7 Signs They May Not Be a Keeper
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Olivia
I have to ask something. my bf and me have been together for 8 months. I feel bad for always over thinking about our relationship because of my mental illness. But his actions do have me thinking. During my time in his hometown, all he ever wanted to do was hangout with his friends and me. Which is fine because I do want to meet his friends. This was my final week with him before we have to do long distance for 3 months (hes from Missouri. Yet, whenever I wanted time alone he would agree but then invite his friends to hangout as well. I understand because he lived in Michigan for a year without seeing his friends. But hes done to me many times. Idk what to think about the issue anymore; this is because he blames his forgetfulness on his ADD.
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I have to ask something. my bf and me have been together for 8 months. I feel bad for always over thinking about our relationship because of my mental illness. But his actions do have me thinking. During my time in his hometown, all he ever wanted to do was hangout with his friends and me. Which is fine because I do want to meet his friends. This was my final week with him before we have to do long distance for 3 months (hes from Missouri. Yet, whenever I wanted time alone he would agree but then invite his friends to hangout as well. I understand because he lived in Michigan for a year without seeing his friends. But hes done to me many times. Idk what to think about the issue anymore; this is because he blames his forgetfulness on his ADD.
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Unconversant
My ex wife had an emotional affair with her best friend Derek and chose the antagonistic values of her dysfunctional family over me. She constantly undermined me, blamed my actions but wouldn't be accountable for the same done in abuse.
This was very damaging but luckily I found a healthy lifestyle and partner and better half that allowed me and us to grow as individuals and create and build a life together. It takes work, effort, and compromise, but when you truly love someone you know it's ALWAYS WORTH THE WAIT. Good things take time, you can rush through anything and call it a day, but is the value of a life worth the fleeting opportunity missed in temporary? I have found no reprise or relief in such.
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My ex wife had an emotional affair with her best friend Derek and chose the antagonistic values of her dysfunctional family over me. She constantly undermined me, blamed my actions but wouldn't be accountable for the same done in abuse.
This was very damaging but luckily I found a healthy lifestyle and partner and better half that allowed me and us to grow as individuals and create and build a life together. It takes work, effort, and compromise, but when you truly love someone you know it's ALWAYS WORTH THE WAIT. Good things take time, you can rush through anything and call it a day, but is the value of a life worth the fleeting opportunity missed in temporary? I have found no reprise or relief in such.
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Flutenany
Its funny when you realize for the first time that you genuinely love a friend. In a platonic way. That happened to me the other day. We went to apply for a job together because we were going to the same place anyway and they held the door open for me, we talked for a bit and the cashier asked us if we were siblings. When I almost said yes on accident, it didnt take long to realize that I really feel that way and genuinely love this person. Even if I can be kind of grumpy sometimes about certain things in our friendship. Ive made the goal to give them the credit they actually deserve because they always love me and are there for me, no matter what. They make me feel safe and wanted. I hope to return the favor.
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Its funny when you realize for the first time that you genuinely love a friend. In a platonic way. That happened to me the other day. We went to apply for a job together because we were going to the same place anyway and they held the door open for me, we talked for a bit and the cashier asked us if we were siblings. When I almost said yes on accident, it didnt take long to realize that I really feel that way and genuinely love this person. Even if I can be kind of grumpy sometimes about certain things in our friendship. Ive made the goal to give them the credit they actually deserve because they always love me and are there for me, no matter what. They make me feel safe and wanted. I hope to return the favor.
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Bullet
I've been in a one-sided relationship with a girl for the last 3 years she refuses to move in with me doesn't want me moving in with her it feels entirely one-sided I put in all the work she doesn't even try to make the relationship work but yet she gets mad at me when I to try to end it I can tell she doesn't care about the relationship yet she tries to guilt Trip me Into staying with her whenever I tell her I want to break up I truly do not understand if she doesn't care why does she insist on keeping things going the only time she ever says she loves me is when she is scared I'm going to end things then she goes on and on saying I'm her one true love I'm to the point I don't know what to do or think anymore.
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I've been in a one-sided relationship with a girl for the last 3 years she refuses to move in with me doesn't want me moving in with her it feels entirely one-sided I put in all the work she doesn't even try to make the relationship work but yet she gets mad at me when I to try to end it I can tell she doesn't care about the relationship yet she tries to guilt Trip me Into staying with her whenever I tell her I want to break up I truly do not understand if she doesn't care why does she insist on keeping things going the only time she ever says she loves me is when she is scared I'm going to end things then she goes on and on saying I'm her one true love I'm to the point I don't know what to do or think anymore.
