4 Signs You Are Still Grieving
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Kingkb2099
Personally it's been technically a day and a half since I lost someone who was a constant in my life I mainly clicked on this video because I feel like I'm already coming out of the grieving process but I don't know if I am or not or how to feel about it two other deaths have occurred in my past recently one for each past 2 years and yet I didn't feel anything only up until I saw their body I didn't question it because they weren't constant like the four I imagine who are constant in my life that would feel it for yet I feel it and it feels like it's going away too fast in my opinion so far the only things I still feel every now and then it's sadness when I think about the condition I last saw them in when I get sad my throat still feels sore sometimes but only when talking about him to other people are describing do I pause and I guess the only other thing of note sometimes I just have to take a deep breath when I think about him I know as I type this this sounds like I'm still going to grieve and get I just don't necessarily feel sad at least not compared to the others around I even find myself sometimes smiling at the thought of the person
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Personally it's been technically a day and a half since I lost someone who was a constant in my life I mainly clicked on this video because I feel like I'm already coming out of the grieving process but I don't know if I am or not or how to feel about it two other deaths have occurred in my past recently one for each past 2 years and yet I didn't feel anything only up until I saw their body I didn't question it because they weren't constant like the four I imagine who are constant in my life that would feel it for yet I feel it and it feels like it's going away too fast in my opinion so far the only things I still feel every now and then it's sadness when I think about the condition I last saw them in when I get sad my throat still feels sore sometimes but only when talking about him to other people are describing do I pause and I guess the only other thing of note sometimes I just have to take a deep breath when I think about him I know as I type this this sounds like I'm still going to grieve and get I just don't necessarily feel sad at least not compared to the others around I even find myself sometimes smiling at the thought of the person
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Oatmilk
tw// sicide
i lost my lover to suicide almost a year ago, she was terminally ill and had been dying for years. over the past months ive tried to piece together my thoughts in a string of poems and metaphors but ive found that no words really appease the feelings of a grieving man as much as a memory does so i provide you with these;
back when we were younger i kept my hair long just so that she could braid it and even after her death, even after i chopped it all off, i braid my bangs unconsciously when thinking of her
whenever tipping someone, she would fold the dollar bill into some sort of bird because she once had someone do that for her and she wanted to repay them
once when we were watching a meteor shower together, she began counting the dragonflies she saw instead of the meteors
she used to leave out bowls made for dolls with sugar in them when she was little for the fairies
she once waded through thigh-deep mud littered with oysters because she saw a pretty red feather that her ma might want
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tw// sicide
i lost my lover to suicide almost a year ago, she was terminally ill and had been dying for years. over the past months ive tried to piece together my thoughts in a string of poems and metaphors but ive found that no words really appease the feelings of a grieving man as much as a memory does so i provide you with these;
back when we were younger i kept my hair long just so that she could braid it and even after her death, even after i chopped it all off, i braid my bangs unconsciously when thinking of her
whenever tipping someone, she would fold the dollar bill into some sort of bird because she once had someone do that for her and she wanted to repay them
once when we were watching a meteor shower together, she began counting the dragonflies she saw instead of the meteors
she used to leave out bowls made for dolls with sugar in them when she was little for the fairies
she once waded through thigh-deep mud littered with oysters because she saw a pretty red feather that her ma might want
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Senorita
Been griefing for 2 months, over my my ex -boyfriend, & bestie, we tried to rekindle this year, but it's complicated cuz I still love him, even though we have our time apart for now, I miss him dearly, found somewhat peace to keep myself happy, and to top that off my bestie &gal decided to take a break, I have been hurt soo much, that she tried to help, to a point where I am letting myself go, and now she wants to split apart cuz of me, in which is unusual cuz we always tried to be there for each other, and now I am afraid to get close to any friend now, scared. It seems the ones I care about pushes me away when I need them the most! It's complicated! Finding help hasn't always been easy, I am at a point where Outside of home I am more happy with hanging, but going back home I am depressed! & lonely! I try my hobbies, but sometimes have loss of interest in things!
