To Anyone Feeling Lonely
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Fifi
Two years ago I moved abroad to study. Despite some struggles, I loved what I studied, enjoyed going to class and got along with my classmates amazingly, to the point where we hung out together outside of university.
Then, 8 months ago, I suffered some mental health problems and went back to my home country to take care of them. It took a long time to feel ok again and gain some energy, and in the meantime I felt so exhausted that I ended up isolating myself. I also had to slow down my studies and postpone graduation.
Now I am back in the city where I study, but most of my friends either already graduated and left, or are super busy getting ready to graduate. I don't even have classes anymore to keep myself busy. I literally have no one and I feel so lonely. To make matters worse, I have some stressful months ahead of me, and I know loneliness will make them even harder to get through.
That's it, that's my story. I just wanted to share it with someone. If you read this far, thank you for your time.
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Two years ago I moved abroad to study. Despite some struggles, I loved what I studied, enjoyed going to class and got along with my classmates amazingly, to the point where we hung out together outside of university.
Then, 8 months ago, I suffered some mental health problems and went back to my home country to take care of them. It took a long time to feel ok again and gain some energy, and in the meantime I felt so exhausted that I ended up isolating myself. I also had to slow down my studies and postpone graduation.
Now I am back in the city where I study, but most of my friends either already graduated and left, or are super busy getting ready to graduate. I don't even have classes anymore to keep myself busy. I literally have no one and I feel so lonely. To make matters worse, I have some stressful months ahead of me, and I know loneliness will make them even harder to get through.
That's it, that's my story. I just wanted to share it with someone. If you read this far, thank you for your time.
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CUTENOROBUXT_T
ur videos makes me feel happy but the thing is idk why i always felt like i love to be alone my friends r the fake friends and i have a bff but she always left me alone so i decide to be alone and not talk to much but sometimes i always felt bored so i chat my bff until now she just always leave me alone but when im sad she come and console me then so when me and my bff always chat then laught but know its hard to chat with her cuz she's at SWEDEN i felt bad for treating her so badly and i know how it feels to be lonely. And ur videos makes me feel better now i understand. i miss my bff so much and i always thingking about her until my other best friend said stop thingking about her dont focus for her? '' i felt like i was betrayed by my best friend since weve been being friends for 4 years but i still care about all my friends my fake friends ill just BLUR them if they chatted me ill ignored them.
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ur videos makes me feel happy but the thing is idk why i always felt like i love to be alone my friends r the fake friends and i have a bff but she always left me alone so i decide to be alone and not talk to much but sometimes i always felt bored so i chat my bff until now she just always leave me alone but when im sad she come and console me then so when me and my bff always chat then laught but know its hard to chat with her cuz she's at SWEDEN i felt bad for treating her so badly and i know how it feels to be lonely. And ur videos makes me feel better now i understand. i miss my bff so much and i always thingking about her until my other best friend said stop thingking about her dont focus for her? '' i felt like i was betrayed by my best friend since weve been being friends for 4 years but i still care about all my friends my fake friends ill just BLUR them if they chatted me ill ignored them.
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AndyGrouch
I'm over 40 years old. I have a nice job, I make more than decent money. I'm not ugly, weird and I think I'm socially nice. Everything is kind of ok but I've always been very lonely. I have close friends but they have families etc. not truly part of my life. I never understood what I was supposed to do. I thought family, girlfriends, wife, kids, etc. basic things just comes eventually to everyone but not me. I just don't understand how society and world works I guess. Problem is that, I can't be around other people more than few days. Even spending time with my family, I feel very anxious after a while. Though of having wife, kids etc. is just too absurd for me. It just feels that no one understands me and/or I don-t understand others.
I have never loved anyone or anything in all my life.
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I'm over 40 years old. I have a nice job, I make more than decent money. I'm not ugly, weird and I think I'm socially nice. Everything is kind of ok but I've always been very lonely. I have close friends but they have families etc. not truly part of my life. I never understood what I was supposed to do. I thought family, girlfriends, wife, kids, etc. basic things just comes eventually to everyone but not me. I just don't understand how society and world works I guess. Problem is that, I can't be around other people more than few days. Even spending time with my family, I feel very anxious after a while. Though of having wife, kids etc. is just too absurd for me. It just feels that no one understands me and/or I don-t understand others.
I have never loved anyone or anything in all my life.
