5 Habits That Make You LESS Attractive
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Date: 2023-08-20
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psych2go
I tend to me more realistic with my struggles and more positive towards things that don't actually effect me.
I am terrible at Japanese and, I'm okay with that. That doesn't mean I don't try every lesson but I fell behind last year and I genuinely don't have the energy or motivation to do months of work now. I still try and do Duolingo every day but I'll never expect praise for this as it's something I fell behind in myself.
That's realistic. I'm not asking for critique nor praise. I'm just explaining something person to me in a way that doesn't blame or put others down. Now,
Wow! You're doing amazing out there! I loved your serves this game and ____ your passes were awesome! We were neck on neck with the other team all game and I believe next time we'll win! Plus, if you decide to join the school volleyball team who knows who will be on your team! Could be our current opponents.
This is more positive and confident. In both I'm fairly confident in what I'm saying and neither show much weakness. Heres one more but this is for when you're sharing something personal.
You know when I said I sometimes struggle with boundaries? Yeah. That's whats happening now. I don't know what to do but I know I'm asking and putting things onto you that I wouldn't normally talk about so casually. I'm sorry. I think I need a bit of space at the moment and just some time to get used to my current life? I still like you a lot I just don't think it's fair to hurt you with this.
And boom! Firstly when I struggle with something I tend to explain how I'm trying but not that I'm going or you should expect anything of me from that. Secondly is what I do whenever I have energy! Trying to boost people's confidence always helps as we grow closer and they encourage me too! Basically passing on kindness. The third one is for something personal. I usually try to seperate myself from the situation to recognise if its something they should know, if its something I know how to manage ( Like if I know its a short feeling so I'll be able to ask for support from my friends without hurting them in the process. :)
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I tend to me more realistic with my struggles and more positive towards things that don't actually effect me.
I am terrible at Japanese and, I'm okay with that. That doesn't mean I don't try every lesson but I fell behind last year and I genuinely don't have the energy or motivation to do months of work now. I still try and do Duolingo every day but I'll never expect praise for this as it's something I fell behind in myself.
That's realistic. I'm not asking for critique nor praise. I'm just explaining something person to me in a way that doesn't blame or put others down. Now,
Wow! You're doing amazing out there! I loved your serves this game and ____ your passes were awesome! We were neck on neck with the other team all game and I believe next time we'll win! Plus, if you decide to join the school volleyball team who knows who will be on your team! Could be our current opponents.
This is more positive and confident. In both I'm fairly confident in what I'm saying and neither show much weakness. Heres one more but this is for when you're sharing something personal.
You know when I said I sometimes struggle with boundaries? Yeah. That's whats happening now. I don't know what to do but I know I'm asking and putting things onto you that I wouldn't normally talk about so casually. I'm sorry. I think I need a bit of space at the moment and just some time to get used to my current life? I still like you a lot I just don't think it's fair to hurt you with this.
And boom! Firstly when I struggle with something I tend to explain how I'm trying but not that I'm going or you should expect anything of me from that. Secondly is what I do whenever I have energy! Trying to boost people's confidence always helps as we grow closer and they encourage me too! Basically passing on kindness. The third one is for something personal. I usually try to seperate myself from the situation to recognise if its something they should know, if its something I know how to manage ( Like if I know its a short feeling so I'll be able to ask for support from my friends without hurting them in the process. :)
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education
this is the only video ive seen from you thats actually insanely offensive-
i have insomnia, and i cant help the fact i stay up all night almost every night. Ive tried for the LONGEST time to fix my sleeping schedule, it hasn't worked. just like others said, you can be attractive to certain people. I have a partner who i've been with for 2 years, we absolutely love each other. please re-consider this video, because again, everyone is attractive to different people. one person might find someone ugly, while another finds them attractive. it depends on the person
edit: also, the fact that the thumbnail shows someone with hairy armpits as being unattractive is absolutely horrible.
edit 2: ALSO, do you realize that NOT being yourself is way less attractive? if you find a partner by being someone you're not, your partner may not like you after you show your true colors. its better to be yourself in the beginning so sticky situations dont happen in the future
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this is the only video ive seen from you thats actually insanely offensive-
i have insomnia, and i cant help the fact i stay up all night almost every night. Ive tried for the LONGEST time to fix my sleeping schedule, it hasn't worked. just like others said, you can be attractive to certain people. I have a partner who i've been with for 2 years, we absolutely love each other. please re-consider this video, because again, everyone is attractive to different people. one person might find someone ugly, while another finds them attractive. it depends on the person
edit: also, the fact that the thumbnail shows someone with hairy armpits as being unattractive is absolutely horrible.
edit 2: ALSO, do you realize that NOT being yourself is way less attractive? if you find a partner by being someone you're not, your partner may not like you after you show your true colors. its better to be yourself in the beginning so sticky situations dont happen in the future
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Lone
I really dont want someone who finds me attractive when I do somethings and just dumps me when I do what I want to. Why run for attractiveness when you cd just be yourself? Why shape your personality in a particular manner?
