5 Habits That COULD Destroy A Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Vydex
hey there, i had a load of pent up frustrations and emotions about my gf like kinda small things but they irritated me a lot, yesterday i woke up and she had called me something i really didnt like but she said it was a joke and not that deep well it wasnt a joke to me no matter how insignificant that little thing she said was it meant a lot to me and really hurt me. so instead of telling her that i have been feeling hurt by what she says over a long time when she says it i try ignoring it and not tell her how i feel to avoid hurting her. well it really didnt work cus it overboiled yesterday. i got really angry at her and let it all out on her and said things i knew she wouldnt like as a sort of stings doesnt it to let her know the pain i felt so that she could maybe understand, but it didnt go my way at all. after the argument she said she lost feelings for me after what i said to her and she broke up with me. i tried apologizing but she wont even bother reading my apology and just answered with the letter e thats all she said i havent texted her after that. i still have strong feelings for her and i dont know how to let go of them, i still love her so much and i regret letting my anger take control. i asked my dad for advice but he just said theres someone out there for you and that just makes everything even more depressing. everything i found fun to do before like play video games and watch movies and all my other hobbies are just not fun anymore either and i really need some help.
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hey there, i had a load of pent up frustrations and emotions about my gf like kinda small things but they irritated me a lot, yesterday i woke up and she had called me something i really didnt like but she said it was a joke and not that deep well it wasnt a joke to me no matter how insignificant that little thing she said was it meant a lot to me and really hurt me. so instead of telling her that i have been feeling hurt by what she says over a long time when she says it i try ignoring it and not tell her how i feel to avoid hurting her. well it really didnt work cus it overboiled yesterday. i got really angry at her and let it all out on her and said things i knew she wouldnt like as a sort of stings doesnt it to let her know the pain i felt so that she could maybe understand, but it didnt go my way at all. after the argument she said she lost feelings for me after what i said to her and she broke up with me. i tried apologizing but she wont even bother reading my apology and just answered with the letter e thats all she said i havent texted her after that. i still have strong feelings for her and i dont know how to let go of them, i still love her so much and i regret letting my anger take control. i asked my dad for advice but he just said theres someone out there for you and that just makes everything even more depressing. everything i found fun to do before like play video games and watch movies and all my other hobbies are just not fun anymore either and i really need some help.
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LunaLunea
I agree with all this, but Ive been told by child educators way before, and later realized by their words that you have to initially think about yourself. Not when you are in relationship but before you plan any love relationship. Ask yourself this kind of questions: Do I am ready to be in relationship? Do I am psychologically ready to be or even try with someone? And so on. I weight my words because I am not psychologically healthy to do this kind of thing, and when I did not know before, I hurt myself but not only, I hurt others by trying and being in relationship. In my case I tried to be the best person as possible. Sometime it was useful but the majority of the time it was harmful (for the other person and me) and I just got so many bad adjectives do describe this that I can not write them normally like, bringing so much bad memories.
Think about yourself before doing some projects to be in relationship, globally protect yourself, and others because by avoiding this disaster, you also protect others.
Sorry if it was not well written, bad turned or even offensive (Absolutely not what I wanted, I'm not a native English speaking person, I'm still learning, I tried my best to share my thoughts.
Love yourself.
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I agree with all this, but Ive been told by child educators way before, and later realized by their words that you have to initially think about yourself. Not when you are in relationship but before you plan any love relationship. Ask yourself this kind of questions: Do I am ready to be in relationship? Do I am psychologically ready to be or even try with someone? And so on. I weight my words because I am not psychologically healthy to do this kind of thing, and when I did not know before, I hurt myself but not only, I hurt others by trying and being in relationship. In my case I tried to be the best person as possible. Sometime it was useful but the majority of the time it was harmful (for the other person and me) and I just got so many bad adjectives do describe this that I can not write them normally like, bringing so much bad memories.
Think about yourself before doing some projects to be in relationship, globally protect yourself, and others because by avoiding this disaster, you also protect others.
