7 Signs You're Becoming Toxic
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Chente
Sometimes I catch myself saying very toxic things, and every time I stop myself in the middle of my sentences and apologize.
I think the only things I can relate to on this list not trusting my friends and drama following me. Im so used to just not trusting my family because of how narcissistic they are, I forget to trust my friends who arent narcissistic, but I do tell my friends how I really feel about things and hearing them talk about their struggles is nice too, mainly because of how transparent we can be. Were both super busy so we dont get time to talk much but when we do its always so nice to talk to someone real and genuine, especially when you live with narcissists.
As for drama, I wouldnt really call it drama, again just certain people in my family who are narcissistic like to throw shade on me everywhere I go, I dont entirely care but it does get annoying at times, worst part is that I cant do anything about it so I just have to let them talk however they want about me. My friends though arent narcissistic and understand how that is and never believe those stories. Im not sure Im becoming narcissistic, I just have some traits I got from my family subconsciously, but I every day I strive to be a better person for my friends and often separate myself from those things and people. Other than that, I dont think Im that bad of a person, Im not good, but at least Im trying.
also this comment is really long.
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Sometimes I catch myself saying very toxic things, and every time I stop myself in the middle of my sentences and apologize.
I think the only things I can relate to on this list not trusting my friends and drama following me. Im so used to just not trusting my family because of how narcissistic they are, I forget to trust my friends who arent narcissistic, but I do tell my friends how I really feel about things and hearing them talk about their struggles is nice too, mainly because of how transparent we can be. Were both super busy so we dont get time to talk much but when we do its always so nice to talk to someone real and genuine, especially when you live with narcissists.
As for drama, I wouldnt really call it drama, again just certain people in my family who are narcissistic like to throw shade on me everywhere I go, I dont entirely care but it does get annoying at times, worst part is that I cant do anything about it so I just have to let them talk however they want about me. My friends though arent narcissistic and understand how that is and never believe those stories. Im not sure Im becoming narcissistic, I just have some traits I got from my family subconsciously, but I every day I strive to be a better person for my friends and often separate myself from those things and people. Other than that, I dont think Im that bad of a person, Im not good, but at least Im trying.
also this comment is really long.
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biddro_1773
I'm able to maintain a friend ship except 2 and that's both my cousins one of them never apologizes for the stuff they say it seem like I'm the only one that apologize I asked them why they never Said sorry there response was cause I'm right it started about a week ago because I said I don't like to snipe against her on fortnite her response was because you know I'm better I didn't say anything she said it again I said most of the time I'm not paying attention to you and you kill me then we was playing a gun game she couldn't kill me she jumped off the map then left and called me toxic most recently it was over edit pump wars she got mad because I fought somebody else 5 times so I went to fight her and after the 3rd time she left and called me toxic I said I don't see how I fought the other person 5 times and I only fought you 3 times how is that fair to them I tried to talk to her after I said sorry trying to be understanding of her side she said I don't care I don't wanna hear it I was bro I don't wanna fight with you I'm just trying to talk to you so we don't fight after a little but a gave up and said text me when your not mad
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I'm able to maintain a friend ship except 2 and that's both my cousins one of them never apologizes for the stuff they say it seem like I'm the only one that apologize I asked them why they never Said sorry there response was cause I'm right it started about a week ago because I said I don't like to snipe against her on fortnite her response was because you know I'm better I didn't say anything she said it again I said most of the time I'm not paying attention to you and you kill me then we was playing a gun game she couldn't kill me she jumped off the map then left and called me toxic most recently it was over edit pump wars she got mad because I fought somebody else 5 times so I went to fight her and after the 3rd time she left and called me toxic I said I don't see how I fought the other person 5 times and I only fought you 3 times how is that fair to them I tried to talk to her after I said sorry trying to be understanding of her side she said I don't care I don't wanna hear it I was bro I don't wanna fight with you I'm just trying to talk to you so we don't fight after a little but a gave up and said text me when your not mad
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Robert
Thank you for the people who made this video it helped me settle a dispute from a love one.
I was aware of how toxic people are but this is like the first time I realized I was doing some of them.
Never saying Sorry was one of them that made my interaction with that person unnatural and cold. But seeing this video it became a catalyst to change my ways.
I took my time to settle myself before I apologize Weighing wether if its Better or Not. I came to a Conclusion it was better for both of us.
I thought of the Words I would say but I didn't practice them much (vocally. I want them to come out Natural even if it was Awkward, Stuttering or has a lot Pauses.