I am a teenager who does personality experiments in daily basis-I'VE COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN WHO I TRULY AM- CHANGING MY FACES EVERYWHERE- No one thus can be close to me- running towards attractiveness and putting on a mask is a big no no-It is okay to behave pessimistic-avoid people and do whatever you want- how long will you hide your inner self like me who totally lost it?
I would say people- please be yourself- you'll have someone to speak to atleast- unlike me- who feels uncomfortable everywhere-even at home-making masks for places to hide- to not show your personality- LIFE IS SHORT-LIVE IT AS YOURSELF-
Thank you(no hate or offence it is what I faced and dont want anyone else t, o go through the same)
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I really dont want someone who finds me attractive when I do somethings and just dumps me when I do what I want to. Why run for attractiveness when you cd just be yourself? Why shape your personality in a particular manner?
I am a teenager who does personality experiments in daily basis-I'VE COMPLETELY FORGOTTEN WHO I TRULY AM- CHANGING MY FACES EVERYWHERE- No one thus can be close to me- running towards attractiveness and putting on a mask is a big no no-It is okay to behave pessimistic-avoid people and do whatever you want- how long will you hide your inner self like me who totally lost it?
I would say people- please be yourself- you'll have someone to speak to atleast- unlike me- who feels uncomfortable everywhere-even at home-making masks for places to hide- to not show your personality- LIFE IS SHORT-LIVE IT AS YOURSELF-
Thank you(no hate or offence it is what I faced and dont want anyone else t, o go through the same)
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Nax
I can tell that I stopped telling my own stressfull situations so often and I started to be a more positive person that just wants to laugh, have a good time with my friends and the words of ''Someday I'll be okay'' on my mind, 'cause that's the reason I'm still alive. Maybe I don't have so much friends, and it took me a few sessions with my psychologist but yeah, It's something that one and only one, yourself can change and maybe with the help of a proffesional or whatever makes you feel comfort.
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I can tell that I stopped telling my own stressfull situations so often and I started to be a more positive person that just wants to laugh, have a good time with my friends and the words of ''Someday I'll be okay'' on my mind, 'cause that's the reason I'm still alive. Maybe I don't have so much friends, and it took me a few sessions with my psychologist but yeah, It's something that one and only one, yourself can change and maybe with the help of a proffesional or whatever makes you feel comfort.
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c:
the last is one of my friends- if I can even call it a friend. He allways do this jokes with me, not just with me but with everyone else, I tried to say it to him, but he allways thinks that everything I'm saying a joke too. (Plus: He liked me [or still likes, I don't know] since the start of 2022, and he allways think that after calling anyone monkey, homeless or things like that all the time will make he be more attractive)
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the last is one of my friends- if I can even call it a friend. He allways do this jokes with me, not just with me but with everyone else, I tried to say it to him, but he allways thinks that everything I'm saying a joke too. (Plus: He liked me [or still likes, I don't know] since the start of 2022, and he allways think that after calling anyone monkey, homeless or things like that all the time will make he be more attractive)
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Sl0ter
Oh I understand. If a person is an introvert just stop being an introvert and if you have hard work that makes you tired just stop being tired or quit the job. You think too much and see the world on fire because the world is on fire. Just stop seeing flames because flames don't exist and it's all in your imagination. Yeah, just don't be yourself and you'll be fine.
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The last should be obvious
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Oh I understand. If a person is an introvert just stop being an introvert and if you have hard work that makes you tired just stop being tired or quit the job. You think too much and see the world on fire because the world is on fire. Just stop seeing flames because flames don't exist and it's all in your imagination. Yeah, just don't be yourself and you'll be fine.
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The last should be obvious
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Helo
i dont spend much time with friends but my reasoning is that because its a waste of time. unless we go gym together or study together and gain knowledge together then other then that just talking nonsense etc brings me no benefit. of course if i have not seen my friends for a while i would love to get together and catch up and talk about our lives because that makes sense.
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i dont spend much time with friends but my reasoning is that because its a waste of time. unless we go gym together or study together and gain knowledge together then other then that just talking nonsense etc brings me no benefit. of course if i have not seen my friends for a while i would love to get together and catch up and talk about our lives because that makes sense.
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The_L0rax
This video got lots of hate for the thumbnail. If you choose not to shave, thats fine. But dont be surprised if a man is not attracted to your hair. And if you think this video is trying to make people insecure then your sensitive, if you dont like these types of videos you can go ahead and click off. This is for people who want learn.
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This video got lots of hate for the thumbnail. If you choose not to shave, thats fine. But dont be surprised if a man is not attracted to your hair. And if you think this video is trying to make people insecure then your sensitive, if you dont like these types of videos you can go ahead and click off. This is for people who want learn.
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SleepyBoii
Also Ive found a way that works for me, for when people ask if I wanna do something. I will (if I dont have energy that day) just say that I dont have the energy that day, but that Id love to find a day to do it with them. Perhaps in an upcoming weekend, or a day where I get off early and can still relax a bit at home beforehand.
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Also Ive found a way that works for me, for when people ask if I wanna do something. I will (if I dont have energy that day) just say that I dont have the energy that day, but that Id love to find a day to do it with them. Perhaps in an upcoming weekend, or a day where I get off early and can still relax a bit at home beforehand.
