Do They Like You For Who You Are?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I have a few questions. Im a male and im extremely confused about this one particular girl that i like.
So we have been best friends for well over a year texting and calling each other non stop with LONG conversations on text and in person. And my question is (i might be a bit bold) does she like me?
Good sounding signs:
We hang out regularly, she is really open about her secrets with me (that she doesn't tell her girl firends, she does the touching thing like on the arm or leg when laughing, eye contact isnt common due to both her and i are shy and avoid eye contact with everyone. Next things that im gonna mention might be common but are not where i live in due to religion and stuff so keep that in mind. She gets in my car no matter the time (as long as its not too late (9/10PM) strict rules here) she lets me hug her, rests her head against me (although rare) she lets me play with her cheek (on the face) and ears (it might be weird but i love her little ears and puffy cheeks) she has interest of what i love and she sometimes brings food that i love, she does get close to me lbut im the one that does it mostly, sometimes if there is snacks between us she may remove them to get in closer, when its cold she tends to snuggle untill i hug her, we watch movies and sports together.
Now the not good part:
Very rarely but she might mention her ex (my best friend, again rarely but she mentions types of boys that she likes even if she knows she is out of their league (junior football players in another country) i have the feeling that she uses me as a time pass/sadness relieve like we hang out and she is open about problems and we get close and the next day she is cold (only over text tho) (and i am a HUGE overthinker) she might rejected to hang out just because she is too lazy for that (VERY rare. Mostly is i gotta do this or that) and a bit of a backstory for the end. I did ask her out about 3 years ago and got rejected. But we weren't close (just had mutual friends) and i just said that i liked her and specifically said that im not in love and just attracted. And thats it.
So i know I'll be dying from cringe after wrighting this but. Im just lost. I feel like a car with all 3 pedals pressed or like at a stop light with red, yellow and green lights at the same time.
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I have a few questions. Im a male and im extremely confused about this one particular girl that i like.
So we have been best friends for well over a year texting and calling each other non stop with LONG conversations on text and in person. And my question is (i might be a bit bold) does she like me?
Good sounding signs:
We hang out regularly, she is really open about her secrets with me (that she doesn't tell her girl firends, she does the touching thing like on the arm or leg when laughing, eye contact isnt common due to both her and i are shy and avoid eye contact with everyone. Next things that im gonna mention might be common but are not where i live in due to religion and stuff so keep that in mind. She gets in my car no matter the time (as long as its not too late (9/10PM) strict rules here) she lets me hug her, rests her head against me (although rare) she lets me play with her cheek (on the face) and ears (it might be weird but i love her little ears and puffy cheeks) she has interest of what i love and she sometimes brings food that i love, she does get close to me lbut im the one that does it mostly, sometimes if there is snacks between us she may remove them to get in closer, when its cold she tends to snuggle untill i hug her, we watch movies and sports together.
Now the not good part:
Very rarely but she might mention her ex (my best friend, again rarely but she mentions types of boys that she likes even if she knows she is out of their league (junior football players in another country) i have the feeling that she uses me as a time pass/sadness relieve like we hang out and she is open about problems and we get close and the next day she is cold (only over text tho) (and i am a HUGE overthinker) she might rejected to hang out just because she is too lazy for that (VERY rare. Mostly is i gotta do this or that) and a bit of a backstory for the end. I did ask her out about 3 years ago and got rejected. But we weren't close (just had mutual friends) and i just said that i liked her and specifically said that im not in love and just attracted. And thats it.
So i know I'll be dying from cringe after wrighting this but. Im just lost. I feel like a car with all 3 pedals pressed or like at a stop light with red, yellow and green lights at the same time.
