9 Tips to Get Over Your Ex
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Husky
Im here for a different reason, the person I am hurting over is my best friend. (I was 17 at the time Im now 18, this took place in November of 2022) me and her were literally inseparable. We did not like each other in a romantic way we were just the best of friends. And after starting year 13 at my school I was going through massive identity problems and mental health issues, and she offered help and was there for me. After a while I started to get better but she grew distant from me and I easily realised this, and we started growing tense around each other and I got the feeling I did something wrong to upset her. And this caused a downward spiral of my mental health again and we started fighting, and we grew further apart. Till eventually i sat down with her and wanted to get to why we were growing apart, and she said it doesnt matter how many times I fix you, you dont get any better. Im still confused till this day what she meant, and she also said she didnt want to know me anymore. Obviously I was distraught and my mental health took an even bigger toll on me, but overtime I got better and I am doing great now, Im in a relationship with someone I love very much. But every now and then I have a episode where I cant stop thinking about my best friend. Any tips on how to stop this? I do not wanna go through a bad phase again
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Im here for a different reason, the person I am hurting over is my best friend. (I was 17 at the time Im now 18, this took place in November of 2022) me and her were literally inseparable. We did not like each other in a romantic way we were just the best of friends. And after starting year 13 at my school I was going through massive identity problems and mental health issues, and she offered help and was there for me. After a while I started to get better but she grew distant from me and I easily realised this, and we started growing tense around each other and I got the feeling I did something wrong to upset her. And this caused a downward spiral of my mental health again and we started fighting, and we grew further apart. Till eventually i sat down with her and wanted to get to why we were growing apart, and she said it doesnt matter how many times I fix you, you dont get any better. Im still confused till this day what she meant, and she also said she didnt want to know me anymore. Obviously I was distraught and my mental health took an even bigger toll on me, but overtime I got better and I am doing great now, Im in a relationship with someone I love very much. But every now and then I have a episode where I cant stop thinking about my best friend. Any tips on how to stop this? I do not wanna go through a bad phase again
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Kait
I dont know if anyone checks these comments, but we broke up this week after four years & im trying to go no contact but we co-parent our pets so it gets a bit difficult, we wont be talking for a couple days at all since I got the pets, I physically shake & get nauseous & feel weak, I know we still love each other, he fell out of love w me for the past year but he didnt realize it, he said going no contact hell miss me but he doesnt know if hell be able to change his mind & I cant change it, I understand theres a chance he wont change his mind but I want him to change it so badly, I dont wanna keep going as things were but I think time apart can help us grow & learn where well be better if he changes his mind, its been hard to work on myself tho when Im having withdrawal symptoms, I feel so sick but my friends & family tell me its normal, Ive been keeping a note in my notes app of the texts I wish I could send while were apart, Im praying we get back together we had real beautiful love everyone around us is sad about this too, if you see this I wanna emphasize how its good to feel like youre not alone seriously, support systems are crucial, & if you could pray/ send wishes that we heal & get back together for me Id appreciate it, if you like or comment Ill be praying for your healing too: )
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I dont know if anyone checks these comments, but we broke up this week after four years & im trying to go no contact but we co-parent our pets so it gets a bit difficult, we wont be talking for a couple days at all since I got the pets, I physically shake & get nauseous & feel weak, I know we still love each other, he fell out of love w me for the past year but he didnt realize it, he said going no contact hell miss me but he doesnt know if hell be able to change his mind & I cant change it, I understand theres a chance he wont change his mind but I want him to change it so badly, I dont wanna keep going as things were but I think time apart can help us grow & learn where well be better if he changes his mind, its been hard to work on myself tho when Im having withdrawal symptoms, I feel so sick but my friends & family tell me its normal, Ive been keeping a note in my notes app of the texts I wish I could send while were apart, Im praying we get back together we had real beautiful love everyone around us is sad about this too, if you see this I wanna emphasize how its good to feel like youre not alone seriously, support systems are crucial, & if you could pray/ send wishes that we heal & get back together for me Id appreciate it, if you like or comment Ill be praying for your healing too: )
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Kannan
I still love him after 3+ years, he really is a good guy i want to remove him from my heart but i can't there's no reason to hate him either, it was only a 1 month relationship but the bond was just too deep atleast for me, he is in love with some other girl now, we agreed that we can be friends after ending our relationship for good but i couldn't unlove him all these years i thought maybe his feelings will change and maybe we'll get back together. I'm hurt i thought maybe I'll be able to restore that bond. But we don't even talk the same now, help me god. .there will always be a special warm place in my heart for him he's the first guy who taught me what love is (respect, love, care) and that's why it's hard to let him go. I was thinking I'll say him whatever i feel and never talk to him ever again even though we barely talk, it's just so difficult to even think that he'll be gone from my life i just want him to be with me forever but ig things won't work my way: ( idk what should i do, i need advice from someone who's been in this type of situation pls help me friend
