Watch This If You Feel Unlovable!
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Tony
Im 19 and last year I dropped out of highschool in my last year because I stopped going to school when I got into smoking weed and I was dropped out then I got my ged instead in December and I have been alone ever since I got cut off from school Ive tried reaching out to all my friends theyve all cut me off and ignored me so I smoked the pain away for a year but it didnt make the pain go away Ive been sober now for almost 2 weeks dealing with my depression without numbing it and Im gonna try to join college and see if I can make friends even though I might fail because even though Im an introvert I do like being included and social with people and making friends and hanging out with them is what makes my day all the time since I was a kid even if my shyness doesnt show it and Im the first one to go to college and graduate with a ged at least in my family so Im lost and my familys poor so I wasnt fortunate enough to have a car like a gift like most other kids I see in social media but Im trying to find jobs but a lot of them havent been for me and I hate it because I want to get a job and get a car and grow my independence and become useful with being able to drive and I dont even know how to drive because my parents always come out of work tired and asleep to teach me so its hard for me in my life right now and I do wanna try still and keep trying because I know my hopelessness wont go away til I do something about it
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Im 19 and last year I dropped out of highschool in my last year because I stopped going to school when I got into smoking weed and I was dropped out then I got my ged instead in December and I have been alone ever since I got cut off from school Ive tried reaching out to all my friends theyve all cut me off and ignored me so I smoked the pain away for a year but it didnt make the pain go away Ive been sober now for almost 2 weeks dealing with my depression without numbing it and Im gonna try to join college and see if I can make friends even though I might fail because even though Im an introvert I do like being included and social with people and making friends and hanging out with them is what makes my day all the time since I was a kid even if my shyness doesnt show it and Im the first one to go to college and graduate with a ged at least in my family so Im lost and my familys poor so I wasnt fortunate enough to have a car like a gift like most other kids I see in social media but Im trying to find jobs but a lot of them havent been for me and I hate it because I want to get a job and get a car and grow my independence and become useful with being able to drive and I dont even know how to drive because my parents always come out of work tired and asleep to teach me so its hard for me in my life right now and I do wanna try still and keep trying because I know my hopelessness wont go away til I do something about it
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captain
See, I'm going to turn 14 this year. The fact I got depression from not being liked by someone and people ignoring me for no reason really sucks and honestly nobody should go through it. There are times where I feel happy that I am liked by others, but most of the time I always feel like I've been treated differently both in a good way or a bad way by some people. I don't know why such a thing makes me cry 5 or 6 times a day. And it's worse when someone you like or even love just ignores you and doesn't treat you well but you treat them with the love and support you have for them. It just breaks my heart, like why? I always think this, Am I not likable? I've always asked myself this, like almost everyday, just because someone I love, leaves me out, ignores me, or just doesn't talk to me at all. Even though, I still never wanted to change my personality, because I know I'm not a rude person, I'm not a bad person either, I never did anything to them some people are just unfair.
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See, I'm going to turn 14 this year. The fact I got depression from not being liked by someone and people ignoring me for no reason really sucks and honestly nobody should go through it. There are times where I feel happy that I am liked by others, but most of the time I always feel like I've been treated differently both in a good way or a bad way by some people. I don't know why such a thing makes me cry 5 or 6 times a day. And it's worse when someone you like or even love just ignores you and doesn't treat you well but you treat them with the love and support you have for them. It just breaks my heart, like why? I always think this, Am I not likable? I've always asked myself this, like almost everyday, just because someone I love, leaves me out, ignores me, or just doesn't talk to me at all. Even though, I still never wanted to change my personality, because I know I'm not a rude person, I'm not a bad person either, I never did anything to them some people are just unfair.
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Mirage
I met someone who Im deeply in love with for nearly 3 years now and yeah, she knows, she knew because I admitted my feelings 2 months after we met, we connect well and trust each other greatly but she only considers me a friend and despite that I wont give up despite wanting to.
Shes dated 2 times since we met, they were both completely terrible guys and yet she isnt even going to try and give a chance to a guy who she had feelings for on multiple occasions, and I know she has because she admitted it too but then whoops, I changed my mind, lets be friends I never dated before but that doesnt mean I dont take it seriously, shed never see me again if I didnt care so much but lately, Im giving up hope as I shouldve long ago, but will probably never meet another woman I connect with like I did with her
all I feel anymore is loneliness, its all Ive ever known
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I met someone who Im deeply in love with for nearly 3 years now and yeah, she knows, she knew because I admitted my feelings 2 months after we met, we connect well and trust each other greatly but she only considers me a friend and despite that I wont give up despite wanting to.
