Signs of a Toxic Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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GingerMonke
This is currently what's happening to me, I'm scared to loose her, Idk if it's me who's the problem or the fact that she doesn't really communicate with me. I just want her love: ( She recently lost her online best friend, which had a huge impact on her, and I'm trying my best to help her get better, but it's just super hard when she doesn't want to talk with me about it that much. I feel ignored at forgotten, it feels like I'm not a part of her life anymore: ( I just can't see myself breaking up with her, she's hurt already, and so am I. I can't do that towards her, I'd see myself as an absolute idiot. I just want our relationship to go back to when it started (1 month and 5 days ago, she used to almost be clingy and never let go of me, I felt like we loved eachother so much that we would never experience stuff like this. Currently I'm trying to give her space and time because of her best friend who isn't with us anymore: ( but I still want to be loved, and I still want to be there for her. This video explains alot and I want to fix it all somehow, but I can't do that myself. This shit sucks man: c - whoever experiences the same, talk to me fr. we maybe can help each other
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This is currently what's happening to me, I'm scared to loose her, Idk if it's me who's the problem or the fact that she doesn't really communicate with me. I just want her love: ( She recently lost her online best friend, which had a huge impact on her, and I'm trying my best to help her get better, but it's just super hard when she doesn't want to talk with me about it that much. I feel ignored at forgotten, it feels like I'm not a part of her life anymore: ( I just can't see myself breaking up with her, she's hurt already, and so am I. I can't do that towards her, I'd see myself as an absolute idiot. I just want our relationship to go back to when it started (1 month and 5 days ago, she used to almost be clingy and never let go of me, I felt like we loved eachother so much that we would never experience stuff like this. Currently I'm trying to give her space and time because of her best friend who isn't with us anymore: ( but I still want to be loved, and I still want to be there for her. This video explains alot and I want to fix it all somehow, but I can't do that myself. This shit sucks man: c - whoever experiences the same, talk to me fr. we maybe can help each other
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Ilya
This whole video really resonated within me. Especially the part about open communication. It just feels like we both weren't as open about our feelings about the relationship as we should've been. Neither of us took the time we needed to reflect on the whole thing. Both of us were toxic to an extent and this video has made me realise that I was the one who had more toxic habits than my partner. We never fought but there was definitely a cloud of resentment drifting between us, pushing us further apart. I wish I could take back some of the things I did but I can't do much now. I wish she told me sooner so I could've done something about this. My wishful thinking doesn't excuse that I should've realized my toxic habits too. I was blind I might still be. I can't do much now other than hopefully learn. I disrespected my partner on a lot of levels and I wish I was at least aware of this. In my next romantic relationship, I hope for more clear communication. I think that the lack of communication might have been rooted in my inability to commit to the relationship fully. I will hopefully do better in the future. Thank you for taking the time to read through my rant of a comment.
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This whole video really resonated within me. Especially the part about open communication. It just feels like we both weren't as open about our feelings about the relationship as we should've been. Neither of us took the time we needed to reflect on the whole thing. Both of us were toxic to an extent and this video has made me realise that I was the one who had more toxic habits than my partner. We never fought but there was definitely a cloud of resentment drifting between us, pushing us further apart. I wish I could take back some of the things I did but I can't do much now. I wish she told me sooner so I could've done something about this. My wishful thinking doesn't excuse that I should've realized my toxic habits too. I was blind I might still be. I can't do much now other than hopefully learn. I disrespected my partner on a lot of levels and I wish I was at least aware of this. In my next romantic relationship, I hope for more clear communication. I think that the lack of communication might have been rooted in my inability to commit to the relationship fully. I will hopefully do better in the future. Thank you for taking the time to read through my rant of a comment.
