7 Things Toxic Parents Do
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Yuuri
I always remember how my mom never supported me just because I have lower grades than my brother. In my mother's eyes. I was the laziest and the dumbest kid in the world.
Everytime I tried to spoke to her she would just reply hmm or she doesnt say anything. ever since I was in grade 1 she always avoids talking to me on the other hand she treats my brother nicely
When my brother wants something she will always support him.
The last time I asked her I need a drawing book for my project she just said At your age you should work. earn money. you should stop relying to your parents to much. I was okay with that. but how come she didnt said that to my brother.
My 4 elder brother are so overprotective that Im even not allowed to stand beside our door cause they would think I would go outside.
I asked my parents. I'll go find a job but I just have one request Please support me
Then my mom just said.
Why? And how come? You want a job right? It means you can finally handle yourself? You can evnn get out of the house so why bother needing our support?
Even now me and my mother. were still not close
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I always remember how my mom never supported me just because I have lower grades than my brother. In my mother's eyes. I was the laziest and the dumbest kid in the world.
Everytime I tried to spoke to her she would just reply hmm or she doesnt say anything. ever since I was in grade 1 she always avoids talking to me on the other hand she treats my brother nicely
When my brother wants something she will always support him.
The last time I asked her I need a drawing book for my project she just said At your age you should work. earn money. you should stop relying to your parents to much. I was okay with that. but how come she didnt said that to my brother.
My 4 elder brother are so overprotective that Im even not allowed to stand beside our door cause they would think I would go outside.
I asked my parents. I'll go find a job but I just have one request Please support me
Then my mom just said.
Why? And how come? You want a job right? It means you can finally handle yourself? You can evnn get out of the house so why bother needing our support?
Even now me and my mother. were still not close
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Nonbiren
Story time because I need to talk about it and Psych2Go makes me feel like I can
Okay so Im not even 15 yet. I have autism and for me that means if someone says no getting up for any reason that means I stay there and pee my pants because they mean that. That actually happened but it isnt the story I want to tell. My biological father. lets call him Roger. works with autistic kids. He teaches at a school for autistic kids. I get that being a teacher is hard. But there is a line between acknowledging your kids struggles and taking advantage of them. I was about 9 or 10 when this story took place. I was at Rogers apartment because my parents are divorced. I was doing math homework and got overwhelmed. My reaction to being overwhelmed is crying. He saw me crying and tried (not really) to calm me. I didnt so he said If you cant do your work then go to your room and cry. Dont come out until youre done crying. He offered no comfort and sent me away. He didnt need to lock the door. His words were stronger than any lock. He knew that. He knows that.
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Story time because I need to talk about it and Psych2Go makes me feel like I can
Okay so Im not even 15 yet. I have autism and for me that means if someone says no getting up for any reason that means I stay there and pee my pants because they mean that. That actually happened but it isnt the story I want to tell. My biological father. lets call him Roger. works with autistic kids. He teaches at a school for autistic kids. I get that being a teacher is hard. But there is a line between acknowledging your kids struggles and taking advantage of them. I was about 9 or 10 when this story took place. I was at Rogers apartment because my parents are divorced. I was doing math homework and got overwhelmed. My reaction to being overwhelmed is crying. He saw me crying and tried (not really) to calm me. I didnt so he said If you cant do your work then go to your room and cry. Dont come out until youre done crying. He offered no comfort and sent me away. He didnt need to lock the door. His words were stronger than any lock. He knew that. He knows that.
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Oindrila
My parents told me to stop taking all my tutions bc they believe it's worthless to invest money upon me. bc I couldn't meet their expectations over my test results. ik I'm not that good in studies. I'm trying. nd the fact that I'm suffering from depression doesn't help. but they don't even care. heck they don't even want to believe I'm diagonised with depression. my father believes those suffering from mental illnesses are all mad nd crazy people nd if I'm so then I'm a disgrace to the family. my parents are really toxic. whenever they have had a bad day or if they argued, they would take their anger out on me. verbally abuse me. I don't wanna live here anymore. if not for my grandma, I don't think I would have survived in this toxic household for this long. now I feel like I really should not have been born as my parents say. I couldn't even meet their expectations. maybe-maybe they really are just wasting money on me. I'm fing worthless
