8 Signs Your Friend Is Depressed
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Oh, I feel it hurts so much. I have a very close friend, we've passed through different hardships together. We live in different towns and communicate by messenger writing, and we've known each other just for 9 months, but we've got affected to each other really fast, and these 9 months feel like 9 years for me. And she has started being depressed since October. She was stopping writing to me, I tried to find out what has happened to her. It was so hard, I went through arguing with her and having panic attacks because of her. Then she called me and said she stops talking to everyone while being depressed. We made up with each other. But now she has stopped writing and answering my calls again. And I don't know how to deal with it, I feel very bad because she has become my best friend and I'm afraid of losing her. I've lost so many people I used to call friends, because they always pushed me away and left me alone when I needed their help. That's why I'm so anxious about it, I'm in despair now. But I keep faith in her and think she will answer when she returns to stable state. And if you have a similar situation, don't be afraid, your suffering is gonna break even. Just don't give up, keep being kind-hearted, and everything will be OK!
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Oh, I feel it hurts so much. I have a very close friend, we've passed through different hardships together. We live in different towns and communicate by messenger writing, and we've known each other just for 9 months, but we've got affected to each other really fast, and these 9 months feel like 9 years for me. And she has started being depressed since October. She was stopping writing to me, I tried to find out what has happened to her. It was so hard, I went through arguing with her and having panic attacks because of her. Then she called me and said she stops talking to everyone while being depressed. We made up with each other. But now she has stopped writing and answering my calls again. And I don't know how to deal with it, I feel very bad because she has become my best friend and I'm afraid of losing her. I've lost so many people I used to call friends, because they always pushed me away and left me alone when I needed their help. That's why I'm so anxious about it, I'm in despair now. But I keep faith in her and think she will answer when she returns to stable state. And if you have a similar situation, don't be afraid, your suffering is gonna break even. Just don't give up, keep being kind-hearted, and everything will be OK!
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The
A TEENAGERS LAMENT
(A Story Of Depression)
Darkness Finally Engulfs me.
Fully Awake, A Lone Creature Of The Night, My Days Overwhelmed By The Sleep
I Crave, But Never Achieve.
Is My Bedroom A Sanctuary Or Prison?
How Come I'm Different?
Why Am I Different?
Is This Really Me?
Didn't I Always Used To be Happy?
What's Happened To My Life?
I Didn't Ask To Be Depressed, Why Me?
I Only Wanted To Be A Normal Teenager!
I Used To Sing, Now I Only Cry
I Loved To Dance, Just Too Much Effort!
Where Are My Friends, My True Friends
Not Those Who Blank & Avoid Me
Mum Just Shakes Her Head & Sighs
Then Retorts She'll Grow Out Of It
I Used To Be A Daddy's Girl.
Now He's Scared By My Outbursts
Ok So I Don't Shower Every Day
It's Just Too Much Effort These Days
My Nails Once My Pride & Joy
Are Now Broken, Just Like My Heart!
I Count The Cuts on My Arms
Two More Than Yesterday
Must Be Self Cutting In my Sleep?
Must Keep Then Covered In Front of Mum
Who Cares? I used To!
Who cares Now? Nobody Does!
It's Just Me & My Depression!
Somebody, Anybody, I Just Need To Talk!
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A TEENAGERS LAMENT
(A Story Of Depression)
Darkness Finally Engulfs me.
Fully Awake, A Lone Creature Of The Night, My Days Overwhelmed By The Sleep
I Crave, But Never Achieve.
Is My Bedroom A Sanctuary Or Prison?
How Come I'm Different?
Why Am I Different?
Is This Really Me?
Didn't I Always Used To be Happy?
What's Happened To My Life?
I Didn't Ask To Be Depressed, Why Me?
I Only Wanted To Be A Normal Teenager!
I Used To Sing, Now I Only Cry
I Loved To Dance, Just Too Much Effort!
Where Are My Friends, My True Friends
Not Those Who Blank & Avoid Me
Mum Just Shakes Her Head & Sighs
Then Retorts She'll Grow Out Of It
I Used To Be A Daddy's Girl.
Now He's Scared By My Outbursts
Ok So I Don't Shower Every Day
It's Just Too Much Effort These Days
My Nails Once My Pride & Joy
Are Now Broken, Just Like My Heart!
I Count The Cuts on My Arms
Two More Than Yesterday
Must Be Self Cutting In my Sleep?
Must Keep Then Covered In Front of Mum
Who Cares? I used To!
Who cares Now? Nobody Does!
It's Just Me & My Depression!
Somebody, Anybody, I Just Need To Talk!
