8 Subtle Habits That Make People Ignore You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Alex
1. Youre trying too hard - 0: 29
When you force interactions with people, it turns them away from you. They can tell youre changing your personality based on who youre around. People can sense desperation.
2. Youre selfish - 0: 59
When you only talk about yourself, and steal the spotlight from others socially, it can make others resent you. They may see you as arrogant and disengage.
3. Youre disengaged - 1: 40
When youre too socially passive or lack assertiveness, people may see you as aloof, or may think youre not interested in the conversation.
4. Youre extremely negative - 2: 03
Negative people are tiring to be around. If youre hyper critical or never happy, people will ignore you.
5. Your body language is repelling them - 2: 31
People may think you arent interested if your body language is always negative.
6. You dont take responsibility - 3: 09
If youre someone who acts like theyre never guilty or never at fault, people wont want to be around you.
7. Youre too intense - 3: 43
Passion is good. Unless you become controlling. Being bossy will push people away.
8. Youre too needy - 4: 16
Asking for reassurance during a hard time is normal, and understandable. But if youre constantly leaning on someone else, theyll start ignoring you.
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1. Youre trying too hard - 0: 29
When you force interactions with people, it turns them away from you. They can tell youre changing your personality based on who youre around. People can sense desperation.
2. Youre selfish - 0: 59
When you only talk about yourself, and steal the spotlight from others socially, it can make others resent you. They may see you as arrogant and disengage.
3. Youre disengaged - 1: 40
When youre too socially passive or lack assertiveness, people may see you as aloof, or may think youre not interested in the conversation.
4. Youre extremely negative - 2: 03
Negative people are tiring to be around. If youre hyper critical or never happy, people will ignore you.
5. Your body language is repelling them - 2: 31
People may think you arent interested if your body language is always negative.
6. You dont take responsibility - 3: 09
If youre someone who acts like theyre never guilty or never at fault, people wont want to be around you.
7. Youre too intense - 3: 43
Passion is good. Unless you become controlling. Being bossy will push people away.
8. Youre too needy - 4: 16
Asking for reassurance during a hard time is normal, and understandable. But if youre constantly leaning on someone else, theyll start ignoring you.
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education
But that's me with being disengaged, sometimes I would try to say something but I think right before saying this that it would be only important for me and others would ignore my thoughts except when it's about school as I'm a straight A student and they are considering me intelligent in school things. Also my voice is too low because at a normal voice I would sound like a human-sized chipmunk. I find my thoughts being absolutely useless for others but still saying them as I use to let them flow in a conversation but it make the dialogue more of a monologue. These thoughts are my natural ones, but they seem to be complicated for others and I never try to summarize them as they would be too direct as my family have taught me that what happens at home, stays at home but my thoughts and memories are exclusively at home lol.
And I can't maintain an open body language as I don't know too much about it.
Introverts love to have attention but also reject attention when it's all above them
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But that's me with being disengaged, sometimes I would try to say something but I think right before saying this that it would be only important for me and others would ignore my thoughts except when it's about school as I'm a straight A student and they are considering me intelligent in school things. Also my voice is too low because at a normal voice I would sound like a human-sized chipmunk. I find my thoughts being absolutely useless for others but still saying them as I use to let them flow in a conversation but it make the dialogue more of a monologue. These thoughts are my natural ones, but they seem to be complicated for others and I never try to summarize them as they would be too direct as my family have taught me that what happens at home, stays at home but my thoughts and memories are exclusively at home lol.
And I can't maintain an open body language as I don't know too much about it.
Introverts love to have attention but also reject attention when it's all above them
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Lilybelle1689
thankfully I only relate to three of these, but not majorly. Being quiet, body language, and domineering. These don't sound like they go together, but I'm working on them. When I'm not quiet, I take control, but that's mostly because my best friends NEVER take control, they're always like, Weeellll, what do YOU wanna do? and when I ask them what they wanna do they just go silent and we end up sitting around awkwardly. Body language is just that I am an introvert. Most of the time when in public or around people I don't know, I actually don't want to talk or be talked to, I want to listen to what other people say, and if I do want to talk, I'll open up. I also avoid eye contact when not talking to people. I have a nasty habit of staring, so I force myself not to do it unless we are in conversation. That's pretty much it. I just don't want to make mistakes, and almost everyone I know won't make any decisions so I'm the one that has to do it. Gosh, that was long. My bad.
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thankfully I only relate to three of these, but not majorly. Being quiet, body language, and domineering. These don't sound like they go together, but I'm working on them. When I'm not quiet, I take control, but that's mostly because my best friends NEVER take control, they're always like, Weeellll, what do YOU wanna do? and when I ask them what they wanna do they just go silent and we end up sitting around awkwardly. Body language is just that I am an introvert. Most of the time when in public or around people I don't know, I actually don't want to talk or be talked to, I want to listen to what other people say, and if I do want to talk, I'll open up. I also avoid eye contact when not talking to people. I have a nasty habit of staring, so I force myself not to do it unless we are in conversation. That's pretty much it. I just don't want to make mistakes, and almost everyone I know won't make any decisions so I'm the one that has to do it. Gosh, that was long. My bad.
