6 Reasons You Attract Toxic People
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Susan
I checked off each trait, yes, each character trait belongs to me, therefore receiving a 100%. Wow. Wish I'd have learned about this and also about narcissistic people, many decades ago. Hope this video helps young people too, before they live their whole life unawares and abused.
If I'd give out advice to anyone who finds that they are the person described in this video, I'd say to you, Make sure you have at least 2 or 3 people in your life who know you and love you and support you because you should use these 2 or 3 people as your counselors and listen for what their advice is to you and to hear their thoughts on things when you are 1. Choosing a life partner, 2. Having difficulty with another person, 3. Being abused by someone, 4. When you're not sure about why some negative things are happening in your life whether at work, it at home, or in ministry, or in friendships, etc.
I think having support, and listening to others view points and hearing counsel from those that love you and know you well is the best help you could have in your lifetime.
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I checked off each trait, yes, each character trait belongs to me, therefore receiving a 100%. Wow. Wish I'd have learned about this and also about narcissistic people, many decades ago. Hope this video helps young people too, before they live their whole life unawares and abused.
If I'd give out advice to anyone who finds that they are the person described in this video, I'd say to you, Make sure you have at least 2 or 3 people in your life who know you and love you and support you because you should use these 2 or 3 people as your counselors and listen for what their advice is to you and to hear their thoughts on things when you are 1. Choosing a life partner, 2. Having difficulty with another person, 3. Being abused by someone, 4. When you're not sure about why some negative things are happening in your life whether at work, it at home, or in ministry, or in friendships, etc.
I think having support, and listening to others view points and hearing counsel from those that love you and know you well is the best help you could have in your lifetime.
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Youtuber
I learned to stand up for myself because of feeling like I was treated as a child in my early 20s after moving out of my parents house. I flat out told my mother that I pay rent and my own bills so I don't have to do what she says anymore. As soon as I said those words, she treated me as an adult. I had never done that before and I think I shocked her a little. Now we have a good relationship. I was never a kid that insisted on having my own life until I moved out. I just went with things other people expected of me. I don't do that now. I've seen way too much to go with that kind of BS ever again.
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I learned to stand up for myself because of feeling like I was treated as a child in my early 20s after moving out of my parents house. I flat out told my mother that I pay rent and my own bills so I don't have to do what she says anymore. As soon as I said those words, she treated me as an adult. I had never done that before and I think I shocked her a little. Now we have a good relationship. I was never a kid that insisted on having my own life until I moved out. I just went with things other people expected of me. I don't do that now. I've seen way too much to go with that kind of BS ever again.
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Jake
Confrontations are actually good, just take what you think is helpful and leave what not. Also sometimes boundaries are meant to be cross but NOT all the time, only let people 'In' if they care about you also. Don't try to juggle all at once, sometimes just making a good gesture for a small so called 'insident' you sub-focus on that and focus on how many of this shts can you take for the day. Self assessment/awareness is key, assess yourself to be better next time, to prepare because the beginning of something is always hard but eventually as it progresses it will not be that hard wink
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Confrontations are actually good, just take what you think is helpful and leave what not. Also sometimes boundaries are meant to be cross but NOT all the time, only let people 'In' if they care about you also. Don't try to juggle all at once, sometimes just making a good gesture for a small so called 'insident' you sub-focus on that and focus on how many of this shts can you take for the day. Self assessment/awareness is key, assess yourself to be better next time, to prepare because the beginning of something is always hard but eventually as it progresses it will not be that hard wink
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Lisa
They research you go into confidental records to shame you run around and tell the things they think they know. I will always be careful forever. Believe me this wad an hurtful and emotional hurting experience. Some of the things they have done others are beginning to see. Thank God because the people who are my family insuated that i did something wrong, when manipulation and harrasment is the real issue. Never take some people at their word its toi expensive at the end. Do what is very best to protect your peace and your sanity. Evil people are poison to any one.
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They research you go into confidental records to shame you run around and tell the things they think they know. I will always be careful forever. Believe me this wad an hurtful and emotional hurting experience. Some of the things they have done others are beginning to see. Thank God because the people who are my family insuated that i did something wrong, when manipulation and harrasment is the real issue. Never take some people at their word its toi expensive at the end. Do what is very best to protect your peace and your sanity. Evil people are poison to any one.
