5 Not Obvious Signs of Self Harm
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Fatemeh
The rubber band method triggers me to do sh but the ice method works for me i havent sh in years and i havent needed to use any of these methods to control my self in years however the urge to sh didnt go away even though i havent acted on it in years until I started doing childhood trauma work and re-parenting I didnt even know that was what i was doing i just started writing as tow people when i had the urge to sh I would write about how i was feeling and whats happening and i write in a different colour and tell myself the things i would tell a child in pain or ( i would talk to my self the way my parents should have if they where emotionally mature loving caring parents) and since I started doing that i dont experience sh urges as often as i did before.
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The rubber band method triggers me to do sh but the ice method works for me i havent sh in years and i havent needed to use any of these methods to control my self in years however the urge to sh didnt go away even though i havent acted on it in years until I started doing childhood trauma work and re-parenting I didnt even know that was what i was doing i just started writing as tow people when i had the urge to sh I would write about how i was feeling and whats happening and i write in a different colour and tell myself the things i would tell a child in pain or ( i would talk to my self the way my parents should have if they where emotionally mature loving caring parents) and since I started doing that i dont experience sh urges as often as i did before.
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Archie
I have this friend that I caught him hurting himself with a cutter. I caught him because I went to him as a surprise visit since his birthday is around the corner, I comforted him and asked why he was doing it and he got angry at me and since then he didn't wanna talk to me when my whole intention is to help him overcome his problems by venting it all out to me. Oneday I heard the news that he unalive himself at around 4: 00am on his birthday, so guys don't ever joke about mental health, it is a very serious matter be sure to check yourself and friends from time to time. I still can't believe I lost him:
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I have this friend that I caught him hurting himself with a cutter. I caught him because I went to him as a surprise visit since his birthday is around the corner, I comforted him and asked why he was doing it and he got angry at me and since then he didn't wanna talk to me when my whole intention is to help him overcome his problems by venting it all out to me. Oneday I heard the news that he unalive himself at around 4: 00am on his birthday, so guys don't ever joke about mental health, it is a very serious matter be sure to check yourself and friends from time to time. I still can't believe I lost him:
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Davina
some other signs include:
-wincing or saying ouch randomly when a certain body part is touched, even if it shouldn't have been painful, eg. wincing when taking off their schoolbag bcuz it rubs against scars on the upper arm or shoulder
-frequently checking if a body part is covered, eg. making sure that their sleeves or shorts haven't rolled up.
-seeing small bloodstains on certain places on clothes regularly, eg. seeing bloodstains on the same area on someones jeans very often.
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some other signs include:
-wincing or saying ouch randomly when a certain body part is touched, even if it shouldn't have been painful, eg. wincing when taking off their schoolbag bcuz it rubs against scars on the upper arm or shoulder
-frequently checking if a body part is covered, eg. making sure that their sleeves or shorts haven't rolled up.
-seeing small bloodstains on certain places on clothes regularly, eg. seeing bloodstains on the same area on someones jeans very often.
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What
I always regret doing it and now I have to wear bracelets half way up my arm and my friend said whats that on your arm bc they saw a piece of it sticking out and I almost broke down In tears it was in class too
So like a lot of bracelets is a sign too and like holding their arm or like resting it a different way hiding one peice of their arm stay safe guys I love you
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I always regret doing it and now I have to wear bracelets half way up my arm and my friend said whats that on your arm bc they saw a piece of it sticking out and I almost broke down In tears it was in class too
So like a lot of bracelets is a sign too and like holding their arm or like resting it a different way hiding one peice of their arm stay safe guys I love you
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Kamryn
Y'all, these comments are kind of concerning, please reach out to people- whether it's a therapist, a friend, a family member, heck, maybe even a random individual online, this is important. Even though I will not be able to fully understand what any of you are going through, I do know that you deserve love and kindness, no matter your past mistakes. Stay safe, ok?
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Y'all, these comments are kind of concerning, please reach out to people- whether it's a therapist, a friend, a family member, heck, maybe even a random individual online, this is important. Even though I will not be able to fully understand what any of you are going through, I do know that you deserve love and kindness, no matter your past mistakes. Stay safe, ok?
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shhhh
If you need any other info replie to this an i will.
Also this was on another comment section.
My best friend hurt herslef earlier today (on purpose) and i dont know how to comfort her. Can anyone help? She dug her nails into her arms and was shaking for awhile during one of her class periods. I love her a lot and dont know what to say to comfort her.
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If you need any other info replie to this an i will.
Also this was on another comment section.
My best friend hurt herslef earlier today (on purpose) and i dont know how to comfort her. Can anyone help? She dug her nails into her arms and was shaking for awhile during one of her class periods. I love her a lot and dont know what to say to comfort her.
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Akhen2010
I accidentally made someone mad at me bcs I joked about there self harm honestly I cut to and I thought it would be ok because they joke about it but now its been a little bit more than half a year and their still mad at me I dont wanna tell them bcs Im worried they might think Im attention seeking what should I do?
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I accidentally made someone mad at me bcs I joked about there self harm honestly I cut to and I thought it would be ok because they joke about it but now its been a little bit more than half a year and their still mad at me I dont wanna tell them bcs Im worried they might think Im attention seeking what should I do?
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WeirdZane
Is it self harm if you punch the walls as hard as you can as much as you can because you can't control your anger but then when it hurts you like the pain because it shifts your anger away and all you think about is the pain and how to hide the bruise so you do more and more?