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Insert
I used to get ignored a lot in the past when I was really insecure and had no confidence. But as I started coming in terms with my insecurities and pushing myself to get out of my comfort zone, I started becoming more confident and I now have friends who accept me for who I am. To anyone reasing this, there's nothing wrong with you. You're amazing just as you are. Don't change yourself (unless it's bad habits and flaws) for other people, find people who will love you for who you are: )
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I used to get ignored a lot in the past when I was really insecure and had no confidence. But as I started coming in terms with my insecurities and pushing myself to get out of my comfort zone, I started becoming more confident and I now have friends who accept me for who I am. To anyone reasing this, there's nothing wrong with you. You're amazing just as you are. Don't change yourself (unless it's bad habits and flaws) for other people, find people who will love you for who you are: )
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Akai
Ah. I identify with several of these. Id like to add that several of these snowball and exacerbate the other listed factors. For example (personal experience, trying too hard, coming off as too intense, and needing constant validation can be byproducts of desperation from prior instances of being ignored. If this continues and people turn away from you when the purpose of your actions are to gain and maintain friendships, it can lead to verbal negativity or closed off body language.
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Ah. I identify with several of these. Id like to add that several of these snowball and exacerbate the other listed factors. For example (personal experience, trying too hard, coming off as too intense, and needing constant validation can be byproducts of desperation from prior instances of being ignored. If this continues and people turn away from you when the purpose of your actions are to gain and maintain friendships, it can lead to verbal negativity or closed off body language.
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Marsh
I have do some half, but I'm always wondering, why they never do the same to me too? Why feels great alone but never sharing eachother? And then start to blame? I love doing fair thingy. if I needs help sure they will helping me but they never asked me for help them. and I'm just realize they said when they feels bored they massage me but when they didn't they talking to other people. I feels they just thinking about themselves there bruhhh
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I have do some half, but I'm always wondering, why they never do the same to me too? Why feels great alone but never sharing eachother? And then start to blame? I love doing fair thingy. if I needs help sure they will helping me but they never asked me for help them. and I'm just realize they said when they feels bored they massage me but when they didn't they talking to other people. I feels they just thinking about themselves there bruhhh
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tokyo
lol i was wondering why everyone ignoes my bestie but not me even tho im quiet like her so when i looked at the summery almost everything fitted her, its nice that this vid exists i'll shre this with her if she ever gets stressed abt being so ignored idrk how to solve this problem tho btw dont get me wrong i also get ignored but ppl have completely cut her off their lives and i feel rlly bad for her i'll tr to find a solution this this ig
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lol i was wondering why everyone ignoes my bestie but not me even tho im quiet like her so when i looked at the summery almost everything fitted her, its nice that this vid exists i'll shre this with her if she ever gets stressed abt being so ignored idrk how to solve this problem tho btw dont get me wrong i also get ignored but ppl have completely cut her off their lives and i feel rlly bad for her i'll tr to find a solution this this ig
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Emperor
Hmm, I feel like sometimes I'm just ignored or not heard in a conversation perhaps because usually I don't project as loud as I should, but when I do there's typically someone speaking even louder. This makes me feel like I'm being not given the attention that I deserve and sometimes hurts me on the inside a bit, but I don't show it because of my strong control over my expressions and repression of emotions.
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Hmm, I feel like sometimes I'm just ignored or not heard in a conversation perhaps because usually I don't project as loud as I should, but when I do there's typically someone speaking even louder. This makes me feel like I'm being not given the attention that I deserve and sometimes hurts me on the inside a bit, but I don't show it because of my strong control over my expressions and repression of emotions.
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Paul
I don't get the first point. If you don't force interactions, how do you interact? You say yourself that you have to give effort in, but then immediatly warn against that very same thing. Also you then warn later on about being passive. So, how do you interact properly if it's neither active nor passive?
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I don't get the first point. If you don't force interactions, how do you interact? You say yourself that you have to give effort in, but then immediatly warn against that very same thing. Also you then warn later on about being passive. So, how do you interact properly if it's neither active nor passive?
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emogosia
now i know why i often ignore my friend because she does everything of this list. thank you. But what can i do to not ignore her when im really trying but i feel like shes avoiding conversation with me and ig ignoring me as well, when i dont see that much of anything from this film?
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now i know why i often ignore my friend because she does everything of this list. thank you. But what can i do to not ignore her when im really trying but i feel like shes avoiding conversation with me and ig ignoring me as well, when i dont see that much of anything from this film?
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Halacc_mia
some refrences that i found!
4: 19 philza or its from that one anime
3: 58 im pretty sure thats jshlatt
3: 25 i think thats technoblade
2: 56 techno plush
2: 26 crumb
2: 15 michael (tubbo and ranbo's child)
1: 56 Ranboo?
1: 45 Wilbur?
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some refrences that i found!
