7 Uncomfortable Truths Everyone Needs To Accept
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Lucas
2. leaving all behind is the same as accepting your life to that point was a lie. Was it, though? Can you swallow that everything was fake? Moving on is often about how you can live with the pain, not how you leave the pain.
3. that's a lie and it's plain to see. Statiscally, you'll suffer much more than be happy, you'll hit many walls before finding a single path, you'll die a hundred times before living once. The choice is yours: is it worthy? They say you're missing on life, but are you? What's fun for them, is fun for you? What pleases them, also pleases you? Are you really dying that much to achieve something you really want and will feel acomplished with? Or are you chasing after a critically applauded strawman? The old no pain no gain does not apply 100% of the time, in fact, if it's true 50% of the time, it's a miracle, you'll find yourself swimming against the current to die at the beach more often then you think. Passion? Adventure? The confortable lie there is that these may be fun, when, in reality, you'll just waste your time doing what others find fun, not what you find fun.
5. go to where you're loved and appreciated, so the afterlife then? Liars outnumber honest folk by the billions, no matter where you go, who you talk with, most people will never find such a place and it's high time we stop telling them they will, for that is a confortable lie by itself.
7. and THAT is why dying is preferable to living with people. Pride comes before fall.
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2. leaving all behind is the same as accepting your life to that point was a lie. Was it, though? Can you swallow that everything was fake? Moving on is often about how you can live with the pain, not how you leave the pain.
3. that's a lie and it's plain to see. Statiscally, you'll suffer much more than be happy, you'll hit many walls before finding a single path, you'll die a hundred times before living once. The choice is yours: is it worthy? They say you're missing on life, but are you? What's fun for them, is fun for you? What pleases them, also pleases you? Are you really dying that much to achieve something you really want and will feel acomplished with? Or are you chasing after a critically applauded strawman? The old no pain no gain does not apply 100% of the time, in fact, if it's true 50% of the time, it's a miracle, you'll find yourself swimming against the current to die at the beach more often then you think. Passion? Adventure? The confortable lie there is that these may be fun, when, in reality, you'll just waste your time doing what others find fun, not what you find fun.
5. go to where you're loved and appreciated, so the afterlife then? Liars outnumber honest folk by the billions, no matter where you go, who you talk with, most people will never find such a place and it's high time we stop telling them they will, for that is a confortable lie by itself.
7. and THAT is why dying is preferable to living with people. Pride comes before fall.
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Sarana
I dont like how this directly makes things difficult for people with mental illness. Things like depression and social anxiety make it difficult to reach out to people. If they really wanted to they would is kind of damaging for people with these mental illnesses who struggle with the idea that people dont like them. In a world where people continuously give themselves to their jobs either out of necessity or because it is what is expected of them, people dont have as much time for friendships. Thinking that the other person doesnt like them or want to hang out will cause a viscous cycle for people with depression and social anxiety and could even lead to suicide. These mental illnesses also make it difficult to maintain social connections making others think that they dont care and thus keeping them from reaching out to a person who might really need it. The idea that you HAVE to love yourself first also makes things problematic for them and bring feelings of worthlessness of not being enough for their partners or future partners because they dont love themselves or because theyre constantly questioning if they do with their social anxiety. It also makes it harder for people who are in minority groups that are looked down upon by society who can sometimes struggle with self worth and self love.
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I dont like how this directly makes things difficult for people with mental illness. Things like depression and social anxiety make it difficult to reach out to people. If they really wanted to they would is kind of damaging for people with these mental illnesses who struggle with the idea that people dont like them. In a world where people continuously give themselves to their jobs either out of necessity or because it is what is expected of them, people dont have as much time for friendships. Thinking that the other person doesnt like them or want to hang out will cause a viscous cycle for people with depression and social anxiety and could even lead to suicide. These mental illnesses also make it difficult to maintain social connections making others think that they dont care and thus keeping them from reaching out to a person who might really need it. The idea that you HAVE to love yourself first also makes things problematic for them and bring feelings of worthlessness of not being enough for their partners or future partners because they dont love themselves or because theyre constantly questioning if they do with their social anxiety. It also makes it harder for people who are in minority groups that are looked down upon by society who can sometimes struggle with self worth and self love.