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psych2go
Hey Psych2Go, I was wondering what this means. My boyfriend and I have been in a (mostly) happy relationship for almost 13 years. We started dating in highschool. The first couple years of our relationship were kinda rocky. Long story short, I was being too clingy and he was not used to so much affection and got very overwhelmed and angry when I would be upset that he didn't want to spend time with me. We had a big fight about it. Fast forward 11 years and we almost never have any drama. If there's a problem we discuss it and listen to each person's point/ side of the argument. We never fight. Both our parents don't get along very well i. e. my mom and dad fight a lot and get very heated and loud and his parents fight quite a bit and are petty (they don't fight as much as mine though. I've been wondering if I've just been going along with everything he says to avoid a fight or if we genuinely get along that well. I think I'm not sure because I've always grown up with the idea of a relationship supposing to look like my parents relationship. I want to say we genuinely get along well, and I don't always agree with everything he says just to appease him. I guess I'm just skeptical that I could have such a loving happy relationship. This is also my first real relationship.
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Hey Psych2Go, I was wondering what this means. My boyfriend and I have been in a (mostly) happy relationship for almost 13 years. We started dating in highschool. The first couple years of our relationship were kinda rocky. Long story short, I was being too clingy and he was not used to so much affection and got very overwhelmed and angry when I would be upset that he didn't want to spend time with me. We had a big fight about it. Fast forward 11 years and we almost never have any drama. If there's a problem we discuss it and listen to each person's point/ side of the argument. We never fight. Both our parents don't get along very well i. e. my mom and dad fight a lot and get very heated and loud and his parents fight quite a bit and are petty (they don't fight as much as mine though. I've been wondering if I've just been going along with everything he says to avoid a fight or if we genuinely get along that well. I think I'm not sure because I've always grown up with the idea of a relationship supposing to look like my parents relationship. I want to say we genuinely get along well, and I don't always agree with everything he says just to appease him. I guess I'm just skeptical that I could have such a loving happy relationship. This is also my first real relationship.
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Krul
I really like the videos. It really helps me a lot to understand other people and me. But I still have major problems when I have to interact with other people due to my diagnosed autism and allround very introverted personality. I'm always looking for a reason why people do what they do and why I do what I do. These videos and some psychology books really help me to Futur explore myself and others. But I still have a long way to go.
Edit: And yes due to my problems I have at interacting with people and some bad things that happened in my life. I normally keep a very safe distance to others. I don't talk that mutch and when I do I want to make it as short as possible. I think this comes because I don't want to be rejected. And this is a big twist in my brain. I would really like to get close to people but on the other hand im happy to life in the shadow. I would really like to change that but. for some reason I'm okay with it.
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I really like the videos. It really helps me a lot to understand other people and me. But I still have major problems when I have to interact with other people due to my diagnosed autism and allround very introverted personality. I'm always looking for a reason why people do what they do and why I do what I do. These videos and some psychology books really help me to Futur explore myself and others. But I still have a long way to go.
Edit: And yes due to my problems I have at interacting with people and some bad things that happened in my life. I normally keep a very safe distance to others. I don't talk that mutch and when I do I want to make it as short as possible. I think this comes because I don't want to be rejected. And this is a big twist in my brain. I would really like to get close to people but on the other hand im happy to life in the shadow. I would really like to change that but. for some reason I'm okay with it.
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Fallen
So far, I will say no to this question. Absolutely no woman I have met romantically likes me for. well, me. The only time women actually liked me, was because of my looks (they all turned out to be creeps) or because of my abilities. As soon as they learn about my personality, they get turned off. I guess they expect the bad boy or something, but I'm definitely not the type. I like being more proper and I like to give a cool level-headed vibe, not an overconfident playboy vibe. I feel like most women want the bad boy type in my generation. I see all of the rude and obnoxious guys get dates, but the polite guys are the ones struggling to find anyone. It's awful how much hook-up culture ruined us.
If I ever do meet a woman who actually cares about me that much, it will definitely feel like a magical dream at this rate. I'm not against that, though.
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So far, I will say no to this question. Absolutely no woman I have met romantically likes me for. well, me. The only time women actually liked me, was because of my looks (they all turned out to be creeps) or because of my abilities. As soon as they learn about my personality, they get turned off. I guess they expect the bad boy or something, but I'm definitely not the type. I like being more proper and I like to give a cool level-headed vibe, not an overconfident playboy vibe. I feel like most women want the bad boy type in my generation. I see all of the rude and obnoxious guys get dates, but the polite guys are the ones struggling to find anyone. It's awful how much hook-up culture ruined us.