Sorry if it was not well written, bad turned or even offensive (Absolutely not what I wanted, I'm not a native English speaking person, I'm still learning, I tried my best to share my thoughts.
Love yourself.
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C. L. G.
I really wish you'd clarify in the title &/or thumbnail what type of relationship you're talking about because I keep thinking these particular videos are about relationships in general, not just romantic ones. I mean, I could probably learn something if I'd just watch these, but as an aroace who's never even had a crush ever, I can't help but feel like it's not worth my time in any personal way.
I'm not insulting; I'm critiquing. The clarification would be super helpful to me & maybe to others too.
Also, even though I couldn't finish this video, I like the artstyle in this one. It's nice.
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I really wish you'd clarify in the title &/or thumbnail what type of relationship you're talking about because I keep thinking these particular videos are about relationships in general, not just romantic ones. I mean, I could probably learn something if I'd just watch these, but as an aroace who's never even had a crush ever, I can't help but feel like it's not worth my time in any personal way.
I'm not insulting; I'm critiquing. The clarification would be super helpful to me & maybe to others too.
Also, even though I couldn't finish this video, I like the artstyle in this one. It's nice.
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de4dvo1ce
It's sad and hard being the one in the relationship who tries and tries and sees the relationship as a hight priority.
My last (and so far only) relationship ended up in spending no time together anymore and if I was not the one starting chatting, there was no chat. It felt like I was left behind.
I always said, I'll never be between him and his friends, but even long planned things were cut off a day before because of them.
It still hurts thinking about that time, because we've been so happy.
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It's sad and hard being the one in the relationship who tries and tries and sees the relationship as a hight priority.
My last (and so far only) relationship ended up in spending no time together anymore and if I was not the one starting chatting, there was no chat. It felt like I was left behind.
I always said, I'll never be between him and his friends, but even long planned things were cut off a day before because of them.
It still hurts thinking about that time, because we've been so happy.
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Shizaki
I've been in a relationship for over a year, in the beginning it was amazing and all
But now it's not as exciting as it was before
Part of it is my fault, for the fact that I'm a little distant from most of the people I love.
But part of this is his fault, it's like he's not trying so hard because of the relationship, I know I'm not either, but I expected some action from him at least
I love him, a lot
But I have no idea how to solve this
I'm scared that everything is going to fall apart
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I've been in a relationship for over a year, in the beginning it was amazing and all
But now it's not as exciting as it was before
Part of it is my fault, for the fact that I'm a little distant from most of the people I love.
But part of this is his fault, it's like he's not trying so hard because of the relationship, I know I'm not either, but I expected some action from him at least
I love him, a lot
But I have no idea how to solve this
I'm scared that everything is going to fall apart
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WaffleHidraulico
i am in a love triangle with my crush. there are a lot of guys who have a crush on her but she is interested in only 2 guys (me and other. basically the other guy and i are like some kind of love rivals. but none of us has had a formal relationship with her. my rival and i have already asked her out but she doesn't who she wants to be with
what should i do?
btw she already knows that i like here and she is also aware that the other guys also like her
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i am in a love triangle with my crush. there are a lot of guys who have a crush on her but she is interested in only 2 guys (me and other. basically the other guy and i are like some kind of love rivals. but none of us has had a formal relationship with her. my rival and i have already asked her out but she doesn't who she wants to be with
what should i do?
btw she already knows that i like here and she is also aware that the other guys also like her
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Rae
My ex cheated on me despite having been together for 3 years and we promised to never let anyone come between us.
My whole world fell apart and I became more and more insecure of myself ever since he broke up with me and I have gotten deeply afraid that it could happen to me again if I do meet someone else.
I don't intend on giving up on love as a way to work on getting stronger and do better in a relationship.
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My ex cheated on me despite having been together for 3 years and we promised to never let anyone come between us.
My whole world fell apart and I became more and more insecure of myself ever since he broke up with me and I have gotten deeply afraid that it could happen to me again if I do meet someone else.
