8 Signs You're With a Toxic Person
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Radbiker33357
Makes me pretty sad that my last relationship pretty much checked all of these boxes but because she had BPD. First few months were heaven and the love given was indescribable- even throughout the 2 years it was indescribable- but the anger lashouts and gaslighting and manipulation that Shed use around me was SO emotionally draining. She was hardly satisfied, very belittling, and emotionally and physically abusive. Shed punch the crap out of me when Id be driving the car over an argument SHE started and plenty of times Id try to help her with cooking but she gave the nastiest attitude and would say Just stop Ill do it myself you cant even do it right.
It honestly sucks because if it wasnt for the emotionally damaging rollercoasters shed go through, I think wed be married already. She was honestly perfect in every way, exactly like me and we just understood each other. The love she gave on her off days was the truest and purest form of love Ive experienced (selfless, caring, emotionally there for me, physically there for me, a shoulder to cry on, etc.
She never got diagnosed, but I just know it and feel it in my gut that this is the cause, because her anger lashouts, fear of abandonment, dissociativeness (shed black out when shed get mad, suicidal thoughts, and abusive childhood upbringing line up with BPD. And their tendency to be obsessive and lovebombing in the early stages to keep you tied to them, but then self destructive months later.
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Makes me pretty sad that my last relationship pretty much checked all of these boxes but because she had BPD. First few months were heaven and the love given was indescribable- even throughout the 2 years it was indescribable- but the anger lashouts and gaslighting and manipulation that Shed use around me was SO emotionally draining. She was hardly satisfied, very belittling, and emotionally and physically abusive. Shed punch the crap out of me when Id be driving the car over an argument SHE started and plenty of times Id try to help her with cooking but she gave the nastiest attitude and would say Just stop Ill do it myself you cant even do it right.
It honestly sucks because if it wasnt for the emotionally damaging rollercoasters shed go through, I think wed be married already. She was honestly perfect in every way, exactly like me and we just understood each other. The love she gave on her off days was the truest and purest form of love Ive experienced (selfless, caring, emotionally there for me, physically there for me, a shoulder to cry on, etc.
She never got diagnosed, but I just know it and feel it in my gut that this is the cause, because her anger lashouts, fear of abandonment, dissociativeness (shed black out when shed get mad, suicidal thoughts, and abusive childhood upbringing line up with BPD. And their tendency to be obsessive and lovebombing in the early stages to keep you tied to them, but then self destructive months later.
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Chris
What if I feel that I acted in the ways that this video described, but it was due to my mental health? I had no intention of being toxic in my first and only relationship but I feel that I may have been viewed as toxic even though I only had good intentions. I did all I could to be a great person but I had so much going on in my life that I broke down and developed depression in the relationship. That led me to appear as toxic and my ex did all she could to try and help me but I couldnt help myself. I was not toxic by nature but by circumstance. I have never been diagnosed with OCD but it affects me. More in the sense of Pure OCD. It is not as bad as most people have it but it still ruins my days a lot of the time. That is what led me to become toxic. That and the depression. Has anyone else ever felt that way?
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What if I feel that I acted in the ways that this video described, but it was due to my mental health? I had no intention of being toxic in my first and only relationship but I feel that I may have been viewed as toxic even though I only had good intentions. I did all I could to be a great person but I had so much going on in my life that I broke down and developed depression in the relationship. That led me to appear as toxic and my ex did all she could to try and help me but I couldnt help myself. I was not toxic by nature but by circumstance. I have never been diagnosed with OCD but it affects me. More in the sense of Pure OCD. It is not as bad as most people have it but it still ruins my days a lot of the time. That is what led me to become toxic. That and the depression. Has anyone else ever felt that way?
