nobody likes me. In which I dont understand why they dont like me. Nobody took the time to even talk to me or get to know me and instead ignore me. Now today Im stuck and confused, I want to get to know people but nobody wants to get to know me. I just dont understand it. Am I the only one with this problem?
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HEADSHOT
1. Im waay to nice
2. Ive gotten slightly better with this one, I used to ask question after question after question
3. I do tend to do this and never realized how badly it annoyed people
4. Not that I hide them but at one point I just forgot how to express emotions due to a depression
5. I dont act like I dont like people
6. Honestly I give weak handshakes due to low confidence and nervousness because of a previous depression
One of my main things is that i cant tell how people are feeling so I dont stop when I should, this was do to being almost an entire year by myself and only with my family, Im very antisocial and when I do socialize I do it all wrong
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1. Im waay to nice
2. Ive gotten slightly better with this one, I used to ask question after question after question
3. I do tend to do this and never realized how badly it annoyed people
4. Not that I hide them but at one point I just forgot how to express emotions due to a depression
5. I dont act like I dont like people
6. Honestly I give weak handshakes due to low confidence and nervousness because of a previous depression
One of my main things is that i cant tell how people are feeling so I dont stop when I should, this was do to being almost an entire year by myself and only with my family, Im very antisocial and when I do socialize I do it all wrong
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kittensliketoplay
i just realized why didn't like my friend that much, because i felt like i had no reason too, probably because she was too nice, and always went the extra mile, i felt guilty even though i know my friend would never would think that im not giving enough into our friendship, i usually declined her gifts because it just made me uncomfortable, i didn't know why, because i usually felt uncomfortable, when she showed no signs of trying to make me feel guilty or being manipulative. Many people did not want to be friends with her because they think she treats everyone like babies and does everything for everyone even tho people say they can do it them selves
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i just realized why didn't like my friend that much, because i felt like i had no reason too, probably because she was too nice, and always went the extra mile, i felt guilty even though i know my friend would never would think that im not giving enough into our friendship, i usually declined her gifts because it just made me uncomfortable, i didn't know why, because i usually felt uncomfortable, when she showed no signs of trying to make me feel guilty or being manipulative. Many people did not want to be friends with her because they think she treats everyone like babies and does everything for everyone even tho people say they can do it them selves
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Lauren
Asking too many questions is what can save your life. The people who dont ask the questions are sheep waiting to be led to the slaughter. Ill ask as many questions as I have because if I start doing that its because something is not right. Nobody should ever be a little sheep. Thats a great way to be taken advantage of. I just dont agree with much of your advice. Were supposed to be little zombies that ask no questions and watch out not to insult anyone. There are people who need to be insulted and if they dont like it, I think thats great because I dont like them either. Good riddance to them.
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Asking too many questions is what can save your life. The people who dont ask the questions are sheep waiting to be led to the slaughter. Ill ask as many questions as I have because if I start doing that its because something is not right. Nobody should ever be a little sheep. Thats a great way to be taken advantage of. I just dont agree with much of your advice. Were supposed to be little zombies that ask no questions and watch out not to insult anyone. There are people who need to be insulted and if they dont like it, I think thats great because I dont like them either. Good riddance to them.
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Hey
Im that one person when they are around friends or random people when they are just so awkward and silent you start blabbing your mouth of and looking like and idiot or another example of me is when a friend starts talking to me for example about Korean perfect skin and talking a lot of nonsense about the weather and mud and blah blah blah. In that situation I just end up closing my ears and eventually upsetting them by (respectfully) telling them they are wrong. Idk if these are because Im and INTP. Let me know if you are the same
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Im that one person when they are around friends or random people when they are just so awkward and silent you start blabbing your mouth of and looking like and idiot or another example of me is when a friend starts talking to me for example about Korean perfect skin and talking a lot of nonsense about the weather and mud and blah blah blah. In that situation I just end up closing my ears and eventually upsetting them by (respectfully) telling them they are wrong. Idk if these are because Im and INTP. Let me know if you are the same
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RainaRex
In public school I loved the game Among Us. It was very popular at the time, but I did not like it because it was popular. I liked it because it was my type of game. Well, after a few weeks it was suddenly unpopular, and I still liked the game. My classmates and other kids in the school dissliked me JUST because I still liked Among Us! (I still like Among Us, hehe. I don't think I'll ever get tired of it)
Most of the kids in my school say I'm weird. I like being the odd one out! It makes me different.
