9 Things About Borderline Personality Disorder You Need to Know
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Date: 2023-08-20
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GEORDIE
nment adviser for years and supported people online for the past 30 yrs and never takes praise or ever been paid as he also has mental illness. seems ever singer, sports personality or movie star say they have a mental illness it is the norm. he fought ever1 and still do. no 1 ever talks about what he did. ty even if u check his 4 songs and then compair to now and truth. he has always said any dr. frof, institution to say he has it wrong. everytime he has won, he don't have letters to his name, all his life he has had it and supported and been taught by the people who r ill. from uk to usa, from oz to africa, india, spain inface all of europe asia and the americas. no 1 is the same he preaches and diff countirs, religion, race, colour or even from 1, 2nd or 3rd as we say countiris r, he never says nothing but he is there, he saved my live and his admin and mods on line saved hundreds of thousands, try be4 u say no we won't. plz. i will get anthony nemo to take any of u online, he knows and will agree with so much u have read from a book but will teach every 1 of u the truth and u pick the crowd that will see this live. just ask and prove this post is true or challange and sort this, fool him or he will just make u see what u have wrong
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nment adviser for years and supported people online for the past 30 yrs and never takes praise or ever been paid as he also has mental illness. seems ever singer, sports personality or movie star say they have a mental illness it is the norm. he fought ever1 and still do. no 1 ever talks about what he did. ty even if u check his 4 songs and then compair to now and truth. he has always said any dr. frof, institution to say he has it wrong. everytime he has won, he don't have letters to his name, all his life he has had it and supported and been taught by the people who r ill. from uk to usa, from oz to africa, india, spain inface all of europe asia and the americas. no 1 is the same he preaches and diff countirs, religion, race, colour or even from 1, 2nd or 3rd as we say countiris r, he never says nothing but he is there, he saved my live and his admin and mods on line saved hundreds of thousands, try be4 u say no we won't. plz. i will get anthony nemo to take any of u online, he knows and will agree with so much u have read from a book but will teach every 1 of u the truth and u pick the crowd that will see this live. just ask and prove this post is true or challange and sort this, fool him or he will just make u see what u have wrong
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Bokchoi_king
My best friend and i have BPD she undiagnosed and i am diagnosed, we think everything the same. But i took a DBT which is dialectical behaviour therapy. And i found that ive been able to move past my trauma and cope with my troubles and my emotional expression while gaining sooo much awareness. And unfortunately my bff just doesnt want to help herself, and i realise its a bit of doesnt and cant. She snaps on me quite often but ive come to understand its the BPD however i promise to many of you, if you need help, look up DBT itll be incredibly beneficial to your life and i can promise it. Stuff should be taught in school
But point is we have the same thing and it seems vastly different because i took the therapy and she did not her emotions are so hard to follow like a rollercoaster and most people walk away and i constantly have to remind her and reassure her that i love her and wont be leaving but that she needs professional help in the nicest of ways. If that sounds like you, i just look up DBT and i commend you for watching videos on your mental health.
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My best friend and i have BPD she undiagnosed and i am diagnosed, we think everything the same. But i took a DBT which is dialectical behaviour therapy. And i found that ive been able to move past my trauma and cope with my troubles and my emotional expression while gaining sooo much awareness. And unfortunately my bff just doesnt want to help herself, and i realise its a bit of doesnt and cant. She snaps on me quite often but ive come to understand its the BPD however i promise to many of you, if you need help, look up DBT itll be incredibly beneficial to your life and i can promise it. Stuff should be taught in school
But point is we have the same thing and it seems vastly different because i took the therapy and she did not her emotions are so hard to follow like a rollercoaster and most people walk away and i constantly have to remind her and reassure her that i love her and wont be leaving but that she needs professional help in the nicest of ways. If that sounds like you, i just look up DBT and i commend you for watching videos on your mental health.
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peanut
I'm afraid of self-diagnosing, and I'd prefer to get diagnosed professionally. I genuinely think I have this disorder and I always have. I thought that maybe it's just depression and attachment issues I can treat, but it's really not. I struggle with elevated emotions, paranoia of people conspiring against me or hating me, my identityeverything. I feel like my relationships with family members are a rollercoaster. I do absolutely love my family and my girlfriend with everything in me, but when I'm apart from them for too long or they do something to upset me, they become awful people who want to hurt me (that's how it is in my head. I react to arguments with crying and I feel like I'm in great distress. If I do have something like BPD or whatever, I want to let my loved ones know that I genuinely love them, I have empathy, and I will always care about them. I also immediately think of hurting myself or unaliving myself when something bad happens, too. It's really difficult and I hope that when I start seeing a therapist it'll get better.