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Kathy
Im currently in a situationship with a guy whose mother lives with us and is constantly interfering in our conversations. I mentioned this to him and how it makes me feel, and he does nothing about it. His mother also makes comments about me when i am not around and tells him she wants me out of the house. So whenever I go downstairs, I wear my headphones and listen to music and totally ignore her. Im looking for another place to live.
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Im currently in a situationship with a guy whose mother lives with us and is constantly interfering in our conversations. I mentioned this to him and how it makes me feel, and he does nothing about it. His mother also makes comments about me when i am not around and tells him she wants me out of the house. So whenever I go downstairs, I wear my headphones and listen to music and totally ignore her. Im looking for another place to live.
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Soulburn
And, no. actually, for the people who live in the united states, we live in a toxic society. Literally. We arent attracting toxic people. This is where toxic people live. Its like a fish trying to find a mate in a oceanic garbage patch. If youre surrounded by misogynistic carnivoric patriarchal trash youre only going to get a toxic masculinity misoginistic carnivoric trash person.
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And, no. actually, for the people who live in the united states, we live in a toxic society. Literally. We arent attracting toxic people. This is where toxic people live. Its like a fish trying to find a mate in a oceanic garbage patch. If youre surrounded by misogynistic carnivoric patriarchal trash youre only going to get a toxic masculinity misoginistic carnivoric trash person.
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S.
Well this sums up my entire middle school experience. In the end, I just decided to try and find the nicest people, and I found one of my besties there (I also was quite judgy, so not the best version of myself, as I thought everyone was somewhat judgy. I met my other bestie where I'm at now. They're both very epic people and I love 'em.
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Well this sums up my entire middle school experience. In the end, I just decided to try and find the nicest people, and I found one of my besties there (I also was quite judgy, so not the best version of myself, as I thought everyone was somewhat judgy. I met my other bestie where I'm at now. They're both very epic people and I love 'em.
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VoiceOvaGuy
I used to be like this, I'm getting much better at speaking up and telling people to f off if they try to take advantage of me. Especially immature women thinking they can play with my emotions like a game, I got no problem cutting you outta my life in a heartbeat if you prove to be a piece of sh.
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I used to be like this, I'm getting much better at speaking up and telling people to f off if they try to take advantage of me. Especially immature women thinking they can play with my emotions like a game, I got no problem cutting you outta my life in a heartbeat if you prove to be a piece of sh.
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Кристина
Yep, I'm totally a rescuer type. I've attracted so many bad people that they made all good people leave. After setting some boundaries I stayed alone, but I still have a boyfriend. These days I'm trying to tell people only necessary things, keeping the rest for myself.
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Yep, I'm totally a rescuer type. I've attracted so many bad people that they made all good people leave. After setting some boundaries I stayed alone, but I still have a boyfriend. These days I'm trying to tell people only necessary things, keeping the rest for myself.
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M11TS
When I was younger, all these traits applied to me. So I watched bullies and toxic people and learned. I know how to act toxic (without being so), and know how the toxic person feels, and can work with that. Now I'm in a better position, and it feels good.
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When I was younger, all these traits applied to me. So I watched bullies and toxic people and learned. I know how to act toxic (without being so), and know how the toxic person feels, and can work with that. Now I'm in a better position, and it feels good.
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Savanna
I'm going through alot lately I had a bad relationship with my ex toxic boyfriend and now I'm dating again after 5 years I thought everything was ok but now I don't know coz the lad is trying to be mean to me why do I get people like this. I am so down
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I'm going through alot lately I had a bad relationship with my ex toxic boyfriend and now I'm dating again after 5 years I thought everything was ok but now I don't know coz the lad is trying to be mean to me why do I get people like this. I am so down
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Winnie
I strike all the 6 reasons like striking a lottery. So the results is I don't have any real friendship in my life. I have to stay away from them in order not to be hurt again & again. I need to protect myself in order to have a peace of mind.