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puppykibble
Honesty, knowledge, acceptance and compassion. We are knowledge of our existence. We accept ourselves with compassion. We surrender our knowledge of our existence to ourselves with compassion. It sounds a lot like peace. Pity those whom do not seek peace. They will inherit earth that does not bare fruit. Their souls will burn their feet and poison rain will soak them with shame and humiliation. Angels will weep for their salvation but shall not be felt by those whom live it. Seek reconciliation for the souls of your children. Throw yourself before judgement and testify. But not you. The one whom understands this message. All glory to you! May the light fill your lungs your stomachs will no longer be hungry. You will be among the first to enter divine peace. You are here to witness it and may all your children go in the light with full stomachs and fill with light. Their light will shine the brightest along with yours and mine. The heavens will sing your song among theirs and mine. Those that covet the earth will inherit the earth. Pray your children come closer. Stand too close and you will surely blinded for you cannot defend yourself against your truth. Show me more for I am just a timeless comment within the infinite existence of humanity.
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Honesty, knowledge, acceptance and compassion. We are knowledge of our existence. We accept ourselves with compassion. We surrender our knowledge of our existence to ourselves with compassion. It sounds a lot like peace. Pity those whom do not seek peace. They will inherit earth that does not bare fruit. Their souls will burn their feet and poison rain will soak them with shame and humiliation. Angels will weep for their salvation but shall not be felt by those whom live it. Seek reconciliation for the souls of your children. Throw yourself before judgement and testify. But not you. The one whom understands this message. All glory to you! May the light fill your lungs your stomachs will no longer be hungry. You will be among the first to enter divine peace. You are here to witness it and may all your children go in the light with full stomachs and fill with light. Their light will shine the brightest along with yours and mine. The heavens will sing your song among theirs and mine. Those that covet the earth will inherit the earth. Pray your children come closer. Stand too close and you will surely blinded for you cannot defend yourself against your truth. Show me more for I am just a timeless comment within the infinite existence of humanity.
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education
Just read through the comments and find it sad that so many are from young people - teenagers still in school - who are feeling depressed and anxious about their current life situations. I wish I could give them all a hug ad tell them It WILL get better, things will change and you'll have autonomy over your life and your choices soon. I remember feeling that way when I was a teenager, when it was impossible to know that as life progresses the angst of my young life would give way to much better times. It's important for the young - and even not-so-young people like me - to realize that rime really does change everything, and some change is not possible UNTIL. Until you finish high school. until you get a job and can support yourself. until you recognize what you don't know, and learn that understanding precisely what you don't know can be the best way to appreciate what you do know and to point yourself in a direction of continued growth and self-knowledge. Psych2Go's videos are a great way to help people look inside themselves, and propel those who could benefit from it into therapy or other self-helping action. Everyone needs to start somewhere: -)
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Just read through the comments and find it sad that so many are from young people - teenagers still in school - who are feeling depressed and anxious about their current life situations. I wish I could give them all a hug ad tell them It WILL get better, things will change and you'll have autonomy over your life and your choices soon. I remember feeling that way when I was a teenager, when it was impossible to know that as life progresses the angst of my young life would give way to much better times. It's important for the young - and even not-so-young people like me - to realize that rime really does change everything, and some change is not possible UNTIL. Until you finish high school. until you get a job and can support yourself. until you recognize what you don't know, and learn that understanding precisely what you don't know can be the best way to appreciate what you do know and to point yourself in a direction of continued growth and self-knowledge. Psych2Go's videos are a great way to help people look inside themselves, and propel those who could benefit from it into therapy or other self-helping action. Everyone needs to start somewhere: -)
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iiANTIXSOCIAL