In the end I said it and it felt Great but what Shocks me more is that person Apologized as well. I wouldn't have come to this Closure if I didn't tried to Communicate it properly.
This could not be the Case for everyone but at least Try to Correct your Mistakes and Change for the Good of the Relationship. It doesn't have to be a Quick or Permanent Change but you wouldn't able to Know the Conclusion if you keep on Avoiding to Communicate it out.
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Thank you for the people who made this video it helped me settle a dispute from a love one.
I was aware of how toxic people are but this is like the first time I realized I was doing some of them.
Never saying Sorry was one of them that made my interaction with that person unnatural and cold. But seeing this video it became a catalyst to change my ways.
I took my time to settle myself before I apologize Weighing wether if its Better or Not. I came to a Conclusion it was better for both of us.
I thought of the Words I would say but I didn't practice them much (vocally. I want them to come out Natural even if it was Awkward, Stuttering or has a lot Pauses.
In the end I said it and it felt Great but what Shocks me more is that person Apologized as well. I wouldn't have come to this Closure if I didn't tried to Communicate it properly.
This could not be the Case for everyone but at least Try to Correct your Mistakes and Change for the Good of the Relationship. It doesn't have to be a Quick or Permanent Change but you wouldn't able to Know the Conclusion if you keep on Avoiding to Communicate it out.
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Livia
im losing all of my friends and my best friend S called me toxic anf fake but i cant figure out what i did wrong in our friendship and i cant word any of my feeling abt what happened and its just hard to do anything im scared to talk to my other friends and im contemplating SH. I know ppl willtell me to get real help but i dont want to ask for it. its awkward and embarrassing to me. ik ive done some things and i have said sorry i just want a good life and not to be the toxic girl that everyone hates at school. people have been saying to my friends that im rude and that i want them to (ifykyk) and ive never said anything like that ever bc my sisters used to SH and once tried to (ifykyk) so i would never say that ever. its just hard to say what im saying now and everyone will believe S and not me bc yk im the girl nobody likes and everyone thinks is ugly and a know it all. i wish you could hear my voice saying this. it would be so much easier to vooce my problems then type but its whatever i guess.
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im losing all of my friends and my best friend S called me toxic anf fake but i cant figure out what i did wrong in our friendship and i cant word any of my feeling abt what happened and its just hard to do anything im scared to talk to my other friends and im contemplating SH. I know ppl willtell me to get real help but i dont want to ask for it. its awkward and embarrassing to me. ik ive done some things and i have said sorry i just want a good life and not to be the toxic girl that everyone hates at school. people have been saying to my friends that im rude and that i want them to (ifykyk) and ive never said anything like that ever bc my sisters used to SH and once tried to (ifykyk) so i would never say that ever. its just hard to say what im saying now and everyone will believe S and not me bc yk im the girl nobody likes and everyone thinks is ugly and a know it all. i wish you could hear my voice saying this. it would be so much easier to vooce my problems then type but its whatever i guess.
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Kari
I had a habit recording all my gameplays back in 2020. I would record everytime I play or play with friends, especially if me and my friends are in a call. Of course I asked them permission if I could record it and they were ok with it. Now that its Dec 2022 and its very close 2023, I decided to rewatch my old recordings. When I rewatched them I realised how bad I treated them and I was kind of rude. Back in the time, I didn't mean for it to be rude but it really sounds mispleading and will come of as rude to other people. I also noticed that I was probably the loudest and the person who talked TOO MUCH, I kept bragging and really liked to make everything about myself. No wonder the trio never worked. I feel so bad now.
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I had a habit recording all my gameplays back in 2020. I would record everytime I play or play with friends, especially if me and my friends are in a call. Of course I asked them permission if I could record it and they were ok with it. Now that its Dec 2022 and its very close 2023, I decided to rewatch my old recordings. When I rewatched them I realised how bad I treated them and I was kind of rude. Back in the time, I didn't mean for it to be rude but it really sounds mispleading and will come of as rude to other people. I also noticed that I was probably the loudest and the person who talked TOO MUCH, I kept bragging and really liked to make everything about myself. No wonder the trio never worked. I feel so bad now.
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Reverie
That is that one friend of mine who always don't come to school And ask everything from me. And whenever I get angry at her for that, I just get offline to not let out anger on her. But one time she texted me you always let out all the anger on me for no reason and that really broke me, I tried so much to be in control but why is she saying that. I never said anything bad to her but still it was not enough. And I started to doubt myself is it her being mean or is it just me? Am I being toxic? And that's how I end up here. I dont really know if I am toxic but I will try my best to not be toxic because as a teen suffering from depression, I don't want someone else to suffer because of me.