Shes dated 2 times since we met, they were both completely terrible guys and yet she isnt even going to try and give a chance to a guy who she had feelings for on multiple occasions, and I know she has because she admitted it too but then whoops, I changed my mind, lets be friends I never dated before but that doesnt mean I dont take it seriously, shed never see me again if I didnt care so much but lately, Im giving up hope as I shouldve long ago, but will probably never meet another woman I connect with like I did with her
all I feel anymore is loneliness, its all Ive ever known
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RemmyBoy
I know this is a really old video but. due to alot of childhood trauma, being made to feel like my interests weren't worthy, feeling betrayed by my mother, and plenty of other specific things. And more recently I had a girlfriend who used my insecurity against me in some cruel game, I am not sure what her reasons were but I am glad I had the strength to cut her off. I struggle immensely with this exact thing. I had kind of worded it as not trusting someone to love me back to myself, and to my current girlfriend. She had the misfortune of catching that distrust. But she is wonderful and wants to help me work through it because she sees the best me and wants me to see it. I love that woman! And I am well into learning to let her love me back
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I know this is a really old video but. due to alot of childhood trauma, being made to feel like my interests weren't worthy, feeling betrayed by my mother, and plenty of other specific things. And more recently I had a girlfriend who used my insecurity against me in some cruel game, I am not sure what her reasons were but I am glad I had the strength to cut her off. I struggle immensely with this exact thing. I had kind of worded it as not trusting someone to love me back to myself, and to my current girlfriend. She had the misfortune of catching that distrust. But she is wonderful and wants to help me work through it because she sees the best me and wants me to see it. I love that woman! And I am well into learning to let her love me back
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Tywan
I often wondered why I always felt like I was unwanted or appreciated anywhere. I tried to have a relationship with someone many times over the years, but it never seemed to last long. It made me question my purpose in life, in fact, my very existence. Perhaps thats why I decided to go abroad to find someone who can appreciate me for who I am. Ive found that person, in fact many women who have been in a similar situation, if not worse! This makes me think that perhaps the world has changed, not me. The world can and always will be a cold and lonely place if not completely cruel. This opens up a completely different perspective for me, and only causes me to shield myself from most people at all times.
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I often wondered why I always felt like I was unwanted or appreciated anywhere. I tried to have a relationship with someone many times over the years, but it never seemed to last long. It made me question my purpose in life, in fact, my very existence. Perhaps thats why I decided to go abroad to find someone who can appreciate me for who I am. Ive found that person, in fact many women who have been in a similar situation, if not worse! This makes me think that perhaps the world has changed, not me. The world can and always will be a cold and lonely place if not completely cruel. This opens up a completely different perspective for me, and only causes me to shield myself from most people at all times.
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Taij
Thank you for this. I was in the start of a panic attack feeling alone and lonely from a bad break up where he said some things and a lot of stuff in my life has just been making me feel worthless like all my efforts and work have been for nothing just to be still stuck in the same situation for years. I struggle with self-deletion tendencies and have been really really working on myself or at least trying to but its hard to keep going when you feel alone and no progress, I searched for anything on the Internet to curb the bad thoughts and stop the cry and listening to this really did help a bit.
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Thank you for this. I was in the start of a panic attack feeling alone and lonely from a bad break up where he said some things and a lot of stuff in my life has just been making me feel worthless like all my efforts and work have been for nothing just to be still stuck in the same situation for years. I struggle with self-deletion tendencies and have been really really working on myself or at least trying to but its hard to keep going when you feel alone and no progress, I searched for anything on the Internet to curb the bad thoughts and stop the cry and listening to this really did help a bit.
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-ZakattacK-
I know I'm loved but I'll never be loved the way i want to be, Romantically. I'm making great strides in my life but sometimes I just wish there was an off button and I could be done with the great burdens of my life, Society and People as a whole. They'll never accept me completely and it's all too evident now when a big life event or accomplishment happens to a family member, etc and I'm sill stuck in square one because my life is a fing JOKE! How could I not be envious when everyone has everything and I have nothing? I just wish some of that shine would come my way.
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I know I'm loved but I'll never be loved the way i want to be, Romantically. I'm making great strides in my life but sometimes I just wish there was an off button and I could be done with the great burdens of my life, Society and People as a whole. They'll never accept me completely and it's all too evident now when a big life event or accomplishment happens to a family member, etc and I'm sill stuck in square one because my life is a fing JOKE! How could I not be envious when everyone has everything and I have nothing? I just wish some of that shine would come my way.