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Natha
I'm not completely sure if my bf is toxic, but there're some things that make me think of it from time to time. We started dating like 3 months ago. He was really angry once when he thought that I ignored him on social media (I wasn't answering for an hour or so, bc I've been busy but he saw that I was online) he called be bad things, but the next day he apologized and we moved on though I really got stressed out after that but I still decided to try. After that he was kinda normal, except for some out of nowhere jealousy problem. Recently I noticed that he likes to make fun of my light eyebrows which okay, it was funny for the first time but I got tired of hearing things like: where have you brows gone) 0)
Perhaps this is toxic behavior covered by humour idk
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I'm not completely sure if my bf is toxic, but there're some things that make me think of it from time to time. We started dating like 3 months ago. He was really angry once when he thought that I ignored him on social media (I wasn't answering for an hour or so, bc I've been busy but he saw that I was online) he called be bad things, but the next day he apologized and we moved on though I really got stressed out after that but I still decided to try. After that he was kinda normal, except for some out of nowhere jealousy problem. Recently I noticed that he likes to make fun of my light eyebrows which okay, it was funny for the first time but I got tired of hearing things like: where have you brows gone) 0)
Perhaps this is toxic behavior covered by humour idk
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Rosette
What if they have these toxic traits but with also very good qualities? For example they publicly mock you or back mouth you infront of others or makes fun of you but the next day they become supportive and affectionate. Or they rage at you and call you names when you confront them but at the same time they work to give you what you need. Or when you say things that hurt them and they result in hurting you back by humiliating you as a sign of punishment but the next day give you gift and becomes friendly again. Is it a sign of toxicity also? or those it means that you need to give them second chances? Especially if these people use their good qualities against you to make you guilty for blaming them.
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What if they have these toxic traits but with also very good qualities? For example they publicly mock you or back mouth you infront of others or makes fun of you but the next day they become supportive and affectionate. Or they rage at you and call you names when you confront them but at the same time they work to give you what you need. Or when you say things that hurt them and they result in hurting you back by humiliating you as a sign of punishment but the next day give you gift and becomes friendly again. Is it a sign of toxicity also? or those it means that you need to give them second chances? Especially if these people use their good qualities against you to make you guilty for blaming them.
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ItsinRiots
This is me low-key but I feel like it's all reactive abuse, like I'm only doing what he's doing back to me even though I know revenge is not ok. I feel like he calls me out but never his own behaviour. It's a hard path to take when they bring literally every single person that crosses our paths and always tells them how I get and the things I do to annoy him. 8 years and now my physical health is affected and I'm only 27. He is literally pushing me to my death bed and when I am truly sick he won't be there till everyone notices and then when that happens he will pretend to show he cares but 8 years is enough to show he never gave 2 fruks.
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This is me low-key but I feel like it's all reactive abuse, like I'm only doing what he's doing back to me even though I know revenge is not ok. I feel like he calls me out but never his own behaviour. It's a hard path to take when they bring literally every single person that crosses our paths and always tells them how I get and the things I do to annoy him. 8 years and now my physical health is affected and I'm only 27. He is literally pushing me to my death bed and when I am truly sick he won't be there till everyone notices and then when that happens he will pretend to show he cares but 8 years is enough to show he never gave 2 fruks.
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PJ
3, 6, and 7. Especially 7, was my ex. Manipulate, take things out on me, bring me down. My ex would tell me how unfair her life was for hours a day. I tried to cheer her up and show her how amazing she was. She'd just tell me I wasn't validating her feelings and get mad at me. She just ghosted me after 5 years after she found out her college TA she was crushing on HARD was attracted to her too. It hurts so bad. I poured everything I had into her. got nothing in return. I'm alone now.
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3, 6, and 7. Especially 7, was my ex. Manipulate, take things out on me, bring me down. My ex would tell me how unfair her life was for hours a day. I tried to cheer her up and show her how amazing she was. She'd just tell me I wasn't validating her feelings and get mad at me. She just ghosted me after 5 years after she found out her college TA she was crushing on HARD was attracted to her too. It hurts so bad. I poured everything I had into her. got nothing in return. I'm alone now.