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Faith
This is my family. my grandparents and aunt. I've tried so many times to have a bond with my family but they don't seem to want one with me. I've grown to resent myself as well, thinking it's all my fault that they don't seem to want anything to do with me. I know that this was most likely geared to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, but this reminds me so much of my own family. I tried to talk to them so many times and, while one minute it could be going decently, the next, they could be fighting with me over something so small and I retreat to my room again. My room is my safe haven and I try to avoid talking with my family for as long as I possibly can. knowing what would happen if I do end up trying again for a bond that most likely won't exist for a long while. I've neglected caring for myself as well (well, not showering or anything like that-- more for a problem I have with my appearance) because I just keep hearing 'what's the point' repeating over and over in my head. So I leave it and then hate myself for it at the same time.
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This is my family. my grandparents and aunt. I've tried so many times to have a bond with my family but they don't seem to want one with me. I've grown to resent myself as well, thinking it's all my fault that they don't seem to want anything to do with me. I know that this was most likely geared to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, but this reminds me so much of my own family. I tried to talk to them so many times and, while one minute it could be going decently, the next, they could be fighting with me over something so small and I retreat to my room again. My room is my safe haven and I try to avoid talking with my family for as long as I possibly can. knowing what would happen if I do end up trying again for a bond that most likely won't exist for a long while. I've neglected caring for myself as well (well, not showering or anything like that-- more for a problem I have with my appearance) because I just keep hearing 'what's the point' repeating over and over in my head. So I leave it and then hate myself for it at the same time.
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Gum
I feel down about my current relationship status we got into a fight on Tuesday. And I feel like we lost are spark we had are breakup after but we still care and love each other and it's hard. I'm taking this video as a learning lessons of my mistakes on what I shouldn't do. Currently I just feel depressed about it because we weren't like this for the first year but then come around 2 are 2nd anniversary. I feel like we suffer a lot of loses in both of are families, and me not taking her serious hurts her and it hurts me for not picking that up. I treated her with disrespect mostly because she's scared to open up to really anyone I should've known that when she first told me. Honestly I'm taking this as a punch to the gut and just learning off my experience it's crazy I still love her and wanna do better and actually show that after this break is over. My jokes aren't cool me pushing things under the rug wasn't alright either. I just wanna re-spark what we had at the start.
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I feel down about my current relationship status we got into a fight on Tuesday. And I feel like we lost are spark we had are breakup after but we still care and love each other and it's hard. I'm taking this video as a learning lessons of my mistakes on what I shouldn't do. Currently I just feel depressed about it because we weren't like this for the first year but then come around 2 are 2nd anniversary. I feel like we suffer a lot of loses in both of are families, and me not taking her serious hurts her and it hurts me for not picking that up. I treated her with disrespect mostly because she's scared to open up to really anyone I should've known that when she first told me. Honestly I'm taking this as a punch to the gut and just learning off my experience it's crazy I still love her and wanna do better and actually show that after this break is over. My jokes aren't cool me pushing things under the rug wasn't alright either. I just wanna re-spark what we had at the start.
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psych2go
just a question. What if I hold my resentment, not because I want to use that as a guilt trip, but because I've been clinging on to the hope that they'll change?
I just, can't talk about it to them anymore since they're preoccupied with another more significant relationship. I can't bring up the fact that the things they've been doing are piling up, because i don't want to assume that i'm more important than the other people in their life.
but honestly speaking, i think it's not too late to save my relationship with my friend. It's just that it's probably my inaction that makes it feel toxic when it's really not. Anyone can advise me what I can do to start communicating with him without intruding too much? I don't want to assume my place in his hierarchy of relationships so I honestly don't know how to position myself
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just a question. What if I hold my resentment, not because I want to use that as a guilt trip, but because I've been clinging on to the hope that they'll change?