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I've been through this kind of stuff, yet I did kinda broke up with my partner cause I felt we had an unhealthy relationship, I scrolled over to physch2go's videos and saw one, which I was surprised I was in an unhealthy relationship, yet I still keep on telling myself never fall in in love or have a crush on someone BUT GUESS WHAT MY PLAN NEVER WORKS, so yeah right now I don't cinfess or anything to my crush, anyways thanks you phych2go for making great videos
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I've been through this kind of stuff, yet I did kinda broke up with my partner cause I felt we had an unhealthy relationship, I scrolled over to physch2go's videos and saw one, which I was surprised I was in an unhealthy relationship, yet I still keep on telling myself never fall in in love or have a crush on someone BUT GUESS WHAT MY PLAN NEVER WORKS, so yeah right now I don't cinfess or anything to my crush, anyways thanks you phych2go for making great videos
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Brittany
I realized mine wasn't a keeper when I noticed he was gaslighting, showing narcissistic traits, horrible at communication, wouldn't talk out problems at all. I'd be the one trying to talk about what happened & he'd turn his back to me or put his gaming head phones on so he couldn't hear me. When it came time I packed his things put it by the front door & told him to leave the second he came through the door from work.
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I realized mine wasn't a keeper when I noticed he was gaslighting, showing narcissistic traits, horrible at communication, wouldn't talk out problems at all. I'd be the one trying to talk about what happened & he'd turn his back to me or put his gaming head phones on so he couldn't hear me. When it came time I packed his things put it by the front door & told him to leave the second he came through the door from work.
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WaitingForPie
I am very torn because I dont know if I want to start a relationship with a guy. I know he shares a lot of informations about his relationship with a mutual friend, they are extremely close. I dont want my friend to know stuff about our relationship since i think it is personal. I would like to address this issue if we end up dating, but I dont know if I can trust his answer. what should I do?
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I am very torn because I dont know if I want to start a relationship with a guy. I know he shares a lot of informations about his relationship with a mutual friend, they are extremely close. I dont want my friend to know stuff about our relationship since i think it is personal. I would like to address this issue if we end up dating, but I dont know if I can trust his answer. what should I do?
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Aspen
I experienced some signs with my ex. He compared me to other girls, started questioning my distant relatives, inconsiderate of my feelings, I was the one investing in the relationship. In the end, it just couldn't work. I had to leave. True, it hurt and it took me a long time to come back to my single life again. From there insecurities began. If I can avoid what I went through. I don't hesitate.
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I experienced some signs with my ex. He compared me to other girls, started questioning my distant relatives, inconsiderate of my feelings, I was the one investing in the relationship. In the end, it just couldn't work. I had to leave. True, it hurt and it took me a long time to come back to my single life again. From there insecurities began. If I can avoid what I went through. I don't hesitate.
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SeaTheAlchemyst
Yknow. the more I watch this the more I realize whenever Im in a relationship I tend to be toxic, and I never knew it. I mean I didnt intentionally and legitimately hurt anyone, but my communication and cooperation skills have been subpar and I think most of that has to do with my image of myself being so low.
Is there any way to improve this?
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Yknow. the more I watch this the more I realize whenever Im in a relationship I tend to be toxic, and I never knew it. I mean I didnt intentionally and legitimately hurt anyone, but my communication and cooperation skills have been subpar and I think most of that has to do with my image of myself being so low.
Is there any way to improve this?
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Absolhunter251
You guys read my mind!
Thank you for this video, Im going to rewatch this until I feel better about myself being single for the rest of my life after a toxic relationship ruined me.
All the signs are true about my bad relationships with people!
Thank you guys for opening my eyes.
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You guys read my mind!
Thank you for this video, Im going to rewatch this until I feel better about myself being single for the rest of my life after a toxic relationship ruined me.
All the signs are true about my bad relationships with people!
Thank you guys for opening my eyes.