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That is that one friend of mine who always don't come to school And ask everything from me. And whenever I get angry at her for that, I just get offline to not let out anger on her. But one time she texted me you always let out all the anger on me for no reason and that really broke me, I tried so much to be in control but why is she saying that. I never said anything bad to her but still it was not enough. And I started to doubt myself is it her being mean or is it just me? Am I being toxic? And that's how I end up here. I dont really know if I am toxic but I will try my best to not be toxic because as a teen suffering from depression, I don't want someone else to suffer because of me.
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AXOWOTAHL
I have a toxic friend. At first she started shouting at me when she was angry, she accuses me and when Im happy, she is not. I was always asking her how her weekend was and how she was doing but she didnt seem interested in me. She doesnt listen to me, Ive always been friendly towards her but then I started being egoistic because of her behaviour. Even tho I stay true to my friends, I dont think Im the toxic one in the friendship judging by the video. Can someone answer me if I should let her go? ( She told me that in the past, people didnt really liked her)
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I have a toxic friend. At first she started shouting at me when she was angry, she accuses me and when Im happy, she is not. I was always asking her how her weekend was and how she was doing but she didnt seem interested in me. She doesnt listen to me, Ive always been friendly towards her but then I started being egoistic because of her behaviour. Even tho I stay true to my friends, I dont think Im the toxic one in the friendship judging by the video. Can someone answer me if I should let her go? ( She told me that in the past, people didnt really liked her)
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psych2go
I can relate to some things and actually realize Im being toxic without something on the vid like
I started swearing cause I notice that most high school kids start swearing but when I was hanging out with some of my other friends (that are in a different section) and I swear over something and they notice that and said things like omg since when did you started swearing and I was confused instead and said dont you swear to? no I dont and after that I felt ashamed, now Im starting to stop myself from doing that
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I can relate to some things and actually realize Im being toxic without something on the vid like
I started swearing cause I notice that most high school kids start swearing but when I was hanging out with some of my other friends (that are in a different section) and I swear over something and they notice that and said things like omg since when did you started swearing and I was confused instead and said dont you swear to? no I dont and after that I felt ashamed, now Im starting to stop myself from doing that
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Yeji
I have that friend who truly loves me, the thing is I dont trust that love cause I just want respect, she always makes me feel like I should give her the attention that she deserves which made snap at her and be harshly honest to her, she got upset and told everyone I know about it after harshly criticizing me and saying that Im the worst human being ever and now, I guess Im a bad guy. We got back together after all but Im just confused am I really that bad?
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I have that friend who truly loves me, the thing is I dont trust that love cause I just want respect, she always makes me feel like I should give her the attention that she deserves which made snap at her and be harshly honest to her, she got upset and told everyone I know about it after harshly criticizing me and saying that Im the worst human being ever and now, I guess Im a bad guy. We got back together after all but Im just confused am I really that bad?
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tammm
I don't like admitting I am wrong. I always pull the victim card where I would tell an experience I had that is very pitiful so I can get the comfort and pity from people. I didn't realize I was toxic til I watched this video, it always has been that way too. I'm scared of being the bad guy but doesn't realize I'm already becoming one. So I want to be a better person
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I don't like admitting I am wrong. I always pull the victim card where I would tell an experience I had that is very pitiful so I can get the comfort and pity from people. I didn't realize I was toxic til I watched this video, it always has been that way too. I'm scared of being the bad guy but doesn't realize I'm already becoming one. So I want to be a better person
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tulip
im mean, rude, toxic
i ruin everything and everyone
i ruin all my relationships
i shut people out when they dont listen to what i tell them
i cant trust or invest time and energy in my friends because im certain theyre leaving me soon
and no matter how long i mask this ugly behaviour, it will always be in the back of my mind
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im mean, rude, toxic
i ruin everything and everyone
i ruin all my relationships
i shut people out when they dont listen to what i tell them
i cant trust or invest time and energy in my friends because im certain theyre leaving me soon
and no matter how long i mask this ugly behaviour, it will always be in the back of my mind
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SomeMangoJuice
I had just gotten out of a relationship with a best friend and. sadly all of these things had related to her. I hope she gets better: ( And if some of these things relate to someone you know then maybe you should leave. : Goodluck to everyone out there struggling with toxic ppl, but remember everything has a solution: )
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I had just gotten out of a relationship with a best friend and. sadly all of these things had related to her. I hope she gets better: ( And if some of these things relate to someone you know then maybe you should leave. : Goodluck to everyone out there struggling with toxic ppl, but remember everything has a solution: )
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Jayden
I have a friend that constantly makes everything I say a problem and hates on all my opinions, but if I tell them they're being rude or something like that she'll yell at me, start more issues, and will victimize herself. She's only done it to my other friend once.
