8 Flaws That Actually Make You More Attractive
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Pendra37
Let me see.
Shy woman: Likeable for socially somewhat challenged males. Shy women are less flirty. Less likely to trigger jealousy. Less likely to cheat on you. Plus she will not overshadow you in social situations.
Clumsy woman: Clumsiness is relative. A male can feel or look very skillful next to a clumsy partner. Thus a clumsy partner is a self-confidence boost for the male.
Easily Blushing: Easier for the make to evoke visible reaction from the partner. No need to work hard or clever, male like that.
Nerdy: I hate this term. Nerdy is the new Goth. A trendy fad. I'm totally nerdy because I watch Dr Who, wear weird glasses and distinctly unfashionable clothes. Most of the times, they do this because they are too insecure to form their own personality, just jump on the trend wagon. However the mainstream is too hard so they jump on the alter. Male, who have a good playbook on insecure, herd mentality women will have a field day when dating nerdy.
Being too honest: That is actually a correct assesment, No beating around the bush. No mental games. What you hear is what you get. If you go for low difficulty or you are bad reading people, too honest can work. However, beware of the people who say oh sorry, I'm too honest meanwhile they are the exact opposite. Those are super hard to date.
Oversharer: It is useful. It makes the evaluation of the partner much easier at the beginning. Find pros and cons and make a better informed projection. Also oversharing means stuff is happening to the person, as there is something to overshare. Many times, it turns out the mystery person is mysterious because he/she has no life to speak of, nothing to share.
Slow: Same as clumsy. Next to a slow person, even an average person will feel energetic and full of initiative.
Crave for support: Oh boy, that is one major red flag or alternatively super easy mode to get the girl. You, as a male, do not need to be handsome, fashionable, smart, rich, smooth talking or have other redeeming quality. Just show that she can cling onto you. Show that you will make all her decisions for her. Take care all of the worldly tasks she is too slow/clumsy/shy to do. Boom success. You have a new subject to rule over!
Beware, this is also the main tool of the gold diggers and the social climbers. Oh I need the support of your strong hands and smarts, while they just go for the money and the social benefits and dump you in the instant those are not available anymore.
All in all, these traits are attractive to males because it makes the dating easier, less effort, less energy needed. If the male could get a smoking hot girl or a slow/clumsy girl for the same effort, 100% would pick the hot one.
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Let me see.
Shy woman: Likeable for socially somewhat challenged males. Shy women are less flirty. Less likely to trigger jealousy. Less likely to cheat on you. Plus she will not overshadow you in social situations.
Clumsy woman: Clumsiness is relative. A male can feel or look very skillful next to a clumsy partner. Thus a clumsy partner is a self-confidence boost for the male.
Easily Blushing: Easier for the make to evoke visible reaction from the partner. No need to work hard or clever, male like that.
Nerdy: I hate this term. Nerdy is the new Goth. A trendy fad. I'm totally nerdy because I watch Dr Who, wear weird glasses and distinctly unfashionable clothes. Most of the times, they do this because they are too insecure to form their own personality, just jump on the trend wagon. However the mainstream is too hard so they jump on the alter. Male, who have a good playbook on insecure, herd mentality women will have a field day when dating nerdy.
Being too honest: That is actually a correct assesment, No beating around the bush. No mental games. What you hear is what you get. If you go for low difficulty or you are bad reading people, too honest can work. However, beware of the people who say oh sorry, I'm too honest meanwhile they are the exact opposite. Those are super hard to date.
Oversharer: It is useful. It makes the evaluation of the partner much easier at the beginning. Find pros and cons and make a better informed projection. Also oversharing means stuff is happening to the person, as there is something to overshare. Many times, it turns out the mystery person is mysterious because he/she has no life to speak of, nothing to share.
Slow: Same as clumsy. Next to a slow person, even an average person will feel energetic and full of initiative.
Crave for support: Oh boy, that is one major red flag or alternatively super easy mode to get the girl. You, as a male, do not need to be handsome, fashionable, smart, rich, smooth talking or have other redeeming quality. Just show that she can cling onto you. Show that you will make all her decisions for her. Take care all of the worldly tasks she is too slow/clumsy/shy to do. Boom success. You have a new subject to rule over!