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Survival
If im just thinking depression gets worse that it already is and I have social anxiety. Its gotten to the point where I cant even be without any kind of external stimulant without breaking down, I did try to go to a teen therapist (im 17) but it just didnt work for me to talk abt anything tho he said I had strong depressions (knew it since I was 8) overall I just have 1 friend but I cant talk to him cuz he doesnt understand. I started with nicotine, then alcohol and then weed, now I stopped with all but nicotine cuz it helps me not having daily breakdowns. Overall I have nothing that brings me joy that I can do, have to deal with my family pressing me to get a job and the military duty. I know that my heart wont make it to 30 and I just cant find any meaning in life: (
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If im just thinking depression gets worse that it already is and I have social anxiety. Its gotten to the point where I cant even be without any kind of external stimulant without breaking down, I did try to go to a teen therapist (im 17) but it just didnt work for me to talk abt anything tho he said I had strong depressions (knew it since I was 8) overall I just have 1 friend but I cant talk to him cuz he doesnt understand. I started with nicotine, then alcohol and then weed, now I stopped with all but nicotine cuz it helps me not having daily breakdowns. Overall I have nothing that brings me joy that I can do, have to deal with my family pressing me to get a job and the military duty. I know that my heart wont make it to 30 and I just cant find any meaning in life: (
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Avira
I have friends but Im always their last choice, Im the backup friend, the friend you talk to when theres no one else around, the friend you go to when you want something. Ive tried so many times to make friends that dont treat me like this but it always ends up being the same thing over and over again. At this point I just wanna give up but I feel so terribly lonely. I even tried to make online friends but it never lasts. I dont even talk to my family unless I absolutely need to. Every night, I cry to sleep feeling like no one loves me. Idk what to do anymore. The only person I talk to right now is myself. I used to like talking to myself but now everytime I do, I just feel more and more lonely
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I have friends but Im always their last choice, Im the backup friend, the friend you talk to when theres no one else around, the friend you go to when you want something. Ive tried so many times to make friends that dont treat me like this but it always ends up being the same thing over and over again. At this point I just wanna give up but I feel so terribly lonely. I even tried to make online friends but it never lasts. I dont even talk to my family unless I absolutely need to. Every night, I cry to sleep feeling like no one loves me. Idk what to do anymore. The only person I talk to right now is myself. I used to like talking to myself but now everytime I do, I just feel more and more lonely
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pikachu
Im the youngest among all of my siblings the age gap minimum is 6 years apart. They all living in their adulthood now, their own houses, gfs and bfs, works while me still in highschool. People in highschool think Im an extroverted person but deep down I cant shake this loneliness. Everytime when i get back home, no ones there. shouting Im home knowing theres no one will greet me back. My mom always comes home late and divorced with my father so i rarely see him. Just me with my cats taking care of everything in the house while dealing with this emptiness. Remembering the time how we used to have conversations at the dining table, arguments, joking around but now Im all alone.
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Im the youngest among all of my siblings the age gap minimum is 6 years apart. They all living in their adulthood now, their own houses, gfs and bfs, works while me still in highschool. People in highschool think Im an extroverted person but deep down I cant shake this loneliness. Everytime when i get back home, no ones there. shouting Im home knowing theres no one will greet me back. My mom always comes home late and divorced with my father so i rarely see him. Just me with my cats taking care of everything in the house while dealing with this emptiness. Remembering the time how we used to have conversations at the dining table, arguments, joking around but now Im all alone.
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remy
My friends all ignore me, they don't talk to me unless I reach out, any time I try to make plans they either say they're busy or cancell. And I'm still in school and can't drive yet and so I'm just stuck inside or walking my dog to the park down the road. I sit on the swing alone. I feel like an asshole when I try to confront them. I don't have any siblings or cousins my age. Summer time sucks because I'm just alone for months. Ive never had freinds during the summer due to me and my mom moving around a lot. And I got my hopes up this summer. And was gravely disappointed
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My friends all ignore me, they don't talk to me unless I reach out, any time I try to make plans they either say they're busy or cancell. And I'm still in school and can't drive yet and so I'm just stuck inside or walking my dog to the park down the road. I sit on the swing alone. I feel like an asshole when I try to confront them. I don't have any siblings or cousins my age. Summer time sucks because I'm just alone for months. Ive never had freinds during the summer due to me and my mom moving around a lot. And I got my hopes up this summer. And was gravely disappointed
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Lissybug01
I had a friend when in school they introduced me to their friends from their previous school.