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Been griefing for 2 months, over my my ex -boyfriend, & bestie, we tried to rekindle this year, but it's complicated cuz I still love him, even though we have our time apart for now, I miss him dearly, found somewhat peace to keep myself happy, and to top that off my bestie &gal decided to take a break, I have been hurt soo much, that she tried to help, to a point where I am letting myself go, and now she wants to split apart cuz of me, in which is unusual cuz we always tried to be there for each other, and now I am afraid to get close to any friend now, scared. It seems the ones I care about pushes me away when I need them the most! It's complicated! Finding help hasn't always been easy, I am at a point where Outside of home I am more happy with hanging, but going back home I am depressed! & lonely! I try my hobbies, but sometimes have loss of interest in things!
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kenn
My older brother died when I was either 3 or 5. I'm now 15 and keep pushing away everything. Tonight I just suddenly remembered what the inside of his car looked like because a couch had the same pattern as the seats. I just balled my eyes out. As I could vividly remember the car and the interior and small minor things, like how it didn't have automatic windows and little me would love to race myself to see how fast I could roll it up or down. Or how it was a stick shift. Even how the center console had scratches in the leather from our dogs. But I couldn't for the life of me remember his face or what his voice sounded like. I couldn't remember anything about him, just the damn car he owned.
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My older brother died when I was either 3 or 5. I'm now 15 and keep pushing away everything. Tonight I just suddenly remembered what the inside of his car looked like because a couch had the same pattern as the seats. I just balled my eyes out. As I could vividly remember the car and the interior and small minor things, like how it didn't have automatic windows and little me would love to race myself to see how fast I could roll it up or down. Or how it was a stick shift. Even how the center console had scratches in the leather from our dogs. But I couldn't for the life of me remember his face or what his voice sounded like. I couldn't remember anything about him, just the damn car he owned.
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Lena
I wish someone told me this. I felt all points to the core. Every since my young brother passed I have been getting sick more often, not to mention I have range of body discomfort that had my overthinking brain convince it's cancer or that I will die of a stroke like he did. 3 months have passed and I can't seem to pull it together as I did before. I certainly feel as if this grief over my only bro is going to have me drown in it. Depression is already worse. Anxiety (especially health anxiety) is through the roof. I hope it will get better in time. Universe grant strength and health to all of us hurting from the loss of our parent, siblings, spouses, friends.
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I wish someone told me this. I felt all points to the core. Every since my young brother passed I have been getting sick more often, not to mention I have range of body discomfort that had my overthinking brain convince it's cancer or that I will die of a stroke like he did. 3 months have passed and I can't seem to pull it together as I did before. I certainly feel as if this grief over my only bro is going to have me drown in it. Depression is already worse. Anxiety (especially health anxiety) is through the roof. I hope it will get better in time. Universe grant strength and health to all of us hurting from the loss of our parent, siblings, spouses, friends.
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Michele
My husband passed last June from Parkinson's Disease. He was diagnosed 10 years ago. For the last few years he had been in a nursing home. It's only been a year, but it seems forever. Some days are decent and some are horrible. I decided to take a part time job to get out of the house, but it's stressful and it actually seems to be making things worse. I avoid people and keep to myself at home. Luckily, my son lives close by, and he is very helpful to me. We handle grief in different ways; he keeps his emotions in, and I let mine out.
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My husband passed last June from Parkinson's Disease. He was diagnosed 10 years ago. For the last few years he had been in a nursing home. It's only been a year, but it seems forever. Some days are decent and some are horrible. I decided to take a part time job to get out of the house, but it's stressful and it actually seems to be making things worse. I avoid people and keep to myself at home. Luckily, my son lives close by, and he is very helpful to me. We handle grief in different ways; he keeps his emotions in, and I let mine out.
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SAG
We went thru a life & death issue with our daughter. she was depressed over the possible results of the surgery. I dont know why but sent to a greif counselor. I would go several times myself but it is the second best thing I ever did(the first being an all girls school. she changed. surgery went well. shes terrific now and still practises what she was taught in her everyday life.
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We went thru a life & death issue with our daughter. she was depressed over the possible results of the surgery. I dont know why but sent to a greif counselor. I would go several times myself but it is the second best thing I ever did(the first being an all girls school. she changed. surgery went well. shes terrific now and still practises what she was taught in her everyday life.
