5 Secrets To Finding The Right Person For You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Jason
mid of last year i thought i managed to find the love of my life, someone that I have known for years but did not interact much other than the few times she is in the city. unfortunately she was badly hurt from the previous relationship. trying to get close to her by hanging out with the mutual friends that we have. confessed to her at the end of last year and she only sees me as friend and not ready for the next relationship. i still very much in love with her but i understand that she is not ready and still recovering from the wounds of last relationship. I'm in a dilemma of whether to continue stay around as a friend, thus extending the pain of one sided love or completely stay away. after few months of agonizing self doubt, I keep our relationship as platonic as possible. Probably she is not the one for me, at this moment it does feel like finding love seems like a myth. I hope everyone will find the love of their life and they see you the same.
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mid of last year i thought i managed to find the love of my life, someone that I have known for years but did not interact much other than the few times she is in the city. unfortunately she was badly hurt from the previous relationship. trying to get close to her by hanging out with the mutual friends that we have. confessed to her at the end of last year and she only sees me as friend and not ready for the next relationship. i still very much in love with her but i understand that she is not ready and still recovering from the wounds of last relationship. I'm in a dilemma of whether to continue stay around as a friend, thus extending the pain of one sided love or completely stay away. after few months of agonizing self doubt, I keep our relationship as platonic as possible. Probably she is not the one for me, at this moment it does feel like finding love seems like a myth. I hope everyone will find the love of their life and they see you the same.
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Red
Love is hard. I'm in love with an slightly older guy, he's never had a serious relationship before, 8/10 looks, and 12/10 personality. Meanwhile, I think I'm probably a 5. 5/10, 6/10 personality, and I've never had a romantic attraction besides him. We were really good friends before I started having feelings for him, about a year later, and the feelings hit me like a truck. One day I wasn't in love with him, the next I was. But now I no longer see him, I don't have his number, and he's moved on with his life presumably. I'll hopefully see him in about a year since we're planning on going to the same college campus but who knows how long I'll see him there, and if he even liked me in the first place? I haven't told any of my family or most of my friends about him, because a lot of my friends are his friends, and since we're not even dating, I figured my family doesn't need to know. It really sucks to be in love with someone you can't have.
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Love is hard. I'm in love with an slightly older guy, he's never had a serious relationship before, 8/10 looks, and 12/10 personality. Meanwhile, I think I'm probably a 5. 5/10, 6/10 personality, and I've never had a romantic attraction besides him. We were really good friends before I started having feelings for him, about a year later, and the feelings hit me like a truck. One day I wasn't in love with him, the next I was. But now I no longer see him, I don't have his number, and he's moved on with his life presumably. I'll hopefully see him in about a year since we're planning on going to the same college campus but who knows how long I'll see him there, and if he even liked me in the first place? I haven't told any of my family or most of my friends about him, because a lot of my friends are his friends, and since we're not even dating, I figured my family doesn't need to know. It really sucks to be in love with someone you can't have.
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Nur
I have been studying love ever since high school and observing others, listening to their stories, understanding what made them work and what don't, but as I grew older today, I found that love can be so simple if we stop putting too much meaning to it. Most people that I've met staying for so long with each other said that the best way to explain how they know the other person is the right one is when they feel like home. Many can make your heart race, but only a few can make you feel safe. And that's when you found the right one. It's not just mere compatibility or sharing same sense of humour, it's more of knowing that you can be the ugliest being in the whole world with this person and they'll still stay and treat you the same. That's what love is to me. It's simple, when I meet someone, if they don't make me feel at home, they're not the one.
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I have been studying love ever since high school and observing others, listening to their stories, understanding what made them work and what don't, but as I grew older today, I found that love can be so simple if we stop putting too much meaning to it. Most people that I've met staying for so long with each other said that the best way to explain how they know the other person is the right one is when they feel like home. Many can make your heart race, but only a few can make you feel safe. And that's when you found the right one. It's not just mere compatibility or sharing same sense of humour, it's more of knowing that you can be the ugliest being in the whole world with this person and they'll still stay and treat you the same. That's what love is to me. It's simple, when I meet someone, if they don't make me feel at home, they're not the one.
