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6 Things People With Depression Want You to Know (PART 2)

6 Things People With Depression Want You to Know (PART 2)

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Do you know someone suffering from depression? Do you wonder whats going on in their minds? Depression is a serious mental illness that affects millions of people. To watch PART 1, click on the link below
Date: 2023-08-20

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It's sad for me that I cannot get over my past of being bullied, I am just forced to accept it as a part of my life. I can not tell anyone too, because whenever I tell them my story, they just said some sentences like It's normal, your story is not as bad as mine. or make fun of my story and tell it to the others. Even my family took advantage of my story and always tell me when they're angry that the reason why I was bullied like that is because I am extremely stubborn, miserable, worse day by day and dumb as a horse. Of course, I was hurt and broken mentally, I understand that I am lucky than others, because it is just passive one, and it's not harmful to my physical health, but. sometimes, I find out that my situation is not good by any means. I can say that I am an excellent student who always wins the 1st prize at school's competition, I am quite pretty that they sometimes fell jealous with me and some boys like me, I am full of beans and usually enjoy social activities. but everything changes since I was bullied, they all blame on me, they made up bad stories about me, they laughed on me and they did everything that can immerse me in negative sadness and it was obviously awful. They made me feel upset, that I was down in the dumps everyday, cried everyday, hurt my self with scratch and injuries everyday and make me worse everyday. I want to get over it, I read many different motivated stories to be better but I can't. Everyone stands against me, even my fav teacher and my best friend. I cannot trust anyone, I scared of that they will act like they did and hurt me again. I just smile at school like I wasn't affected by these activities, but I did, and I just didn't tell them. I have thought that I am depressed but then I thought that no one who is depressed can think that they are in it. Until now, they still passive bully me, and I still cannot get over it. It is nearly my important competition now, I want to make up my mind to concentrate in my work, but I cannot because every time I think about this, I would lose a day to just cry and hurt myself, then when I keep calm and continually be bullied and then think about it another time. It just time loops. I cannot tell anyone and can just text on this. Can you help me?
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i have lost all of my drive, inspiration to do stuff and i just feel lost empty and alone. i want to be left alone but at the same time not. All my plans goals and desires seems unoptainable. I have achived njothing in life and never will. Im almost 30 now and i dont now if i want to live that long. I just don know what to do anymore, or if its even worth doing. I simply do not care. I have been dealing with suicidal thoughts and depression for as long as i can remember. My childhood was chaos. Moved from place to place. Abused and beaten. Took its toll later on in life. remember i started feeling even worse in my early 20: s. But it wasnt untill 6 years ago i started getting some help for my problems. In 2017 I suffered a severe burnout. Collapsed in the hallway on the way to work one morning. Went anyway, after that day, i clocked out and never came back. i was so hollow, broken and unable to cope with anything. Just stayed inside. Layed in my bed not wanting to move for a few months. Paranoia set in. Panic attacks daily. I thought everyone was out to get me. to beat me, to yell at me. hurt me. It was absolute hell. I dont want to be back there again, In that absolute state of hell, But i feel it coming again and i donjt want. I want it gone.
sorry for the rant. Its rough atm.

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Thank you and a big hug for these videos, Psych2Go. I wish I had this particular one when I was going through depression. There is one more thing I'd like to add: Depressed people are still valuable.
I say this because depression makes you feel like you don't matter. What's worse is that those who don't understand it might add on to those feelings. Between my bishop and life in general, I learned: You don't have to live up to the labels, stereotypes, myths, and misconceptions people put on you. Another way to put it comes from actor Steve Harvey in a 2013 speech: .You are more valuable and possess more worth than in the situations in which you find yourself and your surroundings.
Depression doesn't have to rule you or define you. You can overcome it and help others make it through, too.

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Nobody can fully understand without experiencing it themselves.
To wake up everyday and doing your best to get better, only to wake up the next morning to see it wasn't enough every single day.
To watch helplessly as your friends and family waste time and energy trying to solve your mental paradox. To watch them hurting just because you can't get better.
To cry out in silent desperation for a savior that will never arrive, because in your fear you sealed away everything that could draw them to you.
To harbor endless hatred for the entire society that birthed you, for their hopeless inability to assist or validate us. As the judgemental fools turn us slowly into heartless monsters.
To be born into a world that you were hopeless to ever be mentally compatible with.