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I'm afraid of self-diagnosing, and I'd prefer to get diagnosed professionally. I genuinely think I have this disorder and I always have. I thought that maybe it's just depression and attachment issues I can treat, but it's really not. I struggle with elevated emotions, paranoia of people conspiring against me or hating me, my identityeverything. I feel like my relationships with family members are a rollercoaster. I do absolutely love my family and my girlfriend with everything in me, but when I'm apart from them for too long or they do something to upset me, they become awful people who want to hurt me (that's how it is in my head. I react to arguments with crying and I feel like I'm in great distress. If I do have something like BPD or whatever, I want to let my loved ones know that I genuinely love them, I have empathy, and I will always care about them. I also immediately think of hurting myself or unaliving myself when something bad happens, too. It's really difficult and I hope that when I start seeing a therapist it'll get better.
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ShadowBnx
I dont know what to do anymore. Ive been trying to recover and working on myself to manage my bpd but i end up pushing away every single person that ive ever cared about. Im tired of this and im tired of hurting those that i love. I just want to stay the happy, funny, thoughtful person that is who i really am. Im at the point where ive tried everything and dont see anyway for me to recover in anyway. I just pushed away the only person that ever actually cared about me and i was replaced for someone who doesnt stuggle the way i do in certain periods of my life. Please if anyone any advice to stop those thoughts and ideas or just anyway for me to work towards recovery let me know. I want to finally get better and stop hurting the only people who ever consider me a friend. Anyone have any advice?
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I dont know what to do anymore. Ive been trying to recover and working on myself to manage my bpd but i end up pushing away every single person that ive ever cared about. Im tired of this and im tired of hurting those that i love. I just want to stay the happy, funny, thoughtful person that is who i really am. Im at the point where ive tried everything and dont see anyway for me to recover in anyway. I just pushed away the only person that ever actually cared about me and i was replaced for someone who doesnt stuggle the way i do in certain periods of my life. Please if anyone any advice to stop those thoughts and ideas or just anyway for me to work towards recovery let me know. I want to finally get better and stop hurting the only people who ever consider me a friend. Anyone have any advice?
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jeff503pdx
Went through this with my wife, very sad. Everything was great until she went into a paranoia episode and cut off all outside friends and family, anyone who she thought was a threat, during a pregnancy. I held on as long as I could but had to let go of the rollercoaster. Went through various therapists but couldn't come back together. My hope now is to support her as an ex with our kids. I've been learning a lot more now about BPD, which there were books she had gone through before me, but I didn't take seriously.
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Went through this with my wife, very sad. Everything was great until she went into a paranoia episode and cut off all outside friends and family, anyone who she thought was a threat, during a pregnancy. I held on as long as I could but had to let go of the rollercoaster. Went through various therapists but couldn't come back together. My hope now is to support her as an ex with our kids. I've been learning a lot more now about BPD, which there were books she had gone through before me, but I didn't take seriously.
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Zydrixx
I was watching random videos in the background of me playing games, and this video popped up and I just stayed. 90% of the things you noted in this video, I thought were just normal things that I experience on a daily basis. I was diagnosed with depression a few months back, but I never really talked to people back then so I never showed obsessive symptoms. Now that I have been with people since then, I feel as if it would be a good idea to go to the doctors and potentially see if I have some slight BPD
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I was watching random videos in the background of me playing games, and this video popped up and I just stayed. 90% of the things you noted in this video, I thought were just normal things that I experience on a daily basis. I was diagnosed with depression a few months back, but I never really talked to people back then so I never showed obsessive symptoms. Now that I have been with people since then, I feel as if it would be a good idea to go to the doctors and potentially see if I have some slight BPD
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BrittBratt24
Im tired of trying to figure myself out. Im either gonna just kill myself or move on with my life. Itd make things a lot easier. I feel like imma just take my life anywayIve stressed certain people out and even though no one will say itI know Im a burden. Its just best to go soon. At least I know I tried. Im not saying any of this for sympathy by the wayits just annoying trying to improve yourself and you somehow just wind up self destructingits terrible and I feel like I dont deserve to be here.
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Im tired of trying to figure myself out. Im either gonna just kill myself or move on with my life. Itd make things a lot easier. I feel like imma just take my life anywayIve stressed certain people out and even though no one will say itI know Im a burden. Its just best to go soon. At least I know I tried. Im not saying any of this for sympathy by the wayits just annoying trying to improve yourself and you somehow just wind up self destructingits terrible and I feel like I dont deserve to be here.
