7 MISTAKES That Make Others Dislike You Immediately
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Date: 2024-07-01
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Here are some more habits:
1. Constantly interrupting others while they speak.
2. Talking only about oneself without showing interest in others.
3. Frequently being late or canceling plans last minute.
4. Not listening when others are speaking.
5. Being overly critical or judgmental.
6. Failing to follow through on promises.
7. Bragging or boasting about personal achievements.
8. Spreading gossip or rumors.
9. Dominating conversations and not letting others participate.
10. Being overly negative or pessimistic.
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Here are some more habits:
1. Constantly interrupting others while they speak.
2. Talking only about oneself without showing interest in others.
3. Frequently being late or canceling plans last minute.
4. Not listening when others are speaking.
5. Being overly critical or judgmental.
6. Failing to follow through on promises.
7. Bragging or boasting about personal achievements.
8. Spreading gossip or rumors.
9. Dominating conversations and not letting others participate.
10. Being overly negative or pessimistic.
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SP-qk6vd
00: 03 Recognize and fix habits that hinder forming connections
01: 06 Being mindful of the emotional tone while speaking to others is important
02: 06 Being self-centered can lead to others disliking you
03: 06 Express vulnerability with empathy
04: 04 Microaggressions can make others feel unfairly treated
05: 05 Not communicating openly can lead to misunderstanding and arguments.
06: 09 Giving without expectation leads to stronger relationships.
07: 11 Building genuine connections through trust and generosity
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00: 03 Recognize and fix habits that hinder forming connections
01: 06 Being mindful of the emotional tone while speaking to others is important
02: 06 Being self-centered can lead to others disliking you
03: 06 Express vulnerability with empathy
04: 04 Microaggressions can make others feel unfairly treated
05: 05 Not communicating openly can lead to misunderstanding and arguments.
06: 09 Giving without expectation leads to stronger relationships.
07: 11 Building genuine connections through trust and generosity
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psych2go
I don't assume that people could read my mind because I'm the one usually thinking what they are thinking of me or predicting what they're going to do next because of past experience. My family tells me that they're not anyone or people after I would accuse them of something that I think that they were going to do because I look at patterns of the exact situation with other people, which isn't a good habit to have. I'm just trying to prepare myself for things and not let myself be blindsided or disappointed again.
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I don't assume that people could read my mind because I'm the one usually thinking what they are thinking of me or predicting what they're going to do next because of past experience. My family tells me that they're not anyone or people after I would accuse them of something that I think that they were going to do because I look at patterns of the exact situation with other people, which isn't a good habit to have. I'm just trying to prepare myself for things and not let myself be blindsided or disappointed again.
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psych2go
I think it's also super important to remember that nobody follows all these social rules perfectly. We're all going to say dumb and insensitive stuff occasionally, but that doesn't mean we are unworthy of love. Your friends will annoy you and you will annoy them, but you can forgive them and vice versa because that's what real friends do. Make sure to apologize and take responsibility when you say something truly hurtful and if people still don't like you, that's their problem.
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I think it's also super important to remember that nobody follows all these social rules perfectly. We're all going to say dumb and insensitive stuff occasionally, but that doesn't mean we are unworthy of love. Your friends will annoy you and you will annoy them, but you can forgive them and vice versa because that's what real friends do. Make sure to apologize and take responsibility when you say something truly hurtful and if people still don't like you, that's their problem.
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psych2go
I barely have any friends and sometimes I do these little pranks pour a little water on my friend or put a shell in their swimsuit then they get mad at me I feel bad and I try to apologize then we forget it ever happened sometimes I just get nervous and think it will make them laugh it never does. Pls tell me what my problem is this is my only friend issue besides talking too kuch but I'm getting better at that
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I barely have any friends and sometimes I do these little pranks pour a little water on my friend or put a shell in their swimsuit then they get mad at me I feel bad and I try to apologize then we forget it ever happened sometimes I just get nervous and think it will make them laugh it never does. Pls tell me what my problem is this is my only friend issue besides talking too kuch but I'm getting better at that
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NightOwler3am
My main problem is 'forgetting', and it always makes me feel guilty that later on I would start reflecting what I did or said few minutes earlier that can potentially hurt or offended someone. Even though my friends would understand that most of the time I can be airheaded and slow and sometimes I'm unknowledgeable most of the normal stuff from my people of my age.
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My main problem is 'forgetting', and it always makes me feel guilty that later on I would start reflecting what I did or said few minutes earlier that can potentially hurt or offended someone. Even though my friends would understand that most of the time I can be airheaded and slow and sometimes I'm unknowledgeable most of the normal stuff from my people of my age.
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benjaminclarke9611
There's no such thing as a micro aggression that's just a manifestation of weakness and paranoia. If you start thinking like that you'll make yourself mentally ill. Imagine how bad things would get if you're walking around thinking every time someone gives you a compliment like I like your new shoes or your hair looks nice it's aggression!