Beware, this is also the main tool of the gold diggers and the social climbers. Oh I need the support of your strong hands and smarts, while they just go for the money and the social benefits and dump you in the instant those are not available anymore.
All in all, these traits are attractive to males because it makes the dating easier, less effort, less energy needed. If the male could get a smoking hot girl or a slow/clumsy girl for the same effort, 100% would pick the hot one.
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SerotoninInMyHead
Well this is an old video i stumbled upon it now and i have most of these traits actually more than half of them in the same way you described and i dont feel like they really do make me attractive i havent really been able to see someone actually like those traits of mine maybe a few times very few times here and there but for the most part i feel like these are somethings that might annoy the other person basically actually be flaws i mean ofc they are flaws and most ppl wont like them but even my frnds i never really got the feeling of them liking any one of my traits like the ones above which makes me wonder if they dont really speak up or is it true. Not trying to prove this wrong or complain that i am not attractive i mean ppl are not attracted to me but i am just thinking upon it really
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Well this is an old video i stumbled upon it now and i have most of these traits actually more than half of them in the same way you described and i dont feel like they really do make me attractive i havent really been able to see someone actually like those traits of mine maybe a few times very few times here and there but for the most part i feel like these are somethings that might annoy the other person basically actually be flaws i mean ofc they are flaws and most ppl wont like them but even my frnds i never really got the feeling of them liking any one of my traits like the ones above which makes me wonder if they dont really speak up or is it true. Not trying to prove this wrong or complain that i am not attractive i mean ppl are not attracted to me but i am just thinking upon it really
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CamGaming
I wish there was a girl in my grade who cared about someone like me, who is pretty much all of these. But they are mostly all spoiled brats. They only care about themselves and their group. If one of the popular girls were to be seen with someone like me, they would be ridiculed and harassed because of it. I sometimes feel like girl dont realize that guys that are crazy, end up being killed sooner then people like me. Its just so annoying that not a single girl even stares at us. This is a reason for why Im depressed.
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I wish there was a girl in my grade who cared about someone like me, who is pretty much all of these. But they are mostly all spoiled brats. They only care about themselves and their group. If one of the popular girls were to be seen with someone like me, they would be ridiculed and harassed because of it. I sometimes feel like girl dont realize that guys that are crazy, end up being killed sooner then people like me. Its just so annoying that not a single girl even stares at us. This is a reason for why Im depressed.
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You'll
I never knew this and this vid just explain who i am except the nerd one since i actually get irritated with every subject except math and TD. Also I'm not rlly a talkative person, i will just casually doing my own thing if i have nothing to do. Or probably just gonna watch my classmates on whatever they're doing like playing or literally being loud when we have our free time.
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I never knew this and this vid just explain who i am except the nerd one since i actually get irritated with every subject except math and TD. Also I'm not rlly a talkative person, i will just casually doing my own thing if i have nothing to do. Or probably just gonna watch my classmates on whatever they're doing like playing or literally being loud when we have our free time.
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tomatotree
Me: tick all 8 boxes. Cant shut up about cancer biology. Clumsy in wet lab. Would not skip a computational task. Too shy to ask my crush out but probably ramble to much to him about lab work ( probably scare him away. Savage and sentimental af and would not do well with small talk.
Have been single for the last 20 years of life: )
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Me: tick all 8 boxes. Cant shut up about cancer biology. Clumsy in wet lab. Would not skip a computational task. Too shy to ask my crush out but probably ramble to much to him about lab work ( probably scare him away. Savage and sentimental af and would not do well with small talk.
Have been single for the last 20 years of life: )
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education
Gee going by this, I must be super attractive damn. coz not all but oh most of these so be me
nah jokes apart tho, it is nice to have a pov like some of these flaws
aren't necessarily so bad. don't even need it be that it makes you attractive as such
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Gee going by this, I must be super attractive damn. coz not all but oh most of these so be me
nah jokes apart tho, it is nice to have a pov like some of these flaws
aren't necessarily so bad. don't even need it be that it makes you attractive as such
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KingsleyIII
When someone says You're a nerd, they're actually saying You're entusiastically passionate about something I don't understand the appeal of.
