A Lack Of Friends Means That You're.
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Date: 2024-06-26
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psych2go
I have a hard time making friends and I'm picky to. But sometimes people are trying to be friends with me and I want to be friends back but I'm quite so they assume I don't want to be friends With them I take a long time getting used to people so I think when you're going to be my friend you have to have patience with me taking long to get used to you. Also most things I want to talk about most people don't want to talk about I find it hard to find a topic to talk about. Sometimes I ask advice on how to make friends and most people just say go up and talk to them and that doesn't help me I get to nervous something I do that my Grandma told me about is Whan we are comfortable waving or saying hi to each other move on to the next step Whan we are comfortable doing small talk move on to the next. My Dad told me this one and people like it Whan you talk and ask about them but don't make it a interview that will make it awkward for them and Don't be to picky on who your friends are but be careful on who you became friends with. And I agree with the video quality not quantity.
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I have a hard time making friends and I'm picky to. But sometimes people are trying to be friends with me and I want to be friends back but I'm quite so they assume I don't want to be friends With them I take a long time getting used to people so I think when you're going to be my friend you have to have patience with me taking long to get used to you. Also most things I want to talk about most people don't want to talk about I find it hard to find a topic to talk about. Sometimes I ask advice on how to make friends and most people just say go up and talk to them and that doesn't help me I get to nervous something I do that my Grandma told me about is Whan we are comfortable waving or saying hi to each other move on to the next step Whan we are comfortable doing small talk move on to the next. My Dad told me this one and people like it Whan you talk and ask about them but don't make it a interview that will make it awkward for them and Don't be to picky on who your friends are but be careful on who you became friends with. And I agree with the video quality not quantity.
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captainbeanie5322
Me being introvert makes everyone abit feel not my vibe because I'm surely surrounded by extroverts who likes to do things as if no one cares and sure enough, I don't like those things and I have different interests than them that makes me feel overwhelmingly unwelcome to any circle of friends. No one talks to me not untill they want something from me like a favor and just makes me even feel not okay. Add the fact that when everyone actually talks about my aura, they say I look gloomy and terrifies them. It kinda hurts on my part because I'm trying my best to atleast talk but eventually I just kinda go with it cauz no one's gonna like a different and wierd looking ghurl in class.
But I'm still thankful for the one and only bff I have that stayed even in my lowest
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Me being introvert makes everyone abit feel not my vibe because I'm surely surrounded by extroverts who likes to do things as if no one cares and sure enough, I don't like those things and I have different interests than them that makes me feel overwhelmingly unwelcome to any circle of friends. No one talks to me not untill they want something from me like a favor and just makes me even feel not okay. Add the fact that when everyone actually talks about my aura, they say I look gloomy and terrifies them. It kinda hurts on my part because I'm trying my best to atleast talk but eventually I just kinda go with it cauz no one's gonna like a different and wierd looking ghurl in class.
But I'm still thankful for the one and only bff I have that stayed even in my lowest
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Mur-zoUxw
And during my college life, I got alienated for many reasons. One of them is this:
I remembered I had to deal with a really emotional classmate of mine during group activities in a prestigious university (in my home country the Philippines. I was often labeled as a freeloader and a worthless student (when in reality, I did a fairly decent amount of work. Another day, she got so angry at me because of the same reason. We had a talk with my professor on that, and the blame was put all on me. When the whole class saw it, they gave me a negative look, I was unfairly humiliated.
It is sad that my professor never saw my side of the story (only her side. After all of that, I am seen as worthless and I became a huge loser in my university.
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And during my college life, I got alienated for many reasons. One of them is this:
I remembered I had to deal with a really emotional classmate of mine during group activities in a prestigious university (in my home country the Philippines. I was often labeled as a freeloader and a worthless student (when in reality, I did a fairly decent amount of work. Another day, she got so angry at me because of the same reason. We had a talk with my professor on that, and the blame was put all on me. When the whole class saw it, they gave me a negative look, I was unfairly humiliated.
It is sad that my professor never saw my side of the story (only her side. After all of that, I am seen as worthless and I became a huge loser in my university.
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neofulcrum5013
What I disliked about school, aside from being up so early, was having to say goodbye to my friends when I graduate. Sure, you might end up seeing two or three in highschool or college again, but for the most part, you and your friends are gonna go in a different direction.
I have reached out to a few but they’re often more busy or have kids to look after. It’s understandable, but can be lonely.
I don’t know why it’s harder as an adult to make friends. Maybe the world is just more dangerous now and you grow skeptical of who people are.
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What I disliked about school, aside from being up so early, was having to say goodbye to my friends when I graduate. Sure, you might end up seeing two or three in highschool or college again, but for the most part, you and your friends are gonna go in a different direction.
I have reached out to a few but they’re often more busy or have kids to look after. It’s understandable, but can be lonely.
I don’t know why it’s harder as an adult to make friends. Maybe the world is just more dangerous now and you grow skeptical of who people are.