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Lilacx
Thank you, the last point brought me to tears here 20 years old and at work. I had been feeling so down, everytime someone left me out wondering what's wrong with me and dissecting every part of myself. Convincing myself I deserved getting yelled at and deserved abuse from my dad. Thinking I deserved to get bullied for being quiet and trying to fix myself by putting myself down and feeling completely useless. The last point meant alot and changed the way I think about all these things.
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Thank you, the last point brought me to tears here 20 years old and at work. I had been feeling so down, everytime someone left me out wondering what's wrong with me and dissecting every part of myself. Convincing myself I deserved getting yelled at and deserved abuse from my dad. Thinking I deserved to get bullied for being quiet and trying to fix myself by putting myself down and feeling completely useless. The last point meant alot and changed the way I think about all these things.
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just
its like i am the only one to reach out to ppl no one reaches me out first, once in a blue moon when they do its only for personal gain or curiousity which lasts for a few days and then its back to square one. Even my own family finds me disgusting, which pushes me more to self degradation because no matter what I do I need to be someone else to satisfy them which doesnt sit right with me. I dont know just one person who truly loves me I will do everything for them, it will give me hope.
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its like i am the only one to reach out to ppl no one reaches me out first, once in a blue moon when they do its only for personal gain or curiousity which lasts for a few days and then its back to square one. Even my own family finds me disgusting, which pushes me more to self degradation because no matter what I do I need to be someone else to satisfy them which doesnt sit right with me. I dont know just one person who truly loves me I will do everything for them, it will give me hope.
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Ashiqur
I am almost 40. Every woman Ive ever taken a chance with has always lost interest in me. Ive come to realize I have issues that get in the way, but having been rejected for almost 20 years, Im convinced Im not only unlovable, but that I will die alone so I smoke everyday hoping I end up with cancer, not tell anyone, & just die in excruciating pain in my home. I deserve it since Im just worthless.
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I am almost 40. Every woman Ive ever taken a chance with has always lost interest in me. Ive come to realize I have issues that get in the way, but having been rejected for almost 20 years, Im convinced Im not only unlovable, but that I will die alone so I smoke everyday hoping I end up with cancer, not tell anyone, & just die in excruciating pain in my home. I deserve it since Im just worthless.
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Its_
I disagree with the first statement. How can you love yourself when all you remember are reasons to hate yourself. You only start to love yourself when someone else loves you. I mean it's makes sense logically as well. Self hatred mostly starts from other people treated you like crap, so therefore, when other people love you, you will learn how to love yourself. Do the math
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I disagree with the first statement. How can you love yourself when all you remember are reasons to hate yourself. You only start to love yourself when someone else loves you. I mean it's makes sense logically as well. Self hatred mostly starts from other people treated you like crap, so therefore, when other people love you, you will learn how to love yourself. Do the math
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Bunsenn
Theres a band called The Police who have a pretty famous song called Synchronicity, and a sequel called Synchronicity II. The sequel tells the story of a man living in a dystopian world who gradually gets closer and closer to snapping. His story directly synchs up with a creature emerging from a dark lake many miles away. I feel like the man in the song.
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Theres a band called The Police who have a pretty famous song called Synchronicity, and a sequel called Synchronicity II. The sequel tells the story of a man living in a dystopian world who gradually gets closer and closer to snapping. His story directly synchs up with a creature emerging from a dark lake many miles away. I feel like the man in the song.
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Sydney
no one likes me enough to invite me to things if i dont invite myself to whatever theyre doing, im no ones first or second choice or option for anything. i just want to be invited and included. my biggest fear is being left out of things that i could be involved in. i makes me feel so small
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no one likes me enough to invite me to things if i dont invite myself to whatever theyre doing, im no ones first or second choice or option for anything. i just want to be invited and included. my biggest fear is being left out of things that i could be involved in. i makes me feel so small
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hugwinga
It's so sad when I was 7 until now 20 I am still like this alone even with friends they see me as a positive and lovable person yet my mind is negative and sad and I will never change thinking everything I do is bad sorry I just need to tell even if I can't say anything about this
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It's so sad when I was 7 until now 20 I am still like this alone even with friends they see me as a positive and lovable person yet my mind is negative and sad and I will never change thinking everything I do is bad sorry I just need to tell even if I can't say anything about this
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arnab
If nobody loves me then I have to love myself. Why we crave for love? Something happens when nobody loves me. A gap or emptiness or sense of being valueless arise. thst is uncomfortable feeling.
