5 Levels of a Relationship - Which One are you?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Chronics
I'm in a LDR for 8 months now and we're pretty much over the honeymoon phase. As part of building the relationship together, doubts/disillusionment is pretty normal. I had my share of doubts and fights with my significant other but we always sit down and talk about it. Communicating with your partner and being open with your concern does wonders, helps you understand what went wrong and what things needed to be fixed. Most of all, if both sides can't agree on something then COMPROMISE. I went through a lot of difficult relationship before due to lack of communication, being too selfless or selfish. In the relationship I'm in now made me realize that both side should contribute equally, with the same effort, with open communication and putting your heart in a plate for them to see. They're your partner after all, so be open, let them know what you feel and think.
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I'm in a LDR for 8 months now and we're pretty much over the honeymoon phase. As part of building the relationship together, doubts/disillusionment is pretty normal. I had my share of doubts and fights with my significant other but we always sit down and talk about it. Communicating with your partner and being open with your concern does wonders, helps you understand what went wrong and what things needed to be fixed. Most of all, if both sides can't agree on something then COMPROMISE. I went through a lot of difficult relationship before due to lack of communication, being too selfless or selfish. In the relationship I'm in now made me realize that both side should contribute equally, with the same effort, with open communication and putting your heart in a plate for them to see. They're your partner after all, so be open, let them know what you feel and think.
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its
I've had so many different types of relationships my first one was a firey encounter and we had a realy good friend ship we decided to date and we where closer but we where to physical with each other and we went our own ways. My second one was a friend and we never had dated but we would act more than friends and again we went put ways but we found each other again and nowhere good friends. And my last relation ship was the honeymoon phase and I didn't want to believe that her mom had said that she spilled us up and I did decided to stick around and I told her from the start that if she didn't like somthing tell me and she didn't and I was blown up on, I was confused and I felt bad and wanted to see is she would like a apology but she didn't answer and so we still dont talk and any time she sees me she walks the other way
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I've had so many different types of relationships my first one was a firey encounter and we had a realy good friend ship we decided to date and we where closer but we where to physical with each other and we went our own ways. My second one was a friend and we never had dated but we would act more than friends and again we went put ways but we found each other again and nowhere good friends. And my last relation ship was the honeymoon phase and I didn't want to believe that her mom had said that she spilled us up and I did decided to stick around and I told her from the start that if she didn't like somthing tell me and she didn't and I was blown up on, I was confused and I felt bad and wanted to see is she would like a apology but she didn't answer and so we still dont talk and any time she sees me she walks the other way
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senpai16
I feel like I've had all this but with someone I was never able to call my girlfriend. We were best friends and I didn't realize my feeling were more for many many years. And our friendship ended. We have since made up and I've learned to keep good boundaries with her as she is always romantically unavailable, but I have never felt exactly that way about anyone since. Anytime I felt I might it having that towards other friends but it was always clearly not reciprocal so I shut down the feelings fast not wanting to feel the way I did with my first experience. I'm 31 now, and have had a sorta queerplatonic relationship for the past 10 years, but it is not as fulfilling as I felt with the other people because I'm simply not attracted to this amazing friend. But its nice to not be completely alone.
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I feel like I've had all this but with someone I was never able to call my girlfriend. We were best friends and I didn't realize my feeling were more for many many years. And our friendship ended. We have since made up and I've learned to keep good boundaries with her as she is always romantically unavailable, but I have never felt exactly that way about anyone since. Anytime I felt I might it having that towards other friends but it was always clearly not reciprocal so I shut down the feelings fast not wanting to feel the way I did with my first experience. I'm 31 now, and have had a sorta queerplatonic relationship for the past 10 years, but it is not as fulfilling as I felt with the other people because I'm simply not attracted to this amazing friend. But its nice to not be completely alone.
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N. N. C
I prefer being friends than Being in a relationship first.