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I still love him after 3+ years, he really is a good guy i want to remove him from my heart but i can't there's no reason to hate him either, it was only a 1 month relationship but the bond was just too deep atleast for me, he is in love with some other girl now, we agreed that we can be friends after ending our relationship for good but i couldn't unlove him all these years i thought maybe his feelings will change and maybe we'll get back together. I'm hurt i thought maybe I'll be able to restore that bond. But we don't even talk the same now, help me god. .there will always be a special warm place in my heart for him he's the first guy who taught me what love is (respect, love, care) and that's why it's hard to let him go. I was thinking I'll say him whatever i feel and never talk to him ever again even though we barely talk, it's just so difficult to even think that he'll be gone from my life i just want him to be with me forever but ig things won't work my way: ( idk what should i do, i need advice from someone who's been in this type of situation pls help me friend
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Noir
I went through a break up in the beginning of February, more specifically on Valentines Day, today is august and Im still not over him, I really dont know what to do because i see him every day in college surrounded by friends and it hurts knowing he doesnt give a shit about how I feel and hes currently with my friend now, someone who was literally in my house taking care of me after the breakup. It hurts a lot because I know hes an asshole and Im trying to heal fr, but everyone is putting pressure into me saying how you still didnt get over? Yeah no shit, is not that easy. Another thing is that him and I are in the same group of friends, most of them treats me bad or like Im a bad person for still being sad about my breakup. Im just tired.
If someone read this, thx for the attention i think, I just needed to talk about it somewhere.
(Btw English is not my first language so if my grammar is not correct well, it happens lol)
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I went through a break up in the beginning of February, more specifically on Valentines Day, today is august and Im still not over him, I really dont know what to do because i see him every day in college surrounded by friends and it hurts knowing he doesnt give a shit about how I feel and hes currently with my friend now, someone who was literally in my house taking care of me after the breakup. It hurts a lot because I know hes an asshole and Im trying to heal fr, but everyone is putting pressure into me saying how you still didnt get over? Yeah no shit, is not that easy. Another thing is that him and I are in the same group of friends, most of them treats me bad or like Im a bad person for still being sad about my breakup. Im just tired.
If someone read this, thx for the attention i think, I just needed to talk about it somewhere.
(Btw English is not my first language so if my grammar is not correct well, it happens lol)
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Ozweego
she meant the world to me i mean ig its kinda my fault for getting in an online relationship, we've been dating for 4-5 months and she send me a vms of her saying she cheated on me with her friend she said sorry and said she still loves me, i mean i already know it was going to go south once u viewed her status before the day of the vms come, she called his friend darling and wore his belt as choker. i've been crying so much lately i've never cried before but somehow i cant stop though it happened like days ago i still cant fully moved on, i unblocked her once and saw she posted two status once is saying hes the real one
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she meant the world to me i mean ig its kinda my fault for getting in an online relationship, we've been dating for 4-5 months and she send me a vms of her saying she cheated on me with her friend she said sorry and said she still loves me, i mean i already know it was going to go south once u viewed her status before the day of the vms come, she called his friend darling and wore his belt as choker. i've been crying so much lately i've never cried before but somehow i cant stop though it happened like days ago i still cant fully moved on, i unblocked her once and saw she posted two status once is saying hes the real one
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Die
I've tried all of this and nothing has helped.
1. I had to see her in class every day
2. I already did all the hobbies I wanted to do when I was still with her
3. I have no friends
4. there were only good moments she just found someone better than me
5. my loved ones don't care
6. sad music didn't help
7. somehow I can't
8. She didn't want the best for me she just didn't want me anymore
9. i have trouble finding a new girlfriend all women hear is you're just too ugly or i don't like you i also have (probably due to years of bullying and all the rebuffs) serious problems meeting new people
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I've tried all of this and nothing has helped.
1. I had to see her in class every day
2. I already did all the hobbies I wanted to do when I was still with her
3. I have no friends
4. there were only good moments she just found someone better than me
5. my loved ones don't care
6. sad music didn't help
7. somehow I can't
8. She didn't want the best for me she just didn't want me anymore
9. i have trouble finding a new girlfriend all women hear is you're just too ugly or i don't like you i also have (probably due to years of bullying and all the rebuffs) serious problems meeting new people
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Nikki
You were my 1st love, u taught me how to love, we made promises, we always fixed things, we couldn't replace someone else n our places. now u avoided me, nd distanced.
Now you want me to move on. for my future. i loved u unconditionally. don't know when i'll come over this. u said u can't live without me. we argued for who loves more.
I love you! I want you. but you said for my future i should move on after making me fall in love with u. how am i supposed to forget these 2 year memories? I can't imagine anyone else.