I just, can't talk about it to them anymore since they're preoccupied with another more significant relationship. I can't bring up the fact that the things they've been doing are piling up, because i don't want to assume that i'm more important than the other people in their life.
but honestly speaking, i think it's not too late to save my relationship with my friend. It's just that it's probably my inaction that makes it feel toxic when it's really not. Anyone can advise me what I can do to start communicating with him without intruding too much? I don't want to assume my place in his hierarchy of relationships so I honestly don't know how to position myself
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Ness
Man. I was responsible for being jealous and not giving myself time for other relationships. There was a friend my ex knew. I got unnecessarily hostile when I noticed they shared jackets. Whenever she wasn't near, I assumed it meant she didn't love me anymore. This happened while I thought I had to be in a romantic relationship to get friends, which is wrong. I never learned much about how they worked either. Over the course of this year, I learned where I went wrong and educated myself about healthy relationships. In fact, I recently apologized to her. We both felt happy to release the weight off our shoulders. Although I recognized my problems two years too late, I'm glad we both can live our separate lives and move on peacefully.
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Man. I was responsible for being jealous and not giving myself time for other relationships. There was a friend my ex knew. I got unnecessarily hostile when I noticed they shared jackets. Whenever she wasn't near, I assumed it meant she didn't love me anymore. This happened while I thought I had to be in a romantic relationship to get friends, which is wrong. I never learned much about how they worked either. Over the course of this year, I learned where I went wrong and educated myself about healthy relationships. In fact, I recently apologized to her. We both felt happy to release the weight off our shoulders. Although I recognized my problems two years too late, I'm glad we both can live our separate lives and move on peacefully.
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No
She told me that its a toxic relationship and I didn't know it at first but when I watched this I finally come to sense She said I don't talk about my problems at all The reason is that I wanna Have most of me and her time only the happiest I don't want any sad memories with her but when she told about her problems I listen and tried giving the best I could but she just said saying 'cheer up' won't help but I tried making the people around me feel better around them and make them happy but yet I got called a 'toxic friend' and 'toxic girlfriend' welp sometimes it would be better to let go, someone, we broke up (Sorry about venting)
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She told me that its a toxic relationship and I didn't know it at first but when I watched this I finally come to sense She said I don't talk about my problems at all The reason is that I wanna Have most of me and her time only the happiest I don't want any sad memories with her but when she told about her problems I listen and tried giving the best I could but she just said saying 'cheer up' won't help but I tried making the people around me feel better around them and make them happy but yet I got called a 'toxic friend' and 'toxic girlfriend' welp sometimes it would be better to let go, someone, we broke up (Sorry about venting)
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Moshiur
I realized I am a toxic person
and I experienced & noticed all those 6 points in me
1. You don't feel any support.
2. You don't communicate with each other.
3. There's a lot of jealousy.
4. There's built-up resentment.
5. You feel disrespected.
6. You don't have time for other relationships.
At and end of that I lose her ( she was the first person i ever truly like and opened my heart.
It was completely my fault.
I never knew I am a toxic man. Now I know but don't know how to become better.
I hope I get or find some help.
( This video is 100% correct with real information)
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I realized I am a toxic person
and I experienced & noticed all those 6 points in me
1. You don't feel any support.
2. You don't communicate with each other.
3. There's a lot of jealousy.
4. There's built-up resentment.
5. You feel disrespected.
6. You don't have time for other relationships.
At and end of that I lose her ( she was the first person i ever truly like and opened my heart.
It was completely my fault.
I never knew I am a toxic man. Now I know but don't know how to become better.
I hope I get or find some help.
( This video is 100% correct with real information)
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EpicShadow
I have be watching a few of you videos about toxic relationships and and there are a few of these things in them that make me feel like I am in a toxic relationship. I am thinking of breaking up with my SO. I have been taking a break from my SO and I feel happier. He would also say things like if you leave me he would kill himself and I mental cant take it anymore. He is very controlling and whats to know what I am doing all the time. He gets jealous when I hang out with my friends and I have lied to him when I am talking to my friends because I dont what him too know.