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I strike all the 6 reasons like striking a lottery. So the results is I don't have any real friendship in my life. I have to stay away from them in order not to be hurt again & again. I need to protect myself in order to have a peace of mind.
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da
Me who has almost all the reason and being used by toxic people can relate. It totally drain emotionally, my energy, etc. Please. you can be nice to other people, to the one who really need it. This toxic people just devalue you.
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Me who has almost all the reason and being used by toxic people can relate. It totally drain emotionally, my energy, etc. Please. you can be nice to other people, to the one who really need it. This toxic people just devalue you.
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FlowerDreamStar
Honestly sometimes I think I am the toxic person. When I start to get annoyed about others people speech I end up being mean almost on purpose, it's not like I want to but somehow it happens.
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Honestly sometimes I think I am the toxic person. When I start to get annoyed about others people speech I end up being mean almost on purpose, it's not like I want to but somehow it happens.
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kim
I relate to all of these character traits. Ive been wondering why I have to eliminate so many people from my life and now I understand that I attracted them and they were toxic. It wasnt me after all.
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I relate to all of these character traits. Ive been wondering why I have to eliminate so many people from my life and now I understand that I attracted them and they were toxic. It wasnt me after all.
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Ju
These are only the i'm the victim reasons for attracting toxic people. Some people genuinely just find toxic people more fun because they're more challenging and hard to deal with. There you have it.
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These are only the i'm the victim reasons for attracting toxic people. Some people genuinely just find toxic people more fun because they're more challenging and hard to deal with. There you have it.
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iunderstan
this attracts toxic people in your workplace the most; you're around them more than friend and family, and toxic traits reveal themselves much faster when someone has authority over you
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this attracts toxic people in your workplace the most; you're around them more than friend and family, and toxic traits reveal themselves much faster when someone has authority over you
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Michael
1- kindness is weakness.
2- dont waste your time on losers.
3- dont rescue a wounded Cobra.
4- just say no!
5- loyalty is for suckers.
6- dont tell anyone anything.
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1- kindness is weakness.
2- dont waste your time on losers.
3- dont rescue a wounded Cobra.
4- just say no!
5- loyalty is for suckers.
6- dont tell anyone anything.
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education
Yes all of these plus my empath traits costed me my lifetime to get married into a family full of snakes, scorpions & crabs! Took me 25yrs to realize I am surrounded Covert Narcs.
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Yes all of these plus my empath traits costed me my lifetime to get married into a family full of snakes, scorpions & crabs! Took me 25yrs to realize I am surrounded Covert Narcs.
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Bianca
Been bullied out of making my life my own by lazy mom and stepdad who never taught me how to make my life my own, they used my honesty and kind nature as a weapon against me
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Been bullied out of making my life my own by lazy mom and stepdad who never taught me how to make my life my own, they used my honesty and kind nature as a weapon against me
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MAM
How do I know if they are toxic or I am? This resonated with me in relation to past friendships that didn't work out but so did the video about being toxic but not malicious.
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How do I know if they are toxic or I am? This resonated with me in relation to past friendships that didn't work out but so did the video about being toxic but not malicious.
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Maredith
I've always wondered why am I a magnet for toxic people I got 4 out of the 6 and these days I really do not ignore my instincts it has saved me from a lot of trouble
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I've always wondered why am I a magnet for toxic people I got 4 out of the 6 and these days I really do not ignore my instincts it has saved me from a lot of trouble
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Fine
I find this amazing and sad because i am all that draw toxic ppl but i wont change and i am getting better, i need to learn when to share what information.
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I find this amazing and sad because i am all that draw toxic ppl but i wont change and i am getting better, i need to learn when to share what information.
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Mikeyy
5: 24 this right here really hit me, because my family says I've changed (not in a gd way. I really do think I'm weak for being gullible and agreeable.
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5: 24 this right here really hit me, because my family says I've changed (not in a gd way. I really do think I'm weak for being gullible and agreeable.
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Judy
I'm overly open and honest, generous with my time, and loyal. But I'm happy to confront others and don't need to make people happy cuz I NEVER have!
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I'm overly open and honest, generous with my time, and loyal. But I'm happy to confront others and don't need to make people happy cuz I NEVER have!
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