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Regine
Yup. this is me smh. Its weird and i dont like it. Mind you i always felt something was wrong with me. Like i was alone in a room full a ppl and i cant tell you exactly why i feel this way. I just know its annoying to go on these emotional ass roller-coasters everyday. I cant stand my job and its hard for me to make and keep friends. To be honest the desire for it though I know i want serious relationships both with my family and a partner. I cant seem let anyone in
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Yup. this is me smh. Its weird and i dont like it. Mind you i always felt something was wrong with me. Like i was alone in a room full a ppl and i cant tell you exactly why i feel this way. I just know its annoying to go on these emotional ass roller-coasters everyday. I cant stand my job and its hard for me to make and keep friends. To be honest the desire for it though I know i want serious relationships both with my family and a partner. I cant seem let anyone in
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Yusra
I have all the symptoms this is hurting I am also hsp and when I am angry I cry
I become intense happy and intense sad
I feel extremely deeply
When someone is nice with me they are my everything but if that person hurts me I started hating them
I have trust issues and my interests and values keeps on changing
I have attachment issues and I have trust issues
Sometimes I feel i am best sometimes I feel I am worthless
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I have all the symptoms this is hurting I am also hsp and when I am angry I cry
I become intense happy and intense sad
I feel extremely deeply
When someone is nice with me they are my everything but if that person hurts me I started hating them
I have trust issues and my interests and values keeps on changing
I have attachment issues and I have trust issues
Sometimes I feel i am best sometimes I feel I am worthless
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Maks
watching this made me realise i really need to seek profesional help, becouse this sounds a lot like me to a point that scares me. tho, realizing that there might be a reason for all these things i hate about myself made me tear up, in a positive way. whether i have bpd or not is yet to be seen as i'll visit a specialist, but just the fact that i know i can get that sort of help regardless of the actual reasons is quite uplifting
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watching this made me realise i really need to seek profesional help, becouse this sounds a lot like me to a point that scares me. tho, realizing that there might be a reason for all these things i hate about myself made me tear up, in a positive way. whether i have bpd or not is yet to be seen as i'll visit a specialist, but just the fact that i know i can get that sort of help regardless of the actual reasons is quite uplifting
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Bad
Trust me, as someone with BPD, IT SUCKS, like so many others have mentioned, relationships, friendships too, can be a veritable minefield, the huge changes in emotions I can go through in a typical day, leave me mentally and physically exhausted, oh, and the explosive anger, I lost count many years ago how many people I knew ended up on the receiving end. A truly debilitating and awful Disorder to have.
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Trust me, as someone with BPD, IT SUCKS, like so many others have mentioned, relationships, friendships too, can be a veritable minefield, the huge changes in emotions I can go through in a typical day, leave me mentally and physically exhausted, oh, and the explosive anger, I lost count many years ago how many people I knew ended up on the receiving end. A truly debilitating and awful Disorder to have.
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Sicilian
I do believe its wonderful when you can try to assist someone with these type of issues. However, some of these people are very nasty and manipulative. They refuse to deal with their own problems. Therefore, putting their stuff on everyone else. Trying to tolerate them, or even support them can be an absolute nightmare and a detriment to your own life survival.
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I do believe its wonderful when you can try to assist someone with these type of issues. However, some of these people are very nasty and manipulative. They refuse to deal with their own problems. Therefore, putting their stuff on everyone else. Trying to tolerate them, or even support them can be an absolute nightmare and a detriment to your own life survival.
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Francois
I can attest to this, I was in Dialectical behaviour therapy for 10 long years, and today finally I can say it paid off, it is not easy, but we do get better and it can be managed with understanding and learning to live with it yourself and understanding what your triggers are. Your significant other also plays a key role in your road to recovery.
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I can attest to this, I was in Dialectical behaviour therapy for 10 long years, and today finally I can say it paid off, it is not easy, but we do get better and it can be managed with understanding and learning to live with it yourself and understanding what your triggers are. Your significant other also plays a key role in your road to recovery.