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Terrorn13
Lost most friends when they moved, started families and so on. Feels a lil sad none of them reaches out, ive tried but i tend to feel like a burden or annoyance. And since i seem forgotten by them, maybe im better off in the background as the wallflower i am. Only really got two true friends now, they mean the world to me, it is like whenever we meet its like no time passed since we last saw eachother. Still i would like a friend with whom i can be unapologetically me with, not having to explain every joke n meme, be the true wierdo i am.
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Lost most friends when they moved, started families and so on. Feels a lil sad none of them reaches out, ive tried but i tend to feel like a burden or annoyance. And since i seem forgotten by them, maybe im better off in the background as the wallflower i am. Only really got two true friends now, they mean the world to me, it is like whenever we meet its like no time passed since we last saw eachother. Still i would like a friend with whom i can be unapologetically me with, not having to explain every joke n meme, be the true wierdo i am.
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aaronthenorm5400
After hearing; the line in
Queens a night at the opera to krep all good company I adopted that advice; it is truely difficult to find real friends. And it forced me to learn to do without half-ass friends. Now I'm down to only a a fistful! And with work, and life finding time to be around is nearly impossible! I guess that's why some people miss school days. Or; & get married thinking that'll fix it! as one post put it; I'd rather be alone then with people who are sucky friends!
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After hearing; the line in
Queens a night at the opera to krep all good company I adopted that advice; it is truely difficult to find real friends. And it forced me to learn to do without half-ass friends. Now I'm down to only a a fistful! And with work, and life finding time to be around is nearly impossible! I guess that's why some people miss school days. Or; & get married thinking that'll fix it! as one post put it; I'd rather be alone then with people who are sucky friends!
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xxdaemonxx9235
I love this its exactly how i am a person whon cherishes true relationships over superficial friendships abd im indeed a lone wolf someone whom prefers time alone over time spent making other people happy just for apearences i also thought i was broken because no one would talk to me and would look at me like i was nobody not worth their time when in reality its the other way around they arent worth my time and efort to be someone im not thank you for this video
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I love this its exactly how i am a person whon cherishes true relationships over superficial friendships abd im indeed a lone wolf someone whom prefers time alone over time spent making other people happy just for apearences i also thought i was broken because no one would talk to me and would look at me like i was nobody not worth their time when in reality its the other way around they arent worth my time and efort to be someone im not thank you for this video
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DarkRose0523
My best friend of three years abandoned me when he got a girlfriend, and even when we went to prom [because he promised me, and his mom wouldn’t let him take the other chick] he spent the whole time on the phone with her. A year later he expected us to still be friends, and he won’t acknowledge what he did and how it hurt me. But I won’t talk to him anymore, as I tried to explain how much what he did hurt, but he didn’t care or try to understand
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My best friend of three years abandoned me when he got a girlfriend, and even when we went to prom [because he promised me, and his mom wouldn’t let him take the other chick] he spent the whole time on the phone with her. A year later he expected us to still be friends, and he won’t acknowledge what he did and how it hurt me. But I won’t talk to him anymore, as I tried to explain how much what he did hurt, but he didn’t care or try to understand
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itsQueMajor
I’ve learned that I aam very picky about who I let close to me. I’m highly observant and skilled in recognizing people who aren’t genuine, from a distance. I can’t expect my social circle to be the same as people who let everyone in, or don’t have discernment skills. I’m positive that I’ll connect with atleast one genuine person some day, who will never make me feel like we need to separate. Just haven’t experienced that yet.
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I’ve learned that I aam very picky about who I let close to me. I’m highly observant and skilled in recognizing people who aren’t genuine, from a distance. I can’t expect my social circle to be the same as people who let everyone in, or don’t have discernment skills. I’m positive that I’ll connect with atleast one genuine person some day, who will never make me feel like we need to separate. Just haven’t experienced that yet.
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sheilasmart3221
I have always been very happy on my own and contented with who I am am. I have been single for 25 years and have just two friends who are great but see occasionally for a catch-up. I travel abroad on my own three times a year and love to rest and read by the beach and swim. I never feel lonely just blessed to feel so happy. I always make friends on my holidays but being alone means I can choose to do my own things.
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I have always been very happy on my own and contented with who I am am. I have been single for 25 years and have just two friends who are great but see occasionally for a catch-up. I travel abroad on my own three times a year and love to rest and read by the beach and swim. I never feel lonely just blessed to feel so happy. I always make friends on my holidays but being alone means I can choose to do my own things.
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navdeepdanner0088
Not friends tho, but idk if this happens with me only, like whenever I go out either in a mall or public place and whenever I see couples or just cute random girls. I automatically feel how lonely I am in life as none of this money and materialistic things matter when in the back of my mind I always wish that God please I need this, I need love like all these random couples I see have.
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Not friends tho, but idk if this happens with me only, like whenever I go out either in a mall or public place and whenever I see couples or just cute random girls. I automatically feel how lonely I am in life as none of this money and materialistic things matter when in the back of my mind I always wish that God please I need this, I need love like all these random couples I see have.