My self love can't fill the gap because I have some expectations from the world.
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If nobody loves me then I have to love myself. Why we crave for love? Something happens when nobody loves me. A gap or emptiness or sense of being valueless arise. thst is uncomfortable feeling.
My self love can't fill the gap because I have some expectations from the world.
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V_prod
36 yo, and never have been loved, always ignored to the extent that people avoid say hello to me. And i can live with that, love of others is overrated, live your life, enjoy your hobbies, take care of your relatives and never surrender to growth bit by bit, constantly.
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36 yo, and never have been loved, always ignored to the extent that people avoid say hello to me. And i can live with that, love of others is overrated, live your life, enjoy your hobbies, take care of your relatives and never surrender to growth bit by bit, constantly.
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Pamela
My parents were critical and negletful. Later in life I allowed my ex to treat me like an option for many years. I feel like my friends don't really like me. Lots of puerile hang with me just because I'm pretty. I hate my life today. Waiting to feel happy again.
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My parents were critical and negletful. Later in life I allowed my ex to treat me like an option for many years. I feel like my friends don't really like me. Lots of puerile hang with me just because I'm pretty. I hate my life today. Waiting to feel happy again.
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A.
The last two touched me deeply. I've always had hard time finding love and when I finally found a partner who I loved deeply I ended up being treated badly and broken up with. so the negative thoughts are coming back. That nobody wants me and I'll be forever alone.
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The last two touched me deeply. I've always had hard time finding love and when I finally found a partner who I loved deeply I ended up being treated badly and broken up with. so the negative thoughts are coming back. That nobody wants me and I'll be forever alone.
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AJ
I feel Im unlovable or people just dont like me I feel I do everything I can for everyone and its never paid back in return when I need help or someone to talk to, every year no one remembers my birthday too even at my own wedding not a single friend showed up
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I feel Im unlovable or people just dont like me I feel I do everything I can for everyone and its never paid back in return when I need help or someone to talk to, every year no one remembers my birthday too even at my own wedding not a single friend showed up
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Mansi
4: 51 the copy mechanism is smth i really struggled with when i was young as a child; thankyou for reminding me that me and everyone here deserve better.
I'm always thankyou to psych2go.
thankyou for being there when everyone needs smone.
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4: 51 the copy mechanism is smth i really struggled with when i was young as a child; thankyou for reminding me that me and everyone here deserve better.
I'm always thankyou to psych2go.
thankyou for being there when everyone needs smone.
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Mighty_Ninyn
Normally. I don't comment. But the girl I'm interested in and is interested in me, my friends, my family, even my animals.
I just feel like a burden or everyone's scape goat. I just want to sleep for a week, no electronics, nothing
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Normally. I don't comment. But the girl I'm interested in and is interested in me, my friends, my family, even my animals.
I just feel like a burden or everyone's scape goat. I just want to sleep for a week, no electronics, nothing
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Tom
The content I have listen to from Psych 2Go has been great! However I find it difficult to understand how you can justify saying I am worthy, lovable, wonderful. and you don't even know me. Maybe a little bit of a sincerity issue?
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The content I have listen to from Psych 2Go has been great! However I find it difficult to understand how you can justify saying I am worthy, lovable, wonderful. and you don't even know me. Maybe a little bit of a sincerity issue?
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harini
As I age, I just feel like I am a burden to everyone mostly to my parents.
Wish when the doctor said I wont make it that day 25 years ago, I didnt really make it.
It just gets worse day by day.
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As I age, I just feel like I am a burden to everyone mostly to my parents.
Wish when the doctor said I wont make it that day 25 years ago, I didnt really make it.
It just gets worse day by day.
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Squish
This was a good video with good points, but I still think there are going to be people in the world who are truly unloveable, even if it's not me. Think pedophiles and serial rapists for example.
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This was a good video with good points, but I still think there are going to be people in the world who are truly unloveable, even if it's not me. Think pedophiles and serial rapists for example.
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Story
I'm 19 years old n I been feeling unlovable a long time mainly bc girls done me wrong in the past so now I got my heart on ice so that no other female can hurt me bc all girls are the same
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I'm 19 years old n I been feeling unlovable a long time mainly bc girls done me wrong in the past so now I got my heart on ice so that no other female can hurt me bc all girls are the same
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