The Dark Side Of INFJ - The World's Rarest Personality Type
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Date: 2023-08-20
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B.
Got a question for the infjs.
But first my oppinion to the video:
Intj here.
Dont get why you care about emotions of other peopel so much.
I relate to the being misunderstood and keepin it in a bit.
Question 1:
But i dunno why empathy.
What do u gain from feeling the pain of others.
Now both of you are suffering. and the proplem is still there. why?
Trying to hide youre emotions is pretty ok aslong as you fix whatever causes you troubel in time then thats no proplem.
Stubbornes 10/10 my entire family will tell you i am. but i do plan good enough to actually get away with it most of the time. Thats kind of my whole personality 1analyze 2 decunstruct 3plan4 do.
Question2:
In which order do infjs tend to plan/solve proplems?
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Got a question for the infjs.
But first my oppinion to the video:
Intj here.
Dont get why you care about emotions of other peopel so much.
I relate to the being misunderstood and keepin it in a bit.
Question 1:
But i dunno why empathy.
What do u gain from feeling the pain of others.
Now both of you are suffering. and the proplem is still there. why?
Trying to hide youre emotions is pretty ok aslong as you fix whatever causes you troubel in time then thats no proplem.
Stubbornes 10/10 my entire family will tell you i am. but i do plan good enough to actually get away with it most of the time. Thats kind of my whole personality 1analyze 2 decunstruct 3plan4 do.
Question2:
In which order do infjs tend to plan/solve proplems?
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Amy
So even though I used to be someone who would issue ultimatums or abruptly end certain relationships that would make me uncomfortable, I've been trying to work on doing this MUCH less. I'm grateful for the amount of work I've already done when it comes to creating boundaries, but the difficult part still is not getting worked up over things that don't matter, or being too much of a fault finder when it comes to my relationships. As a side note, a lot of these other weaknesses that were addressed in this video basically describe me to a T, but some good progress has been made when comparing who I am now to who I was 5 or 10 years ago. It's just hard to stop being so analytical sometimes.
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So even though I used to be someone who would issue ultimatums or abruptly end certain relationships that would make me uncomfortable, I've been trying to work on doing this MUCH less. I'm grateful for the amount of work I've already done when it comes to creating boundaries, but the difficult part still is not getting worked up over things that don't matter, or being too much of a fault finder when it comes to my relationships. As a side note, a lot of these other weaknesses that were addressed in this video basically describe me to a T, but some good progress has been made when comparing who I am now to who I was 5 or 10 years ago. It's just hard to stop being so analytical sometimes.
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Garrett
when I did the test I was an INFJ however I genuinely dont think any of these dark sides really apply to me personally, yes I overthink and have high expectations, but I have learned to calm those down and think more reasonably when in the context of others especially and I am trying to be more lenient with myself as well. I dont think ive ever held people to any overly high unreasonable standard although that could just be me being stubborn lmao. And I do bottle up negative emotions but I dont feel that it bursts out on others other than perhaps the occasional hiccup day where I am just so annoyed that I perhaps say some words that are hurtful and uncalled for.
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when I did the test I was an INFJ however I genuinely dont think any of these dark sides really apply to me personally, yes I overthink and have high expectations, but I have learned to calm those down and think more reasonably when in the context of others especially and I am trying to be more lenient with myself as well. I dont think ive ever held people to any overly high unreasonable standard although that could just be me being stubborn lmao. And I do bottle up negative emotions but I dont feel that it bursts out on others other than perhaps the occasional hiccup day where I am just so annoyed that I perhaps say some words that are hurtful and uncalled for.
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Vic
I'm an INFJ type who will be retiring soon, it's going to bed a great day finally being able to cull all the Group 3 people out of my life, which will be basically everyone
By way of explanation the 3 groups of people are as follows
Group 1 People you want to be around, some of you Family members, by no means all of them, a couple of close friends occasionally, my cats
Group 2 People you have to have contact with, Doctors, Dentists, mostly medical professionals but obviously as infrequently as possible
Group 3 Essentially everyone else
Life will be so much simpler not having to deal with all those people that basically just get in the way
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I'm an INFJ type who will be retiring soon, it's going to bed a great day finally being able to cull all the Group 3 people out of my life, which will be basically everyone
By way of explanation the 3 groups of people are as follows
Group 1 People you want to be around, some of you Family members, by no means all of them, a couple of close friends occasionally, my cats
Group 2 People you have to have contact with, Doctors, Dentists, mostly medical professionals but obviously as infrequently as possible
Group 3 Essentially everyone else
Life will be so much simpler not having to deal with all those people that basically just get in the way
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shuran
I'm an infj(I test 10 time's) I worry about the world, refugees and environment. but sometime i want to destroy human. It's because I don't have the place to express the fear and anxious, so the negative induced emotion make my mind dark. But i'm still worry for the others. infj is a fallacy personality. Before i know about that, i think i'm crazy. After the test, i find out i'm not crazy. I just a little bit different with other people. Even i hate the world, i still want to give it some love. (i wrote too much, sorry. I love this video some much, thank you. )
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I'm an infj(I test 10 time's) I worry about the world, refugees and environment. but sometime i want to destroy human. It's because I don't have the place to express the fear and anxious, so the negative induced emotion make my mind dark. But i'm still worry for the others. infj is a fallacy personality. Before i know about that, i think i'm crazy. After the test, i find out i'm not crazy. I just a little bit different with other people. Even i hate the world, i still want to give it some love. (i wrote too much, sorry. I love this video some much, thank you. )
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Kimie
Does INFP have similar dark sides? I did the MBTI twice with a time difference of 3 months and somehow, I got INFP first and feel very comfortable with it, but now I got INFJ and except the language I do not know what has changed and I really have the need to figure it out I did the second test (result INFJ) in my native language and the first one (result INFP) in english, which I am also fluent of.