P. s sorry just got really emotional there and poured out all my feelings.
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My parents told me to stop taking all my tutions bc they believe it's worthless to invest money upon me. bc I couldn't meet their expectations over my test results. ik I'm not that good in studies. I'm trying. nd the fact that I'm suffering from depression doesn't help. but they don't even care. heck they don't even want to believe I'm diagonised with depression. my father believes those suffering from mental illnesses are all mad nd crazy people nd if I'm so then I'm a disgrace to the family. my parents are really toxic. whenever they have had a bad day or if they argued, they would take their anger out on me. verbally abuse me. I don't wanna live here anymore. if not for my grandma, I don't think I would have survived in this toxic household for this long. now I feel like I really should not have been born as my parents say. I couldn't even meet their expectations. maybe-maybe they really are just wasting money on me. I'm fing worthless
P. s sorry just got really emotional there and poured out all my feelings.
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Giorgio
Im an ADHD human and as a child I wanted to become a musician. I work my time to produce good music, full songs at age 16. Then a summit then to study music at a prestige school called Vonkelement here en SJCR. They called back and offer an audition. Then I told my parents all about it. I basically had to explained everything, they told me music is not a career, so they went to the audition with me telling me even if I would pass they would not go for it letting me go even with an scholarship. My parents have money, but they took the decision of borrowing a piano thinking music was an ADHD passenger thing, it wasnt. 1 year later the piano wasnt at my home any longer since it was too loud and i had to get A+ and piano was distracting. Thats what happened, now I do shit graphic design for a shit company. Im depressed looking for help.
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Im an ADHD human and as a child I wanted to become a musician. I work my time to produce good music, full songs at age 16. Then a summit then to study music at a prestige school called Vonkelement here en SJCR. They called back and offer an audition. Then I told my parents all about it. I basically had to explained everything, they told me music is not a career, so they went to the audition with me telling me even if I would pass they would not go for it letting me go even with an scholarship. My parents have money, but they took the decision of borrowing a piano thinking music was an ADHD passenger thing, it wasnt. 1 year later the piano wasnt at my home any longer since it was too loud and i had to get A+ and piano was distracting. Thats what happened, now I do shit graphic design for a shit company. Im depressed looking for help.
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Brandan
Is it toxic if your mom barely ever talks to you but only when they want you to do something for them? All she does is sit in her room on her phone or watching tv, one time I never even spoke to her for almost two weeks. I told her about the job I wanted to do and she said it wasn't realistic enough, she never tells me that she loves me probably only like once but only when she's in a good mood, me and her argue almost all the time my dad even said we're like sisters fighting. She's only happy whenever I do something good like finish homework and get a good grade. She also usually says embarrassing things in public about me in kind of a loud tone. I still love her because she's my mom and I could never see myself hating her, but she does all of these things idk if she feels the same way too it's hard to tell.
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Is it toxic if your mom barely ever talks to you but only when they want you to do something for them? All she does is sit in her room on her phone or watching tv, one time I never even spoke to her for almost two weeks. I told her about the job I wanted to do and she said it wasn't realistic enough, she never tells me that she loves me probably only like once but only when she's in a good mood, me and her argue almost all the time my dad even said we're like sisters fighting. She's only happy whenever I do something good like finish homework and get a good grade. She also usually says embarrassing things in public about me in kind of a loud tone. I still love her because she's my mom and I could never see myself hating her, but she does all of these things idk if she feels the same way too it's hard to tell.
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kathrin
the worst thing is when they never apologize but just treat you like usual and pretend everything is okay. My parents did that to me after we got into a huge fight where i tried to use arguments and then physical force against them as my only resorts, none worked tho. they werent listening. My father beat me while i was lying on the floor, helpless. He never apologized or mentioned it again. He nust pretended it was fine. I think about it very often, i will never trust him fully.
He used to beat me and my brother as a child too.
I was too young to realize that it was them who was doing sth wrong, not me.
I dont remember why they hit me, what i had done. I just remember that it hurt and i cried. I tried to avoid wrong actions because of fear, not because of my morals.
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the worst thing is when they never apologize but just treat you like usual and pretend everything is okay. My parents did that to me after we got into a huge fight where i tried to use arguments and then physical force against them as my only resorts, none worked tho. they werent listening. My father beat me while i was lying on the floor, helpless. He never apologized or mentioned it again. He nust pretended it was fine. I think about it very often, i will never trust him fully.