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gothbby
When I remind about my two kitties I get so sad. I remember when one of them played with the golden old rope I had. I still have the rope and when I look at it I wanna cry and cry and cry. And especially when someone reminds me of them I wanna hit them in the face. I hate crying or being sad around people. I don't wanna look weak
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When I remind about my two kitties I get so sad. I remember when one of them played with the golden old rope I had. I still have the rope and when I look at it I wanna cry and cry and cry. And especially when someone reminds me of them I wanna hit them in the face. I hate crying or being sad around people. I don't wanna look weak
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Kyo
I honestly ruined a beautiful friendship of 10 years because I bottled up grief and stress to hide it from others. I wanted to desperately protect this friend so much I couldn't see that I was the one hurting her. I don't really think I can fully forgive myself for being so arrogantly blind to it. I never deserved that friendship.
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I honestly ruined a beautiful friendship of 10 years because I bottled up grief and stress to hide it from others. I wanted to desperately protect this friend so much I couldn't see that I was the one hurting her. I don't really think I can fully forgive myself for being so arrogantly blind to it. I never deserved that friendship.
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Anime_Astrix
My Grandma passed away about a month ago and I honestly think it's just the concept of losing somebody that's scaring me so much and the person I lost. So much that at school a reason I still wear masks while others don't is becuase I want to take care of myself and my family and hope it doesn't happen again
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My Grandma passed away about a month ago and I honestly think it's just the concept of losing somebody that's scaring me so much and the person I lost. So much that at school a reason I still wear masks while others don't is becuase I want to take care of myself and my family and hope it doesn't happen again
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James
It always hits me around my birthday, my dad's birthday, and around the time he passed away. That dosent go away. I feel my mom may have more unresolved grief because she still avoids many of the triggers. She tries to distract herself instead of taking about it. Useful video for anyone who has lost a loved one
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It always hits me around my birthday, my dad's birthday, and around the time he passed away. That dosent go away. I feel my mom may have more unresolved grief because she still avoids many of the triggers. She tries to distract herself instead of taking about it. Useful video for anyone who has lost a loved one
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education
Unpacking and resolving your trauma is a long and difficult process. No one's had it all figured out, we're all learning. Give yourself time and patience. You'll know it when it is over.
I can't tell you what to think or how to feel. I can only wish you the very best on your journey.
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Unpacking and resolving your trauma is a long and difficult process. No one's had it all figured out, we're all learning. Give yourself time and patience. You'll know it when it is over.
I can't tell you what to think or how to feel. I can only wish you the very best on your journey.
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poopybumbum
its not always easy getting help sadly. i went to the hospital so many times and they always sent me home 3 hours later until the one time i actually hurt myself really badly and they finally put me on different meds but didn't fully help me only stayed a week then kicked me out
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its not always easy getting help sadly. i went to the hospital so many times and they always sent me home 3 hours later until the one time i actually hurt myself really badly and they finally put me on different meds but didn't fully help me only stayed a week then kicked me out
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education
Grieve knows no timeline. Each of us is a bit different and we can all grieve in our own pace. No need to hurry. And no chance to speed he process up. When it hurts, it hurts bad. We all want to avoid it but there is no valid way. This pain and bitterness has to evaporate.
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Grieve knows no timeline. Each of us is a bit different and we can all grieve in our own pace. No need to hurry. And no chance to speed he process up. When it hurts, it hurts bad. We all want to avoid it but there is no valid way. This pain and bitterness has to evaporate.
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ShreNal
If you're feeling depressed -
Talk with me. I'LL BE A FRIEND.
How can strangers be friends?
See my name. Best if luck. I'll be a good listener.
What's your purpose?
My purpose is I wanna feel a depressed person is smiling. What can be greater than this.
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If you're feeling depressed -
Talk with me. I'LL BE A FRIEND.
How can strangers be friends?
See my name. Best if luck. I'll be a good listener.
What's your purpose?
My purpose is I wanna feel a depressed person is smiling. What can be greater than this.
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Jane
My sister in law and friend killed herself six months ago. I can't stop wondering why? I know she wasn't happy with my brother but why did she leave her daughters? How could she leave us all like that? She said she loved us but she just left. I feel angry. I feel abandoned.