And this video is really so me here
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Does INFP have similar dark sides? I did the MBTI twice with a time difference of 3 months and somehow, I got INFP first and feel very comfortable with it, but now I got INFJ and except the language I do not know what has changed and I really have the need to figure it out I did the second test (result INFJ) in my native language and the first one (result INFP) in english, which I am also fluent of.
And this video is really so me here
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Martin
Hmm, according to the latest 16 personalities test I took I should be an INFJ-A, but I do not recognize most of these negatives in myself. Though I think I may have grown into this personality type from the INFP-T if that is even possible. It could also be that I just interpret the questions differently from what I used to?
Anyways, I've never recognized all the traits of these two personality types either.
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Hmm, according to the latest 16 personalities test I took I should be an INFJ-A, but I do not recognize most of these negatives in myself. Though I think I may have grown into this personality type from the INFP-T if that is even possible. It could also be that I just interpret the questions differently from what I used to?
Anyways, I've never recognized all the traits of these two personality types either.
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WoolfCraft
Something I often do, Without Really realizing it before it's too late, is, when I'm upset or angry, I would plan out in my head what I would do if someone confronted me about it. But then, when someone actually does confront me, I just say I'm fine, Or something along those lines. And then I'm like, 'why did I do that? I need help. ' and it is definitely a problem I need to fix, but I don't quite know how.
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Something I often do, Without Really realizing it before it's too late, is, when I'm upset or angry, I would plan out in my head what I would do if someone confronted me about it. But then, when someone actually does confront me, I just say I'm fine, Or something along those lines. And then I'm like, 'why did I do that? I need help. ' and it is definitely a problem I need to fix, but I don't quite know how.
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Ren
this really relate for me as infjthe different for me is only that i dont really have much high expectations for my romantic partner I just hope they nice and healthy or maybe that because I never have any romance experience yet. I hear a lot my friend story or they sadness and well yeah I keep my negative things for myselfI just didnt find any friend that I trust to talk about it
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this really relate for me as infjthe different for me is only that i dont really have much high expectations for my romantic partner I just hope they nice and healthy or maybe that because I never have any romance experience yet. I hear a lot my friend story or they sadness and well yeah I keep my negative things for myselfI just didnt find any friend that I trust to talk about it
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Lavender
a very negative trait of mine as an infj is definitely that i lose trust in other people too easily. Its because i am soo used to being mistreated by toxic friends that i become overly cautious when forming new relationships, because i know that if i dedicate myself to someone, then i will find it very hard to let go if the other person mistreats me.
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a very negative trait of mine as an infj is definitely that i lose trust in other people too easily. Its because i am soo used to being mistreated by toxic friends that i become overly cautious when forming new relationships, because i know that if i dedicate myself to someone, then i will find it very hard to let go if the other person mistreats me.
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Leonard
I am a INFJ I would always keep my feelings bottled up and than I would explode with emotion people would come to me with there feelings like I was a therapist if I said how I felt keep it to yourself they would say I was tested at Tulane about why I would not do my school homework the results were I was quite intelligent
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I am a INFJ I would always keep my feelings bottled up and than I would explode with emotion people would come to me with there feelings like I was a therapist if I said how I felt keep it to yourself they would say I was tested at Tulane about why I would not do my school homework the results were I was quite intelligent
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WoolfCraft
I just want to say, reading these comments and watching this video give me this feeling of. openness. the ability to say something and have others relate. it can be so hard not having people to talk to about these kinds of problems. i guess it just frees my mind a bit. so. thank you.
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I just want to say, reading these comments and watching this video give me this feeling of. openness. the ability to say something and have others relate. it can be so hard not having people to talk to about these kinds of problems. i guess it just frees my mind a bit. so. thank you.