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InolaLuv
I I just like this one person for 2 years but I dont think theyre right because I get the ick on and off and the world doesnt really seem to work in our favor tbh. Theyre only 1 year older and Im usually attracted to 3-5 years older (I know its bad but I have mommy issues) its rare for me to like someone more on my age so I thought it was great. I liked them at first during summer camp bc tbh they had not perfect teeth and I think that people with non perfect teeth are cute and I liked them so bad for that 2 weeks and the next couple of months until I move on but then I see them again and its like oh no and they got braces but I still like them because their voice is calming and they smell good. Theyre also really sweet but idk Im such a fool rahg
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I I just like this one person for 2 years but I dont think theyre right because I get the ick on and off and the world doesnt really seem to work in our favor tbh. Theyre only 1 year older and Im usually attracted to 3-5 years older (I know its bad but I have mommy issues) its rare for me to like someone more on my age so I thought it was great. I liked them at first during summer camp bc tbh they had not perfect teeth and I think that people with non perfect teeth are cute and I liked them so bad for that 2 weeks and the next couple of months until I move on but then I see them again and its like oh no and they got braces but I still like them because their voice is calming and they smell good. Theyre also really sweet but idk Im such a fool rahg
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RuyLopez778
The best way to find 'the right person', is to focus on being the best version of yourself every single day, and accept that the other person won't magically make life perfect or easy for you. Just like with friends and family, there will be traits about them that you don't like or things you don't share in common. All relationships require effort, tolerance, respect and gratitude, whether they are romantic, platonic or professional, and all of them can help you grow as a person. Everyone is flawed, lonely, scared and conflicted and life has ups and downs. A couple is like two trees beside each other, growing together (but each on their own separate, parallel path, and sharing the joy, pain and mundane on an adventure upward and forward.
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The best way to find 'the right person', is to focus on being the best version of yourself every single day, and accept that the other person won't magically make life perfect or easy for you. Just like with friends and family, there will be traits about them that you don't like or things you don't share in common. All relationships require effort, tolerance, respect and gratitude, whether they are romantic, platonic or professional, and all of them can help you grow as a person. Everyone is flawed, lonely, scared and conflicted and life has ups and downs. A couple is like two trees beside each other, growing together (but each on their own separate, parallel path, and sharing the joy, pain and mundane on an adventure upward and forward.
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DungeonMaster42
I totally understand the bit about love being unpredictable. I was kinda crushing on this girl at school for years. When someone else asked her to a dance, I asked this other girl I knew, my friend since fourth grade, to the dance on a whim, and that developed into romance. My former crush is definitely still someone I want to be friends with and spend time around, but I'm so glad that someone got in my way because I'm so much happier with my current girlfriend than I think I could have been with the other girl.
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I totally understand the bit about love being unpredictable. I was kinda crushing on this girl at school for years. When someone else asked her to a dance, I asked this other girl I knew, my friend since fourth grade, to the dance on a whim, and that developed into romance. My former crush is definitely still someone I want to be friends with and spend time around, but I'm so glad that someone got in my way because I'm so much happier with my current girlfriend than I think I could have been with the other girl.
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Ethereal
I'm 18 years old and I've been secluded from the world for 6 and a half years, with no school, no friends, no love. Just hate and abuse. I just started highschool and so much has changed. But changes aside, nobody will let me into their social circle or even communicate with me, and it's really getting to me. If you have a video about joining new social circles, please let me know. I'm really struggling and it's really hard to cope with my past without someone there for me
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I'm 18 years old and I've been secluded from the world for 6 and a half years, with no school, no friends, no love. Just hate and abuse. I just started highschool and so much has changed. But changes aside, nobody will let me into their social circle or even communicate with me, and it's really getting to me. If you have a video about joining new social circles, please let me know. I'm really struggling and it's really hard to cope with my past without someone there for me
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Michiel
Long difficult journey after highly possible narcistic relationship. First work on myself and support my child and show the most right way of growing up. Love can be so beautiful, but after two horrible events of 4 years and 9 years I have to change myself to protect myself for evil partners. protect myself against people with other intensions. Social and willing as I am, with healty borders.
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Long difficult journey after highly possible narcistic relationship. First work on myself and support my child and show the most right way of growing up. Love can be so beautiful, but after two horrible events of 4 years and 9 years I have to change myself to protect myself for evil partners. protect myself against people with other intensions. Social and willing as I am, with healty borders.
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Ian
I love the fact that more emphasis has been placed on finding someone in your social circle. It's so much easier to be with someone who is also from your friend group. You already know that you get along with them, and enjoy their company, and if they happen to be attractive it's basically a slam dunk
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I love the fact that more emphasis has been placed on finding someone in your social circle. It's so much easier to be with someone who is also from your friend group. You already know that you get along with them, and enjoy their company, and if they happen to be attractive it's basically a slam dunk
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JSTMarton
I found her and I lost her cause I screwed up. She's with someone else now and I hope she's happy.
But idk if I can put myself out to all that again. The feeling was amazing when it was going on, but the pain after the fact was unimaginable. So idk in the long run for me, if it's worth it.
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I found her and I lost her cause I screwed up. She's with someone else now and I hope she's happy.
But idk if I can put myself out to all that again. The feeling was amazing when it was going on, but the pain after the fact was unimaginable. So idk in the long run for me, if it's worth it.