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Lucia
Toxic people is like Dangerous wild animals. Reason why, wild animals are so nice when were watching by the TV shows or live movie like You Tube, but, we dont have to touch them with No Knowledge. Thats Toxic people. They Force to the other people their something Creepy Rules by their Negative mind. Wild animals have their rules, dont they? Same thing. And, I leave from Toxic people and wild animals, I wish, I could.
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Toxic people is like Dangerous wild animals. Reason why, wild animals are so nice when were watching by the TV shows or live movie like You Tube, but, we dont have to touch them with No Knowledge. Thats Toxic people. They Force to the other people their something Creepy Rules by their Negative mind. Wild animals have their rules, dont they? Same thing. And, I leave from Toxic people and wild animals, I wish, I could.
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Tiffany
I had female platonic coworker who love-bombed me into becoming her best friend. Just a couple months later, she turned toxic. Tried to guilt me because I wanted to see my family and the few other friends I had.
She ended up getting fired, moving several states away and dove into QAnon.
I dodged the proverbial bullet with her getting fired.
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I had female platonic coworker who love-bombed me into becoming her best friend. Just a couple months later, she turned toxic. Tried to guilt me because I wanted to see my family and the few other friends I had.
She ended up getting fired, moving several states away and dove into QAnon.
I dodged the proverbial bullet with her getting fired.
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OnyxTh3Ripper
I got out of a toxic relationship only about a day or two ago.
It hurts but venting is the only way you can tell someone everything.
Just scream it if you want.
It helps. Cry. Punch something. Sleep.
It's okay. It's better to seem angry and sad then to hide your feelings, like I did for almost six years.
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I got out of a toxic relationship only about a day or two ago.
It hurts but venting is the only way you can tell someone everything.
Just scream it if you want.
It helps. Cry. Punch something. Sleep.
It's okay. It's better to seem angry and sad then to hide your feelings, like I did for almost six years.
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Monika
Probably unpopular opinion, but I like this content, but really, really hate the way she speaks. Sometimes she speaks normally, but most of the time, especially in the beggings it's soo uncomfortable to hear this slow, half-whispering. I can't take the content seriously and it takes time to adjust and try to ignore it.
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Probably unpopular opinion, but I like this content, but really, really hate the way she speaks. Sometimes she speaks normally, but most of the time, especially in the beggings it's soo uncomfortable to hear this slow, half-whispering. I can't take the content seriously and it takes time to adjust and try to ignore it.
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Jeffrey
You're missing someone who's toxic and only brings you heartache. They drain every ounce of your happiness whenever they're around you. They toy with your emotions because they know they'll get away with it. So, no matter how much you feel the need to speak to them, don't. You're worth so much.
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You're missing someone who's toxic and only brings you heartache. They drain every ounce of your happiness whenever they're around you. They toy with your emotions because they know they'll get away with it. So, no matter how much you feel the need to speak to them, don't. You're worth so much.
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water
My brother is toxic. He is always trying to make deals with me that he doesnt even really listen to. Like if you play 30 minutes of this with me i will play this with you or something. He also doesnt listen to me at all. Also he thinks hes the boss of me and tries to make me do stuff for him
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My brother is toxic. He is always trying to make deals with me that he doesnt even really listen to. Like if you play 30 minutes of this with me i will play this with you or something. He also doesnt listen to me at all. Also he thinks hes the boss of me and tries to make me do stuff for him
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flynn! s. g0ne
Ex partner: you should wear this so I can take it off easy; ) (underage) you should only talk to me! (i have more friends now than I have ever had now that we broke up)
Also them: HOW ABOUT WE HAVE A POLY RELATIONSHIP TOTALLY JUST NOT SO I CAN HURT THEM TOO AND GET RID OF YOU
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Ex partner: you should wear this so I can take it off easy; ) (underage) you should only talk to me! (i have more friends now than I have ever had now that we broke up)
Also them: HOW ABOUT WE HAVE A POLY RELATIONSHIP TOTALLY JUST NOT SO I CAN HURT THEM TOO AND GET RID OF YOU
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Spiral_Down
My friend was doing numbers 1, 2, and 8 even before I gave him constructive criticism and he called me sensitive, told me to calm down, and blocked me. Just want to let everyone know that this type of behavior can also happen with friends or even family. Stay safe out there folks
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My friend was doing numbers 1, 2, and 8 even before I gave him constructive criticism and he called me sensitive, told me to calm down, and blocked me. Just want to let everyone know that this type of behavior can also happen with friends or even family. Stay safe out there folks
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Betsy
9they always make extreme threats against u &or others10they totally ruin your reputation11they monitor everyting u say &do &with whom u associate12they totally isolate u all the way13they try doing harm to u &or others14they enjoy &brag bout watching u &or others suffer to no end.