He used to beat me and my brother as a child too.
I was too young to realize that it was them who was doing sth wrong, not me.
I dont remember why they hit me, what i had done. I just remember that it hurt and i cried. I tried to avoid wrong actions because of fear, not because of my morals.
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Valentina
can I ask for advice?
I suffer from bulimia, and yes I'm under treatment. I know it's a bad habit of mine but sometimes I buy myself junk food and throw up afterward, my mother got angry with me a few days ago and entered my room to find the trash of the food I hide. when I got home I was confused and got angry when I found out she did this, because it was already the second time and my mother always screams at me for buying myself things which hurts me. I told her I knew what I did was wrong but that the fact that she intruded my privacy by entering my room when I wasn't there and both her and my father said that she wasn't wrong and that this was their house. is it really okay for them to do that?
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can I ask for advice?
I suffer from bulimia, and yes I'm under treatment. I know it's a bad habit of mine but sometimes I buy myself junk food and throw up afterward, my mother got angry with me a few days ago and entered my room to find the trash of the food I hide. when I got home I was confused and got angry when I found out she did this, because it was already the second time and my mother always screams at me for buying myself things which hurts me. I told her I knew what I did was wrong but that the fact that she intruded my privacy by entering my room when I wasn't there and both her and my father said that she wasn't wrong and that this was their house. is it really okay for them to do that?
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Not
This is so easy! You should know the answer!
Stop crying!
Why cant I see who you're talking to? I'm supposed to know!
You forgot to take the plate out of your room, AGAIN!
Did anyone else's parents not confirm them as LGBTQ+? I told my parents when I was 12 that I was Bi and Genderfluid. My dad supported me but my mom told me I feel like everyone feels like a girl sometimes and a boy the next, invalidating that I identify as MALE AND FEMALE at different times, and Everyone likes boys and girls sometimes, saying that you arent special and everyone has this feeling? No? Just me? Ok!
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This is so easy! You should know the answer!
Stop crying!
Why cant I see who you're talking to? I'm supposed to know!
You forgot to take the plate out of your room, AGAIN!
Did anyone else's parents not confirm them as LGBTQ+? I told my parents when I was 12 that I was Bi and Genderfluid. My dad supported me but my mom told me I feel like everyone feels like a girl sometimes and a boy the next, invalidating that I identify as MALE AND FEMALE at different times, and Everyone likes boys and girls sometimes, saying that you arent special and everyone has this feeling? No? Just me? Ok!
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Vengeful
toxic parent
1. self centered
(dad goes biking, forgets family)
2. not empathetic or sympathetic
(dad Narcissist, Emotionally absent)
3. rude and disrespectful
4. overstep your boundries
(mom forces gifts, choices, food, decisions. and get mad and sad if I don't accept)
5. overly demanding
6. belittle you
(treat you like a kid, refused to take my advice. I said don't tear apart bathroom until you fix other 3 rooms. we showered in a plastic kids pool in basement 6 years)
7. control dominate you
(smother kid)
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toxic parent
1. self centered
(dad goes biking, forgets family)
2. not empathetic or sympathetic
(dad Narcissist, Emotionally absent)
3. rude and disrespectful
4. overstep your boundries
(mom forces gifts, choices, food, decisions. and get mad and sad if I don't accept)
5. overly demanding
6. belittle you
(treat you like a kid, refused to take my advice. I said don't tear apart bathroom until you fix other 3 rooms. we showered in a plastic kids pool in basement 6 years)
7. control dominate you
(smother kid)
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Call
Watching this made me realize how much of a devil child I am, my parents tried so hard to control me and be exactly like every point in this video. Alas I didnt let them control me, if they tried to look through my things Id freak out and threaten them. If they ever tried to micromanage me Id immediately do the opposite of what they want me to do, if they tried to bribe me or punish me Id just not give a shit. My parents tried to take advantage of me since I was a kid but the fools raised me to be independent, so now the tables have turned.
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Watching this made me realize how much of a devil child I am, my parents tried so hard to control me and be exactly like every point in this video. Alas I didnt let them control me, if they tried to look through my things Id freak out and threaten them. If they ever tried to micromanage me Id immediately do the opposite of what they want me to do, if they tried to bribe me or punish me Id just not give a shit. My parents tried to take advantage of me since I was a kid but the fools raised me to be independent, so now the tables have turned.