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My sister in law and friend killed herself six months ago. I can't stop wondering why? I know she wasn't happy with my brother but why did she leave her daughters? How could she leave us all like that? She said she loved us but she just left. I feel angry. I feel abandoned.
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Rebel
My mum passed away two years ago, I am still grieving and having some of these symptoms: ( She was my whole world and my best friend. The strange thing is that I didn't get these symptoms when it happened, only now, two years later. I must have been in shock all that time.
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My mum passed away two years ago, I am still grieving and having some of these symptoms: ( She was my whole world and my best friend. The strange thing is that I didn't get these symptoms when it happened, only now, two years later. I must have been in shock all that time.
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ISTRIVE2BDIFFERENT
Its been five years since my sister died suddenly from a heart attack due to thyroid storm. Im literally in tears bawling uncontrollably all because I brought her up in a conversation. Im not angry and wish she was still here. I miss her so much it hurts.
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Its been five years since my sister died suddenly from a heart attack due to thyroid storm. Im literally in tears bawling uncontrollably all because I brought her up in a conversation. Im not angry and wish she was still here. I miss her so much it hurts.
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Alexis
its been 10 years and im still grieving over my grandpa. he died from pneumonia along with many other health issues. i wish i spent more time with him, i was so young, i didnt realize he would leave. not so soon, at least. i miss him so much, i hope hes proud of me
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its been 10 years and im still grieving over my grandpa. he died from pneumonia along with many other health issues. i wish i spent more time with him, i was so young, i didnt realize he would leave. not so soon, at least. i miss him so much, i hope hes proud of me
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education
I had two best friends named Gus and Will when we all moved to different highschools I wasn't upset but I sometimes grieve about them even have dreams i saw them but sometimes it's mostly with Gus I still miss them and I hope they miss me aswell
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I had two best friends named Gus and Will when we all moved to different highschools I wasn't upset but I sometimes grieve about them even have dreams i saw them but sometimes it's mostly with Gus I still miss them and I hope they miss me aswell
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ChilledOut_548
Is it just me? Why do I feel like I'm grieving like I died or something. It's hard to explain but it's feels like I've lost myself over the years. (God this comment makes me look like a self-centered person)
I'm just tired of my life.
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Is it just me? Why do I feel like I'm grieving like I died or something. It's hard to explain but it's feels like I've lost myself over the years. (God this comment makes me look like a self-centered person)
I'm just tired of my life.
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Rue
This video has been really helpful. I've been having chest pains since my boyfriend's death last August and haven't gotten a reason why from my doctor yet. I guess she didn't consider stress induced cardiomiopathy as a reason. Nor did I actually.
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This video has been really helpful. I've been having chest pains since my boyfriend's death last August and haven't gotten a reason why from my doctor yet. I guess she didn't consider stress induced cardiomiopathy as a reason. Nor did I actually.
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psych2go
lost my grandma in 2018 due to bad health. lost my cousin last month due to gun violence. im not okay this have really messed me up mentally and physically and i dont even wanna go back to school next month cause she will no longer be there
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lost my grandma in 2018 due to bad health. lost my cousin last month due to gun violence. im not okay this have really messed me up mentally and physically and i dont even wanna go back to school next month cause she will no longer be there
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White
One of my chihuahuas died 2 weeks ago, and I've been having grief ever since. Whenever I think of how I can't hold her again, I get a feeling of pain and tightness in my chest and my heart races and my throat cramps like I'm being strangled.
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One of my chihuahuas died 2 weeks ago, and I've been having grief ever since. Whenever I think of how I can't hold her again, I get a feeling of pain and tightness in my chest and my heart races and my throat cramps like I'm being strangled.
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JarvisArccore
I lost 3 of my grandparents, my cat, my only friend, and had to leave my home at a young age all within 3 years. I genuinely don't know if I'm still feeling the after waves from that or not. it was the most painful time of my life.
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I lost 3 of my grandparents, my cat, my only friend, and had to leave my home at a young age all within 3 years. I genuinely don't know if I'm still feeling the after waves from that or not. it was the most painful time of my life.
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