If I ever do meet a woman who actually cares about me that much, it will definitely feel like a magical dream at this rate. I'm not against that, though.
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Stuff
I need help. Was I rejected do I have a chance?
Told my crush and they said that they would consider dating me maybe in high school(next year. They also said I was really sweet so like I asked their friend and they said that she said she liked me on and off during the school year. And that she was really happy that I liked her for her personality bc everyone else just liked her for looks. And she said she would maybe date me freshman year and there little gossip group apparently talks about me a lot and how I might have a glow up or whatever SND that Ill be attractive when I get older but whatever. So what should I do? Am I friend zoned or rejected or what? Ive tried talking to her but I just cant be natural we both feel awkward. I need help thanks guys
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I need help. Was I rejected do I have a chance?
Told my crush and they said that they would consider dating me maybe in high school(next year. They also said I was really sweet so like I asked their friend and they said that she said she liked me on and off during the school year. And that she was really happy that I liked her for her personality bc everyone else just liked her for looks. And she said she would maybe date me freshman year and there little gossip group apparently talks about me a lot and how I might have a glow up or whatever SND that Ill be attractive when I get older but whatever. So what should I do? Am I friend zoned or rejected or what? Ive tried talking to her but I just cant be natural we both feel awkward. I need help thanks guys
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education
This reminds me of my crush (she was into me too ) when i was 2-3 and she was too. I saw her on tv on a show i watch (my mom recgonised her) and when i saw her mannnn. she was pretty as a no school dayy and i live in another city now so theres ni way i can get to her: ( and i have another crush thats also pretty but my childhood girlfriend hit me baddly and i was into her immediattely (bad grammar) so do you have any help of how i can text her (im 12 and im not a creep cuz i sound like 1)
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This reminds me of my crush (she was into me too ) when i was 2-3 and she was too. I saw her on tv on a show i watch (my mom recgonised her) and when i saw her mannnn. she was pretty as a no school dayy and i live in another city now so theres ni way i can get to her: ( and i have another crush thats also pretty but my childhood girlfriend hit me baddly and i was into her immediattely (bad grammar) so do you have any help of how i can text her (im 12 and im not a creep cuz i sound like 1)
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Timinations900
As someone who struggles to find love in real life, learning to love yourself is a must. You can't love others if you feel guilty about yourself. I haven't given up on love just yet. I've learned to love myself, and take care of myself. Although I feel like time's running out, as the seasons and years keep on changing, and many people I know at my university have been dating for years. This makes it almost impossible to find one that would be interested in me.
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As someone who struggles to find love in real life, learning to love yourself is a must. You can't love others if you feel guilty about yourself. I haven't given up on love just yet. I've learned to love myself, and take care of myself. Although I feel like time's running out, as the seasons and years keep on changing, and many people I know at my university have been dating for years. This makes it almost impossible to find one that would be interested in me.
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Мими
I really enjoy your videos and find them very helpful, but I want to ask for some advice. I'm having a crush on that guy and I think he's into me too. We see each other every week at uni (he's not a professor ) and he seems really nice and opened when talking to me in person. When texting though he acts formal and even a little cold. I'm not sure if he's changed his attitude or is there any other reason? I'll see him again soon, but I could really use some side view
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I really enjoy your videos and find them very helpful, but I want to ask for some advice. I'm having a crush on that guy and I think he's into me too. We see each other every week at uni (he's not a professor ) and he seems really nice and opened when talking to me in person. When texting though he acts formal and even a little cold. I'm not sure if he's changed his attitude or is there any other reason? I'll see him again soon, but I could really use some side view
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Just
It kinda hurts that I show all of these signs to the full extent to my partner, but they don't show nearly as much. Maybe its because I tend to be more empathetic and sincere(around them, I'm normally not very open AT ALL-but I feel completely different around them lol) while they tend to be more blunt and emotionally(they have anger issues-while I'm rarely ever angry. I'm just hoping that I'm over thinking, even though I know I am lol.