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I have a friend that constantly makes everything I say a problem and hates on all my opinions, but if I tell them they're being rude or something like that she'll yell at me, start more issues, and will victimize herself. She's only done it to my other friend once.
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Daysha
you know I had a realization that I am the toxic one, its a bittersweet feeling really because its like yay im taking a step of self acknowledgement and can move forward but its also like how many people have i hurt before i acknowledged this?
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you know I had a realization that I am the toxic one, its a bittersweet feeling really because its like yay im taking a step of self acknowledgement and can move forward but its also like how many people have i hurt before i acknowledged this?
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biddro_1773
idk if I'm the problem or not they always tell me I'm the problem I'm toxic I'm competitive but I've realized that it causes a lot of drama so I'm Been trying to stop doing it I just need to sit down with them and talk it over
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idk if I'm the problem or not they always tell me I'm the problem I'm toxic I'm competitive but I've realized that it causes a lot of drama so I'm Been trying to stop doing it I just need to sit down with them and talk it over
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Toast
What if you always willingly apologize but don't always mean it? I tend to apologize just to end the conversation. I apologize and take the blame just because I don't want to deal with the situation anymore. Is that toxic?
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What if you always willingly apologize but don't always mean it? I tend to apologize just to end the conversation. I apologize and take the blame just because I don't want to deal with the situation anymore. Is that toxic?
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Kylie
Im to afraid. of other's, maybe im protecting myself. But most probably im protecting them from me. You can never be to sure, so i stay away to not be a problem. Afteral problems are only problems when you know about them
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Im to afraid. of other's, maybe im protecting myself. But most probably im protecting them from me. You can never be to sure, so i stay away to not be a problem. Afteral problems are only problems when you know about them
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David
I keep watching these videos trying my hardest to see if they apply to me since that seems to be everyone else's experience and i wanna be self aware and, nope, its still my ex. Dont know why i keep doubting myself here
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I keep watching these videos trying my hardest to see if they apply to me since that seems to be everyone else's experience and i wanna be self aware and, nope, its still my ex. Dont know why i keep doubting myself here
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Kazh4
I only am addicted to social media, and thats because i dont like communicating and im an introvert, and i only talk behind others back if they deserve it (i only talk behind others backs with my most trusted friends)
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I only am addicted to social media, and thats because i dont like communicating and im an introvert, and i only talk behind others back if they deserve it (i only talk behind others backs with my most trusted friends)
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No
I want to know, by talking behind someones back I would say I do. I have a friend I say is rude, toxic, and manipulative. So I talk to others for help about her is that talking behind someones back?
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I want to know, by talking behind someones back I would say I do. I have a friend I say is rude, toxic, and manipulative. So I talk to others for help about her is that talking behind someones back?
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Nato_Potato
I came to watching this is because i went back into my toxic habits again after promising i wont do it again. I just feel so ashamed that i do those things agter i said i would change
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I came to watching this is because i went back into my toxic habits again after promising i wont do it again. I just feel so ashamed that i do those things agter i said i would change
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Mewtwo99
I sometimes say things I regret and often get me into fights. Even if my classmates dont beat me up for I still feel bad because a part of me was unconsciously trying to hurt people
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I sometimes say things I regret and often get me into fights. Even if my classmates dont beat me up for I still feel bad because a part of me was unconsciously trying to hurt people
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Define
I'd be it rather than avoid it but i haven't found my target yet, and once i do, there is nothing you can do about it
GHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAH GHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! !!
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I'd be it rather than avoid it but i haven't found my target yet, and once i do, there is nothing you can do about it
GHAHAHAHAHAH AHAHAH GHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! !!
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Mewtwo99
I have a lot of things in things in this video including screen addiction but my friend have it too so we actually play video games together this is only partly a joke
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I have a lot of things in things in this video including screen addiction but my friend have it too so we actually play video games together this is only partly a joke
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Olivias
I have a friend who is toxic, but she was adopted and has low self esteem. After I talked to her about the fact that she was being toxic, she started working on herself
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I have a friend who is toxic, but she was adopted and has low self esteem. After I talked to her about the fact that she was being toxic, she started working on herself
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