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Oath
Just wanna put this out from my own experience to add to no. 6. I put on a happy face and high energy in general around others unless around them for a good while. Though now it's like that high energy is the norm for me despite me never having that norm. People just expect it now. Nothing is wrong with the info but s an additional bit please understand that even if someone seems happy they might be overly happy trying to be normal. I usually stay quiet in public and despite being known as a hyper, energetic, introvert that is fun to be around and friendly and caring nobody really knows that I have MDD. Anyone can have depression and it's something that I want to help let others know my own experiences with.
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Just wanna put this out from my own experience to add to no. 6. I put on a happy face and high energy in general around others unless around them for a good while. Though now it's like that high energy is the norm for me despite me never having that norm. People just expect it now. Nothing is wrong with the info but s an additional bit please understand that even if someone seems happy they might be overly happy trying to be normal. I usually stay quiet in public and despite being known as a hyper, energetic, introvert that is fun to be around and friendly and caring nobody really knows that I have MDD. Anyone can have depression and it's something that I want to help let others know my own experiences with.
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Juice
I live in the UK. I have a friend in America. We play call of duty together. She messaged me one day saying she felt like she was being left out and that certain people didnt like her anymore. It crushed me. Tears started flooding that she was feeling that way. So i messaged all the people in our clan and told them how Haley was feeling and could they message her to show some love. But i told them to make sure they dont tell her i said anything, so that it feels more genuine. And it worked. She sounds so happy now. Im very protective over her now. I never want her to feel like that again. Imagine a Call of Duty clan cleansing someones depression. well its happened.
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I live in the UK. I have a friend in America. We play call of duty together. She messaged me one day saying she felt like she was being left out and that certain people didnt like her anymore. It crushed me. Tears started flooding that she was feeling that way. So i messaged all the people in our clan and told them how Haley was feeling and could they message her to show some love. But i told them to make sure they dont tell her i said anything, so that it feels more genuine. And it worked. She sounds so happy now. Im very protective over her now. I never want her to feel like that again. Imagine a Call of Duty clan cleansing someones depression. well its happened.
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May
My bestie said she cried during 2nd period then she cried during lunch and 3rd period shes been so sad and distant she said everyone hates her and has like no energy and said Im the only one who cares she even asked would you care if I died? And ofc I said yes she said she hasnt eaten in day she seems so depressed and Im worried for her I dont want her to starve herself because I have seen things where depressed people start cutting them selfs being suicidal and either recovering from that dark time or going through with it and I hope she isnt sucidal and gets the help she deserves and becomes her normal enegerqzed self that I miss
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My bestie said she cried during 2nd period then she cried during lunch and 3rd period shes been so sad and distant she said everyone hates her and has like no energy and said Im the only one who cares she even asked would you care if I died? And ofc I said yes she said she hasnt eaten in day she seems so depressed and Im worried for her I dont want her to starve herself because I have seen things where depressed people start cutting them selfs being suicidal and either recovering from that dark time or going through with it and I hope she isnt sucidal and gets the help she deserves and becomes her normal enegerqzed self that I miss
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Blackmagik
I found out that one of my friends in online games that are very depressed before we met and became friends. Her big sister said to me that I am the only one that makes her smile and happy. I really like to help people from being trapped in darkness or in short I am the light of happiness for her. Her childhood is even worse than mine because she have bullies in Germany for like 50 of them, that she cried all day.
Here I summarised:
She just want to have good friends that makes her happy.
I'm just happy what I've done to her because I didn't expected that I actually helped someone ONLINE.
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I found out that one of my friends in online games that are very depressed before we met and became friends. Her big sister said to me that I am the only one that makes her smile and happy. I really like to help people from being trapped in darkness or in short I am the light of happiness for her. Her childhood is even worse than mine because she have bullies in Germany for like 50 of them, that she cried all day.
Here I summarised:
She just want to have good friends that makes her happy.
I'm just happy what I've done to her because I didn't expected that I actually helped someone ONLINE.
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yo
i wanna ask smth-
my friend. more like a classmate. we dont talk or text but she always seem off
she is a very cheerful person, popular too.
but she is always sleepy and zoning off even during test. she once took off her sweater and there were many scars on her arm. her skirt unbutton at the bottom (she wore shorts so its alr- not that i am a pervert or anything-) i notice it since i sat right behind her there were very many scars around her thigh. i would complement her from time to time since she is very sweet.
i wondered if these are a sign of depression or abuse.
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i wanna ask smth-
my friend. more like a classmate. we dont talk or text but she always seem off
she is a very cheerful person, popular too.
but she is always sleepy and zoning off even during test. she once took off her sweater and there were many scars on her arm. her skirt unbutton at the bottom (she wore shorts so its alr- not that i am a pervert or anything-) i notice it since i sat right behind her there were very many scars around her thigh. i would complement her from time to time since she is very sweet.
i wondered if these are a sign of depression or abuse.