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eyemall
As an ENFP I urge all you INFJs to find someone you can trust or at the very least find creative ways to let out the emotions. Regardless of personality type some worries and anxieties are not healthy when bouncing around in your head.
Much love for my INFJ brothers and sisters.
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As an ENFP I urge all you INFJs to find someone you can trust or at the very least find creative ways to let out the emotions. Regardless of personality type some worries and anxieties are not healthy when bouncing around in your head.
Much love for my INFJ brothers and sisters.
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Trevor
As an INFJ myself is it hard for anyone else to take things further in a relationship as far as moving in with someone etc? And they just leave you causs you didn't know what u wanted or it was too much for u at the time and u felt like u needed to understand them more?
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As an INFJ myself is it hard for anyone else to take things further in a relationship as far as moving in with someone etc? And they just leave you causs you didn't know what u wanted or it was too much for u at the time and u felt like u needed to understand them more?
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turtle4614
Mental health is always some foreign thing that somehow means your weak or a problem. I have found that embracing who I am based on concise analysis has allowed me to live my best life. I truly hope we are on a path to make mental health awareness the norm.
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Mental health is always some foreign thing that somehow means your weak or a problem. I have found that embracing who I am based on concise analysis has allowed me to live my best life. I truly hope we are on a path to make mental health awareness the norm.
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Pinocchio
Recently i'm going through the symptoms of Schizophrenia i should say that, i don't have hallucinations not really but i do have delusion and paranoid thoughts but the thing is. it may be just my personality trait as INFJ. but i'm still confused.
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Recently i'm going through the symptoms of Schizophrenia i should say that, i don't have hallucinations not really but i do have delusion and paranoid thoughts but the thing is. it may be just my personality trait as INFJ. but i'm still confused.
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Kimberly
I am married to an INFJ, and have a sister that is an INFJ as well. They often expect the rest of us to know what is happening inside of them without actually communicating what is happening inside of them. My mantra is we cannot read your mind.
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I am married to an INFJ, and have a sister that is an INFJ as well. They often expect the rest of us to know what is happening inside of them without actually communicating what is happening inside of them. My mantra is we cannot read your mind.
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martini1179
How is this behavior not borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, and other cluster-B personality disorders? How is this helpful to just see this as a dark side instead of looking at the real, underlying mental health disorders underneath?
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How is this behavior not borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, and other cluster-B personality disorders? How is this helpful to just see this as a dark side instead of looking at the real, underlying mental health disorders underneath?
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Oh
INFJ feels like I'm the thoughtful one who overthinks every action and when I'm hurt by things by people, I think about it and make sure I don't do it to other people since I'm aware of how the small actions can hurt people.
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INFJ feels like I'm the thoughtful one who overthinks every action and when I'm hurt by things by people, I think about it and make sure I don't do it to other people since I'm aware of how the small actions can hurt people.
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Coolest
As an INFJ, these were my reactions:
1. Absolutely
2. yeah
3. YUP
4. yes.
5. What does that even mean- Oop yes actually
6. So Im told
I love being a gentle and kind terrible person: )
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As an INFJ, these were my reactions:
1. Absolutely
2. yeah
3. YUP
4. yes.
5. What does that even mean- Oop yes actually
6. So Im told
I love being a gentle and kind terrible person: )
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Kane
Almost unrivalled and on a totally different scale of understanding and relations of thoughts feelings and soul therein what lies is nothing because everything is true to its nature. Infj is in tune with nature
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Almost unrivalled and on a totally different scale of understanding and relations of thoughts feelings and soul therein what lies is nothing because everything is true to its nature. Infj is in tune with nature
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Spacechick
As an infj I always tend to hold back my tears until I get home or somewhere am comfortable with and I always hide my true feelings around people I stay with and my siblings think that am an extrovert
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As an infj I always tend to hold back my tears until I get home or somewhere am comfortable with and I always hide my true feelings around people I stay with and my siblings think that am an extrovert
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WhAtEvEr
As an INFJ I seriously relate to the cutting people out of your life comment. I've actually done that before where I hastily cut someone off and then regretted it later. you live and you learn right?
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As an INFJ I seriously relate to the cutting people out of your life comment. I've actually done that before where I hastily cut someone off and then regretted it later. you live and you learn right?
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Shadan
Every point is on point. specially what i am suffering right now is cutting people out of my life so easily. sometimes it is good decision but some are still giving me regrets. and i cannot undo that.
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Every point is on point. specially what i am suffering right now is cutting people out of my life so easily. sometimes it is good decision but some are still giving me regrets. and i cannot undo that.
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IMRT38
I did the test, I got different answers, they all make sense, but this one i think it's true science i fot it twice and I am now in a specific age where my knowledge devloped
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I did the test, I got different answers, they all make sense, but this one i think it's true science i fot it twice and I am now in a specific age where my knowledge devloped
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