Am I supposed to be insulted? How is this a bad thing?
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When someone says You're a nerd, they're actually saying You're entusiastically passionate about something I don't understand the appeal of.
Am I supposed to be insulted? How is this a bad thing?
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Fax
1. You're shy
2. You re clumsy
3. You're easily embarrassed
4. You're nerdy
5. You're too honest
6. You're an oversharer
7. You take things slow
8. You crave support
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1. You're shy
2. You re clumsy
3. You're easily embarrassed
4. You're nerdy
5. You're too honest
6. You're an oversharer
7. You take things slow
8. You crave support
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Eneleata
Whenever I get embarrassed I cover my face and I thought my boyfriend would find me weird for it but he laughed and told me I was funny which made me even more flustered
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Whenever I get embarrassed I cover my face and I thought my boyfriend would find me weird for it but he laughed and told me I was funny which made me even more flustered
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Aiden
Wow most of these apply to me. And I definitely find these traits attractive, for women. But I've never met a woman that wants to date a shy clumsy nerd.
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Wow most of these apply to me. And I definitely find these traits attractive, for women. But I've never met a woman that wants to date a shy clumsy nerd.
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education
Me who has non of these flaws: -Idk if i am supposed to be happy thinking I don't have these or sad that these are actually attractive to me
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Me who has non of these flaws: -Idk if i am supposed to be happy thinking I don't have these or sad that these are actually attractive to me
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TangeryneToons
I personally find getting embarrassed easy very attractive. Whenever they get flustered it just makes my heart beat fast.
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I personally find getting embarrassed easy very attractive. Whenever they get flustered it just makes my heart beat fast.
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gumshus
I haven't blushed a single day of my life even tho I'm embarrassed or everything that makes blushes come out AND I NOT NORMAL
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I haven't blushed a single day of my life even tho I'm embarrassed or everything that makes blushes come out AND I NOT NORMAL
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Withmywoes
It seems like whenever I talk or share too much people just don't seem interested to I've learned to keep things short
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It seems like whenever I talk or share too much people just don't seem interested to I've learned to keep things short
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? xyz
I have literally everyone of those
I think this video is probably a troll can't believe that
I have all the flaws
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I have literally everyone of those
I think this video is probably a troll can't believe that
I have all the flaws
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pierog
Ugh its really confusing sometimes. Once they Tell you beeing shy is attractive and once they Tell you to be confident
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Ugh its really confusing sometimes. Once they Tell you beeing shy is attractive and once they Tell you to be confident
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Melissa
I know this is a super late comment, but you just earned another sub by showing Monokuma when mentioning videogames.
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I know this is a super late comment, but you just earned another sub by showing Monokuma when mentioning videogames.
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LordTadashii
I'm a mess with low self esteem and trust issues with Professionally diagnosed ADHD bipolar1 and a few others
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I'm a mess with low self esteem and trust issues with Professionally diagnosed ADHD bipolar1 and a few others
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Sanne
so i used to be most of these but tought myself to not be like that because most of these things are seen as flaws
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so i used to be most of these but tought myself to not be like that because most of these things are seen as flaws
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Kros215
You can't just magically summon fandoms out of nowhere
Psych2go: (2: 52) (Danganronpa fans meeting here; ) )
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You can't just magically summon fandoms out of nowhere
Psych2go: (2: 52) (Danganronpa fans meeting here; ) )
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Heather
Clumsy, shy, honest, a bit nerdy, I don't think that I ever measured up to most standards of beauty.
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Clumsy, shy, honest, a bit nerdy, I don't think that I ever measured up to most standards of beauty.
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Mythical
All the flaws I have are mostly attractive to men but Im a guy does that mean I will not find love?
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All the flaws I have are mostly attractive to men but Im a guy does that mean I will not find love?
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RunOut
2: 43 What is he playing? Thats the important question. Extra points if hes playing on a modded 3ds.
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2: 43 What is he playing? Thats the important question. Extra points if hes playing on a modded 3ds.
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Sbynz
It sounds so like me but I doubt am I still attractive to people, especially to my crush in my class
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It sounds so like me but I doubt am I still attractive to people, especially to my crush in my class
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