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There's no such thing as a micro aggression that's just a manifestation of weakness and paranoia. If you start thinking like that you'll make yourself mentally ill. Imagine how bad things would get if you're walking around thinking every time someone gives you a compliment like I like your new shoes or your hair looks nice it's aggression!
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Ventiis_Boredom
Timestamps!
1- 0: 49 (Not recognizing how feelings can spread)
2- 1: 55 The spotlight effect
3- 3: 05 Vulnerability Dropping
4- 4: 00 Unsconscious Microagressions
5- 5: 00 Thinking people can read your mind
6- 5: 51 Always taking, never giving
(Psych2go, its suppossed to be 6, not 5)
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Timestamps!
1- 0: 49 (Not recognizing how feelings can spread)
2- 1: 55 The spotlight effect
3- 3: 05 Vulnerability Dropping
4- 4: 00 Unsconscious Microagressions
5- 5: 00 Thinking people can read your mind
6- 5: 51 Always taking, never giving
(Psych2go, its suppossed to be 6, not 5)
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biaswrecker9411
0: 49 1. Not recognizing how feelings can spread
1: 55 2. The spotlight effect
3: 05 3. Vulnerability Dropping
3: 59 4. Unconscious micro-aggressions
5: 00 5. Thinking people can read your mind
5: 49 6. Always taking, never giving
6: 34 7. Giving, but expecting something in return
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0: 49 1. Not recognizing how feelings can spread
1: 55 2. The spotlight effect
3: 05 3. Vulnerability Dropping
3: 59 4. Unconscious micro-aggressions
5: 00 5. Thinking people can read your mind
5: 49 6. Always taking, never giving
6: 34 7. Giving, but expecting something in return
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botimerLance
1. Not recognizing how feelings can spread
2. The Spotlight Effect
3. Vulnerability Dropping
4. Unconscious Micro aggressions
5. Thinking people can read your mind
6. Always taking, never giving
7. Giving, but expecting something in return
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1. Not recognizing how feelings can spread
2. The Spotlight Effect
3. Vulnerability Dropping
4. Unconscious Micro aggressions
5. Thinking people can read your mind
6. Always taking, never giving
7. Giving, but expecting something in return
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psych2go
I'm watching this to make sure I don't make these mistakes.
Fear and very possible outcome- watch my social anxiety take over and while trying to think about not doing these, I accidentally do all of them out of nervousness.
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I'm watching this to make sure I don't make these mistakes.
Fear and very possible outcome- watch my social anxiety take over and while trying to think about not doing these, I accidentally do all of them out of nervousness.
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Silencer796
It’s like this video is made for me, though I try not do these actions though I keep doing it because of my past and I’m not in a environment where I can be who I am. I want to stop but how Especially in my environment
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It’s like this video is made for me, though I try not do these actions though I keep doing it because of my past and I’m not in a environment where I can be who I am. I want to stop but how Especially in my environment
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psych2go
Wow! I guess some of those signs is one of the main reasons why I'm still friendless and single to this day. Problem is: sometimes, I'm not around people all that much. But I am trying to work on it.
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Wow! I guess some of those signs is one of the main reasons why I'm still friendless and single to this day. Problem is: sometimes, I'm not around people all that much. But I am trying to work on it.
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Vartulkumar1
I was bullied for being kind in school. when you be kind to everyone then you become a topic of joke everyone teases you for your kindness and often bully you
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I was bullied for being kind in school. when you be kind to everyone then you become a topic of joke everyone teases you for your kindness and often bully you
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GloriaTheAnimator
wow. its like this video was made for me. i make every single one of these mistakes and probably more. thank you, ill try to improve from now on
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wow. its like this video was made for me. i make every single one of these mistakes and probably more. thank you, ill try to improve from now on
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nal6969
The fact I don't have any of this but still people don't like me is kinda brutal-
I just want some appreciation and love from people that's it
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The fact I don't have any of this but still people don't like me is kinda brutal-
I just want some appreciation and love from people that's it
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jwanie366
The first point and the last two points are the ones I have to work on the most. Fortunately I realized this awhile ago and am slowly improving
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The first point and the last two points are the ones I have to work on the most. Fortunately I realized this awhile ago and am slowly improving
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psych2go
Psychology is such a fine balance, especially those that have variations of autism, social anxiety, trauma, etc Thank you for the reminders
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Psychology is such a fine balance, especially those that have variations of autism, social anxiety, trauma, etc Thank you for the reminders
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kurthanke5788
When i was younger, I was concerned about what people thought about me. Now that I'm older (56, I don't care near as much, if at all.
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When i was younger, I was concerned about what people thought about me. Now that I'm older (56, I don't care near as much, if at all.
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JackCross-ew5lc
I don't do anything of these thing
Maybe just a little bit negative
I should be more optimistic
Like it to remind me
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I don't do anything of these thing
Maybe just a little bit negative
I should be more optimistic
Like it to remind me
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