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Leonardo
Never worked out for me. I'm so terrified of romance to the point of borderline social withdrawal. Sharing religious beliefs and political alignments are impossible for me, everything turns into a heated argument that escalates even further. I'd best be left alone, feels more fulfilling.
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Never worked out for me. I'm so terrified of romance to the point of borderline social withdrawal. Sharing religious beliefs and political alignments are impossible for me, everything turns into a heated argument that escalates even further. I'd best be left alone, feels more fulfilling.
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Phantomus
You mentioned that it is important to have religious and political overlaps in the relationship. It's already the case that I'm a Christian, a Catholic, and my other half is an agnostic, maybe an atheist. what should I do next so that everything goes only for the better?
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You mentioned that it is important to have religious and political overlaps in the relationship. It's already the case that I'm a Christian, a Catholic, and my other half is an agnostic, maybe an atheist. what should I do next so that everything goes only for the better?
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Emi
Could we possibly get a video about the psychology of being in love with multiple people at once, and/or different kinds of love? I feel like theres a lot of videos on how to know if you love someone or someone loves you romantically, but not much on these topics.
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Could we possibly get a video about the psychology of being in love with multiple people at once, and/or different kinds of love? I feel like theres a lot of videos on how to know if you love someone or someone loves you romantically, but not much on these topics.
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Tristan
The best part about love is that it isn't real. it's just an agreement to reproduce. And how you decide to perceive a person because of chemicals in your brain if you use logic there is no love just decisions and 100% of the time the decision is no
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The best part about love is that it isn't real. it's just an agreement to reproduce. And how you decide to perceive a person because of chemicals in your brain if you use logic there is no love just decisions and 100% of the time the decision is no
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Ranroon
Ok I think I am on the right path
I've been foing so for 2 years now. But wether my partner will show in my life. Is something in God's hands I think
There's no garuantee. but I'm enjoying the journey
Thanks psych2go, you're a life savior
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Ok I think I am on the right path
I've been foing so for 2 years now. But wether my partner will show in my life. Is something in God's hands I think
There's no garuantee. but I'm enjoying the journey
Thanks psych2go, you're a life savior
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Wman
If soulmates do exist, they're not found, they're made. People meet, they get a good feeling, and then they get to work building a relationship.
Yes, that above was copy pasted. These are for sharing, not keeping though
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If soulmates do exist, they're not found, they're made. People meet, they get a good feeling, and then they get to work building a relationship.
Yes, that above was copy pasted. These are for sharing, not keeping though
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Rustymilktanker
I keep getting told Im the ideal man. Im honest and genuine stay myself the whole time but oh my gosh nobody seems to want that take your time and be patience Ive been very patient. I hope I can find her soon
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I keep getting told Im the ideal man. Im honest and genuine stay myself the whole time but oh my gosh nobody seems to want that take your time and be patience Ive been very patient. I hope I can find her soon
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Aladdin
Theres also another way to find the right person for you is you need to know how it feels to be alone first so you need to be by yourself first thats another way to help you find the right person
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Theres also another way to find the right person for you is you need to know how it feels to be alone first so you need to be by yourself first thats another way to help you find the right person
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Ninad
Love is fictional. We attract the body of a person through desire and beauty. We used each other for personal needs, and then everyone said goodbye with some great lies. so better stay away from it
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Love is fictional. We attract the body of a person through desire and beauty. We used each other for personal needs, and then everyone said goodbye with some great lies. so better stay away from it
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Starlight
I broke up with my (now ex) bf at the end of last year and I'm already over him. I don't want to be in sadness or anger. I wish him the best, just without me. Am I moving on too fast?
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I broke up with my (now ex) bf at the end of last year and I'm already over him. I don't want to be in sadness or anger. I wish him the best, just without me. Am I moving on too fast?
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Himani
Everyone: Searching for their true love
Me: Forced to forget my true love because his parents are against our relationship and wants him to marry the girl of their choice
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Everyone: Searching for their true love
Me: Forced to forget my true love because his parents are against our relationship and wants him to marry the girl of their choice
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Eric
When you still have a crush on your childhood partner and all these how to know (something abt love) videos you just cant think about it because you havent seen them in years:
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When you still have a crush on your childhood partner and all these how to know (something abt love) videos you just cant think about it because you havent seen them in years:
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Elyseon
I used to be scared of never finding someone, but now I reject society's lies and all the fake and shallow trash. There is no right person. Love is a fabrication.
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I used to be scared of never finding someone, but now I reject society's lies and all the fake and shallow trash. There is no right person. Love is a fabrication.
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Leonisdarko
Ive given up on love and I cant really make it work. Im just too dysfunctional, too damaged, too broken, too attracted to women who are only the worst for me
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Ive given up on love and I cant really make it work. Im just too dysfunctional, too damaged, too broken, too attracted to women who are only the worst for me
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