Because when u are in a relationship most of the time u get intimated with your partner and u think that u love them. but sometimes that's only lust and you are in love. and when u are in love you can't see your partners faults and flaws. so the 4th stage when u come to the reality u star to notice their flaws and wanna breakup with them.
Always remember if they don't have those flaws and fault, they would have been with someone else better than u.
And when you're in a friendship atfirst. you will see their flaws atfirst and after knowing everything thing u become freinds and close to them.
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I prefer being friends than Being in a relationship first.
Because when u are in a relationship most of the time u get intimated with your partner and u think that u love them. but sometimes that's only lust and you are in love. and when u are in love you can't see your partners faults and flaws. so the 4th stage when u come to the reality u star to notice their flaws and wanna breakup with them.
Always remember if they don't have those flaws and fault, they would have been with someone else better than u.
And when you're in a friendship atfirst. you will see their flaws atfirst and after knowing everything thing u become freinds and close to them.
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NaruSanItchi
Ok. So what do i do ween i'm tryin to get better from depresion for a long time. They said they fell in love at first sight. I dont feel the same. They a good person. i think they deserve better than someone like me. I dont know what they see in me. I told them to find someone else for them. But they are waitin for me TT i feel bad for them. I decided to try to dedicate my time to them. But i fear what will happen. And i hate myself. I'll be a burden to them. And i dont want that. What do i do.
Sorry. needed to vent and this video made me realize im hurting others.
Im bein a toxic person without realizing to the people around me.
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Ok. So what do i do ween i'm tryin to get better from depresion for a long time. They said they fell in love at first sight. I dont feel the same. They a good person. i think they deserve better than someone like me. I dont know what they see in me. I told them to find someone else for them. But they are waitin for me TT i feel bad for them. I decided to try to dedicate my time to them. But i fear what will happen. And i hate myself. I'll be a burden to them. And i dont want that. What do i do.
Sorry. needed to vent and this video made me realize im hurting others.
Im bein a toxic person without realizing to the people around me.
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Joey
I have had tons of realatships and all of them end at the doubt fase. Not because I'm comfrontatanal, muliptif, closed off or dishonest, but because they relise that I am who I am and they don't like that they can't change me. I think it's my looks that's the probleem I'm highly attractif and I don't say this based on my own opionins, but based on those of others. Woman just fall for that one selfish thing and feel like they get to change me in to the guy they want me to be. Then they relise that I'm not changing for them and they walk away. How can I filter out these dirt woman to find my one sweet gold lumb any advice?
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I have had tons of realatships and all of them end at the doubt fase. Not because I'm comfrontatanal, muliptif, closed off or dishonest, but because they relise that I am who I am and they don't like that they can't change me. I think it's my looks that's the probleem I'm highly attractif and I don't say this based on my own opionins, but based on those of others. Woman just fall for that one selfish thing and feel like they get to change me in to the guy they want me to be. Then they relise that I'm not changing for them and they walk away. How can I filter out these dirt woman to find my one sweet gold lumb any advice?
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Charlotte
I've ended my relationship a few months ago because there was a lack of communication in the last months being together. When I wanted to adress something that didn't sit well with me, he either ignored it or just took it too extreme, he couldn't compromise. It was an all or nothing case. Our relationship lasted for 4 and a half years. This video makes me doubt my decision. Someone who can give his/her honest opinion?
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I've ended my relationship a few months ago because there was a lack of communication in the last months being together. When I wanted to adress something that didn't sit well with me, he either ignored it or just took it too extreme, he couldn't compromise. It was an all or nothing case. Our relationship lasted for 4 and a half years. This video makes me doubt my decision. Someone who can give his/her honest opinion?
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Sophia
Okay so I recently got into a relationship and it was moving quite fast but now I feel like the only one in the relationship that is feeling doubt. This happened two times and I just feel like I want to be single and not in the relationship. The catch is that they are my friend and I dont know what will happen if I break the relationship. Another part of me wants to stay in the relationship and I have no idea what to do.