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Bernice
my mom never listens. she always says its for me. is locking me in a pitch black room with all the rats and roaches crawling up my legs good for me? i was 3. when my uncle hurts me she just watches me getting hurt. one time while she was taking a picture of me for FB she let go of me and i fell in the pool. everything went dark. she didnt even save me. her friend did. when she posted the photo of me on the slide she wrote on the caption saying: i took my daughter to the pool today! im such a good mother.
she forced me to go
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my mom never listens. she always says its for me. is locking me in a pitch black room with all the rats and roaches crawling up my legs good for me? i was 3. when my uncle hurts me she just watches me getting hurt. one time while she was taking a picture of me for FB she let go of me and i fell in the pool. everything went dark. she didnt even save me. her friend did. when she posted the photo of me on the slide she wrote on the caption saying: i took my daughter to the pool today! im such a good mother.
she forced me to go
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ainaa
i don't know if i have a toxic parents or not but here is my situation:
1-among my other siblings, i'm the one who pushed by them to study hard/get a good job/support them
2-when i'm older and have stable financial, i were ask to support my younger sister to finish her studies
3-they never ask me if i have a goal/getting married/have future plan for my self.
4-sometimes i think, i'm just a provider for them, not one of their kids
5-while my other siblings are happily married and have their own family.
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i don't know if i have a toxic parents or not but here is my situation:
1-among my other siblings, i'm the one who pushed by them to study hard/get a good job/support them
2-when i'm older and have stable financial, i were ask to support my younger sister to finish her studies
3-they never ask me if i have a goal/getting married/have future plan for my self.
4-sometimes i think, i'm just a provider for them, not one of their kids
5-while my other siblings are happily married and have their own family.
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Lady
Number 2 DEFINITELY applies to me! All my mother ever cares about is taking care of my autistic brother and when I try to talk to her about something thats not an emergency or of utmost importance then she just shoos me away saying shes too busy and to talk to her in the evening when shes free, but then when I do, shes like piss off, this is my free time like Im the very last person she wants to be around. I can count the times we actually ever did anything together on only one hand!
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Number 2 DEFINITELY applies to me! All my mother ever cares about is taking care of my autistic brother and when I try to talk to her about something thats not an emergency or of utmost importance then she just shoos me away saying shes too busy and to talk to her in the evening when shes free, but then when I do, shes like piss off, this is my free time like Im the very last person she wants to be around. I can count the times we actually ever did anything together on only one hand!
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Nicole
Ok so the thing is parents don't really think they are abusive and wrong cuz they want to believe they are doing what's good for their children but they are not. So parents pls understand that you should observe your behavior and see your impact on your children.
And mom pls stop being a toxic parent because you don't realize how bad I want to not live so that I can be free from your doings.
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Ok so the thing is parents don't really think they are abusive and wrong cuz they want to believe they are doing what's good for their children but they are not. So parents pls understand that you should observe your behavior and see your impact on your children.
And mom pls stop being a toxic parent because you don't realize how bad I want to not live so that I can be free from your doings.
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Boingo
Yes. tbh, my mum's like most of these and I can't be bothered to even have a convo with her about it. I'm way too scared of the slightest conflict and if she's angry, I do what I know to keep her happy so she doesn't get irritated with me. And most of what I say doesn't get through to her. I don't know whether I should say I hate her and all the things she's done and still does tbh.
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Yes. tbh, my mum's like most of these and I can't be bothered to even have a convo with her about it. I'm way too scared of the slightest conflict and if she's angry, I do what I know to keep her happy so she doesn't get irritated with me. And most of what I say doesn't get through to her. I don't know whether I should say I hate her and all the things she's done and still does tbh.
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Sam
When I was 5, my mother had a very traumatic experience leaving her extremely volatile, self-centered and cold (she didn't hug me or kiss me until I was way older and even then. it was odd. It kinda hurts knowing that I didn't have a loving mother. But I know she loves me, deep down Plus I'm sure childhoods back in 1960 weren't too pretty either. most kids being hit regularly and all.
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When I was 5, my mother had a very traumatic experience leaving her extremely volatile, self-centered and cold (she didn't hug me or kiss me until I was way older and even then. it was odd. It kinda hurts knowing that I didn't have a loving mother. But I know she loves me, deep down Plus I'm sure childhoods back in 1960 weren't too pretty either. most kids being hit regularly and all.