I don't intend on giving up on love as a way to work on getting stronger and do better in a relationship.
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F0X
My gf lives in another country, i ofc love her a lot, but i can't get rid of a thought that i won't be able to protect her if smth happened to her. yet. but still.
And i hope to live a happy and a long life with her as soon as possible. i am just scared that someone might snach her from me: /
(Edit) She's a gold digger. and don't know why, but it hurts like hell. she only used me and broke my heart to pieces.
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My gf lives in another country, i ofc love her a lot, but i can't get rid of a thought that i won't be able to protect her if smth happened to her. yet. but still.
And i hope to live a happy and a long life with her as soon as possible. i am just scared that someone might snach her from me: /
(Edit) She's a gold digger. and don't know why, but it hurts like hell. she only used me and broke my heart to pieces.
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Eyah
thank you for this video, i just saw this on my recommendations and my hand just automatically clicked this video. i just started to let out my heart and give it in as to i am in love with him and him liking me too. we recently just got into a relationship and this video was a very helpful perspective for people who needs love advices and to people who are new into relationships as these.
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thank you for this video, i just saw this on my recommendations and my hand just automatically clicked this video. i just started to let out my heart and give it in as to i am in love with him and him liking me too. we recently just got into a relationship and this video was a very helpful perspective for people who needs love advices and to people who are new into relationships as these.
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Ricin
Yesterday my gf cheated on me with a guy she met online, she met him while playing a game and added him into her social media, they only met for a few days, about 3-5 days or so and she flirted with him and even sent him nudes after we been together for so long, i want to leave her but some parts of me wants to keep her because i still love her, i dont know what to do
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Yesterday my gf cheated on me with a guy she met online, she met him while playing a game and added him into her social media, they only met for a few days, about 3-5 days or so and she flirted with him and even sent him nudes after we been together for so long, i want to leave her but some parts of me wants to keep her because i still love her, i dont know what to do
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Jason
Pay attention to this. I was trying to believe that there was good people out there. Not the case I'm going to save the energy of maintaining the executive functions regarding people. Everything is now Subjective or Objective only. I will abandon all previous connections and harshly reject all future connections. Good luck and enjoy your journey
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Pay attention to this. I was trying to believe that there was good people out there. Not the case I'm going to save the energy of maintaining the executive functions regarding people. Everything is now Subjective or Objective only. I will abandon all previous connections and harshly reject all future connections. Good luck and enjoy your journey
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CANTALOUPE
My ex(Gemini) literally was the worse love ever and Im glad Im out of that situation! Im currently possibly about to enter into a new relationship (maybe) and Im just checking to made sure Im not being the bad guy or hung up on the past. I want this new situation to be healthy from both parties involved if it gets to that level
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My ex(Gemini) literally was the worse love ever and Im glad Im out of that situation! Im currently possibly about to enter into a new relationship (maybe) and Im just checking to made sure Im not being the bad guy or hung up on the past. I want this new situation to be healthy from both parties involved if it gets to that level
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Psych2Go
May is Mental Health Awareness Month. We hope that you had watched our previous videos as well and support our cause to bring more awareness about mental health to the world. Relationships are a big part of our happiness and learning the skills to navigate difficult relationships could save you or someone else in the long run.
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May is Mental Health Awareness Month. We hope that you had watched our previous videos as well and support our cause to bring more awareness about mental health to the world. Relationships are a big part of our happiness and learning the skills to navigate difficult relationships could save you or someone else in the long run.
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Stephen
I had problems with 2 3 and 4, and it really hurt her, they might have shown up in different ways than described here, but they were present. Now that Im finally aware of these habits I am never going to just be complacent and let them happen anymore. Even though its too late to save the relationship.
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I had problems with 2 3 and 4, and it really hurt her, they might have shown up in different ways than described here, but they were present. Now that Im finally aware of these habits I am never going to just be complacent and let them happen anymore. Even though its too late to save the relationship.