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Arch
They test you constantly so true! This is in line with their idealization expectation. He wants 'you' to be on same page with him. all the time so you end up being this person who is constantly working hard to satisfy his needs in all way u can but rewarded only once in a blue moon
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They test you constantly so true! This is in line with their idealization expectation. He wants 'you' to be on same page with him. all the time so you end up being this person who is constantly working hard to satisfy his needs in all way u can but rewarded only once in a blue moon
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Ray
It wasnt toxic or necessarily bad but a good relationship sometimes require reassurance, I became anxious, a couple days ago was our 4 month and I wrote her a long heart felt paragraph just to get a short three word text back. I thought everything was perfect
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It wasnt toxic or necessarily bad but a good relationship sometimes require reassurance, I became anxious, a couple days ago was our 4 month and I wrote her a long heart felt paragraph just to get a short three word text back. I thought everything was perfect
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education
She was a keeper but she was lazy to catch up with me and didnt even bother to acknowledge my feelings, she hate my family and she was jealous with my friends girls that I had on social media she would send them a dm if they like a picture I publish
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She was a keeper but she was lazy to catch up with me and didnt even bother to acknowledge my feelings, she hate my family and she was jealous with my friends girls that I had on social media she would send them a dm if they like a picture I publish
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Bernadette
I knew he wasn't a keeper when he talked more to his friends ABOUT me than interacted with me. I wasn't real to him. I served some need for drama I guess. I am glad I listened to the little voice inside me that said, Let's go. This is awful.
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I knew he wasn't a keeper when he talked more to his friends ABOUT me than interacted with me. I wasn't real to him. I served some need for drama I guess. I am glad I listened to the little voice inside me that said, Let's go. This is awful.
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Sophie
My ex broke it up. He wasnt great at communicating which made it so hard to grow together. I thought we were working out but he wasnt feeling it. I put so much effort in and didnt realise the love I was getting back
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My ex broke it up. He wasnt great at communicating which made it so hard to grow together. I thought we were working out but he wasnt feeling it. I put so much effort in and didnt realise the love I was getting back
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Robin
Having a talk about what values your partner have doesn't mean anything. They can still change values in a split second, so there's really no need to have a talk and trust what that person says at that time.
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Having a talk about what values your partner have doesn't mean anything. They can still change values in a split second, so there's really no need to have a talk and trust what that person says at that time.
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Jessica
Wow. My ex said it was okay for me to sleep with other people for money. I said no and he said wow I would to bring more money. And he got mad at me. I value myself to much more me to do it.
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Wow. My ex said it was okay for me to sleep with other people for money. I said no and he said wow I would to bring more money. And he got mad at me. I value myself to much more me to do it.
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ForzaTerra89
Ive just been through this and I was feeling extremely low. The problem is when youre head over heels in love with someone its so hard to walk away when youre so attached to someone
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Ive just been through this and I was feeling extremely low. The problem is when youre head over heels in love with someone its so hard to walk away when youre so attached to someone
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Margaret
(This is what happened when I was in a toxic friendship) I had my very high highs and my very low lows more lows than highs but the highs was why I was friends with them so long.
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(This is what happened when I was in a toxic friendship) I had my very high highs and my very low lows more lows than highs but the highs was why I was friends with them so long.
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steph
The only thing that's wrong is our demand withdraw fighting style. I try to work it out but he avoids me cause of things said before. Idk how to fix it and go back to normal: (
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The only thing that's wrong is our demand withdraw fighting style. I try to work it out but he avoids me cause of things said before. Idk how to fix it and go back to normal: (
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TM
I watched this video to see if I was not a keeper, but then was shocked to find out my ex may not have been a keeper. And that she was mostly focusing on my ideal self.
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I watched this video to see if I was not a keeper, but then was shocked to find out my ex may not have been a keeper. And that she was mostly focusing on my ideal self.
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marys
im not in a relationship but my ex and i are still talking and i really want it to stop, because we have an unhealthy dynamic but it seems i just cant let him go?
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im not in a relationship but my ex and i are still talking and i really want it to stop, because we have an unhealthy dynamic but it seems i just cant let him go?
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ciara
i feel so bad because i got into a relationship before i figured out i liked girls. i dont wanna hurt him because i care about him but i cant keep hurting myself
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i feel so bad because i got into a relationship before i figured out i liked girls. i dont wanna hurt him because i care about him but i cant keep hurting myself
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_JustAnotherKid_
Demand withdraw
Me: So THATS the girls name from Arthur!
I know it's not really that name was just a random thought going through my head.
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Demand withdraw
Me: So THATS the girls name from Arthur!
I know it's not really that name was just a random thought going through my head.
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Jiao-Lin
Everytime i try talking about my problems to my boyfriend he ends up ignoring it and I don't know what to do. Idk if I'm in a toxic relationship with him
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Everytime i try talking about my problems to my boyfriend he ends up ignoring it and I don't know what to do. Idk if I'm in a toxic relationship with him
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