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Is it self harm if you punch the walls as hard as you can as much as you can because you can't control your anger but then when it hurts you like the pain because it shifts your anger away and all you think about is the pain and how to hide the bruise so you do more and more?
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Kayah
I think my sister is and shes 13 almost 14 and she told me that she doesnt want to tell an adult because she doesnt want to get taken away by CPS and so does any one know what they would do if she did tell them so she can get some help with out being scared of getting taken away.
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I think my sister is and shes 13 almost 14 and she told me that she doesnt want to tell an adult because she doesnt want to get taken away by CPS and so does any one know what they would do if she did tell them so she can get some help with out being scared of getting taken away.
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Storm
honestly I go to partys with my friends I think they already know so I just stopped wearing longsleeves and it feels pretty freeing, honestly kinda regret cutting my wrists cause its just annoying more than anything else but still meh, also these points really hit home haha
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honestly I go to partys with my friends I think they already know so I just stopped wearing longsleeves and it feels pretty freeing, honestly kinda regret cutting my wrists cause its just annoying more than anything else but still meh, also these points really hit home haha
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education
The entire scratching at the certain areas so so flipping true! I literally remembered one of my ex-friend finding out bc I rolled up my sleeves and started scratching the area where I sh and I had completely forgotten that the scars were visible! screams
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The entire scratching at the certain areas so so flipping true! I literally remembered one of my ex-friend finding out bc I rolled up my sleeves and started scratching the area where I sh and I had completely forgotten that the scars were visible! screams
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mehhiig
i love how no one has really notices the signs or they just get mad at me for the mood swings
the relief but guilt i get from doing it
it just makes me feel so much better thoo
i should probaly stop it
eh
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i love how no one has really notices the signs or they just get mad at me for the mood swings
the relief but guilt i get from doing it
it just makes me feel so much better thoo
i should probaly stop it
eh
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MysticWolfPup
I cut at my wrist
Just there
I can hide with my watch and 8 hairties.
They dont know
They wont
I scratch
But i still act normal
U don't know me so please dont help
I dont need u.
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I cut at my wrist
Just there
I can hide with my watch and 8 hairties.
They dont know
They wont
I scratch
But i still act normal
U don't know me so please dont help
I dont need u.
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Drowned
Have you ever had a panic attack or mental breakdown after cutting or just in general and it's so bad to the point every time you try to breath it hurts like hell and you almost pass out from hyperveniltion.
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Have you ever had a panic attack or mental breakdown after cutting or just in general and it's so bad to the point every time you try to breath it hurts like hell and you almost pass out from hyperveniltion.
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Tams
I might be alone on this one, but I do stuff becouse it makes me feel less empty and makes me feel a strong emotion in general. I once did it in front of a mirror, and I was smiling the whole time
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I might be alone on this one, but I do stuff becouse it makes me feel less empty and makes me feel a strong emotion in general. I once did it in front of a mirror, and I was smiling the whole time
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Arty
I will confirm this
1. I do it on my head so no one notices
2. Confirmed
3. Confirmed
4. I cant do this anyway so idk
5. Confirmed
This video is true
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I will confirm this
1. I do it on my head so no one notices
2. Confirmed
3. Confirmed
4. I cant do this anyway so idk
5. Confirmed
This video is true
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Spring
Me a year ago: wondering how or why someone would sh and promising myself I would never do that
Me now: well I guess I was always bad at keeping promises
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Me a year ago: wondering how or why someone would sh and promising myself I would never do that
Me now: well I guess I was always bad at keeping promises
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Justin
Hey guys i want to say goodbye to you all
I hope youre going to live a beautiful life with much money, a big and healthy family and no stress
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Hey guys i want to say goodbye to you all
I hope youre going to live a beautiful life with much money, a big and healthy family and no stress
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Jyotsna
One person. All I want is just one person to tell me I know it isn't a cat and you can trust me. Too much to ask for and too dramatic right
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One person. All I want is just one person to tell me I know it isn't a cat and you can trust me. Too much to ask for and too dramatic right
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saturn
I told my friends that I practice sh and they just didn't say anything, I'm really sad about it. But ok, nobody cares about it anyways
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I told my friends that I practice sh and they just didn't say anything, I'm really sad about it. But ok, nobody cares about it anyways
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Piter.
ido it on a daily basis but im not depressed or anything i just want to be less weak, to have resistance of pain and besides its fun.
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ido it on a daily basis but im not depressed or anything i just want to be less weak, to have resistance of pain and besides its fun.
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Moth_lover
Guys, if you cut and dont want to wear long things where bracelets or scrunches to hid them ( hope you enjoy the fact )
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Guys, if you cut and dont want to wear long things where bracelets or scrunches to hid them ( hope you enjoy the fact )
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education
i think my friend is self harming and i'm really worried
i think he's stopped now, but it still scares me
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i think my friend is self harming and i'm really worried
i think he's stopped now, but it still scares me
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Allister
Such as their wrist, arm, or thigh
But what about ankle
Edit: I just got to the jokes part of the video-
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Such as their wrist, arm, or thigh
But what about ankle
Edit: I just got to the jokes part of the video-
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karina
i never thought id start it at a young age like 9 years im 12 now and letting my angerout while doing it
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i never thought id start it at a young age like 9 years im 12 now and letting my angerout while doing it
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