The way I see if they wanted to, they would is it's kinda toxic and kinda not. If you're in a romantic relationship, and you expect your partner to do something without you having to ask or mention it, that's a bad sign on your part. How are they supposed to know you want something, or that something is important to you, if you don't tell them? They can't read your mind. I've seen quite a few women rely too much on if they wanted to, they would. It's like they expect their partner to do everything without them having to say anything, when that's unrealistic. But I do agree in the sense that if someone wants you in their life, or that, for example, if they wanted to spend time with you or talk to you, they'll try their best to show you by making time for you
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The way I see if they wanted to, they would is it's kinda toxic and kinda not. If you're in a romantic relationship, and you expect your partner to do something without you having to ask or mention it, that's a bad sign on your part. How are they supposed to know you want something, or that something is important to you, if you don't tell them? They can't read your mind. I've seen quite a few women rely too much on if they wanted to, they would. It's like they expect their partner to do everything without them having to say anything, when that's unrealistic. But I do agree in the sense that if someone wants you in their life, or that, for example, if they wanted to spend time with you or talk to you, they'll try their best to show you by making time for you
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Neela
In middle school, I had moved the year before so I really didnt have many friends, the ones I did have were only there to hav enunciate with me then leave me alone when I needed somebody to talk to. I have experienced this many times so I think that its true, but my personality is very bubbly funny, touchy, and just a weird person in general. Do you think I might be considered annoying at times, because I have been called this 2 by the time of 6th grade. I am scared that I might lose friends and was wondering if I have to change. Please give advice (:
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In middle school, I had moved the year before so I really didnt have many friends, the ones I did have were only there to hav enunciate with me then leave me alone when I needed somebody to talk to. I have experienced this many times so I think that its true, but my personality is very bubbly funny, touchy, and just a weird person in general. Do you think I might be considered annoying at times, because I have been called this 2 by the time of 6th grade. I am scared that I might lose friends and was wondering if I have to change. Please give advice (:
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No
I remember the things which led me to think of these points, but that time I refused to teach myself. But now, I'm ready to be mature enough to accept things happened to me in a hard way!
Thank you Ma'am for this! I know I would be able to use this knowledge you've given us to understand more the people, their feelings, and all. I want to help them emotionally since I know that the battle inside of us is just as difficult as to what's happening outside.
I don't know why, but I feel like I want to be a psychologist already.
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I remember the things which led me to think of these points, but that time I refused to teach myself. But now, I'm ready to be mature enough to accept things happened to me in a hard way!
Thank you Ma'am for this! I know I would be able to use this knowledge you've given us to understand more the people, their feelings, and all. I want to help them emotionally since I know that the battle inside of us is just as difficult as to what's happening outside.
I don't know why, but I feel like I want to be a psychologist already.
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Xeogin
I disagree some with 5 & 6. It's just as toxic to view happiness as a simple state of mind switch. It's a process of discovery and building healthy boundaries to protect it. A pursuit if you will. As for friends that aren't necessarily reaching out, it's a double edged sword. Especially if you or that friend has rejection anxiety. Don't burn a bridge unless you have to, and I don't mean don't ever. Learning when you should and how to go about it is just as important as building one in the first place. :)
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I disagree some with 5 & 6. It's just as toxic to view happiness as a simple state of mind switch. It's a process of discovery and building healthy boundaries to protect it. A pursuit if you will. As for friends that aren't necessarily reaching out, it's a double edged sword. Especially if you or that friend has rejection anxiety. Don't burn a bridge unless you have to, and I don't mean don't ever. Learning when you should and how to go about it is just as important as building one in the first place. :)
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Vypren
I have to come to terms with the fact that my best friend and his narcissist traits (I just recently woke up to) are out of my responsibility and that I can't help him help himself like I tried for over a year now.
It's his journey. I tried. I really did. But I can't keep on feeding into his tendencies and forget about the things I need to sort out for myself and my own happiness.
Guess it's time to let go. Been real my friend. Best of luck to you.
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I have to come to terms with the fact that my best friend and his narcissist traits (I just recently woke up to) are out of my responsibility and that I can't help him help himself like I tried for over a year now.