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neoz
number four basically perfectly describes how it was, she was beeing mean to me as a joke. after a while of ignoring my emotions about it i got really mad at her and said some bad things to her aswell, then she broke up with me and shit was shit. is there any hope to fix the relationship after nr4?
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number four basically perfectly describes how it was, she was beeing mean to me as a joke. after a while of ignoring my emotions about it i got really mad at her and said some bad things to her aswell, then she broke up with me and shit was shit. is there any hope to fix the relationship after nr4?
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PinkWytchBytch
Oh no. Im not his best friend he has made VERY adamantly sure I know my place is behind and second place to his real best friend. More than once and very verbally. No acknowledgement for the fact that Ive had to cut a lot of contact with the only two friends I had for HIS sake
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Oh no. Im not his best friend he has made VERY adamantly sure I know my place is behind and second place to his real best friend. More than once and very verbally. No acknowledgement for the fact that Ive had to cut a lot of contact with the only two friends I had for HIS sake
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The
I'm in a long distance relationship and sometimes I have these deep thoughts of what if she finds someone better than me. I feel like I've gotten boring overtime and I just want things to work out. This video does make me feel a bit better at least
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I'm in a long distance relationship and sometimes I have these deep thoughts of what if she finds someone better than me. I feel like I've gotten boring overtime and I just want things to work out. This video does make me feel a bit better at least
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Angellover
Yah my ex was the being a jerk one lets just say after we broke up he started targeting me telling me to shut up and blaming me for stuff I didnt do I mean he was being a jerk when were together but when we broke up it was more intense
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Yah my ex was the being a jerk one lets just say after we broke up he started targeting me telling me to shut up and blaming me for stuff I didnt do I mean he was being a jerk when were together but when we broke up it was more intense
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B.
+Psych2go These five don't apply at present because I'm still seeking a relation. As the autistic adult child of a dysfunctional house of origin, I didn't really have an opportunity to learn how one should be treated in the first place.
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+Psych2go These five don't apply at present because I'm still seeking a relation. As the autistic adult child of a dysfunctional house of origin, I didn't really have an opportunity to learn how one should be treated in the first place.
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Quint
ok so with the first one say I'm saying that my current partner is better and better for me and how I care for them way more than past partner is it still considered ex-parison? and its not like i do that all the time you know.
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ok so with the first one say I'm saying that my current partner is better and better for me and how I care for them way more than past partner is it still considered ex-parison? and its not like i do that all the time you know.
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James
Thank you Dr Uroko for making my broken relationship to be restore again with happiness i recommend you all that are in troubles with your marriage or relationship to check him out and restore your happiness back and forever.
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Thank you Dr Uroko for making my broken relationship to be restore again with happiness i recommend you all that are in troubles with your marriage or relationship to check him out and restore your happiness back and forever.
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BlackDolphin90
The habit of infidelity lol. how do you choose to have a relationship with someone who will be like that? You need to take a long time to vet the person before getting into a relationship. Don't rush it
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The habit of infidelity lol. how do you choose to have a relationship with someone who will be like that? You need to take a long time to vet the person before getting into a relationship. Don't rush it
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Hawa
Idk. but if your in a long distance relationship and only had 1-2hrs of call each day. I dont think you should need more space unless there's something really important going on. It's the bare minimum tbh.
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Idk. but if your in a long distance relationship and only had 1-2hrs of call each day. I dont think you should need more space unless there's something really important going on. It's the bare minimum tbh.
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Khalilah
I love that you guys keep coming back to this topic because like you mentioned we never stop needing helping with improving relationships (romantic or platonic. We can all be better
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I love that you guys keep coming back to this topic because like you mentioned we never stop needing helping with improving relationships (romantic or platonic. We can all be better
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Tom
Thank your universe #doctoruroko for bringing him back to me. He came back and we are now in the happiest relationship together. He realised that he will always love me and forever.
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Thank your universe #doctoruroko for bringing him back to me. He came back and we are now in the happiest relationship together. He realised that he will always love me and forever.
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