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Purple
I want to have a friend who understands me and my depression but every time I try to open up none of them seem to understand since I am always so happy and that I am the therapist friend, idk what to do, Ive just been trying to find any solutions that might work and at this point Im even trying to lucid dream to make my own friend that way, I just dont know what Im supposed to do so I wrote this comment to see if anyone had any suggestions? Also if you got to this part thank you for taking the time to read all of this and I hope you have a good day!
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I want to have a friend who understands me and my depression but every time I try to open up none of them seem to understand since I am always so happy and that I am the therapist friend, idk what to do, Ive just been trying to find any solutions that might work and at this point Im even trying to lucid dream to make my own friend that way, I just dont know what Im supposed to do so I wrote this comment to see if anyone had any suggestions? Also if you got to this part thank you for taking the time to read all of this and I hope you have a good day!
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The
I have a friend and I one day asked her what she would do if one of her friends got diagnosed with a mental condition. She told me that it depends on what mental condition it is, so she then told me that if one of her friends had depression she said she wouldn't care so much because she thinks almost everyone has it. So I figured it could be possible that she has depression. So now I'm thinking of ways to prove she has it and what to do about it. She also has seemed really out of character, so when she said that I figured this could be possible.
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I have a friend and I one day asked her what she would do if one of her friends got diagnosed with a mental condition. She told me that it depends on what mental condition it is, so she then told me that if one of her friends had depression she said she wouldn't care so much because she thinks almost everyone has it. So I figured it could be possible that she has depression. So now I'm thinking of ways to prove she has it and what to do about it. She also has seemed really out of character, so when she said that I figured this could be possible.
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shock
my friend said she's depressed. she's never seen a doctor but she took some depression test and it shows severe. she doesn't do anything the video states but she always says she's depressed. i told her to go see a doctor, what was i supposed to say? was i supposed to say it's just puberty and will probably pass? was i supposed to say don't worry it'll be alright, remember i care for you. help me pls i'm inexperienced with these stuff
btw i believe her that she's depressed so please help me what can i do fir her
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my friend said she's depressed. she's never seen a doctor but she took some depression test and it shows severe. she doesn't do anything the video states but she always says she's depressed. i told her to go see a doctor, what was i supposed to say? was i supposed to say it's just puberty and will probably pass? was i supposed to say don't worry it'll be alright, remember i care for you. help me pls i'm inexperienced with these stuff
btw i believe her that she's depressed so please help me what can i do fir her
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Cheshire
I feel like my friend is depressed
She told me few days back that she is feeling depressed and all, she is like, she always want to call, but I'm not a person who's that comfortable with calls and face times but also people around me kinda don't like me talking, and and also there's study and syllabus pressure now, so I don't get much time
Now she is ignoring texts and my another friend called her and she said that she had a long face during the face time
Now i don't know what to do
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I feel like my friend is depressed
She told me few days back that she is feeling depressed and all, she is like, she always want to call, but I'm not a person who's that comfortable with calls and face times but also people around me kinda don't like me talking, and and also there's study and syllabus pressure now, so I don't get much time
Now she is ignoring texts and my another friend called her and she said that she had a long face during the face time
Now i don't know what to do
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Shut
Hey, if you think your friend doesn't care about you being depressed well hear me out. Blaming your friends because they are heartless, doesn't care, make fun of you doesn't mean that they don't care. They must be not aware about depression and how it truly works. I was once not aware of it but when my friend educated me about it I was fully concerned and did everything to comfort that friend.
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Hey, if you think your friend doesn't care about you being depressed well hear me out. Blaming your friends because they are heartless, doesn't care, make fun of you doesn't mean that they don't care. They must be not aware about depression and how it truly works. I was once not aware of it but when my friend educated me about it I was fully concerned and did everything to comfort that friend.
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Otsugya
when your childhood is based on just moving out of town and ending up locking yourself in with no one to talk about and when you finally get someone you realize you can't care anymore about the importance they have on you
I probably have severe depression where I end up cutting myself into crises to get distracted from it, and I end up not looking for help because I can't get it.
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when your childhood is based on just moving out of town and ending up locking yourself in with no one to talk about and when you finally get someone you realize you can't care anymore about the importance they have on you
I probably have severe depression where I end up cutting myself into crises to get distracted from it, and I end up not looking for help because I can't get it.