We all got along and had similar interests, but I would occasionally feel like the odd one out. It didnt happen often and I could ignore it, but come January silence. No argument, no drama, no politics, no explanation just suddenly no communication from any of them.
Now Im wondering if Im just that person you become friends with because you see me at school/work everyday, and just drop me when Im no longer needed.
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I had a friend when in school they introduced me to their friends from their previous school.
We all got along and had similar interests, but I would occasionally feel like the odd one out. It didnt happen often and I could ignore it, but come January silence. No argument, no drama, no politics, no explanation just suddenly no communication from any of them.
Now Im wondering if Im just that person you become friends with because you see me at school/work everyday, and just drop me when Im no longer needed.
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Versa
Being alone and feeling alone for years does not mean I want to go and speak with a therapist I did that before years ago it did nothing really all it did was explaining the same f thing that I've been going through for years without any bit of other than being alone and then dealing with constant pain body aches as well as being painfully alone but just so that's known it's two different feelings of pain not assorted with one another.
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Being alone and feeling alone for years does not mean I want to go and speak with a therapist I did that before years ago it did nothing really all it did was explaining the same f thing that I've been going through for years without any bit of other than being alone and then dealing with constant pain body aches as well as being painfully alone but just so that's known it's two different feelings of pain not assorted with one another.
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Hunter
Its hard to explain but my loneliness doesnt come from a lack of people who care, It comes from being single and longing for that special person to share a life with. Mom constantly tells me that no guy will ever love me. She calls me selfish, uncaring and un-empithetic which is far from the truth as none of those describe me. but shes broken me down and Im really debating whether shes right that no guy will ever love me
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Its hard to explain but my loneliness doesnt come from a lack of people who care, It comes from being single and longing for that special person to share a life with. Mom constantly tells me that no guy will ever love me. She calls me selfish, uncaring and un-empithetic which is far from the truth as none of those describe me. but shes broken me down and Im really debating whether shes right that no guy will ever love me
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Bryony
i live in hospital and dont have a choice but to feel alone. most people talk over me and the medication makes me feel empty and gives me memory issues. therefore i find interaction difficult and the staff treat me like a child at 32. so i dont feel like a woman and i dont feel satsified with my life. it could be far worse and im being strong but for how long i dont know
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i live in hospital and dont have a choice but to feel alone. most people talk over me and the medication makes me feel empty and gives me memory issues. therefore i find interaction difficult and the staff treat me like a child at 32. so i dont feel like a woman and i dont feel satsified with my life. it could be far worse and im being strong but for how long i dont know
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Susbaka123
The reason I feel lonely is that all my friends in school are in a relationship and they just leave me behind I'm basically third wheeling. They all say every day do u have a bf already cmon get one already so that's why I feel lonely. Plus my crush is dating my best friend even tho I liked him before she didat lunch all my friends have other friends they prefer
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The reason I feel lonely is that all my friends in school are in a relationship and they just leave me behind I'm basically third wheeling. They all say every day do u have a bf already cmon get one already so that's why I feel lonely. Plus my crush is dating my best friend even tho I liked him before she didat lunch all my friends have other friends they prefer
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daboverty
man, i swear im just a bad person or something. i use to help people alot, therefore id expect them to be there when i need help. is that a toxic trait of some sort because ive lost alot of friends due to that. i even lost my girlfriend. right now im just trying to find ways to fix myself but its hard because i dont know whats right and whats wrong
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man, i swear im just a bad person or something. i use to help people alot, therefore id expect them to be there when i need help. is that a toxic trait of some sort because ive lost alot of friends due to that. i even lost my girlfriend. right now im just trying to find ways to fix myself but its hard because i dont know whats right and whats wrong
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StrawIceBerry
I NEED A TRIBE YES PEOPLe who like interesting role plays and LORE AND ART AND MUSIC and people who like STORIES thats bring them to a new state of mind and like a WHOLE NEW WORLD. I NEED PEOPLE who like to go OUTSIDE AND PLAY AND BE CRINGE IN PUBLIC BECAUSE LIFES TOO SHORT. I NEED PEOPLE TO PLAY and just be able to come over CUZ WHY NOT?