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michaelpitman8617
I'm in college now and i have friends but no close friends. We just talk when we see each other to study or something. Its usually fine to make friends but close ones its hard. I used to have close friends till everyone moved. Last month i think i went almost the entire month without talking to anyone other than my parents and coach. I tried so hard to make friends but i gave up.
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I'm in college now and i have friends but no close friends. We just talk when we see each other to study or something. Its usually fine to make friends but close ones its hard. I used to have close friends till everyone moved. Last month i think i went almost the entire month without talking to anyone other than my parents and coach. I tried so hard to make friends but i gave up.
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psych2go
I can safely say I don't have friends as of today. The thing is, I completely understand the value of friendship and connecting with others (and I'm still figuring out what kind of friend do I want to be, but I've been walking a path where I'm not negotiating my worth, my values nor my well-being in exchange for not being on my own. Not anymore. I'm alone, yes, but never lonely.
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I can safely say I don't have friends as of today. The thing is, I completely understand the value of friendship and connecting with others (and I'm still figuring out what kind of friend do I want to be, but I've been walking a path where I'm not negotiating my worth, my values nor my well-being in exchange for not being on my own. Not anymore. I'm alone, yes, but never lonely.
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fleurvnrcisse
i become friends with someone irl and then when they say something that sort of misaligns with the way i talk to them ill just ghost them for no reason. if i dont think its a perfect match then is there even a reason for us to talk i dont know why it happens to people irl and not my online friends, they all match my humor and my interests you know
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i become friends with someone irl and then when they say something that sort of misaligns with the way i talk to them ill just ghost them for no reason. if i dont think its a perfect match then is there even a reason for us to talk i dont know why it happens to people irl and not my online friends, they all match my humor and my interests you know
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user-cj9oi9dy3y
I said goodbye to so many people in last weeks and i am happy for it. I was prepared everyday for them, and they always had excuse or ignored me so i said myself stop, wanna ignor I am not going to be nice and get hell away from me, dont have time, ok i am able to give you date in 4 months and wait for it, you still have no time, then bye
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I said goodbye to so many people in last weeks and i am happy for it. I was prepared everyday for them, and they always had excuse or ignored me so i said myself stop, wanna ignor I am not going to be nice and get hell away from me, dont have time, ok i am able to give you date in 4 months and wait for it, you still have no time, then bye
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garchompelago
Remember. Keep your circle small. Quality over quantity.
Furthermore, dont expect them to stay. Not everyone is happy for your growth and success.
Finally, never forget that the loneliest experience in the world is not being alone. Its being with people who makes you feel alone. Choose your friends wisely.
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Remember. Keep your circle small. Quality over quantity.
Furthermore, dont expect them to stay. Not everyone is happy for your growth and success.
Finally, never forget that the loneliest experience in the world is not being alone. Its being with people who makes you feel alone. Choose your friends wisely.
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noobzito2
Timestamp!
-0: 24 Stoic wisdom on friendships
-0: 55 You embrace your true nature
-1: 29 It might not be you, but them
-2: 22 Life is ever changing, so are you
-3: 11 You understand the essence of true friendship
-3: 50 Can signify inner peace and fulfillment
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Timestamp!
-0: 24 Stoic wisdom on friendships
-0: 55 You embrace your true nature
-1: 29 It might not be you, but them
-2: 22 Life is ever changing, so are you
-3: 11 You understand the essence of true friendship
-3: 50 Can signify inner peace and fulfillment
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friendlybendy2070
Friends can be a blessing and a curse at the same time, either they r the truthful ones or the backstabbing psychos, either way, i don't need any of them now, although i find just standing on a stormy cliff with cold solitude can be a bit nerve wracking, but what to do
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Friends can be a blessing and a curse at the same time, either they r the truthful ones or the backstabbing psychos, either way, i don't need any of them now, although i find just standing on a stormy cliff with cold solitude can be a bit nerve wracking, but what to do
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randomgames9078
I don't have any friends since I was kids so my whole life is lonely. But have huge problem talking to other people. Eye contact. And I'm really really shy. Also I'm introverted. Now I'm 24 still with no friends. I wonder what it feel like to be friend with someone
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I don't have any friends since I was kids so my whole life is lonely. But have huge problem talking to other people. Eye contact. And I'm really really shy. Also I'm introverted. Now I'm 24 still with no friends. I wonder what it feel like to be friend with someone
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psych2go
I just don't find valuable people to befriend. Most tend tk be miserable and cry over the most futile stuff. I do have a handful of strong, good friends but that's it. These are the only people that I know of, who try to improve everyday and be optimistic.
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I just don't find valuable people to befriend. Most tend tk be miserable and cry over the most futile stuff. I do have a handful of strong, good friends but that's it. These are the only people that I know of, who try to improve everyday and be optimistic.
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