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In public school I loved the game Among Us. It was very popular at the time, but I did not like it because it was popular. I liked it because it was my type of game. Well, after a few weeks it was suddenly unpopular, and I still liked the game. My classmates and other kids in the school dissliked me JUST because I still liked Among Us! (I still like Among Us, hehe. I don't think I'll ever get tired of it)
Most of the kids in my school say I'm weird. I like being the odd one out! It makes me different.
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Pheles
I wonder what exactly means being too nice, because I don't want to live in a world where people have to be massive dickheads just to be liked. Unless what's talked about in the video are just individuals that commit all their time to helping out their friends, being there for them at every call and every lift of a finger, like a literal stalker that doesn't have their own life. I've had people like these in my life and I bet no one would want to be friends with them.
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I wonder what exactly means being too nice, because I don't want to live in a world where people have to be massive dickheads just to be liked. Unless what's talked about in the video are just individuals that commit all their time to helping out their friends, being there for them at every call and every lift of a finger, like a literal stalker that doesn't have their own life. I've had people like these in my life and I bet no one would want to be friends with them.
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Yasemin
I hate handshakes, i have very tiny and delicate hand. Mostly business man shake my hand like in wrestle or something. One of them was hold so tighly, i scream! Then he made apology but damages was done. Please dont shake people's hand so hard. Pointless, meaningless. I think we should stop to shake hands. Japanese method is so better in business era. And hug is better most of time for my poor hands.
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I hate handshakes, i have very tiny and delicate hand. Mostly business man shake my hand like in wrestle or something. One of them was hold so tighly, i scream! Then he made apology but damages was done. Please dont shake people's hand so hard. Pointless, meaningless. I think we should stop to shake hands. Japanese method is so better in business era. And hug is better most of time for my poor hands.
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Agena
4: 19 studies from Alabama like these, They can probably have people thinking something about someone that isn't true.
Someone can have a weak handshake because their arm is hurting or they are fragile, maybe even because they don't want to shake your hand too hard. And I know this because I think like this and my arms are fragile.
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4: 19 studies from Alabama like these, They can probably have people thinking something about someone that isn't true.
Someone can have a weak handshake because their arm is hurting or they are fragile, maybe even because they don't want to shake your hand too hard. And I know this because I think like this and my arms are fragile.
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It's
I think I finally found some reasons that leave me unlikable amongst my pears. so I'm basically too nice and I hide my emotions. I don't ask too many questions, but when I ask one single question no one replies and everyone makes me feel like I've done a crime or something, so the next time I have a question I suppress it in!
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I think I finally found some reasons that leave me unlikable amongst my pears. so I'm basically too nice and I hide my emotions. I don't ask too many questions, but when I ask one single question no one replies and everyone makes me feel like I've done a crime or something, so the next time I have a question I suppress it in!
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redmr
The people who hate your for being too nice don't deserve you. I've been kind of a meathead in the past and that lead me to have bad friends but now I'm trying to be nice and that lead me to having the best friends I could ever ask for.
Just remember that not everyone is going to like you no matter what you do.
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The people who hate your for being too nice don't deserve you. I've been kind of a meathead in the past and that lead me to have bad friends but now I'm trying to be nice and that lead me to having the best friends I could ever ask for.
Just remember that not everyone is going to like you no matter what you do.
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msread
Well I managed a minute before the first glaring 'untruth'. You say that if a person is lying when accused, they'll raise their voice when answering, and if they're not lying they'll have a, calm voice. What utter tosh! If you're accused of something heinous, would your reaction be calm, or shocked and angry?
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Well I managed a minute before the first glaring 'untruth'. You say that if a person is lying when accused, they'll raise their voice when answering, and if they're not lying they'll have a, calm voice. What utter tosh! If you're accused of something heinous, would your reaction be calm, or shocked and angry?