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Michaela
I have a friend who has deppression and displays some of these symptoms but she is only irritable around me and she sometimes doesn't answer me when I speak with her but with others she at least acknowledges them and talks to them. I dont know if she isnt talking to me because of her depression but its making me really sad that she doesnt talk to me when it gets bad
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I have a friend who has deppression and displays some of these symptoms but she is only irritable around me and she sometimes doesn't answer me when I speak with her but with others she at least acknowledges them and talks to them. I dont know if she isnt talking to me because of her depression but its making me really sad that she doesnt talk to me when it gets bad
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Raymond
The problem is, when I tell someone why I feel how I feel, they often respond with something along the lines of is not that bad. I've been through worse or I know people who have had it worse, things of that nature, essentially trying to belittle that which is bothering you, as if that was helpful.
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The problem is, when I tell someone why I feel how I feel, they often respond with something along the lines of is not that bad. I've been through worse or I know people who have had it worse, things of that nature, essentially trying to belittle that which is bothering you, as if that was helpful.
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Jayana
My bestie is suffering from them but he just behaved so badly with me and I even cried because of his behaviour I want to leave him after today but he is really suffering from something I just cant leave him too but he hurted me what should I doo Im also getting depressed because of him
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My bestie is suffering from them but he just behaved so badly with me and I even cried because of his behaviour I want to leave him after today but he is really suffering from something I just cant leave him too but he hurted me what should I doo Im also getting depressed because of him
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Spektrum
Please i really need to know if we can apply these signs to a boy / girlfriend!
For example the 1st sign at 0: 33. is it normal that a girl who loved you a lot, could start to ignore you suddenly after she bacamed depressed?
Need someone to ansewer PLEASE! I Love You all.
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Please i really need to know if we can apply these signs to a boy / girlfriend!
For example the 1st sign at 0: 33. is it normal that a girl who loved you a lot, could start to ignore you suddenly after she bacamed depressed?
Need someone to ansewer PLEASE! I Love You all.
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Doctor
Imagine thinking friends stick by you with Depression. Imagine thinking that if one has Depression, they can actually talk with someone who can save them from drowning in their own mind. Video is nice on paper but not in real life. Lost all of my friends of 26 plus years. F people.
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Imagine thinking friends stick by you with Depression. Imagine thinking that if one has Depression, they can actually talk with someone who can save them from drowning in their own mind. Video is nice on paper but not in real life. Lost all of my friends of 26 plus years. F people.
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Mattexe
I have a friend with depression I met him 10 years ago, I'm really worried because he didn't talk me in 7 months! usually he took two or three weeks but this is too much! and he recently talked to me yesterday.
I would like to know what to do, because sometimes he gets blue.
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I have a friend with depression I met him 10 years ago, I'm really worried because he didn't talk me in 7 months! usually he took two or three weeks but this is too much! and he recently talked to me yesterday.
I would like to know what to do, because sometimes he gets blue.
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BDOKE
Im here because of my best friend. Im really worried abt her, she doesnt reply to our messages, and she doesnt talk to us that much. She used to always chat, and she was the most energetic one. i dont know if she is depressed or if she just doesnt want to talk to us.
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Im here because of my best friend. Im really worried abt her, she doesnt reply to our messages, and she doesnt talk to us that much. She used to always chat, and she was the most energetic one. i dont know if she is depressed or if she just doesnt want to talk to us.
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tashka
My friend doesn't like talking about their feelings and cover it up with jokes alot, but I'm genuinely worried for them. They also seem constantly mad at me even though there's nothing to be mad at me about. How do I help them?
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My friend doesn't like talking about their feelings and cover it up with jokes alot, but I'm genuinely worried for them. They also seem constantly mad at me even though there's nothing to be mad at me about. How do I help them?
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Maria
I don't have depression but i act like this and I'm scared I'm being toxic to my friends, i don't want to hurt them, I'm just scared that me being so irritable and upset all the time will make them feel worse.
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I don't have depression but i act like this and I'm scared I'm being toxic to my friends, i don't want to hurt them, I'm just scared that me being so irritable and upset all the time will make them feel worse.
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wukong
My friend and me usually talk all day and stuff help each other with homework and now they just ignore my text on this app but they said they just dont play the app as much so I'm relived to hear that
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My friend and me usually talk all day and stuff help each other with homework and now they just ignore my text on this app but they said they just dont play the app as much so I'm relived to hear that
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right
I hate being around people, it might depressed as socials, I a t, I don't not talk to new people and silent all the time, otherwise I'm so sleepy, I hardly sleep though what am I
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I hate being around people, it might depressed as socials, I a t, I don't not talk to new people and silent all the time, otherwise I'm so sleepy, I hardly sleep though what am I
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Justin
Many of my friends know that I'm depressed suicidal. I didn't tell anyone else except for these friends but every single one of them Didn't really care. Idk what to do anymore
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Many of my friends know that I'm depressed suicidal. I didn't tell anyone else except for these friends but every single one of them Didn't really care. Idk what to do anymore
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