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Chloe
My mum laughs at me when I cry, my mum asks about my day I say that I was tired and she laughs at me. She gives me all the jobs shes meant to do, she goes there my phone never lets me have something to my self. My mum calls me fat, ugly and that I should look like all the girls in my school. She says she loves me and shes sorry then does it when I make a complaint.
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My mum laughs at me when I cry, my mum asks about my day I say that I was tired and she laughs at me. She gives me all the jobs shes meant to do, she goes there my phone never lets me have something to my self. My mum calls me fat, ugly and that I should look like all the girls in my school. She says she loves me and shes sorry then does it when I make a complaint.
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Donna
I did one of my swimming races last week, and my time wasn't as good as my parents expected it to be, instead of saying like, good job! Or Try again next time! They told me that I was fat and they say that I'm lazy and I'm not good enough. They always say Jeez, look at that person over there. THEY TRY HARD! UNLIKE YOU! This stuff always brings me down.
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I did one of my swimming races last week, and my time wasn't as good as my parents expected it to be, instead of saying like, good job! Or Try again next time! They told me that I was fat and they say that I'm lazy and I'm not good enough. They always say Jeez, look at that person over there. THEY TRY HARD! UNLIKE YOU! This stuff always brings me down.
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med
It only feel like u are empty from inside and the loneliest person the earth. It become severely uncomfortable to be around even listening to their voice. Where they put pressure and let down your self estem and making u feel useless and unworthy of any thing good in life. I know the pain where both my parents are toxic
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It only feel like u are empty from inside and the loneliest person the earth. It become severely uncomfortable to be around even listening to their voice. Where they put pressure and let down your self estem and making u feel useless and unworthy of any thing good in life. I know the pain where both my parents are toxic
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Freyha's
Another thinh is that They think everyperson you have a relationship just wants money cuz u made a mistake before in your past relationship but now that you have someone who listens and makes you happy but your parents will only think of them as a person who wants money from you. can I please get a hug.
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Another thinh is that They think everyperson you have a relationship just wants money cuz u made a mistake before in your past relationship but now that you have someone who listens and makes you happy but your parents will only think of them as a person who wants money from you. can I please get a hug.
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Kenmas
To remind you: When your parents are not doing all the stuff said in the video, does not mean they aren't toxic. Like maybe they are doing one point from the video more that the others and maybe some of them they aren't doing ever, but they're still toxic.
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To remind you: When your parents are not doing all the stuff said in the video, does not mean they aren't toxic. Like maybe they are doing one point from the video more that the others and maybe some of them they aren't doing ever, but they're still toxic.
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Alex
My mom extorted me 3600 euros when i had my first job (500 a month. Every time i brought it up, she got livid. I told her next month she can shove those 500 euros up her ass. Well, it worked. After she came back from the honeymoon i paid for
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My mom extorted me 3600 euros when i had my first job (500 a month. Every time i brought it up, she got livid. I told her next month she can shove those 500 euros up her ass. Well, it worked. After she came back from the honeymoon i paid for
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Elyza
Me: cuts/self harms trying to hide it
My stepmom: finds out somehow
Dad: tells my mom
Mom: You just want attention
Me: If i did i wouldnt want to hide it-
Mom: tells my family it was just for attention
Me: .da fuq
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Me: cuts/self harms trying to hide it
My stepmom: finds out somehow
Dad: tells my mom
Mom: You just want attention
Me: If i did i wouldnt want to hide it-
Mom: tells my family it was just for attention
Me: .da fuq
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marianne
i got 10 mistakes on a math exam and was so happy to show them to my parents
well turns out they told me to work even harder and that it wasnt enough and then proceeds to force me into a career path i dont want
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i got 10 mistakes on a math exam and was so happy to show them to my parents
well turns out they told me to work even harder and that it wasnt enough and then proceeds to force me into a career path i dont want
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gonna
My parents - why are you always acting like 5 year old kid
My 19 old sister acting like 5 year old kid
Me - see i only 12 year old and she 19 but aunt never shout on her
Mom - you both have different.
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My parents - why are you always acting like 5 year old kid
My 19 old sister acting like 5 year old kid
Me - see i only 12 year old and she 19 but aunt never shout on her
Mom - you both have different.
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