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It kinda hurts that I show all of these signs to the full extent to my partner, but they don't show nearly as much. Maybe its because I tend to be more empathetic and sincere(around them, I'm normally not very open AT ALL-but I feel completely different around them lol) while they tend to be more blunt and emotionally(they have anger issues-while I'm rarely ever angry. I'm just hoping that I'm over thinking, even though I know I am lol.
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Indrid
There is nothing wrong with not being liked. When you are hated is when things can get very negative for us. In order to assure nobody hates me. I disallow others from knowing me at all. Thus, I am not liked. I am not loved. But, more importantly, I am not hated. That is the only thing I require from others. Approval from others means nothing to me. However, I must avoid being hated. Bad things happen to those that are hated.
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There is nothing wrong with not being liked. When you are hated is when things can get very negative for us. In order to assure nobody hates me. I disallow others from knowing me at all. Thus, I am not liked. I am not loved. But, more importantly, I am not hated. That is the only thing I require from others. Approval from others means nothing to me. However, I must avoid being hated. Bad things happen to those that are hated.
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Laika
You are creating a foundation not only for your life but for your legacy. You are needed for the world. You are necessary. It is vital that you do not exhaust yourself.
Long-lasting change comes from little steps, repeated regularly, over time. The little things you do, as tiny as taking a sip of water or stretching more often or going for a walk. These all add up to something much greater than the sum of their parts.
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You are creating a foundation not only for your life but for your legacy. You are needed for the world. You are necessary. It is vital that you do not exhaust yourself.
Long-lasting change comes from little steps, repeated regularly, over time. The little things you do, as tiny as taking a sip of water or stretching more often or going for a walk. These all add up to something much greater than the sum of their parts.
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reirei:
I can relate to this
Really off topic but for me is really hard to start a conversation with friends I have. I really do want to talk to them, I want to know about them, I really want to like them and know what theyre interests are but I just dont know how to do so or what to say.
I dont speak until they talk to me first bc I might just ask a dumb question and they might just not care
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I can relate to this
Really off topic but for me is really hard to start a conversation with friends I have. I really do want to talk to them, I want to know about them, I really want to like them and know what theyre interests are but I just dont know how to do so or what to say.
I dont speak until they talk to me first bc I might just ask a dumb question and they might just not care
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Arqade
Here are 5 very good signs that someone likes you for who you are:
1: They will never give you up,
2: They will never let you down,
3: They will never run around, and desert you.
4: They will never make you cry
5: They will never say goodbye
BONUS SIGN: They will never tell a lie, and hurt you.
Imagine getting rickrolled dude.
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Here are 5 very good signs that someone likes you for who you are:
1: They will never give you up,
2: They will never let you down,
3: They will never run around, and desert you.
4: They will never make you cry
5: They will never say goodbye
BONUS SIGN: They will never tell a lie, and hurt you.
Imagine getting rickrolled dude.
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RoboticLeader
Ive never had a crush before but I think I apply to a lot of these signs. I cant help but look at them, on the off chance Im not shy and am able to talk to them I often ask them questions about themselves. This is fairly recent so we havent become close friends yet, but I hope it goes well, great video and animation as always!
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Ive never had a crush before but I think I apply to a lot of these signs. I cant help but look at them, on the off chance Im not shy and am able to talk to them I often ask them questions about themselves. This is fairly recent so we havent become close friends yet, but I hope it goes well, great video and animation as always!