Anyways I love you the most nd i was right.
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You were my 1st love, u taught me how to love, we made promises, we always fixed things, we couldn't replace someone else n our places. now u avoided me, nd distanced.
Now you want me to move on. for my future. i loved u unconditionally. don't know when i'll come over this. u said u can't live without me. we argued for who loves more.
I love you! I want you. but you said for my future i should move on after making me fall in love with u. how am i supposed to forget these 2 year memories? I can't imagine anyone else.
Anyways I love you the most nd i was right.
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Evan
my ex was into me and went out of her way to ask me out. she liked me that much but just cut it off. we didn't date for that long but we where intimate and she was my first kiss. i cut her off from social media off and haven't texted her at all. but she's moved on and is already seeing someone else, despite the fact she said she wasn't ready for a romantic relationship. i probably dodged a bullet but at the same time i'm still annoyed and pissed about the whole situation
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my ex was into me and went out of her way to ask me out. she liked me that much but just cut it off. we didn't date for that long but we where intimate and she was my first kiss. i cut her off from social media off and haven't texted her at all. but she's moved on and is already seeing someone else, despite the fact she said she wasn't ready for a romantic relationship. i probably dodged a bullet but at the same time i'm still annoyed and pissed about the whole situation
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god
I would never forget how I trusted her and she broke it, she broke my heart, i happily joined up the pieces coz i loved her too much and trusted her again with my heart, she broke it again, i was getting weaker day by day, I joined up the broken parts of my heart and gave it to her again and she broke it yesterday for the third time, and i still can't stop liking her, she blocked me from everywhere but i still can't stop thinking about her
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I would never forget how I trusted her and she broke it, she broke my heart, i happily joined up the pieces coz i loved her too much and trusted her again with my heart, she broke it again, i was getting weaker day by day, I joined up the broken parts of my heart and gave it to her again and she broke it yesterday for the third time, and i still can't stop liking her, she blocked me from everywhere but i still can't stop thinking about her
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angel
they were a good friend and a better partner we only dated for a couple of days and then they left the hurts because I don't know what I did wrong I want to fix it but I know its best to let it go im current getting ready for inktober on of my prompts will probably be the sun and the moon the point writing this is to hear how everyone else is getting over their ex just remember you are enough and you are loved
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they were a good friend and a better partner we only dated for a couple of days and then they left the hurts because I don't know what I did wrong I want to fix it but I know its best to let it go im current getting ready for inktober on of my prompts will probably be the sun and the moon the point writing this is to hear how everyone else is getting over their ex just remember you are enough and you are loved
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love,
My first bf just recently broke up with me, he doesn't rlly care cuz he still hung up on his '3 yr first relationship' ex. He wanna be just friends cuz he saying he's not 'ready'. It hurts sm bro, it's so hard to move on especially it's my first time. It feels so heartbreaking knowing that i genuinely loved him, unconditionally. but readings these comments gave me some hope to move on.
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My first bf just recently broke up with me, he doesn't rlly care cuz he still hung up on his '3 yr first relationship' ex. He wanna be just friends cuz he saying he's not 'ready'. It hurts sm bro, it's so hard to move on especially it's my first time. It feels so heartbreaking knowing that i genuinely loved him, unconditionally. but readings these comments gave me some hope to move on.
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Yoongi's
How to get over if we both love each other and he had to breakup with me because his parents forced him to do because of our religion how can I come over if he still cares about me and asks me are you fine and asks me sorry everyday and still make sure I get enough sleep and I eat 3 meals still making me less lonely because he is the only person I talk to howwwww? howwwwww?
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How to get over if we both love each other and he had to breakup with me because his parents forced him to do because of our religion how can I come over if he still cares about me and asks me are you fine and asks me sorry everyday and still make sure I get enough sleep and I eat 3 meals still making me less lonely because he is the only person I talk to howwwww? howwwwww?
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Fella
What hurts the most is when im out and looking at the men outside, i see no one as a potential partner, no one can be like him, no one has what he had, i lose hope in finding the one cuz i believed he was the one, an 8 year old relationship he made me feel so many things and despite loving each other we couldnt be together, it was above both of us we had to cut ties.
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What hurts the most is when im out and looking at the men outside, i see no one as a potential partner, no one can be like him, no one has what he had, i lose hope in finding the one cuz i believed he was the one, an 8 year old relationship he made me feel so many things and despite loving each other we couldnt be together, it was above both of us we had to cut ties.