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I NEED A TRIBE YES PEOPLe who like interesting role plays and LORE AND ART AND MUSIC and people who like STORIES thats bring them to a new state of mind and like a WHOLE NEW WORLD. I NEED PEOPLE who like to go OUTSIDE AND PLAY AND BE CRINGE IN PUBLIC BECAUSE LIFES TOO SHORT. I NEED PEOPLE TO PLAY and just be able to come over CUZ WHY NOT?
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Smriti
Its just that i don't feel lonley i feel left out. recently i switched school and in my new one it was easy to make friends and i didn't feel left out at first but after sometime they all started to hangout together i just lonely and depressed after seeing them enojying on social media
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Its just that i don't feel lonley i feel left out. recently i switched school and in my new one it was easy to make friends and i didn't feel left out at first but after sometime they all started to hangout together i just lonely and depressed after seeing them enojying on social media
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Bsbsb
I am syrian. I suffered all my life from social phobia and I can't work because of it. I don't have friends, I don't have future, I don't have any chances in life and I can't travel because of my nationality, am just isolated and sad.
Please guys pray for me
My name is Samy
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I am syrian. I suffered all my life from social phobia and I can't work because of it. I don't have friends, I don't have future, I don't have any chances in life and I can't travel because of my nationality, am just isolated and sad.
Please guys pray for me
My name is Samy
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Joe
I am alone all the time. Everyone is gone and its just me and my dog. I wake up sad but can shake it off. Sometimes I go for drives but feel worse because I know there is no where to go and no one to go back home to. I know it wont always be this way but it is really hard right now
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I am alone all the time. Everyone is gone and its just me and my dog. I wake up sad but can shake it off. Sometimes I go for drives but feel worse because I know there is no where to go and no one to go back home to. I know it wont always be this way but it is really hard right now
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bumblebea
I wish sometimes that there was someone almost waiting for me, but I know that's never true. My friends at school are so kind, but sometimes I feel the odd one out because I don't know much about trends and TikTok.
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I wish sometimes that there was someone almost waiting for me, but I know that's never true. My friends at school are so kind, but sometimes I feel the odd one out because I don't know much about trends and TikTok.
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D. A.
I feel like a creep just thinking about showing compassion for someone i don't know. Like why am i butting into this other persons life, what do i want, why would they accept comfort from a stranger?
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I feel like a creep just thinking about showing compassion for someone i don't know. Like why am i butting into this other persons life, what do i want, why would they accept comfort from a stranger?
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Plop
The video said I must first be friends with myself but I hate myself there is nothing about myself that I like so I dont talk to other since I know they couldnt like me because I cant even like myself
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The video said I must first be friends with myself but I hate myself there is nothing about myself that I like so I dont talk to other since I know they couldnt like me because I cant even like myself
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kittensliketoplay
my problem i'm only 10 i'm staying at home all day i'm bored and I an't join a online community, i don't know how to get new friends, cuz i can't just drive to a park and meet someone
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my problem i'm only 10 i'm staying at home all day i'm bored and I an't join a online community, i don't know how to get new friends, cuz i can't just drive to a park and meet someone
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KENPACHI
I used to think i have people around me so i never used to feel alone or lonely, but as soon as i was in deep need for anyone, no one cared. I realised i was never alone but always lonely
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I used to think i have people around me so i never used to feel alone or lonely, but as soon as i was in deep need for anyone, no one cared. I realised i was never alone but always lonely
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DeemahON420
my dads dead. my moms deaf and mute, my grandmama looks after me. i have a female friend who cares for me but she doesnt want to be with me and i understand why but its kinda painful
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my dads dead. my moms deaf and mute, my grandmama looks after me. i have a female friend who cares for me but she doesnt want to be with me and i understand why but its kinda painful
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Kelby
I so desperately want someone who chooses to love me not forced to like family or said friends, I want love thats chosen through all my flaws no matter what simply unconditional
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I so desperately want someone who chooses to love me not forced to like family or said friends, I want love thats chosen through all my flaws no matter what simply unconditional
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Rick
Idk why but at nighttime I just get so lonely by myself and I feel like i need to facetime somebody or have somebody I love and know sit next to me and talk to me or play with me
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Idk why but at nighttime I just get so lonely by myself and I feel like i need to facetime somebody or have somebody I love and know sit next to me and talk to me or play with me
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