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Okay so I recently got into a relationship and it was moving quite fast but now I feel like the only one in the relationship that is feeling doubt. This happened two times and I just feel like I want to be single and not in the relationship. The catch is that they are my friend and I dont know what will happen if I break the relationship. Another part of me wants to stay in the relationship and I have no idea what to do.
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Nielynie
Someone please give me an advice. i need it. cause this is affect the decision I made. and all of my cousin, friend and siblings had their boyfriend they're handsome and goodlooking. if they knew that my boyfriend is not goodlooking or handsome like Thier boyfriend. i didn't know what to do anymore. and i afraid that they would say that i easily blushing and fall for someone who doesn't even have a goodlooking face.
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Someone please give me an advice. i need it. cause this is affect the decision I made. and all of my cousin, friend and siblings had their boyfriend they're handsome and goodlooking. if they knew that my boyfriend is not goodlooking or handsome like Thier boyfriend. i didn't know what to do anymore. and i afraid that they would say that i easily blushing and fall for someone who doesn't even have a goodlooking face.
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Meg
What if you are in a relationship that hasn't really had any of these?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 20 years. The main reason I love him is that I can just chill without saying a word. We never had any conflict or fights. He is just super chill and is always willing to make me happy. It does feel weird because I'm used to crappy guys.
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What if you are in a relationship that hasn't really had any of these?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 20 years. The main reason I love him is that I can just chill without saying a word. We never had any conflict or fights. He is just super chill and is always willing to make me happy. It does feel weird because I'm used to crappy guys.
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Ayame
I think my boyfriend and I have gone through all five of these relationship levels/stages. (Ironically it's been 5 years since we started dating. There have been many hard times and ups and downs but things are going really well now for us. For a while my mind had doubts but then there was a point where those just stopped.
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I think my boyfriend and I have gone through all five of these relationship levels/stages. (Ironically it's been 5 years since we started dating. There have been many hard times and ups and downs but things are going really well now for us. For a while my mind had doubts but then there was a point where those just stopped.
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Fincier
I think I was in the stage of being hit by reality, I went through a lot of weird thoughts.
But I ultimately know, she is the one for me. She makes me feel happy no matter how down or upset I am. Her and I are always there for each other, even though the long distance.
I always feel loved by her.
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I think I was in the stage of being hit by reality, I went through a lot of weird thoughts.
But I ultimately know, she is the one for me. She makes me feel happy no matter how down or upset I am. Her and I are always there for each other, even though the long distance.
I always feel loved by her.
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Yulin
I think this cycle is really valid. And I think this cycle repeats, how often depends on the relationship dynamic. But I find that this happens in romantic and other close relationships not just once but almost constant, we end up choosing or not choosing one another. This is great, thanks for the insight!
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I think this cycle is really valid. And I think this cycle repeats, how often depends on the relationship dynamic. But I find that this happens in romantic and other close relationships not just once but almost constant, we end up choosing or not choosing one another. This is great, thanks for the insight!
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Enrixch-
Since I've been through a relationship already and have an ex I did realized that it's all just a doubt and so did he. He eventually ended it. I'm currently in a relationship again and going through phase 3 so that shouldn't be my problem now, you just need to be patient and have self love.
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Since I've been through a relationship already and have an ex I did realized that it's all just a doubt and so did he. He eventually ended it. I'm currently in a relationship again and going through phase 3 so that shouldn't be my problem now, you just need to be patient and have self love.
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KTVX. 94
Chronologically we're in the honeymoon phase, but we move blisteringly fast. We're facing things from following stages but so far we've been dealing with them as a team, exactly like in the video. I don't see any reason why we wouldn't keep that up through a relationship's ups and downs.
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Chronologically we're in the honeymoon phase, but we move blisteringly fast. We're facing things from following stages but so far we've been dealing with them as a team, exactly like in the video. I don't see any reason why we wouldn't keep that up through a relationship's ups and downs.