It's his journey. I tried. I really did. But I can't keep on feeding into his tendencies and forget about the things I need to sort out for myself and my own happiness.
Guess it's time to let go. Been real my friend. Best of luck to you.
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riicky83
If they really could, they would. You can't really apply that to everyone. Not everyone can communicate easily especially Autistic people. The part where you said if you need to force someone to make an effort to keep a relationship alive, be it romantic or platonic. You're better off not having them around. This can be very damaging to those that can't read other people's emotions.
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If they really could, they would. You can't really apply that to everyone. Not everyone can communicate easily especially Autistic people. The part where you said if you need to force someone to make an effort to keep a relationship alive, be it romantic or platonic. You're better off not having them around. This can be very damaging to those that can't read other people's emotions.
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Icy
Hello Psych2Go team! Ever since i started watching your videos i always felt so alone and thought i was just an anomaly of civilization. But your videos have not only help me understand certain disorders and lifestyles, but have help me understand that I'm not alone in my struggles. Keep up with what your doing and i will always support you guys. You guys are doing amazing work!
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Hello Psych2Go team! Ever since i started watching your videos i always felt so alone and thought i was just an anomaly of civilization. But your videos have not only help me understand certain disorders and lifestyles, but have help me understand that I'm not alone in my struggles. Keep up with what your doing and i will always support you guys. You guys are doing amazing work!
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Paaapuu
on the point only you can give yourself the closure. i want to know the other side where the person who hurted understands their mistake and go through remorse and feels guilt on their action. Now what can give a closure for that guilty, the person changed for good after understanding but the guilt remains still. Can pysch2go or anyone give a answer or some idea on this.
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on the point only you can give yourself the closure. i want to know the other side where the person who hurted understands their mistake and go through remorse and feels guilt on their action. Now what can give a closure for that guilty, the person changed for good after understanding but the guilt remains still. Can pysch2go or anyone give a answer or some idea on this.
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psych2go
Most of the posts are appropriate for all ages but I wonder if some can be tailored for younger 8-12 year-olds. I listen to some posts within earshot of my grandson in hopes that he will pick up some tips. He struggles so much with anxiety and self doubt. These programs are perfect if not a bit long for the attention span of our youth. Sad but true?
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Most of the posts are appropriate for all ages but I wonder if some can be tailored for younger 8-12 year-olds. I listen to some posts within earshot of my grandson in hopes that he will pick up some tips. He struggles so much with anxiety and self doubt. These programs are perfect if not a bit long for the attention span of our youth. Sad but true?
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RoseColoredGoggles
1. only you can change yourself 1: 21
2. only you can give yourself closure 1: 52
3. taking no risk is the biggest risk 2: 32
4. sometimes quitting is for winners 3: 12
5. if they really wanted to, they would 3: 52
6. happiness isn't anywhere down the road 4: 36
7. you can't love someone else until you love yourself 5: 13
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1. only you can change yourself 1: 21
2. only you can give yourself closure 1: 52
3. taking no risk is the biggest risk 2: 32
4. sometimes quitting is for winners 3: 12
5. if they really wanted to, they would 3: 52
6. happiness isn't anywhere down the road 4: 36
7. you can't love someone else until you love yourself 5: 13
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slackerofhell
I understand everything you're saying and completely agree with it. I just don't know if I care enough any. ore to bother trying to pull myself out of my situation. I live my life as a coward, cloaked in a shadow of fear and have zero ambition or motivation in my life to change anything. I just want it all to end already. I'm just so tired.
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I understand everything you're saying and completely agree with it. I just don't know if I care enough any. ore to bother trying to pull myself out of my situation. I live my life as a coward, cloaked in a shadow of fear and have zero ambition or motivation in my life to change anything. I just want it all to end already. I'm just so tired.
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Jacques
In a certain way everything starts in the mind: Thinking about your feelings and thoughts. The most of you, younger people, are in a certain way shy. Being shy hasn't to be a problem. Do you know why? : An old wise man, Lao Tze says about that: Thinking can think problems that doesn't exist. Thinking can think problems, that doesn't exist.