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I have be watching a few of you videos about toxic relationships and and there are a few of these things in them that make me feel like I am in a toxic relationship. I am thinking of breaking up with my SO. I have been taking a break from my SO and I feel happier. He would also say things like if you leave me he would kill himself and I mental cant take it anymore. He is very controlling and whats to know what I am doing all the time. He gets jealous when I hang out with my friends and I have lied to him when I am talking to my friends because I dont what him too know.
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xitogun101
I love that you guys acknowledged the fact that you can still talk and air things out and potentially salvage things. Some people do the whole cut it off and walk off in silence thing and often times I feel like that leaves people with a bitter perspective of friendship. And then when you run into these people they have trust issues that you dont immediately see until youve been friends with them for a while. But again, conversation is key! It will let you know if you can talk things out or if the damage is too severe and you should move on.
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I love that you guys acknowledged the fact that you can still talk and air things out and potentially salvage things. Some people do the whole cut it off and walk off in silence thing and often times I feel like that leaves people with a bitter perspective of friendship. And then when you run into these people they have trust issues that you dont immediately see until youve been friends with them for a while. But again, conversation is key! It will let you know if you can talk things out or if the damage is too severe and you should move on.
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tennie
I get jealous pretty easily, I dont know how to stop doing that, he keeps joking bout other girls being prettier than me, n calling my bully better, I didnt realize I was being controlling by telling him not to follow my bully n make him block her, but he unblocked her again n started following her, which actually made me feel really bad, not that he followed her, but that he lied to me bout it. when asked why he did so, he said he did it cuz he has the right to, it's his life, his acc. we havent talked evr since, it was like bout this morning
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I get jealous pretty easily, I dont know how to stop doing that, he keeps joking bout other girls being prettier than me, n calling my bully better, I didnt realize I was being controlling by telling him not to follow my bully n make him block her, but he unblocked her again n started following her, which actually made me feel really bad, not that he followed her, but that he lied to me bout it. when asked why he did so, he said he did it cuz he has the right to, it's his life, his acc. we havent talked evr since, it was like bout this morning
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anack
And if your friend just spam calls you and when you say your busy they always spam call you just because they won in a game.
And they always dont pay attention to your schedule like when I need family time they said but I already your just a lazy cat and you always overslept.
They, also get mad if you do something wrong in a game and they also show off because they want to make you say wow or get jealous.
This happened to me 8 times.
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And if your friend just spam calls you and when you say your busy they always spam call you just because they won in a game.
And they always dont pay attention to your schedule like when I need family time they said but I already your just a lazy cat and you always overslept.
They, also get mad if you do something wrong in a game and they also show off because they want to make you say wow or get jealous.
This happened to me 8 times.
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//Celtera
When helping someone with their jealousy, I believe that the main goal should be clarified and maintained (e. g. maintaining the relationship, rather than deciding it based on feelings of jealousy. It's fine to feel jealous or feel which ever way, but when it's to a distrustful/destructive degree, everything can get destroyed in the process and that'd not be preferable in my opinion.
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When helping someone with their jealousy, I believe that the main goal should be clarified and maintained (e. g. maintaining the relationship, rather than deciding it based on feelings of jealousy. It's fine to feel jealous or feel which ever way, but when it's to a distrustful/destructive degree, everything can get destroyed in the process and that'd not be preferable in my opinion.
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Cherry
I just left a toxic friendship and these are the exact things that happened. I knew for a pretty long time that we weren't right for each other but I still stayed bc they made me so happy even though they treated me horribly. Its true when they say its hard to walk away from a toxic relationship, whether it be platonic or romantic.
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I just left a toxic friendship and these are the exact things that happened. I knew for a pretty long time that we weren't right for each other but I still stayed bc they made me so happy even though they treated me horribly. Its true when they say its hard to walk away from a toxic relationship, whether it be platonic or romantic.
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Yanaaaaaaa
I can't get the toxic person out of my life. It'll seems like she changed, and she'll invite me to lunch, and act like she genuinely likes me, then get mad over me for talking to another person too long, or not giving her a good present, or even getting a higher mark than her in a test.