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CozmoNimbus
A fun, cute thing to do during the honeymoon phase is the Love You More game, I love you more. Naw, I love YOU more! But I love you MORE!
But there's a deeper meaning than that to show you're willing to tackle the darker phases. I love you more than the challenges we will face.
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A fun, cute thing to do during the honeymoon phase is the Love You More game, I love you more. Naw, I love YOU more! But I love you MORE!
But there's a deeper meaning than that to show you're willing to tackle the darker phases. I love you more than the challenges we will face.
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anonymous
Honestly feel like me and my boyfriend are always in a honey moon phase but my insecurities make me jump to wanting to end things to protect myself and him from being hurt in the long run. But i seriously love him like hes my other half and hes the only person I want to be around.
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Honestly feel like me and my boyfriend are always in a honey moon phase but my insecurities make me jump to wanting to end things to protect myself and him from being hurt in the long run. But i seriously love him like hes my other half and hes the only person I want to be around.
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Stanzin
Wow, it's a bit different here and there otherwise, my relationship with my partner went through it, made the decision to stay and work out our problems, i think we have passed all the major phases where there are chances of breaking up, i think we are good now.
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Wow, it's a bit different here and there otherwise, my relationship with my partner went through it, made the decision to stay and work out our problems, i think we have passed all the major phases where there are chances of breaking up, i think we are good now.
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Kirby
My significant other and I are, well beyond the 2nd stage, but not in any of the other three stages ahead of stage 2. Me and Her joke that pur soul's are, well half of one. And when we interact or just be around each other. We feel as if we are whole.
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My significant other and I are, well beyond the 2nd stage, but not in any of the other three stages ahead of stage 2. Me and Her joke that pur soul's are, well half of one. And when we interact or just be around each other. We feel as if we are whole.
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Steph
I see all of these. I agree with them. Number 5 though. People change with or without relationships your partner may become another person in the process of loving you, theyll never be the same person you met and fell in love with. Its human nature.
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I see all of these. I agree with them. Number 5 though. People change with or without relationships your partner may become another person in the process of loving you, theyll never be the same person you met and fell in love with. Its human nature.
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Brittany
One thing that I have learned is that you can't have open communication when the other person doesn't want to communicate or understand. You could be talking for hrs, days, or say the same thing different ways and still make no progress.
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One thing that I have learned is that you can't have open communication when the other person doesn't want to communicate or understand. You could be talking for hrs, days, or say the same thing different ways and still make no progress.
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Mehmed
currently in the transition from 4th to 5th phase and i can say this has been the worst thing ever but i love my little midget too much and whenever i feel like leaving something keeps me from doing it and i just hope it will get better
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currently in the transition from 4th to 5th phase and i can say this has been the worst thing ever but i love my little midget too much and whenever i feel like leaving something keeps me from doing it and i just hope it will get better
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Mikah
Yeah the way I first started to like someone was because I saw their profile picture was of a fox in online school and I decided they were amazing. Only a year and a half later did I realize it was the same person I liked now.
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Yeah the way I first started to like someone was because I saw their profile picture was of a fox in online school and I decided they were amazing. Only a year and a half later did I realize it was the same person I liked now.
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LinaTheOne
I'm not technically in a relationship with my best friend but I'd say we're somewhere between 1 and 2. We talk a lot even about deep stuff, but we've never had the what are we? talk even though I think about it a lot.
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I'm not technically in a relationship with my best friend but I'd say we're somewhere between 1 and 2. We talk a lot even about deep stuff, but we've never had the what are we? talk even though I think about it a lot.
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Nielynie
I need an advice. can someone please answer me. I'm in a relationship with someone and he's loyal, kind and he keep doing aegyo to get attention from me. but, he's ugly and not good looking. what should I do.
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I need an advice. can someone please answer me. I'm in a relationship with someone and he's loyal, kind and he keep doing aegyo to get attention from me. but, he's ugly and not good looking. what should I do.
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