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In a certain way everything starts in the mind: Thinking about your feelings and thoughts. The most of you, younger people, are in a certain way shy. Being shy hasn't to be a problem. Do you know why? : An old wise man, Lao Tze says about that: Thinking can think problems that doesn't exist. Thinking can think problems, that doesn't exist.
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Ives
Food For Thought: The beauty of life is, while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it, and change so that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, loneliness, hesitation, fear, or anger; but in wisdom, understanding, enthusiasm, freedom, passion and love.
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Food For Thought: The beauty of life is, while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it, and change so that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, loneliness, hesitation, fear, or anger; but in wisdom, understanding, enthusiasm, freedom, passion and love.
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Blackspice11
Recently I had to admit some truth that was uncomfortable, it's okay to be alone and I don't have to be in a relationship to be loved my children love me I love myself and I'm working on my mental status and actually I enjoy being by myself it's time for me to figure out what I like
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Recently I had to admit some truth that was uncomfortable, it's okay to be alone and I don't have to be in a relationship to be loved my children love me I love myself and I'm working on my mental status and actually I enjoy being by myself it's time for me to figure out what I like
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education
Ever since I was little, my parents already
thought me about how society works
today, and now they have a problem about
me not having friends and being an
introvert myself. I just have trust issues,
and more mature than any other teenagers
in my school lol.
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Ever since I was little, my parents already
thought me about how society works
today, and now they have a problem about
me not having friends and being an
introvert myself. I just have trust issues,
and more mature than any other teenagers
in my school lol.
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education
People don't want the truth, if they did there would be no conflict nor war. People want what conforms to their perspective, they want whatever confirms their biases. Most importantly, people don't want to admit that maybe it's themselves that need to change.
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People don't want the truth, if they did there would be no conflict nor war. People want what conforms to their perspective, they want whatever confirms their biases. Most importantly, people don't want to admit that maybe it's themselves that need to change.
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Yuzuha
I don't have any of these but there is a person I like feels like she has a majority of them, I feel they they need to watch this and hope that they change for the better! Thank you for explaining things in a way I can't this is extremely helpful
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I don't have any of these but there is a person I like feels like she has a majority of them, I feel they they need to watch this and hope that they change for the better! Thank you for explaining things in a way I can't this is extremely helpful
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The
Harsh lessons. which I would much rather learn from you than from the harsh experience that--while it might teach 'better'--leaves trauma that can make one unable to USE the lesson.
Thank you for helping us avoid those experiences.
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Harsh lessons. which I would much rather learn from you than from the harsh experience that--while it might teach 'better'--leaves trauma that can make one unable to USE the lesson.
Thank you for helping us avoid those experiences.
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Riley
I disagree with the last point, it's way easier to love someone else than it is to love yourself, and you cannot tell me that everyone in a loving relationship loves themselves. I don't think the message or sentiment is wrong tho
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I disagree with the last point, it's way easier to love someone else than it is to love yourself, and you cannot tell me that everyone in a loving relationship loves themselves. I don't think the message or sentiment is wrong tho
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Humphrey
Some Christians, I think, need to pay attention to Truth No 7 (loving yourself. As I heard someone say recently, 'you can't pour anything out of an empty cup'. Perhaps the Eleventh Commandment should read: 'don't be a doormat'!
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Some Christians, I think, need to pay attention to Truth No 7 (loving yourself. As I heard someone say recently, 'you can't pour anything out of an empty cup'. Perhaps the Eleventh Commandment should read: 'don't be a doormat'!
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Gaming
This one I truly need to listen to bc even though I'm slowly accomplishing some goals before 2022 comes to an end, but I'm just not putting myself out there as much as I am doing rn, I'll still work on that when entering 2023.
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This one I truly need to listen to bc even though I'm slowly accomplishing some goals before 2022 comes to an end, but I'm just not putting myself out there as much as I am doing rn, I'll still work on that when entering 2023.
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