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Cacaa
We been together 4yrs and 2months and when we broke up he find someone else we broke up 2weeks and he find someone else and he was like happy and comfortable to sleep and me crying overnight and not taking care myself i wish this will help me because i look in the mirror and I'm so sad because I'm always crying and I've abandoned myself and my eyes so tired
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We been together 4yrs and 2months and when we broke up he find someone else we broke up 2weeks and he find someone else and he was like happy and comfortable to sleep and me crying overnight and not taking care myself i wish this will help me because i look in the mirror and I'm so sad because I'm always crying and I've abandoned myself and my eyes so tired
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Daybreak
Best advice I can offers corny but effective journal to urself make a chapter fill it with a different mindset, goals in forgetting, even make a diss track chapter who cares I don't like ur ex either and if u found this. Then I want u to overcome this setback, because your obviously a caring person and u don't deserve to be hung up
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Best advice I can offers corny but effective journal to urself make a chapter fill it with a different mindset, goals in forgetting, even make a diss track chapter who cares I don't like ur ex either and if u found this. Then I want u to overcome this setback, because your obviously a caring person and u don't deserve to be hung up
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Rumanian
when i broke up i literally felt sad only for a few days or so before forgetting my partner though i loved them a lot and spent every single day with them. i dont really understand if that makes me a bad person or not but i got through it way too quickly which i dont think is right. does anyone have an idea on why that happened?
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when i broke up i literally felt sad only for a few days or so before forgetting my partner though i loved them a lot and spent every single day with them. i dont really understand if that makes me a bad person or not but i got through it way too quickly which i dont think is right. does anyone have an idea on why that happened?
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butterfly
I miss him so much. Even though we always broke up I still never thought we would break up or it would end the way it did. so much betrayal and hurt. I will come back in a year and update how I feel but god does it hurt right now. I wish he would beg to be back with me but he's done with me. I gotta move on.
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I miss him so much. Even though we always broke up I still never thought we would break up or it would end the way it did. so much betrayal and hurt. I will come back in a year and update how I feel but god does it hurt right now. I wish he would beg to be back with me but he's done with me. I gotta move on.
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XxbillyxX8753
Been a month of being apart after 2 years and its not getting easier shes not coming back and shes already got a new boyfriend and was going to see him after only a week or so while Im stuck here wishing I still had her in my life even though I know she doesnt feel the same and hadnt for a while
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Been a month of being apart after 2 years and its not getting easier shes not coming back and shes already got a new boyfriend and was going to see him after only a week or so while Im stuck here wishing I still had her in my life even though I know she doesnt feel the same and hadnt for a while
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Gus
I got cheated on by my girlfriend of almost three years. The hardest part of it is I still love her despite her mistakes. Yet, a line was crossed that I cant forgive. All of the happy memories are still real and vivid in my mind which makes it so hard to move on.
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I got cheated on by my girlfriend of almost three years. The hardest part of it is I still love her despite her mistakes. Yet, a line was crossed that I cant forgive. All of the happy memories are still real and vivid in my mind which makes it so hard to move on.
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Leo
I just wanted someone to love me unconditionally and not give up on my when I came out as trans
On my end there were other problems too, but for him that was the only dealbreaker. We both werent willing to work on it at the time
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I just wanted someone to love me unconditionally and not give up on my when I came out as trans
On my end there were other problems too, but for him that was the only dealbreaker. We both werent willing to work on it at the time
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#SandHanitizer
Brooooo its been mnths since i last saw him but not a single day passed by when i didnt think of him. I be like broooo jeonghan is hotterrrr why cant i get over that shit who prolly doesnt give a f bout me anymore
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Brooooo its been mnths since i last saw him but not a single day passed by when i didnt think of him. I be like broooo jeonghan is hotterrrr why cant i get over that shit who prolly doesnt give a f bout me anymore
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Jess
My heart hurts Im so sad cant stop crying the relationship ended because I cant leave the state with my son and I cant move I had a house ready for me to move and everything so we can be together but its over now
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My heart hurts Im so sad cant stop crying the relationship ended because I cant leave the state with my son and I cant move I had a house ready for me to move and everything so we can be together but its over now
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eiripirey
the main part i disagree with is the rebound part, often times the person who is the rebound feels invalidated and you can leave them scarred especially if you are with them for the sake of being with them.
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the main part i disagree with is the rebound part, often times the person who is the rebound feels invalidated and you can leave them scarred especially if you are with them for the sake of being with them.
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hi
I cant believe that i said to my bf i broke up bc i thought he was not lying but i was so sad that he said it was a prank bur i hate getting Pranked. It huets my feeling, but i came here to get my ex bf back
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I cant believe that i said to my bf i broke up bc i thought he was not lying but i was so sad that he said it was a prank bur i hate getting Pranked. It huets my feeling, but i came here to get my ex bf back
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Zuri
My tip is to surround yourself with good people who love you and only want the best for you. Breakups are hard to handle alone, so you must have a good support system who will stay by your side. Amen.
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My tip is to surround yourself with good people who love you and only want the best for you. Breakups are hard to handle alone, so you must have a good support system who will stay by your side. Amen.
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