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Dinu
thank you for this video. I've been looking for videos to show my bf about bpd and this is one that doesn't demonize the personality disorder
watched several before and it made me feel like i am the worst person ever and i will hurt him so bad and there's no chance it could work out.
so thank you for explaining bpd in a not horrbile way
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thank you for this video. I've been looking for videos to show my bf about bpd and this is one that doesn't demonize the personality disorder
watched several before and it made me feel like i am the worst person ever and i will hurt him so bad and there's no chance it could work out.
so thank you for explaining bpd in a not horrbile way
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Leodformes
This has been destroying my life since I can remember, I think ppl with BPD are prone to get into toxic relationship where we are verbal and even physically abused but dont leave for fear of loneliness.
Im 38 and just a week ago finally found out about my condition, I thought was depression and anxiety, but all is related to BPD.
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This has been destroying my life since I can remember, I think ppl with BPD are prone to get into toxic relationship where we are verbal and even physically abused but dont leave for fear of loneliness.
Im 38 and just a week ago finally found out about my condition, I thought was depression and anxiety, but all is related to BPD.
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DemBlossom
My girlfriend has BPD, and we've been together for almost 3 years. Sadly, I never fully understood how to be a support, and that has caused our relationship to become unstable. But here I am, watching this video to be able to have a healthier relationship for both of us. I hope it's not too late, I love her
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My girlfriend has BPD, and we've been together for almost 3 years. Sadly, I never fully understood how to be a support, and that has caused our relationship to become unstable. But here I am, watching this video to be able to have a healthier relationship for both of us. I hope it's not too late, I love her
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beyo
i have bpd and when i saw the quote that said it feels like 3rd degree burns on ur body i felt that cuz when i developed bpd without knowing, i felt so alone, in pain, didnt understand my way of thinking. now i got diagnosed i feel so valid, not better but valid and i can track what i feel or do
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i have bpd and when i saw the quote that said it feels like 3rd degree burns on ur body i felt that cuz when i developed bpd without knowing, i felt so alone, in pain, didnt understand my way of thinking. now i got diagnosed i feel so valid, not better but valid and i can track what i feel or do
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Rebecca
The worst thing is having people reassure you that they won't leave and then they do because you're just too much for anybody to handle, you're left alone and feeling horribly guilty, knowing in your hearth that person will do better without you
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The worst thing is having people reassure you that they won't leave and then they do because you're just too much for anybody to handle, you're left alone and feeling horribly guilty, knowing in your hearth that person will do better without you
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Obsxur
I really wish more people would attempt to understand the disorder and how it's formed, instead of just looking at a person and only seeing the destruction. Some people do suffer more externally than others, but humans should never be demonized.
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I really wish more people would attempt to understand the disorder and how it's formed, instead of just looking at a person and only seeing the destruction. Some people do suffer more externally than others, but humans should never be demonized.
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Elizabeth
Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.
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Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.
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syr. ryl35
As someone with quiet bpd, i struggle with coming to terms with my diagnosis and i am js so mad at myself at how i didnt know, its difficult to deal with but i am very happy that i am finding ways to cope with support of my partner.
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As someone with quiet bpd, i struggle with coming to terms with my diagnosis and i am js so mad at myself at how i didnt know, its difficult to deal with but i am very happy that i am finding ways to cope with support of my partner.
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Fleur
I met a BPD who verbally viciously attacked me after I invested time listening to her seemingly endless problems with relationships. Little did I know it was just a matter of time before she turns in me. It was a horrible experience.
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I met a BPD who verbally viciously attacked me after I invested time listening to her seemingly endless problems with relationships. Little did I know it was just a matter of time before she turns in me. It was a horrible experience.
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Moh
It's sad to see people self-diagnosing based off 6 minute videos. A lot of these traits can apppy to anyone to some extent, especially the average lonely teenager, so please seek professional help before self-labelling.
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It's sad to see people self-diagnosing based off 6 minute videos. A lot of these traits can apppy to anyone to some extent, especially the average lonely teenager, so please seek professional help before self-labelling.
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Game
Guys I don't know if it BPD or what, I can make conversation with people, but sometimes, I just don't feel like my self, i even fail to make conversations when I'm at that moment, anyone knows what may be the problem?
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Guys I don't know if it BPD or what, I can make conversation with people, but sometimes, I just don't feel like my self, i even fail to make conversations when I'm at that moment, anyone knows what may be the problem?
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Monserrat
Last night was like a nightmare making my dreams came bad and baddest. Im tired, thinkin bout suicide, thinkin bout non that hit my head. Im so sad buddy. please help me. the suicide is my first option.
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Last night was like a nightmare making my dreams came bad and baddest. Im tired, thinkin bout suicide, thinkin bout non that hit my head. Im so sad buddy. please help me. the suicide is my first option.
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