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9they always make extreme threats against u &or others10they totally ruin your reputation11they monitor everyting u say &do &with whom u associate12they totally isolate u all the way13they try doing harm to u &or others14they enjoy &brag bout watching u &or others suffer to no end.
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Tessa
It's too hard to watch the toxic one being portrayed as evil in the video to realise that some people don't do it on purpose, I realised that I portrayed some of these things in my own relationship and I'm trying to better myself and improve my own self esteem
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It's too hard to watch the toxic one being portrayed as evil in the video to realise that some people don't do it on purpose, I realised that I portrayed some of these things in my own relationship and I'm trying to better myself and improve my own self esteem
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UkeleleKid
Thank you guys for making this video it is so helpful for people. I just go out of a toxic relationship with a girl that slowly turned to physically abusive. You guys are amazing! Keep doing this amazing work!
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Thank you guys for making this video it is so helpful for people. I just go out of a toxic relationship with a girl that slowly turned to physically abusive. You guys are amazing! Keep doing this amazing work!
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esigx
The reason why I'm here is not because of my partner but me. I know I'm the toxic one in our relationship due to my insecurities. And here I am trying to make it right in every possible way I could
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The reason why I'm here is not because of my partner but me. I know I'm the toxic one in our relationship due to my insecurities. And here I am trying to make it right in every possible way I could
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Dm
Thank you so much for the help sir ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face boom you have done a wonderful job for bring my relationship back to a sweet and romantic relationship am so happy sir.
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Thank you so much for the help sir ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face boom you have done a wonderful job for bring my relationship back to a sweet and romantic relationship am so happy sir.
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Dm
Thank you so much for the help sir ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face boom you have done a wonderful job for bring my relationship back to a sweet and romantic relationship am so happy sir.
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Thank you so much for the help sir ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face boom you have done a wonderful job for bring my relationship back to a sweet and romantic relationship am so happy sir.
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KNUCKLEHEADPUNX
Another example of manipulative behavior is empty promises. Saying one thing but doing another. Consistantly getting your hopes up to let you down. Emotional roller coaster
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Another example of manipulative behavior is empty promises. Saying one thing but doing another. Consistantly getting your hopes up to let you down. Emotional roller coaster
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Sekhar
I was literally proposed yesterday in front of my friends and today I found out that boy was pulling a prank on me and I even said yes and I was embarrassed in front of my friends
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I was literally proposed yesterday in front of my friends and today I found out that boy was pulling a prank on me and I even said yes and I was embarrassed in front of my friends
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Yoooo
Early on my girl use to joke if I did something she didnt like shed say do you want to go back to the cage thought it was funny at first but I think thats how she really feels man
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Early on my girl use to joke if I did something she didnt like shed say do you want to go back to the cage thought it was funny at first but I think thats how she really feels man
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Mark
I Never believe all this spell of a thing but I came to discover ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face book who give me the tips to use and my relationship was stronger than ever.
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I Never believe all this spell of a thing but I came to discover ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face book who give me the tips to use and my relationship was stronger than ever.
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Jiro
I really struggle at the moment. I love her very much, but she's pretty toxic. She's also struggling with herself and it has a really negative impact on the relationship.
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I really struggle at the moment. I love her very much, but she's pretty toxic. She's also struggling with herself and it has a really negative impact on the relationship.
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