4: 19 philza or its from that one anime
3: 58 im pretty sure thats jshlatt
3: 25 i think thats technoblade
2: 56 techno plush
2: 26 crumb
2: 15 michael (tubbo and ranbo's child)
1: 56 Ranboo?
1: 45 Wilbur?
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David
I feel like some people can inconveniently take some of these videos in a bad way and rather than feeling better, they could feel even more depressed. Despite that is not the intention, I almost considered doing something crazy because of this video. I am sorry
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I feel like some people can inconveniently take some of these videos in a bad way and rather than feeling better, they could feel even more depressed. Despite that is not the intention, I almost considered doing something crazy because of this video. I am sorry
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draco
Hey, is it ok if you could make a video on the therapist friend? I really wish people would understand that being the therapist friend isnt much fun, so tiring, and to stop using their friends as therapists. would really appreciate it: 0
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Hey, is it ok if you could make a video on the therapist friend? I really wish people would understand that being the therapist friend isnt much fun, so tiring, and to stop using their friends as therapists. would really appreciate it: 0
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whyamIaraccoon
That explains why people tend to leave when your life isn't part cotton candy and unicorns. Mine never was. The how are you question is the hardest. I always have trouble deciding between honesty and false smile.
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That explains why people tend to leave when your life isn't part cotton candy and unicorns. Mine never was. The how are you question is the hardest. I always have trouble deciding between honesty and false smile.
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sml. _. txic
How do I stop being needy? I always need attention even if I mask it and try really hard to not be. It destroys me and makes me feel like no ones here for me. I hate that Ive turned into someone like this. Plz help
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How do I stop being needy? I always need attention even if I mask it and try really hard to not be. It destroys me and makes me feel like no ones here for me. I hate that Ive turned into someone like this. Plz help
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The
Trying too hard.
Leads to dont trying to do anything again ever.
Means:
You ignore others.
But rip them off of course if they want to have to do something with you again.
And Justice for All
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Trying too hard.
Leads to dont trying to do anything again ever.
Means:
You ignore others.
But rip them off of course if they want to have to do something with you again.
And Justice for All
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waaaaaaaahhhhh
The fact that I speak too soft that no one even hears me Im also invisible to people, this is like a passive skill to me so I cant really control when to be noticed. Maybe Im also too negative lol
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The fact that I speak too soft that no one even hears me Im also invisible to people, this is like a passive skill to me so I cant really control when to be noticed. Maybe Im also too negative lol
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Astrontasy
I don't relate with most the things in this video, but I've always had the problem of people ignoring me for my whole life. I think it's probably just because I'm really weird and easily ignorable.
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I don't relate with most the things in this video, but I've always had the problem of people ignoring me for my whole life. I think it's probably just because I'm really weird and easily ignorable.
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Bee-eautiful
sorry but these (at least for me) dont work
i can tell: this is my life (for most of the points) and people arent ignoring me, they HATE me so instead of being alone im often put under the spot
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sorry but these (at least for me) dont work
i can tell: this is my life (for most of the points) and people arent ignoring me, they HATE me so instead of being alone im often put under the spot
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Safety,
No one wants to be around someone with histrionics. It's ridiculous. Have some self-awareness. My sister is like this. It's always about her - good or bad under the guise of being relatable.
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No one wants to be around someone with histrionics. It's ridiculous. Have some self-awareness. My sister is like this. It's always about her - good or bad under the guise of being relatable.
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Ink
For some reason when I dont like someone I wont full on ignore them, Ill just try to be open about it, and sometimes Ill give a certain look that says Im not trying to be mean, but can I leave?
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For some reason when I dont like someone I wont full on ignore them, Ill just try to be open about it, and sometimes Ill give a certain look that says Im not trying to be mean, but can I leave?
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pr0b_s0me0ne
DSMP References
Michael - 2: 06
Crumb - 2: 16
Technoblade - 2: 55
Technoblade cosplay - 3: 12
Jschlatt - 3: 56
Ph1lza MineCraft - 4: 19
tell me if i missed any: )
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DSMP References
Michael - 2: 06
Crumb - 2: 16
Technoblade - 2: 55
Technoblade cosplay - 3: 12
Jschlatt - 3: 56
Ph1lza MineCraft - 4: 19
tell me if i missed any: )
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Keen
although think of this as an advantage, if you manage to make every one in bank ignore you. Free bank robbery. Disadvantage can be turn to advantage if you know how to apply it controllable
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although think of this as an advantage, if you manage to make every one in bank ignore you. Free bank robbery. Disadvantage can be turn to advantage if you know how to apply it controllable
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It
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. It is always healthy to check on your own attitude and behavior to be able to understand how and why other people behave that way toward you.
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Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. It is always healthy to check on your own attitude and behavior to be able to understand how and why other people behave that way toward you.
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melonenjoyer
I tend to think that if im the one to start the interaction then that means im interested and wanting to be their friend but its the opposite so that makes so much more sense now
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I tend to think that if im the one to start the interaction then that means im interested and wanting to be their friend but its the opposite so that makes so much more sense now
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