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Akru
There is a guy who 'LoVeS' me and we've been best friends ever since he told me but he never acts like he cares when I tell him something I've been bothered about. I always had been sad about it because I always listen and try to lighten up the mood when he tells me this(Ive come to like him lol) I don't feel appreciated though
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There is a guy who 'LoVeS' me and we've been best friends ever since he told me but he never acts like he cares when I tell him something I've been bothered about. I always had been sad about it because I always listen and try to lighten up the mood when he tells me this(Ive come to like him lol) I don't feel appreciated though
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Bryan35
Well this girl who likes me does like me for who I am because I talk to myself and I deal with anxiety and ADHD and she understands me. But we have not met yet but I do like her as a friend and she likes me as a friend too but I cant wait to meet her in the future and will see how it goes from there
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Well this girl who likes me does like me for who I am because I talk to myself and I deal with anxiety and ADHD and she understands me. But we have not met yet but I do like her as a friend and she likes me as a friend too but I cant wait to meet her in the future and will see how it goes from there
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Lukas
How many of these signals or signs can be applicable for those on the autism spectrum? I understand that eye contact can be deeply troubling and uncomfortable for those on the spectrum, so these people -- myself include -- can show interest in other ways, correct?
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How many of these signals or signs can be applicable for those on the autism spectrum? I understand that eye contact can be deeply troubling and uncomfortable for those on the spectrum, so these people -- myself include -- can show interest in other ways, correct?
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TACO_PARTIZZZ!
hey! i know this isnt related to the video but can you try to create a video covering children with a porn addiction (like what it can do how it starts and maybe how to stop it) ofc if you havent made one already lol. Thanks! it would help me out a lot.
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hey! i know this isnt related to the video but can you try to create a video covering children with a porn addiction (like what it can do how it starts and maybe how to stop it) ofc if you havent made one already lol. Thanks! it would help me out a lot.
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The_Racoon
I hate the fact that many times a person doesn't like you for who you are, but simply likes the idea of you obsessing over them, we really need to stop seeing eachother as objects made to give attention and instead start seeing eachother as people.
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I hate the fact that many times a person doesn't like you for who you are, but simply likes the idea of you obsessing over them, we really need to stop seeing eachother as objects made to give attention and instead start seeing eachother as people.
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maltazar
I have a really important question i am a 16 year old boy and im in love with a friend and everyone thinks that She likes me too but shes 19 years old and we rarely see but when we do She Always talk and stay near me/ on me idk what to do
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I have a really important question i am a 16 year old boy and im in love with a friend and everyone thinks that She likes me too but shes 19 years old and we rarely see but when we do She Always talk and stay near me/ on me idk what to do
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Lone_Dragon
So I have a question about the mirroring one, specifically in body language. Does it have to be at the same time as the other or say you cross your legs or something and they start doing it later, does it still count as mirroring?
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So I have a question about the mirroring one, specifically in body language. Does it have to be at the same time as the other or say you cross your legs or something and they start doing it later, does it still count as mirroring?
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PAYDO
The only way you can get a girl these days is if you have this things<
-A nice car
-A bad atitude
-The appearances of a rock star
-The money of Elon Musk
You have to be 6 figures for a girl to even consider you.
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The only way you can get a girl these days is if you have this things<
-A nice car
-A bad atitude
-The appearances of a rock star
-The money of Elon Musk
You have to be 6 figures for a girl to even consider you.
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ashton.
I have a question. If someone asks for your number but never message you, why would they ask for your number in the first place? (Im not the best with social cues so this confused me, and Im too nervous to message first.
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I have a question. If someone asks for your number but never message you, why would they ask for your number in the first place? (Im not the best with social cues so this confused me, and Im too nervous to message first.
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education
My Random Opinion on something:
One of the best kinds of crushes to have is your best friend. They probably wont question some types of crush-like things you do, and theres always and excuse to hang out
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My Random Opinion on something:
One of the best kinds of crushes to have is your best friend. They probably wont question some types of crush-like things you do, and theres always and excuse to hang out
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Lazy
I know a girl that is known for being shy and she will turn to face me when we talk and will occasionally lean in but I dont wanna assume since she is older than me but she is really cute and really short
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I know a girl that is known for being shy and she will turn to face me when we talk and will occasionally lean in but I dont wanna assume since she is older than me but she is really cute and really short
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