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ah suicide its something way more difficult to do because if you guys hesitate for even a second to suicide you just cant do it anymore
i say this because i have wanted to do it before but well it didnt happen because i hesitated i dont really have a reason to be alive but i still have a reason to be alive and that reason well a part of it is heartwarming i guess? but i think right before i suicide about my parents and my friends) and then i dont wish for them to be sad about it and the second part is because i still want to play games yes its very pathetic but well whatever if you guys are going to commit suicide well i dont know but if you hesitate even one bit you wont be able to do it

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I had suffered from depression for a long while. Every since, When I was hit down in depression, because all the negative drama that I have endure and suffering from child abuse, anxiety, being forced to work when I was a kid, verbal abuse, taking in too much negative criticism to heart, they always look down at you and want to see you failed at a instant. My father told me no partying after graduation. All I do is work all the time and no balance in my life. All of this is unhealthy for me and to everyone else. Nobody should ever to be crippling and suffering from depression for any reason whatsoever. Besides, We'll deserved to break free from depression for good.
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People with depression and anxiety are strong! Imagine having to battle with that daily and still attempt to function in this world (and not be judged by people who dont understand it. My PFP looks normal, but I have depression, debilitating anxiety which Im still trying to figure out my triggers (I think its my mom, and C-PTSD I go to therapy for once a week. Now I have GI problems as a result of holding it in. And in the healthcare field, there is no sympathy from your fellow healthcare workers. So I take my meds and put on a happy face for my patients and the public.
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People mostly compare suffering. They think we are fine because we look fine. Physical health is fine, yes. Thus, they dont know our brain be like: rotten
When you have illness that is INSIDE your body, very less people will understand, especially mental health because they dont know what is brain sickness like Depression, Bipolar and etc
People think Im perfect. Im smart. Etc
Im appreciated it, but I feel like I have no one else to ask for helping because they think I am totally fine.

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For me depression is like stomping through a garden, stomping on weeds and flowers alike. A turn of phrase evolved from Dr Tracey Marks ( she is also good to listen to.
For me I have learnt to think of my depression as a symptom, the underlying cause needs to be found.
I would recommend to everyone, depressed or not, to treasure their physical self( A healthy mind needs a healthy brain which needs a healthy body. And treasure friendship too, although this is very difficult.

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I suffer from both depression and a learning disability one makes me do thanks that causes problems and the other makes me want to not exist I can't. ases situations or understand the most basic things and when I finally start to understand one thing I'm unable to understand everything else it's not fair to me it's like I'm stuck in a endless loop I can't get out of it makes me feel like a I'm just a problem that should not exist
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Spending the past years with severe depression has made me experience this from a 1st person view. It is like being imprisoned in your own mind, and you are just watching your life go by without you. I understand the desire to want to take your own life to make the thoughts, and pain stop! It is unfortunate that people that who have never gone through it is not able to understand how it is like to have your own mind as your enemy.
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I never really feel like I recover fully from the last depression spiral before a new one starts. They just keep compounding. And piling on top of each other.
I'm so afraid that by the time I finally heal and move past all this, that I will be too old to enjoy what's left of my life and do something meaningful with it.
I wish I could feel what it is like to thrive once in a while.

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Honestly I'm just so tired and empty all the time I have the intelligence, skills and opportunities to make my life better. but I don't want to I just want everything without needing to do anything I want to sleep forever sometimes I don't know what I want day after day after day I'm just can't handle it.
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i dont know what to do, my friend is on the verge of killing herself everyday shes losing hope daily im really trying my best but she just wants me to give up on her so she can kill herself and im just scared at this point i really feel its gonna happen and im doing everything i can i really am
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on the topic of that 3rd point.
it's not uncommon for me, or anyone it seems, to be shunned for being suicidal. I failed my attempts so many times that it's no more than a joke to my family. my mother, sister, whoever just sees it as funny. I try talking to them and im blown off.

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This is so common-sensical but at the same time a lot of people still dont get it when you explain it to them. I wish everybody would seek this kind of info when they decide to not believe you about your struggles. If you dont understand it from me then be curious and dig deeper.
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My depression
Im just annoyed with everything anything
And Im just angry and sad at the same time
And just have no motivation to do any of my hobbies or work.
The feeling could shut creep out of no where.
Im happy at one moment next
I wanna kill myself

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I remember that today in the hall of my high school i just broke emotionally, i screamed, and then i started crying saying that i was done, i couldn't take it anymore and i'm legit crying writing this because i don't even know what i'm doing with my life anymore.
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A lot people say:
You don't have depression, you are happy sometimes, you go to school with your head up, you do stuff and you don't stay in your room all day snd cry these make us feel like how we suffer isn't that bad and that we are drama queens. Its hard

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Also within the topic of comparing our mental suffering, that sentence of it's just a question of willpower, you're just lazy
No.
No it's not.
If you say that, or believe that, kindly f_ck off.
With kind regards, have an amazing day

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Keep an eye out for the overachiever, the one who is wildly successful, popular. There was a time when I worked so hard to avoid facing my emotional pain and trauma experiences. People experiencing depression dont all act and look depressed.
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When youre surrounded by all these people, it can be lonelier than when youre by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you dont feel like you can trust anyone or talk to anybody, you feel like youre really alone.
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My dad loved to say you're on your own, I know nothing about it. makes me wonder if he's covering up or just uncomfortable. . My mom would have had a good long chat. but shes been dead for almost 20 years now: (
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I'm glad you do thoes kind of videos cuz both me and my Bf are depressed and this as changes to or relationship between each other
So thank you very much for doing thoes kind of videos and continue like this

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I rarely talk about what is happening in my head, so I keep it secret because everyone gets concerned about it when I talk, so I mainly just talk about my problems to myself, idk if that's healthy but oh well
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