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Nintendo
Toonice? So being nice is such a rare trait that it can be seen as something people dislike about you? This is the one video where I think that is kind of bs, yes that maybe true for some people but I really dont think most of the world is like that to consider being nice an issue.
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Toonice? So being nice is such a rare trait that it can be seen as something people dislike about you? This is the one video where I think that is kind of bs, yes that maybe true for some people but I really dont think most of the world is like that to consider being nice an issue.
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ezecskornfan
I have inflexible opinions. Seems like I state them as facts, but I'm always trying to bring this point across: I don't like people trying to influence me. I'm sure this one could be an extra, but you'll be fooled less.
Any virtue can be an issue to some people.
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I have inflexible opinions. Seems like I state them as facts, but I'm always trying to bring this point across: I don't like people trying to influence me. I'm sure this one could be an extra, but you'll be fooled less.
Any virtue can be an issue to some people.
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Human
The point about asking too much question is true for me, i also dont really like persons that keeps on continuing the convo when i make it obvious (at least i think i did) that i ended the convorsation but they just keeps it going, amd it got really tiring and irritating
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The point about asking too much question is true for me, i also dont really like persons that keeps on continuing the convo when i make it obvious (at least i think i did) that i ended the convorsation but they just keeps it going, amd it got really tiring and irritating
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eye
Many people dislike me because I am too nice and they don't trust it, but I am not going to change to be more likeable or to gain acceptance. Those who worth knowing will see me for who I am and those who don't trust my intentions have intentions that cannot be trusted.
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Many people dislike me because I am too nice and they don't trust it, but I am not going to change to be more likeable or to gain acceptance. Those who worth knowing will see me for who I am and those who don't trust my intentions have intentions that cannot be trusted.
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Master_Misanthrope
people will always find a way to hate you. some people are just born to be hated and disliked. I'm sick of trying to tailor all my interactions just to please people who never wanted anything to do with me in the first place. Everyone can get stuffed.
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people will always find a way to hate you. some people are just born to be hated and disliked. I'm sick of trying to tailor all my interactions just to please people who never wanted anything to do with me in the first place. Everyone can get stuffed.
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education
People usually dislike me for being logical thinking rationally and that stuff, not understanding each others emotions and not knowing what they're going through when they didnt even tell me whats going on, it also pisses them off when i ask too many questions
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People usually dislike me for being logical thinking rationally and that stuff, not understanding each others emotions and not knowing what they're going through when they didnt even tell me whats going on, it also pisses them off when i ask too many questions
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Marcos
The strong handshake thing is so important, when I try to shake someone's hand and it's this boneless gelitin mush of a handshake I just curl up inside from cringe.
Fathers and Mothers alike, ALWAYS teach your kid the importance of a firm hand shake
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The strong handshake thing is so important, when I try to shake someone's hand and it's this boneless gelitin mush of a handshake I just curl up inside from cringe.
Fathers and Mothers alike, ALWAYS teach your kid the importance of a firm hand shake
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foxiefair123
People generally dislike me because Im an introvert. Im not sure why, because that makes me a very easy person to live with, because they basically have the place to themselves most of the time. I would love to have an introvert for a roommate.
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People generally dislike me because Im an introvert. Im not sure why, because that makes me a very easy person to live with, because they basically have the place to themselves most of the time. I would love to have an introvert for a roommate.
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musikandfilms
I just want to be myself around others, but the only time people actually liked me was when I pretended to be someone I'm not. I did that when I was 13, and then I immediately stopped, it made me miserable. Now I'm a middle aged hermit
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I just want to be myself around others, but the only time people actually liked me was when I pretended to be someone I'm not. I did that when I was 13, and then I immediately stopped, it made me miserable. Now I'm a middle aged hermit
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Water
If you dislike someone bc theyre too nice I am sorry but youre fckn loser, the world is already harsh at it is so if someone is making the effort to be nice to everyone they meet they should be applauded or encouraged.
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If you dislike someone bc theyre too nice I am sorry but youre fckn loser, the world is already harsh at it is so if someone is making the effort to be nice to everyone they meet they should be applauded or encouraged.
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