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Psych2Go
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Hi everyone! We're doing something different this year. In an effort to bring a physical piece of psych2go to you, we have a patreon where you can get physical copies of our quarterly magazines: www. Patreon. com/psych2gomagazine
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Average
really? you're gonna start with that? i literally spun the wheel of excuses explaining why i can't go out with my friends all the way back to high school and i feel so bad about it. cuz a friend of mine always ask me every year to go to an anime convention with them and i'm just too asocial i guess lol
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really? you're gonna start with that? i literally spun the wheel of excuses explaining why i can't go out with my friends all the way back to high school and i feel so bad about it. cuz a friend of mine always ask me every year to go to an anime convention with them and i'm just too asocial i guess lol
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DEATH
I will feel better if I get my room and listen to this all day while lookin at my new room mirror like barbie(what I'm talking about us that I don't have a room yet and I will be happier if I get one and listen to all of ur vids since I'm careless about myself. )
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I will feel better if I get my room and listen to this all day while lookin at my new room mirror like barbie(what I'm talking about us that I don't have a room yet and I will be happier if I get one and listen to all of ur vids since I'm careless about myself. )
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BisDak
I have sleep deprivation and yeah my eyes makes me look unattractive. makes my face tired. I'm actually losing my confidence about how I look coz of it. It's my fault but sometimes I'm still tempted to surf online 'til midnight. Just did it last night actually
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I have sleep deprivation and yeah my eyes makes me look unattractive. makes my face tired. I'm actually losing my confidence about how I look coz of it. It's my fault but sometimes I'm still tempted to surf online 'til midnight. Just did it last night actually
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Navywater
Glass half empty
Dunno man, seems like if youre pessimistic you have to completely change and not be yourself anymore or people simply wont like you.
Also overly optimistic people are annoying as shit
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Glass half empty
Dunno man, seems like if youre pessimistic you have to completely change and not be yourself anymore or people simply wont like you.
Also overly optimistic people are annoying as shit
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Vale26
Its just going out with friends means go out for a drink, then lets eat something, then later lets go another drink and so and so. I always need to bring at least 30 euros everytime I go out to survive
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Its just going out with friends means go out for a drink, then lets eat something, then later lets go another drink and so and so. I always need to bring at least 30 euros everytime I go out to survive
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Mega
Im overconfident in a funny way where its obvious i dont mean it when i say stuff like obviously even though ive never done this in my life im clearly the best in the world by far x 1000000 frfr lol
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Im overconfident in a funny way where its obvious i dont mean it when i say stuff like obviously even though ive never done this in my life im clearly the best in the world by far x 1000000 frfr lol
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Grм
1: 38 I dont even think its possible for me to do this XD cause I never think Im good enough for anything. If Im actually successful my brain just convinces me that it mustve been luck
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1: 38 I dont even think its possible for me to do this XD cause I never think Im good enough for anything. If Im actually successful my brain just convinces me that it mustve been luck
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Fudge
I am currently reading quiet by Susan Cain and this proves a lot of the points of how american culture is extroverted and introverts
can suffer because of that in this book.
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I am currently reading quiet by Susan Cain and this proves a lot of the points of how american culture is extroverted and introverts
can suffer because of that in this book.
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Grм
3: 30 Id say for me Im more of a realistic person. I can tell if somethings unlikely or not. Especially based on past events of something similar has happened before.
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3: 30 Id say for me Im more of a realistic person. I can tell if somethings unlikely or not. Especially based on past events of something similar has happened before.
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FatalTilt
I honestly wouldnt mind a partner with a messed up sleeping schedule. I know that if im ever having late night anxiety i can rely on them to help calm me down.
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I honestly wouldnt mind a partner with a messed up sleeping schedule. I know that if im ever having late night anxiety i can rely on them to help calm me down.
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Patrick
bro i seen a strategy same off this did by a guy in a club for an experiment and he was kind like go to every group he saw there and talk a little bit whith all
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bro i seen a strategy same off this did by a guy in a club for an experiment and he was kind like go to every group he saw there and talk a little bit whith all
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slotki
is this vid telling me to not let out my bad emotions, keep them inside of me and to go out with my friends even i feel really bad and uncomfortable? yes! 1!
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is this vid telling me to not let out my bad emotions, keep them inside of me and to go out with my friends even i feel really bad and uncomfortable? yes! 1!
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happy
I sit whit my enemy I don't have my classmates as friends but they always make fool of them self's bc they are way oml I got a gold house and u don't
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I sit whit my enemy I don't have my classmates as friends but they always make fool of them self's bc they are way oml I got a gold house and u don't
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kiwiq_
is the researcher/writer of this video by any chance Serbian or at least Balkan? The last name sounds Serbian to me since I'm from there! :)
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is the researcher/writer of this video by any chance Serbian or at least Balkan? The last name sounds Serbian to me since I'm from there! :)
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Piotr
What's with the thumbnail? Body hair is normal and can be attractive too. Reinforcing the sterotype of body hair = gross is pretty bad.
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What's with the thumbnail? Body hair is normal and can be attractive too. Reinforcing the sterotype of body hair = gross is pretty bad.
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