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I can't get the toxic person out of my life. It'll seems like she changed, and she'll invite me to lunch, and act like she genuinely likes me, then get mad over me for talking to another person too long, or not giving her a good present, or even getting a higher mark than her in a test.
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Tripp
You start to lose yourself in them, and end up neglecting all of your other important relationships in your life. Especially with yourself
I hate that this love turned me toxic.
I still love you AC, but I guess its better this way
I hope youre doing well
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You start to lose yourself in them, and end up neglecting all of your other important relationships in your life. Especially with yourself
I hate that this love turned me toxic.
I still love you AC, but I guess its better this way
I hope youre doing well
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SpookyGhost61
My relationship, or whats left of it, it definitely moving in a toxic direction. On a break now, but I dont think all is lost. They have only just become noticeable, and can be worked through. Thank you for helping to clarify these behaviors
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My relationship, or whats left of it, it definitely moving in a toxic direction. On a break now, but I dont think all is lost. They have only just become noticeable, and can be worked through. Thank you for helping to clarify these behaviors
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Jiiiiii
Welp, didnt know that I was in one before it messed me up real bad, thinking it was all my fault despite the fact that I tried checking on them everyday. They just stopped talking to me for weeks and started getting mad because of my insecurities
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Welp, didnt know that I was in one before it messed me up real bad, thinking it was all my fault despite the fact that I tried checking on them everyday. They just stopped talking to me for weeks and started getting mad because of my insecurities
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DragonSwirl
Here's the thing, me and my ex partner acknowledged these signs and tried to fix things 3 times, and it never worked. No one I've ever met who's been in a toxic relationship has been able to save it. You'll just end up hurting yourself more.
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Here's the thing, me and my ex partner acknowledged these signs and tried to fix things 3 times, and it never worked. No one I've ever met who's been in a toxic relationship has been able to save it. You'll just end up hurting yourself more.
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Anifi
Thank you so much for the video. It was really informative and help me know that my previous relationship was toxic but can u please make a video HOW TO GET OVER A BREAK UP OR A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP It may be helpful for me and many others.
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Thank you so much for the video. It was really informative and help me know that my previous relationship was toxic but can u please make a video HOW TO GET OVER A BREAK UP OR A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP It may be helpful for me and many others.
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Noel
Im thankful were not yet in to a big fight. and anyone of us looks down or hurt. we told eachother with care even were not yet on to a relationship. we have up and downs and quite cold eachother but were still on track of things.
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Im thankful were not yet in to a big fight. and anyone of us looks down or hurt. we told eachother with care even were not yet on to a relationship. we have up and downs and quite cold eachother but were still on track of things.
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Jose
I've said this before but I'll say it again. These little people with the leaves on top of their heads need their own show like The Simpsons or The Flintstones have. They obviously have a lot going on in their lives.
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I've said this before but I'll say it again. These little people with the leaves on top of their heads need their own show like The Simpsons or The Flintstones have. They obviously have a lot going on in their lives.
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RM
Y'all I'm not a very good partner I just cannot communicate with them
I think I just stopped liking people at this point
I honestly think she's only dating me because I don't mind an open relationship. :
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Y'all I'm not a very good partner I just cannot communicate with them
I think I just stopped liking people at this point
I honestly think she's only dating me because I don't mind an open relationship. :
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5hane9ro
Videos like this just show me how toxic my last relationship was. She was short adorable girl that no one would have suspected her to be the way she was but now I'm just glad I noticed when I did and ran.
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Videos like this just show me how toxic my last relationship was. She was short adorable girl that no one would have suspected her to be the way she was but now I'm just glad I noticed when I did and ran.
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Artemixization
You have accuratebly described, point by point, the relationship I had 7 years in the past. I couldn't avoid the bullet on time, but fortunately, the pain now is (almost) over.
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You have accuratebly described, point by point, the relationship I had 7 years in the past. I couldn't avoid the bullet on time, but fortunately, the pain now is (almost) over.
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